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  <title><![CDATA[Soft-Spoken Parenting: 50 Ways to Not Lose Your Temper With Your Kids]]></title>
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  <default-description>&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Short tempers and lapses of patience are a common challenge for parents, but they are also conquerable with the advice in this book. Each chapter contains a concept, including choosing laughter over accusation, putting off until tomorrow what shouldn&amp;#8217;t be said today, making sure actions match words, choosing to see the good, and making allowance for childishness. The challenge of being a little softer and kinder with children becomes a little easier for parents with these simple and practical strategies.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</default-description>
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  <original-publication-month type="integer">7</original-publication-month>
  <original-publication-year type="integer">2007</original-publication-year>
  <original-title>Soft-Spoken Parenting: 50 Ways to Not Lose Your Temper With Your Kids</original-title>
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      <name><![CDATA[H. Wallace Goddard]]></name>
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  <read_at>Tue Sep 02 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a wonderful book! I wish I could have had it 10 years ago, when I first started struggling with my temper in parenting! Bro. Goddard wrote this edition for a secular audience, but his original edition (with blue on the cover) is aimed at an LDS audience, and includes quotes from scripture an...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/20171747">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book had several great tips for controlling the anger that so often is directed at our children (or spouse).  There were a few things I hadn't thought of and I enjoyed many of the stories that were shared.  I recognized some influence from one of my favorite parenting books, &quot;How to Talk S...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/71485592">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="48754077">
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  <date_added>Mon Mar 09 19:05:42 -0700 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book gives various ways and/or ideas on how to work with your children. Many of them I already knew or try to practice but it was good for me to have a few examples of how I can better myself as a parent.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Jun 15 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Good book.  Lots of good suggestions on how to become a better/more effective parent.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is such a great parenting book.  Really practical advice.  I loved it.  I've read a lot of parenting books and there is such a mixed bag out there.  This is one that I am very grateful I read.  Good gospel perspective too.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Mar 07 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[An easy read with many great ideas!  A lot of it was common sense- but I need to be reminded of my &quot;common sense&quot; once in a while.  Great reminders and tips that I plan to try! ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Practical strategies to help you with relationships--with children and adults.  Great book.]]></body>
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