Daughters for a Time
Feelings of abandonment fill Helen Francis at a too-young age when her mother dies and her father walks out. Left in the care of her older sister, Claire, she moves on but never truly heals. Now thirty-five and married, Helen is desperate to start a family of her own. After four unsuccessful years of trying to become pregnant, Helen accepts the idea of adoption.
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Paperback, 302 pages
Published
April 24th 2012
by Amazon Publishing
(first published January 1st 2012)
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This is a book that would touch every woman. It is primarily about a woman forced to face her infertility and undergo adoption. But it is also about relationships between mother and daughter, father and daughter, sisters, aunt and niece, and husband and wife. It is also about the big C- cancer, infidelity, and death. Is that enough drama for one book? It worked though because it was depressing and real. There wasn't a lot of happiness in this book. Your heart felt heavy the whole time. You can't...more
I really enjoyed this book. I was blessed to have a baby girl almost 3 years ago but have been dealing with secondary infertility for over 2 years. Most of my friends are working on starting or expanding their families and I'm constantly surprised at how many have struggled or are struggling with infertility. My husband and I have already discussed the possibility of adopting if it's not in the cards for us to have another biological child. Reading this book touched my heart and I spent several...more
Everyone has a bad day but when it seems as if nothing ever goes right in your life it adverserly affects you. This is a story of struggle to overcome feelings of loss and hopelessness and of courage, to break free from the past. Helen struggles with her past, her mother dies when she was fourteen, her father left home, and she was raised by a A+ type personality sister who could do no wrong. This is a difficult path for anyone to walk but one would hope that now that Helen has married her soul...more
This book tells the story of a young female who is happily married but struggling with infertility. She is emotionally very tied to her older sister who is already a mother to a little toddler. Helen’s sister raised her after the death of their mother from cancer when Helen was fourteen. Their estranged father was financially supportive but emotional absent during this period. Helen eventually becomes reconciled to giving up her dream of being a birth mother to a baby girl. She and her nice-guy...more
Helen and her husband Tim own a successful DC eatery, they’re a couple that seem to have it all until you look below the surface. Helen has survived her childhood, her fear of rejection and inadequacy, her mother’s death from Ovarian Cancer and her father’s desertion only by the steady hand of her older sister Claire. But even Claire has managed to get the one thing that Helen so desperately wants, a child of her own. As Helen struggles with infertility drugs and cycles, adoption is mentioned mo...more
This was a Kindle Daily Deal but I honestly don't remember why it caught my attention. I'm not sure of the exact definition of chick lit (I hate the label) but I think I can safely say this qualifies.
Not my usual cup of tea but compelling. Helen has a great, nice-guy husband (Tim) and they adore each other. Their courtship and early marriage are romantic and idyllic until Helen sinks further and further into depression and feelings of inadequacy because she can't concieve a child.
I can't relate...more
Not my usual cup of tea but compelling. Helen has a great, nice-guy husband (Tim) and they adore each other. Their courtship and early marriage are romantic and idyllic until Helen sinks further and further into depression and feelings of inadequacy because she can't concieve a child.
I can't relate...more
Helen has been wanting a child for the longest time, but seems unable to conceive. She knows she will not be truly happy unless she can be a mother, but she seems unwilling at first to adopt. When she finally takes a look at the adoption process, she discovers a whole new side to mothering that she wants to try. The plot complicates, however, as she learns that her beloved sister, Claire, who acted as a mother to her has cancer. Helen struggles to be both a supportive sister and a loving mother....more
This was a meaningful, impacting book. It details one woman's journey through infertility, adoption, working through past loss, and then grieving through a fresh loss. This was good for me to read as a foster parent and one I will use to complete and Independent Learner form for continuing education credit. Delving into the stress and strain that people have to go through with major loss, abandonment by parents, and raising a child who is not biologically their own is always helpful for us to fu...more
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“Maybe heartache was more normal than the absence of it.”
We are all too familiar with the feeling of experiencing the highest of highs when, out of nowhere, the lowest of lows comes sweeping in and knocks you completely off-balance.
