But My Boyfriend Is (Florida Books, #4)

But My Boyfriend Is (Florida Books #4)

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"The most dangerous lies are the ones you tell yourself. "

Dylan Williams is "not" gay. Sometimes he gets off with other guys, but so what? He plans to get married someday "really" married, like with a wife and kids. And he s determined that his future family s life will be the normal one he and his brothers never had.

Mike Aurietta "is" gay, but his job keeps him in the clo...more
ebook, 270 pages
Published August 21st 2012 by Samhain Publishing, Ltd.
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Kate
Aug 22, 2012 Kate added it
A great character study and family dynamics story wrapped in a mediocre erotic romance. "(I'm not gay) but my boyfriend is" tells you all you need to know about Dylan and Mike's relationship. This is the first KA Mitchell story where I thought the sex was overdone and repetitious. On the other hand, the story of Dylan struggling to find his footing as something other than half of D, the Darryl/Dylan persona, was amazingly crafted. Who is Dylan if he's not the bad twin, the stupid lazy one, the f...more
Amanda
3 stars

Did I like the book? Meh. Was it horrible? No. I honestly think it was just me. I have read a few of K.A.'s book that I have enjoyed but the the first in the Florida series and this one just didn't completely jive with me.

What I didn't like:

1. What was shoved so far up Aaron's ass that he had to act like a complete dumb dick through the whole book? Yes, he had to step up and take care of his family. Yes, he was the first to come out as gay in his family. Get. Over. It. His brothers, not o...more
Emma
Aug 20, 2012 Emma marked it as probably-not
Shelves: to-be-released
Has this been released somewhere already? It still shows as preorder at the sites I buy through, but there's all these reviews already??



Can't . . . wait . . . till . . . August . . . need . . . book . . . now . . .
Chris
Very good m/m romance about a deeply closeted guy with a lot of guilt about his straight identical twin being gay bashed. Can he keep lying to himself about the attraction he feels to the guy who stepped into the fray and saved his twin's life? This started out a bit rough for me, as I wasn't feeling much sympathy for the closeted twin until about halfway through the book. Anyone want to bet that the next book's about Tate? ;)

Later: The more I think about it, the more I feel like I got cheated o...more
Lauraadriana
3.75 Stars

I liked this book, didn't LOVE it. But I did LIKE it. First of all KA Mitchell can write up some quality hotness that I know, and I was not disappointed there. I thought she did a GREAT job of writing the character of Dylan as well. Dylan is a young black man that is DEEPLY in denial about his homosexuality. He has sexual encounters with men, but he is NOT gay.

So, after his twin brother is victim of a gay bashing at a park where Dylan frequently goes looking for hook ups...His worlds...more
Gwenith
2 Stars...Maybe 2.5 Stars~ But, Honestly~


Why I Regret Nothing!

♠ I so got excited when Aaron called and he was coming~BUT, really was a freaking super asshole...gosh,I do not remember him being such a prick~Ooooh maybe I really only cared about Joey...Yep, that's probably why I forgot about prince prick Aaron....

♠Darryl the typical confused guy, but he was also such a asshole.

♠Also I hate the stereotypical status quo IMO TV ghetto living norm~So I just Skimmed over thoses parts~made it to the en
...more
Jaden
Finally one more book for the series! Can't help but feel a little giddy, since K.A. Mitchell delivers some of the best i'm-gonna-sex-you-up-so-bad-you-won't-be-thinking-about-anything-else-for-a-long-time stories with a fine touch of realism.

***- UPDATE 8/29/2012 -***

Are you looking for something romantic, somewhat dramatic, God-help-me sexy and realistic to read? Well, duh, you found it!

"But my Boyfriend is" consists of a well-woven plot and a perfectly developed and delivered story about one...more
Nichole (Dirty H)
I'm so exhausted with "but I don't want to people to think I'm gay" books, but Mitchell's an auto-buy. Why does it take her so long to write books???

Update 8/27/12:

Conflicted! I liked the MC's and I just wanted to hug Dylan until he couldn't breathe. And there were some scenes, mostly with Joey, that were really good and some dialogue that I wanted to print out and hang on my wall.

But ultimately, what the hell was this book even about? I have no idea. It was your typical K.A. Mitchell with prick...more
Sarah
Not sure I am all that objective about this authors work, because I enjoy her voice so much. The angst and anger of Dylans character really appealed and I lovedtrue book.I thought the storytelling was really tight and the arc was done beautifully. Sex was hot and captured Dylans feelings nicely, nervous but aggressive. Liked it lots. I think if you're new to the genre, KA Mitchell is a great place to start, cause the writing is just that good. Magic.

