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God Believes in Love: Straight Talk About Gay Marriage

4.07 of 5 stars 4.07  ·  rating details  ·  355 ratings  ·  74 reviews
From the Bishop of the Diocese of New Hampshire in the Episcopal Church, the first openly gay person elected (in 2003) to the historic episcopate and the world's leading religious spokesperson for gay rights and gay marriage—a groundbreaking book that lovingly and persuasively makes the case for same-sex marriage using a commonsense, reasoned, religious argument, made by s ...more
Hardcover, 196 pages
Published September 18th 2012 by Knopf (first published January 1st 2012)
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Terri Lynn
I am a very liberal person who has always supported gay rights including gay marriage. On the other hand, I am an historian well versed in ancient cultures/history/mythology. It always strikes me as funny when people want to cling to christian mythology while at the same time trying to find a way to twist and mold what the bible says to what they WISH it said.

Here are the facts:
(1) The bible says that for a man to lie with another man sexually as he would with a woman is an abomination. Ditto f
This book was written by Gene Robinson, the first openly gay bishop in the Episcopal church. I was raised in a (very conservative - 1920s prayer book, yo) Episcopal church, but with (fairly) liberal parents, so I remember back when he was consecrated, all my very religiously conservative college friends were horrified, and I was going "Wooop woooop Episcopalians! Y'alls my boys!"

So needless to say this book what somewhat preaching to the choir for me, which is why I have a hard time reviewing it
God Believes in Love is a wonderful delving into the subject of gay marriage.

It's a short book, and an easy read - but it covers all the bases.

Why talk about this now? Why should I care about it if I'm not gay? What does the Bible really say about it? Isn't this really more about validating immoral behavior than equal rights?

This is a major issue facing Christians today. To put our head in the sand and try to ignore it is almost as bad as taking an anti-gay stance without any understanding of
While I am already a firm believer in gay marriage, I saw Mr. Robinson on The Daily Show, and was so impressed by how kind and funny he seemed. I was curious about his book once he mentioned that he specifically discusses the Bible verses often used to mark homosexuality as evil and wrong. After checking it out from the library, I am thinking I may have to get a copy to keep.

Robinson, as most know, is the first openly gay Bishop of any faith in the United States. As such, he does have an underly
Gene Robinson is the first widely known priest in an openly gay relationship to be consecrated a bishop in a major Christian denomination. He outlines the areas of the bible that discuss gay behavior, showing the distinction likely between this behavior (often in the setting of idolatry or rape) in contrast to modern day same partner relationships. His personal experiences nicely compliments his didactic arguments.

My favorite line in the book "I believe in marriage. I believe it is a crucible i
Nancy Elliott
This is a great little book for those who have honest questions about gay marriage and are looking for clear, well thought out answers. It would also be helpful to anyone who is sympathetic to the cause of marriage equality but doesn't know how to explain their views to friends and relatives who may not understand them or who object to gay marriage on religious grounds. Each chapter presents an argument against gay marriage and then carefully and logically refutes it. A well organized and though ...more
A wonderful, affirming explanation for why gay marriage is good for society, heterosexual marriage, and Christianity. Even for those familiar with pro-gay marriage arguments, the chapters on Biblical interpretation and history make it worth a read. It’s rare I read a book on a politically-charged topic that leaves me with the warm and fuzzies. This book did. Beyond his arguments for gay marriage, Bishop Robinson also does a good job reminding us all of why marriage - regardless of gender - still ...more
Daniel Bushman
I agree with this man almost entirely, regarding a reasonable Christian perspective on the issue of marriage equality. I continually found my own opinions, being put into words, yet with much more elaboration, and many more references. I wish there was a way I could make this book required reading for any Christian who wants to discuss marriage equality with me. Not that I would expect any one of them to be swayed, and agree with it all, but at least it could be used as a starting place for rati ...more
Somewhat unclear exactly who he is addressing in the book. Some really good points about civil and religious "marriage" and how the two are intersecting in our concept of the issue of gay marriage. Helps to sort out the what both really mean. Made it clearer what the civil rights issues are in marriage equality. It almost seems that the various chapters were written to stand alone at some point, as he reiterates ideas/positions almost verbatim in different parts of the book. Worth reading, not a ...more
Christine Farmer
this heartfelt, easy to read defense of gay marriage from a bishop is something i think everyone should read.

