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May We Be Forgiven

3.65  ·  Rating Details ·  11,690 Ratings  ·  1,731 Reviews
Alternate cover edition for ISBN 9780670025480.

Winner of the 2013 Women's Prize for Fiction—A darkly comic novel of twenty-first-century domestic life and the possibility of personal transformation

Harold Silver has spent a lifetime watching his younger brother, George, a taller, smarter, and more successful high-flying TV executive, acquire a covetable wife, two kids, and
Hardcover, 496 pages
Published September 27th 2012 by Viking Adult (first published September 1st 2012)
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Clarice Stasz This book is full of irony, a critique of what you mention. For example, Harry and Nate both wonder about their role in helping the village, the fact…moreThis book is full of irony, a critique of what you mention. For example, Harry and Nate both wonder about their role in helping the village, the fact of colonialism. In light of what we know about the surveillence industry, that episode is not unbelieveable. Look at all the TV shows that do the same, and not always with a critical eye. As for Alzheimer's, I know from volunteering that both increased activity and exposure to movement can brighten patients lives. Also, some of these people have been misdiagnosed or overdrugged.(less)
Iampav I certainly wouldn't describe this book as depressing. Without discussing the details of events as they unfold, the book reflects well on how - in…moreI certainly wouldn't describe this book as depressing. Without discussing the details of events as they unfold, the book reflects well on how - in this case - a particularly distressing event can become a catalyst for changing your life.
Often we coast in life, we don't take risks. Thoughts enter our heads, but we don't articulate them, we don't act on them.
There are certain things in this book which suggest that acting/reacting impulsively can have a negative or positive outcome, but the overall outcome seems to be life affirming. I think that's a hallmark of the author's style. (less)

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Paul Bryant
Aug 28, 2012 Paul Bryant rated it liked it
Shelves: novels
- You know you were making all these little beeping chortly noises when you were reading this one but then you went quiet and just sort of grunted and ground your teeth.

- I do not do that!

- Well, what went wrong?

- Hmmm (grinds teeth, grunts).

- Well did you like it?

- That’s too hard to answer.

- Well did you like some of it?

- The first 300 pages were brilliant blast of pure diamond black comedy.

- And then?

- I think it jumped the shark.

- Jumped the what?

- The shark. It’s an expression.

- ?

- Meanin
Dec 13, 2012 Eugene rated it it was ok
much to enjoy in this flawed but often brilliant sprawl of a novel. its five hundred pages breezed by. parts were great. but two words: magical negro.

and maybe this is a tangential point (and one that speaks about the novel's structural fissures more than any latent racism), but an issue that was important for me and made me in the end disappointed in a book that i had started out rooting for: in its big messy cast, the author pointlessly takes pains to pack in the chinese-american stereotypes.
Sep 30, 2012 Greg rated it really liked it
This book is sort of like this. In case the video doesn't make it clear, it's a roller-coaster. Normally on a roller-coaster there is that sort of long build up while you creak towards the top to be dropped into the rollicking fun. In this one, right after you start what you expect to be a slow ascent, a voice says something like, "There is something wrong", and the cars quickly accelerate up the incline and into the twists and turns.

This book is like that. It starts with with maybe a handful o
Oct 31, 2012 Kinga rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
If there was ever a novel in serious need of plot speed-bumps such as weather descriptions, it’s this one. You would think that in a 500 page novel the author would take her time and let things unravel slowly. No, not Homes. It was a crazy ride in a convertible with Homes behind the wheel and me sitting in the back shouting over the wind

“Homes, where are we going? Are we even going anywhere??”

And Homes would shout back

“What? I can’t hear you! We’re going too fast!”