Re read end of 2012. Sigh, still liked it QUIT...more
A.B. Gayle
I enjoyed this more than I expected to, based on comments by other reviewers. K.A.Mitchell makes no apologies about writing lots of sex scenes and does it so well. In this case, her character's emotional reaction during the sex scene was an important part of the plot as was the number. Any less, and Mike's feeling at times that he was just being "used" had to feel justified.

From Dylan's perspective, he had to see it as scratching an itch, because admitting to the underlying emotional involvement...more
Guilty Pleasures
Gennie's review posted on Guilty Pleasures

5 Stars
Bea
I am giving this a four star, although really a 3.5.

What I liked:

1. I really liked the fact that neither Dylan or Mike is perfect, that both of them have issues that are not resolved in the first few pages.

2. The storyline was not just the same rehashing of the others, but original problems.

3. Joey. There is just something about this character that makes me smile.

4. The last couple chapters are f'ing amazing and redeemed one character that was pissing me off.

What I didn't love:

1. I was surprised...more
Danni
I didn't think I would love this as much as I did. Collision course is one of my favourite books and I just didn't think this one could measure up. I remembered Dylan as a guy with a lot of attitude and it was very interesting to see him "grow up" and follow that journey.
both Mike and Dylan (and Darryl, the twin) have a lot to deal with, but it still isn't all deep dark angst. it feels like the guys are working things out and sure there is some door slamming and walking out kind of drama, but i...more
MandyM
Great, angsty romance between two guys deep in the closet. Dylan is the younger brother of Aaron from Collision Course and he's a chip off the old block. Refusing to acknowledge his attraction to men, angry at the world, and obsessively close and protective of his twin, Darryl. His world is shaken when his actions lead to an attack on Darryl, who then shuns him and goes to recuperate with Aaron and Joey. For the first time Dylan is on his own.

Mike is a trainer with the local football team who ke...more
Jacqueline
WTF this book was a stereo typical mess. I knew he was black by the cover. I was so excited hoping for a neutral book. But but DAMN this is the very last thing I expected from KA Mitchell, UGH!
TheFountainPenDiva
May 16, 2012 TheFountainPenDiva marked it as ir-m-m-romance-to-read
I'm buying this because Mitchell did not commit Epic Name Fail with the black character! His name is Dylan. NOT D'Juan or whatever stereotype "black" name some authors come up with. GA Hauser and Carol Lynne, I'm talking to YOU!!!
Kavisha
My reaction to K. A Mitchell stories: "I liked it.... I liked it not.... I liked it.... I liked it not"
And in the end: "Just stick to 3 stars! Its easier that way"

There are always elements of the story I like:
-The stories are believable
-Realistic flawed characters
-Not insta-love
-HEA in a possible -life has challenges, but we can face them together- kind of way

And there are elements I really dont like:
-Insta-sex (urgh)
-I dont always like the MC's (I know they are flawed but I have read plen...more
leigh
Wow! Another winner. I enjoy the way that each of the Florida Books has a different feel, even as the recurring characters and couples stay consistent to themselves and each other.

This one is heavy on the angst, with very little in the way of sweetness or comic relief. With one character closeted and the other confused and in denial, their relationship is a progression of unromantic sexual encounters, with a good deal of anger and fear on both sides. Dylan's conflict is based on more than homoph...more
Judy & Marianne from Long and Short Reviews
Originally posted at: http://whippedcream2.blogspot.com/201...


Angst, sex, and great storytelling. Yep, it's a KA Mitchell book.

Twins, angst, and lots of hot guys. Le sigh. The moment I read the blurb for this book, I knew I had to review it. Why? First, KA Mitchell writes stories that draw me in like a moth to a flame. I get emotionally connected to the characters and think about them long after the end of the story. The writing is flawless and I don't want to put them down. This book was no exc...more
Christina

3.5 Stars

This was so close to being a 4 stars but there a few things that bugged me. First, I loved everything going on with Dylan's character. Mitchell tells it like it is and I love that about her. It's what makes her characters seem so real. Dylan was dealing with guilt over his brother and fucking up AGAIN, his brothers are treating him like shit, he's starting to "like" Mike more than just getting off with a guy, and he's not gay. There's a lot of issues going on here.

I enjoyed Mike and Dyl...more
Melissa
If there is one phrase that best describes the main character in this book it would be 'in denial' lol Dylan isn't gay... there's no way he could be gay... I mean, yeah, sometimes he gets off with guys and he really enjoys it, but that doesn't make him gay, right? When he gets a call that his twin brother has been badly beaten and is in the hospital, he rushes there to find out that it was a gay bashing but his brother isn't gay.