In Daughters for a Time, Jennifer Handford handles that crushing heartbreak with sensitivity and raw emotion. Though I know the book is a work of fiction, Handford’s own experience with adoption elevated the book to a whole...more
“Maybe heartache was more normal than the absence of it.”
We are all too familiar with the feeling of experiencing the highest of highs when, out of nowhere, the lowest of lows comes sweeping in and knocks you completely off-balance.
In Daughters for a Time, Jennifer Handford handles that crushing heartbreak with sensitivity and raw emotion. Though I know the book is a work of fiction, Handford’s own experience with adoption elevated the book to a whole...more
This was actually a good book. I found it while browsing my Kindle and figured I couldn't go too wrong, since it was fairly inexpensive.
Helen appears to be a typical infertile character at first, but there are layers to Helen that give her more depth than simply wanting a baby. Her grief rings true.
None of the characters ever seem to want for money, despite the fact that none of them appear to really work. Tim owns a busy, up-and-coming restaurant in D.C. and yet he can leave any time he wants?...more
Helen appears to be a typical infertile character at first, but there are layers to Helen that give her more depth than simply wanting a baby. Her grief rings true.
None of the characters ever seem to want for money, despite the fact that none of them appear to really work. Tim owns a busy, up-and-coming restaurant in D.C. and yet he can leave any time he wants?...more
Daughters for a Time is a family story of how our families are not always blood related but they are our families all the same. It's a story about how not all families are alike but they can still come together when needed. Sometimes family is all you have to get through the really, really tough times and it can be difficult to figure that out.I was very interested in this book because it tackled the idea and the decision to adopt. I personally think that adoption is really cool. There are so ma...more
I loved this book. It is the story of relationships between mothers and daughters, sisters, and fathers. It was a heart pulling story of infertility and the painful struggles of Helen who wants a child more than anything. It is also the story of the relationship between Helen and her sister Claire who lost their mother to ovarien cancer. Claire raises Helen after the mother's death. It also brings in the charater of Larry, their father, who left his daughters when their mother/his wife was dying...more
This was an enjoyable read. It follows the story of a young couple as they struggle with infertility, finally decide upon adoption, and create a family. And while it isn't the family that Helen initially envisioned for herself, it's the family that she was meant to have. Some parts of the book definitely touched me more than others, from a personal experience level. I did find some of the food descriptions to be a little too much at some points though, or maybe I'm just jealous that I can't just...more
I had a hard time getting through the first half of this book. Then last night, til midnight, I read the last half. I couldn't put it down for some reason. I am not sure how this ended up in my to read books but I am glad it did. It is really heavy at times. I don't think I have actually ever cried from a book as much as I did this one. That is some great writing. And while it was sad, I still gave it four stars just because it had the ability to stir those emotions that much. And I now think th...more
This is a story about Helen. Growing up, she lost her mother to cancer and her sister Claire raised her. As an adult, she is struggling with infertility and relying on the strength of her sister to pull her through, until the unthinkable happens and Claire gets the same cancer that their mother died from.
From the first page, I was hooked. The author's account of miscarriage and infertility were probably the most perfect way to write about the subjects and really make the message hit home:
"With m...more
From the first page, I was hooked. The author's account of miscarriage and infertility were probably the most perfect way to write about the subjects and really make the message hit home:
"With m...more
Sometimes a book comes along and the words of fiction mirror the truths of your life. DAUGHTERS FOR A TIME by Jennifer Handford, for me, is just that kind of a book. This debut novel finds our main character, Helen, facing infertility; fears of abandonment; grief for the mother she lost to ovarian cancer; fear that her own health will be determined by the result of a genetic blood test; and the uncertainty of a possible adoption. Helen has a special bond with her sister, Claire, who raised her a...more
I sobbed hard and often. The kind of sobbing that left me short of breath. It wasn't tears of pity but of empathy. I was feeling the ache that Helen's character was going through as I read her account of her struggles with infertility. I rejoiced with her when she was able to successfully adopt a daughter. Then I anguished again with her when she heard the news that her six-year-older sister was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. The very sister that raised her since fourteen years of age after the...more
A book that tugs at your heart strings and makes you realize how unlucky life can be. Helen, the younger sister of two, who loses her mom in the middle of her teenage years is forced to live with her older college sister as their father has left at the same time that their mother succumbs to cancer. With major trust and "leaving" issues, Helen is having a hard time accepting her infertility issues and the lucky woman who has a husband to stand and support her through it all.