i don't agree with everything robinson asserts, and have some questions about how he gets to his conclusions, he has some excellent insights and makes some very challenging points.

as a left leaning former megachurch attender who is very fond of Jesus but struggling with some aspects of "Churchianity", this book asked many of the same questions i've been asking for a while. it was very r
Robinson does a poor job of crossing the bridge to someone like myself, a reader who approached with an open mind and who is walking away disappointed. Robinson's theology is understandably more liberal than my own, but with no acknowledgments of any legitimacy of my theology, it seemed that I could only accept gay marriage if I also denied God has a gender, or that salvation is exclusive to the Christian faith tradition. There was no attempt to cross the gulf to a Christian reader looking for a ...more
Tom Lank
Repetitive in places, but some strong arguments nonetheless. Some that I hadn't seen anywhere else. All the more powerful because of his personal experience. One tidbit that will stick with me is that priests were not involved in weddings until the 12th century and did not have a central role in the ceremony until the 13th.
Recommended for any person of faith, regardless of what side of marriage equality you are on. Very reasoned, intelligent analysis of the same-sex marriage debate, which addresses all the arguments that are made against it -- then refutes these arguments by pointing out that not only are they unconstitutional, but that they are misinterpreting the supposed Biblical edicts against marriage.

Here's one of the many great passages:
"I believe (marriage) is the crucible in which we come to know most d
Jerry Neves
More people need to read this book. It's too bad that they won't.
I first became aware of Bishop Gene Robinson while watching the documentary, "For the Bible Tells Me So." God Believes in Love addresses the same topic as the film, that is, the controversy over gay marriage, as well as whether or not gay couples should be allowed to adopt.

This book does not delve into the science in support or against the naturalness of homosexuality. That is a whole other argument that presets this debate, and for all intensive purposes Robinson treats this as secondary to the
There has been a lot of talk in the media about how the Bible prohibits same-sex marriage. You probably have people in your social network who subscribe to those views and given how loud they are it is easy to believe that they are right, that the Bible says no to same sex marriage.

But Bishop Gene Robinson disagrees. As an Episcopal Bishop and a gay man, he has thought a lot about his issue. And he has a lot to say. His conclusion is that the Bible does not prohibit gay marriage, but in fact sup
Such a great book! Gene Robinson lays out a very beautiful and compelling argument for gay marriage. If I wasn't already a supporter, I definitely would be now. I think this is a book that all Christians should read. Everyone should read it, but I think it is most important for Christians because it addresses many of the issues about homosexuality and gay marriage that come up for people of faith, and it does so in a very logical and loving way. As a Christian supporter of gay rights, I am asham ...more
I read this book after watching/listening to some interviews with Bishop Robinson and being super impressed by his articulation of his personal experiences and theology and how they've informed his views on gay marriage. Generally, I appreciate this book as a whole because it is just a huge relief to me that, despite the horrible parts, there is finally a large national conversation happening on gay rights. Like, when I read this and think about how we have a president who supports gay marriage, ...more
Steve Lee Sr
I've owned this book since it first hit the shelves, but was not in a hurry to read it because I'm already a supporter of marriage equality and I don't need further convincing. I bought the book because a) I'm Episcopalian; and b) I'm a fan (so to speak) of Gene Robinson.