Mike, the guy who saw Darryl getting beaten and broke up the fight,...more
DaisyGirl
2.5 Stars

Darryl Williams falls victim to a gay bashing in Webber Park and Mike Aurietta saves him. At the hospital, Mike meets Darryl's twin, Dylan, and sparks fly. Even though Dylan does not consider himself gay and Mike is in the closet for the sake of his job, the two start a secret and steamy love affair. When all is said and done, Mike and Dylan must decide whether to be true to themselves or hang on to denial and remain in the closet.

This one was okay. At first, I didn't care for Dylan. He...more
Trix
I loved this book. The rating says it all.

(view spoiler)[There were a few moments at the start of the book where I found Dylan a bit annoying with his crass words and hurtful attitude, meant to push everyone away and show he could do without anyone. But then I was given a closer look at how he thought and felt and why he acted the way he acted. And fell in love with him. The author did a fantastic job of showing Dylan's doubts and fears, not through words but through his actions and gestures. I...more
Beth
Ok, I screwed up on this and didn't realize until I was almost done that it was part of a series. I had already read 2 of the books then this one completely out of order. So, I went back made sure I had the series in the correct order and read them all again.

While they are all stand alone stories reading the Florida books in order does give some background to the secondary characters.

I enjoyed the first three books but this one just didn't mesh. I just couldn't connect with Dylan. His denial j...more
clear skies
Dylan and Darryl (Dare) twin brothers who've been through thick and thin together. They have a rocky relationship with their older brother Aaron (from the book "Collision Course"). When Dare gets beat up at a popular gay cruising spot, his twin brother Dylan's life falls a part.

I absolutely adored this book. Beware of potential spoilers. Dylan is gay, but he cannot accept it. Not even that fact his older brother is gay. The fact his twin got beat up because of him (inadvertently) makes his life...more
Kaetrin
Why I read it: Love KA Mitchell's books - love the Florida series. Pre-ordered and bumped to the top of the reading list as soon as it became available.

What it's about: For those who've read the earlier books in the series, Dylan Williams, Aaron Chase's brother (Collision Course). Dylan and his mirror twin Darryl are in Texas - Darryl is about to graduate from college and Dylan is a line cook at The Cheesecake Factory. Dylan is NOT GAY. Except, he sometimes trawls local gay hangout Webber Park a...more
AnnaLund
Feb 18, 2013 AnnaLund rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: M/M romance buffs
Recommended to AnnaLund by: Con Riley
Beautiful. And full of deep truths, not really what you'd expect of a romance/erotica story. I liked this very much because there were words of wisdom here, words that more people should hear.

Dylan is a riot, in EVERY sense of the word. He is quick to throw a punch, and quick to laughter—and actually does both of those a lot, together with all the I'm-not-gay sex he's having in this book. Yeah, right. Dylan has a way to go still, to get to insight.

Don't know what to put in my excerpts this time...more
Luvduchovny
Dylan and Darryl are identical twins. Studious good boy Darryl gets beaten up at a public park known for cruising. Problem? Darryl's not gay although his brother Dylan has been known to frequent this park. Mike is a good Samaritan who got Darryl help at the cost of some bumps and bruises himself. Because he felt bad about the beaten young man being in a hospital alone, he tells the paramedics that he is Darryl's boyfriend. Dylan doesn't know what to make of this fake boyfriend, but circumstances...more
Lenore
First off, I hate that Samhain books end at around 92%. I feel like there are things happening in the story in that 8%, only I don't get to see them because I have to read a synopsis and an excerpt from Bad Boyfriend. Dude, I don't need to read that excerpt! I've already read the book! But even if I hadn't, if you think I read any further after the book has ended, I got news for you: I don't. I press "Home" and select the next book on my reading list.

Anyway. Dylan. He was all right. But his "I'm...more
Dlee
This wasn't exactly a "feel good" book but it was emotionally charged. There was a bit too much sex for my liking but that worked for this story and these characters. Dylan and Mike had nothing but sex between them for a long while and it was interesting to watch it turn into love. Dylan seemed real, very flawed, and very young. Perfect writing. Mike was a bit less fleshed out which was a shame; I would have liked to have gotten to know him better. My main complaint was that ending was just so r...more
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K.A. Mitchell discovered the magic of writing at an early age when she learned that a carefully crayoned note of apology sent to the kitchen in a toy truck would earn her a reprieve from banishment to her room. Her career as a spin-control artist was cut short when her family moved to a two-story house, and her trucks would not roll safely down the stairs. Around the same time, she decided that Ch...more
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