On the first page we meet Harry
Feb 22, 2013 Elaine rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2013
I can't quite put my finger on why I enjoyed this book so much -- and was sad when it ended, and I couldn't spend more time with bumbling Harold and his hodge podge of a family of brave children, horny MILFs and demented seniors. The novel is basically a story of redemption -- how a cold, solipsistic inept man who has reacted to the traumas of life by immuring himself in routine and a loveless marriage is subjected to a series of Job-like trials (deservedly and some of his own causing), and come ...more
Oct 09, 2012 christa rated it did not like it
A.M. Homes’ novel “May We Be Forgiven” starts exactly the way you want a novel by A.M. Homes to start: Harry Silver is helping his sister-in-law Jane clean up after Thanksgiving dinner at his blow hard, TV exec brother George’s house. During one haul to the kitchen, Jane cozies up to Harry, kisses him, and then dismisses what happened as something she doesn’t want to deconstruct. When Harry almost kind of mentions it to his distant wife Claire, she tells him he’s imagining things. Not long after ...more
B the BookAddict
Jun 14, 2013 B the BookAddict rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Everyone
Recommended to B the BookAddict by: GR
Shelves: fiction, black-comedy

May WE be forgiven if we neglect to read this dark comedy; a rip-snorting, turbulent, sometimes bizarre but thoroughly unexpected read!

Originally written as a short story, I am thrilled that Homes has continued it into a full length novel. And what a novel it is! Legal guardianship, murder, paranoia, family relationships, Nixon history, adultery, litigation, accidents, divorce, the elderly and internet-turned-physical relationships are all present in this savage satire of contemporary America.
Nov 27, 2013 Kathrina rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: american-fiction
The first 15 pages of this novel plunge you into a storyline you won't stop reading. You'll eventually realize you've landed in absurd realism. The story fragments into tangents you least expect, characters behave irrationally, unrealistically, absurdly, but then, somehow, Homes weaves it together into a tale that makes no sense to the brain, but thoroughly explains the heart. Our parents, our children, they are unknowable as simply genetic links that somehow define who we are, but a family can ...more
Aug 06, 2013 Ursula rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: american
After a fulminate start, Homes' sharp satire quickly turns into a meandering, saccharine mess with some toilet humour thrown in for good measure.

Basically, 'May we be forgiven' tells the story of one dysfunctional upper middle class Jewish American family that is shattered to its rotten core when the TV-executive father looses his marbles and of how it patches itself together again under the lead of Uncle Harry, a divorced Nixon scholar who simply cannot say ‘no’, turning into one happy, tolera
Oct 15, 2013 Karen rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
This was the second book that I read on my kindle. I say this because the kindle allows you to read a sample before you buy. I loved the sample; the writing was funny, sharply observed and intriguing. I bought the book.

I quickly realised that reading this book was rather like meeting someone at a party where they are interesting, funny, intelligent, quirky, fun... Reading the book made me uncomfortable. I was desperate to finish it and get it away from me. I found the central character exasperat
Nov 04, 2012 Roxane rated it it was amazing
This novel becomes more and more unwieldy as the story unfolds. The absurdities Homes creates make you wonder, where is this going? How will this all come together? And somehow, Homes pulls it off. This is my first exposure to her fiction and I'm a fan. There is so much wit and intelligence in this novel. There is heart. Now, to be clear, there are some flaws. At times, the story just becomes absurd. Certain things are glossed over with just a bit too much blitheness, such as Ashley's situation ...more
Dany Salvatierra
I have to admit I'm shocked to see so many possitive comments on this novel, which is the reason why I decided to write a review, even though at first I wasn't even going to bother.

Clearly, the people who actually liked this novel are NOT familiar with the author's previous works. On the contrary, the so-called A.M. Homes fanboys that didn't asked for their money back before getting to the middle of the book are, with all do respect, seriously disturbed. And not in a good, classic A.M. Homes way
Leo Robertson
Jun 08, 2013 Leo Robertson rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: owned
Another book I didn't finish! Yay! Winter has robbed me of concentration required for larger pieces. I got about halfway through though. #NoExcuses #NothingLooksAsGoodAsFatBooksFeel

The writing style was clear and unpretentious, which I liked, and there was some occasional mild funny too.