Looking for something to read the other day, this book caught my eye and I pulled it from the shelf and started to read it. I'm glad I did. I found it to be a helpful and enlightening discussion of marriage; not gay marriage, ju
Blair Shamel
From the man who was the target of the controversy in the Episcopal Church. Well reasoned, spoken from experience and his heart. Read it and get the truth behind why Gay Marriage is a right and joyful thing we should all celebrate.
This book is sort of like "Gay Marriage for Dummies". It's not bad, but it's so simplistic, I think Gene Robinson intended this for complete morons. Not that that's a bad thing - a lot of complete morons are against gay marriage for stupid reasons and this book is for them.
I thought this was another exceptional book by Bishop Gene Robinson. It amazes me that people are so consumed with a select few passages in the Bible while ignoring other biblical prohibitions. The Bible is very clear about adultery. Yet, we don't target adulterers, deny them the right to marry, or fire them from their jobs because they have committed past acts of adultery. I wholeheartedly believe that God is about love. Historically, the Bible has been used to endorse slavery, outlaw interraci ...more
I received this book from a First Reads giveaway. I really agreed with a lot of what Gene Robinson said in this book, but I have always believed that gays should have the right to marry. There were some parts of the book that I found really repetitive and that really didn't stick to the topic of the chapter. I don't know if this book would change anyone's mind about gay marriage, but it did reaffirm some of my beliefs on civil rights in America. I'm still not quite sure that the title makes sens ...more
A clear, easy conversation between former Episcopalian Bishop Robinson and the reader about why people of faith should not fear gay marriage. For those who are capable of seeing the Christian Bible as a text that guides a Christian's faith, along with their particular canonical law and their own conscience, rather than as the exact, literal word of God, this is a good book to read to familiarize oneself with the history of the gay equality movement and the biblical passages typically used to und ...more
Victor Chininin
I could probably write a book on the theological and practical disagreements I hold with the author, but I will just say this - I understand the author's heart, and I have listened to his story as he asks us to do (45). We arrive at such different opinions because we disagree on three things: 1) who God is, 2) how marriage is defined in the Scriptures, and 3) what love is from the pages of Scripture. I leave the book deeply saddened yet hopeful in God's love at the ultimate sacrifice of Christ i ...more
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I read this book to try to understand why gay people really want to be married. He gave some interesting answers to the questions he addressed but he did not change my mind. In fact, he really offended me at certain points. I am a Christian as is he but there were several passages where he said certain things about the Bible and Christianity itself that made me wonder about what he believes. There were also a couple of places where he mentions the president that felt awkward and unnecessary as i ...more
In case you're unaware, Gene Robinson is a bishop of the Episcopal church and is married to a man in New Hampshire. Each chapter addresses a question he often hears about gay marriage, establishing why concerns aren't really concerns, and why legalizing gay marriage is important for everyone. Though I'm already on the side of this, the book helped me reestablish why I find it so important. Anyone who is truly against gay marriage would probably never touch this book, but it may be a good read fo ...more
More of a 2.5 - I gave it 3 stars because I quite like Gene Robinson and clearly agree with his argument, but at the end of it, I felt like the book neither presented great, theological arguments nor anything supremely rooted in fact or history. There were shockingly no footnotes and a great deal of the use of words like "many" and "generally," etc. Which is to say... it just kind of felt like Gene Robinson sitting at a dinner party having a conversation about same-gender marriage. And I've had ...more
This is, as advertised, a careful treatment of the question of civil marriage between same-sex people. It's organized like a Frequently Asked Questions file, one big question per chapter.

I attended a reading at the Harvard Bookstore the week the book was released, and I must say I'm inspired by the man, and very grateful he has shared his experiences with the rest of us. As a survivor of an opposite-sex marriage to a gay person, I found his experience very helpful.

It's a thought-provoking book,
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GENE ROBINSON was born and raised in Lexington, Kentucky, and graduated from the University of the South with a B.A. in American studies and history. He completed the MDiv degree in 1973 at the General Theological Seminary in New York, and was ordained deacon and then priest, serving as curate at Christ Church, Ridgewood, NJ. Robinson is a Senior Fellow at American Progress. He was elected bishop ...more
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