I was instantly grabb...more
I was instantly grabb...more
Oct 21, 2012
Miranda Diaz
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4 of 5 stars
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"Maybe heartache is more normal than the absence of it."
This book is laced with stories of pain, loss, and emptiness, but I found a beauty in it. Maybe coming from a broken home and seeing the forgiveness, grace and strength that can be born in the midst of the most terrible agony. To love is to embrace the willingness to experience pain and for the chance for something so much more powerful. Not always uplifting, but I found inspiration in the little moments of humanity in this one.
This book is laced with stories of pain, loss, and emptiness, but I found a beauty in it. Maybe coming from a broken home and seeing the forgiveness, grace and strength that can be born in the midst of the most terrible agony. To love is to embrace the willingness to experience pain and for the chance for something so much more powerful. Not always uplifting, but I found inspiration in the little moments of humanity in this one.
SPOILER ALERT: Yes I cried. More than once. But why could Helen so easily carry a baby to term with Claire's egg through in-vitro? This begs the question as to why she just didn't try this earlier with her own or a donor egg. I also thought that Claire's death was rushed and forced. Claire didn't need to be sacrificd to save the story. Helen could have been developed in so many ways, but in order to help Helen fulfill a need she didn't know she had Claire had to die. Too contrived
I was pleasantly surprised to find Handford's novel dealt quite sensitively with infertility, adoption from China, and cancer. I have experience with all three, and was not expecting such accuracy. She also had some very poignant moments, without lapsing into sentimentality.
The middle was a bit slow, but it was worth pushing through. The ultimate themes of forgiveness and family ties are what you make of them wove throughout the book. Could not put the book down in the end, and cried along with...more
The middle was a bit slow, but it was worth pushing through. The ultimate themes of forgiveness and family ties are what you make of them wove throughout the book. Could not put the book down in the end, and cried along with...more
I must be cold hearted, because this book didn't touch me as it has other readers. Yes, the book was about women, but some characters could have been developed more. You never hear of Ross until his wife dies - how can you feel bad for him? I never felt connected to Larry either - somewhat to Tim, but he was working the entire time and apparently had no other interests. There were also some instances where the focus was too much on food, which didn't help the story in any way. I don't think Sama...more
I did enjoy this book. It was well written and I liked the story. It was kind of predictable but still good. It was about the relationship between 2 sisters and how they coped with their mom dying when they were young and having their father leave because he could not cope with it. The older daughter ends being responsible for the younger sister at a young age. The twists and turns of their lives are what the book is about. I would recommend the book.
This novel was 1 of 3 selected in the Amazon breakout novelist comtest. Helen was 13 when her mom died and her father left. She was raised by her older sister and never got over the events of her youth. Now she is struggling with infertility, trying to reestablish contact with her dad, adopting a baby from China when her sister gets cancer. I liked the book even when I found some of Helen's attitude not believable or just too immature.
I loved this book. I gave it a 4 because it had some language and it bugs me when the timing is off on a book- just a pet peeve of mine! (It starts in 2011 and goes for a few years after that). It deals with a lot of depressing issues such as infertility, cancer, and death but it was surprisingly upbeat and I finished it in one setting which isn't saying much since I finish most books the same day I start them!
This novel explores many topics connected to women--infertility, adoption, illness and divorce. Hanford covers many issues through the trials and tribulations of one woman who decides, after years of infertility, to adopt a girl from China. Supported by her older sister who raised her after their own mother's death, sisterhood is a powerful force in their lives, until tragedy strikes again.
I think if I could give this book 3 1/2 stars I would. I really liked it in the beginning with her depths of depression from trying to have a baby for 4 years and every month being disappointed. Each month thinking a new fertility drug hoping it would make the difference. When the storyline changed a bit I still liked it, but it went from me starting the book thinking "I LOVE this book" to finishing it with "that was a pretty good book."
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