But literary writers do a great sub-par stand-up routine in their novels, getting away with "I wouldn't have expected them to be funny", as if funny is not their day job, so it doesn't have to be up to scratch. A
Jun 09, 2013 Suzanne rated it really liked it
I'm embarrassed to admit that I had never heard of A M Homes until two months ago and bought this only because it won the Booker against strong odds. I had no idea what May we Be Forgiven was about. I heard it compared to Freedom, the new American novel.
Within the first few pages, I was hooked. It seemed like noir fun. Harry, the narrator and unlikely hero is a schlemiel. Shit just keeps tripping him, falling on him, knocking him down. Harry marshall's on. Picking his niece and nephew up, their
— Доктор, мне кажется, что по мне все время ползают маленькие зеленые крокодильчики...
— А что вы их на меня-то стряхиваете?!

Я отказываюсь верить, что автор это все всерьез; тем не менее – на весь (очень хорошо написанный) текст нет ни одной шутки, но есть, например, момент, где двадцатипятилетняя толстая секретарша китайского происхождения ("они приехали удочерить малышку, но малыши кончились, а я такая же глупая, как ребёнок, поэтому они взяли меня") требует от героя 500 долларов за то, чтобы с
Dec 15, 2012 Santacular rated it did not like it
I have never read A.M. Homes and if this book is a shining sample of her accomplished works, this will be my last A.M. Homes book no offense to the author or her loyal fans. The book is tedious and random. It has very witty and humous moments that ease the pain of irrelevancy to a numbing throb of discomfort. Four hundred and eighty pages of supposed suburban life. The family as a whole is borderline crazy. Harry should be institutionalized. He sits on the fence dangling his legs on both sides d ...more
Jan 24, 2015 Nigeyb rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is a surprisingly divisive book. I say surprisingly because I really enjoyed it and was expecting to read universal, unequivocal acclaim, however for all the reviews praising the book, there are plenty of readers who seem less convinced by its charms.

This book was given to me as a birthday gift and is the second book I have read by AM Homes. The first was "This Book Will Save Your Life" which I read when it came out and also really enjoyed.

'May We Be Forgiven' is bookended by two consecuti
Oct 22, 2013 Allison rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
The first portion of "May We Be Forgiven" was published as a short story in the New Yorker, and I couldn't put it down. Bizarre family tragedies occur in the life of a man who is detached and bitter but maintains a dark sense of humor that makes the story accessible to the reader.

It should have stayed as a short story. The plot comes to a standstill, the main character feels less real and more like a stick figure (maybe in part because the author is a woman - I'm not convinced she can write an a
Nov 24, 2013 George rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition

"They were absent children, absent of personality, absent of presence, and, except for holidays, largely absent from the house."—page 10

Perhaps no effort or experience is ever really a complete waste of time, but reading this novel, MAY WE BE FORGIVEN, by A. M. Homes—the narrative of which mostly oscillates in a range from 'lame and unpleasant' to outright 'stupid and disgusting'—comes very close.

Recommendation: I'm sorry I read it. And, now that I have, I'd be ashamed to recommend
Alex Duncan
Jun 26, 2013 Alex Duncan rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a book of tragedy that much is certain. And it's really good!
This is one of those books that, if you write at all, you get about twenty pages in and all you can think is, "I suck." Homes is a master craftslady. I can't remember the last time I've been so completely engrossed in a novel. This book is like an upgraded and updated and (if possible) even darker version of "The Corrections." There's a lot of buzz in the literary world about the new trend in novel writing being a takedown of the seemingly stereotypical upper class family. There's a sick pleasur ...more
João Carlos
Jul 28, 2014 João Carlos rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: m500pag, l2015

Illustration by Emiliano Ponzi

A escritora norte-americana A. M. Homes (n. 1961) venceu o Womens Prize for Fiction 2013 com o romance ”Assim Para Nós Haja Perdão”.
Harold Silver é um professor universitário, um historiador especialista em Richard Nixon, um ex-presidente dos Estados Unidos da América, envolvido num dos maiores escândalos políticos, o caso “Watergate”, casado com Claire, uma sino-americana, sem filhos e que vive num pequeno apartamento.
George Silver é um famoso executivo de televi
Mar 28, 2014 Merilee rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
((There are very few books that I abandon, and certainly not as early as this one: pg 28. I read, and hated, Homes' The Safety of Objects when it first came out. So very relentlessly grim. Since then I have read some OK stories by her in The NYer, so when my 21st Fiction group chose this as their April book I thought I'd give it a try. Horrible people doing horrible things. If there were maybe a sprinkling of humor, it might be bearable, but life is way too short to subject yourself to such unmi ...more
Greg Bates
Oct 10, 2012 Greg Bates rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2012, best-of-2012
Cain and Abel meet in a bar owned by Job. The barkeep is Richard Nixon. They order cocktails made from the blood of orphaned children, then the bar burns down. Such is life in A. M. Homes' wonderful, frustrating, hallucinatory May We Be Forgiven, one of the best novels of 2012 and a chronicle of the most horrible, unlucky year to ever exist in literature. There's a South African village owned by a 12-year old boy, a vision quest, a swingers party involving lazer tag, an homage to The Most Danger ...more
Mauoijenn ~ *Mouthy Jenn* ~
Meh. Not what I was expecting. I felt this story line has been done before. :(
Jenny (Reading Envy)
Dec 23, 2012 Jenny (Reading Envy) rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Jenny (Reading Envy) by: Leeswammes
I didn't expect to like this book based on the description, in fact last week I put it back down in favor of a different book from the 2013 Tournament of Books list. On the surface, it appeared to be about a middle-aged depressed professor who is making a mess of his life. Been there, read that, not interested in wasting my time on 500 pages of it.

I'm glad I tried it anyway. I'm glad I was won over by the first two lines:
"Do you want my recipe for disaster?
The warning sign: last year, Thanksgivi
Feb 02, 2013 Judy rated it it was amazing

I started out almost hating this book and ended up loving it. A M Homes appears (if you believe everything you read on the Internet) to have a prickly reputation for upsetting people and going out on limbs as a writer. This is the first I have read by her.

She DID upset me for the first long while in the novel. Despicable George, the younger asshole brother, who by the way is the only character who changes not a whit. All the violence, gratuitous to the max. I thought I was in for a slog through
Tyler Goodson
Nov 01, 2013 Tyler Goodson rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: book-club, six-stars
555 stars. Just finished reading page 480 and I would be happy to turn back to page 1 and start again. I think it's safe to say I am a Homes disciple at this point. A lot of books build and build and end with something tragic, but this novel starts with tragic and asks, "How do we rise above? How do we come together?" It ends on Thanksgiving day, a new family coming together, one whose members have helped each other rise above. I think we would be welcome. Have a seat.
Jan 13, 2013 Jillwilson rated it it was ok
“Bloviate” – “a style of empty, pompous, political speech which originated in Ohio and was used by United States President, Warren G. Harding who described it as "the art of speaking for as long as the occasion warrants, and saying nothing". This verb, previously unknown to me, seems quite a dangerous word for a writer to include in a 500 page book that, to my mind, flounders around. The author, an admirer of Norman Mailer, Stanley Elkin and Joseph Heller said that she wanted it to be a “roller ...more
Aug 09, 2013 Kata rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
If I state first and foremost that this is a dark comedy, it may shed light on the fact that the humor and plot is a more than a little out there. The genre of the plot and characters appealed to me because it was well written and I enjoy that sort of thing. As I read this book, I had a constant imagine in my mind that the best writers of SNL were locked in a room with Quentin Tarantino and John Irving prodding A.M. Homes with quirky ideas for each character and the various plots.

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A.M. Homes (first name Amy) is the author of the novels, This Book Will Save Your Life, Music For Torching, The End of Alice, In a Country of Mothers, and Jack, as well as the short-story collections, Things You Should Know and The Safety of Objects, the travel memoir, Los Angeles: People, Places and The Castle on the Hill, and the artist's book Appendix A: An Elaboration on the Novel the End of A ...more
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