Have Mother, Will Travel: A Mother and Daughter Discover Themselves, Each Other, and the World

Have Mother, Will Travel: A Mother and Daughter Discover Themselves, Each Other, and the World

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A mother, a daughter, and a life-changing adventure around the world . . .

Their bestselling memoir, Come Back, moved and inspired readers with the story of Mia Fontaine's harrowing drug addiction and her mother, Claire's, desperate and ultimately successful attempts to save her. Now it's a decade later and Claire and Mia each face a defining moment in her life, and a mothe...more
Hardcover, 320 pages
Published July 17th 2012 by William Morrow (first published May 1st 2012)
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Meg - A Bookish Affair
"Have Mother, Will Travel" is a memoir by (perhaps unsurprisingly) a mother/ daughter duo. When they get a chance to go on a month long Amazing Race- esque trip that will take them to many different countries for a litany of experiences, they dive right in. They think that the trip may help to bring them closer together (and it does). This is the second book by the pair. The first book was called "Come Back," which explored the relationship between Claire and Mia as Mia is sent away to sort of a...more
McGuffy Morris
This mother-daughter pair first became known through their first memoir Come Back. They told their heart-wrenching story of Mia's all-consuming drug addiction, and Claire's dedication to saving her daughter.

Now it is ten years later, and both women want to move beyond what once was, and to refine their relationship and perhaps themselves. Claire and Mia want to have new adventures together and find common ground. They seek to re-establish a real bond with a new meaning.

This memoir tells that sto...more
Carolyn Thomas
Described as a "five-month around-the-world adventure...through twenty cities and twelve countries", this book was less a geographical journey than an attempt to describe the transformation of the relationship between mother and daughter, Claire and Mia. Both women are facing new challenges and changes in their personal lives and have drifted apart, but as they spend the summer together they begin to understand and appreciate each other in a whole new way. At times intensely personal, occasional...more
Donna
The complex relationship between a mother and daughter is discussed at length from the side of each of them. While taking a four month trip to various countries in Europe, these women share more than just an adventure. Mom learns as much about herself and her relationship with her own mother as she does about what's inside her own daughter's head and heart. They learn together, that this maternal/child relationship is much the same in every country they visit. Both come back vowing to make some...more
Suzzanne Kelley
Mom and daughter tell a pretty good tale, each taking turns with the narrative. The daughter's turn is always in italics, which is a little hard to read at first, but you get used to it. I only read the first half, which has some hilarious and some heartbreaking moments. The two women decide to travel together after a harrowing experience of child abuse and teen travails that led to the daughter being prescribed pretty harsh treatment for recovery. You read all about that in their first book.

Th...more
Meg
Claire and Mia Fontaine's Have Mother, Will Travel is a unique blend of memoir that both excites with its armchair travel opportunities and entices with its insights on the complicated, beautiful and challenging relationships between families. The women take turns narrating, each with a distinct voice and focus, we’re frequently treated to the “two sides to every story” lens as Mia and Claire discuss traveling, the past and their future.

What I loved most about the book — aside from, you know, th...more
Roxanne Palicka
Jun 09, 2013 Roxanne Palicka is currently reading it
I'm loving this book so far! This morning while making a potluck dish and cleaning up the kitchen, I listened to the audiobook and chuckled quite a bit. It made me want to keep cleaning so I would have an excuse to listen more. Someday I hope to travel with my daughters if we make it through these teen years intact! It's encouraging to hear about a mother and daughter who made it through some very tough years and came out of it understanding each other better and being able to laugh at themselve...more
Kara
I need to stay away from mother/daughter novels, memoirs, and other books that cover the same topic. They just never work out for me as enjoyable reads. And I do think it's because my own personal experiences color and influence my perspective. I thought with this one that maybe I would be able to see it from Claire's perspective and that it would perhaps open my mind and maybe see things differently, but no. You see, I have relationship problems of my own with my mother. I love her to death, bu...more
Christina (A Reader of Fictions)
Much as I love the books I read and it should be pretty evident from all of this blogging business that I really, really do, sometimes I worry that I'm becoming too set in my ways and not exploring genres and such enough. Well, in Have Mother, Will Travel, I ventured into an almost entirely new genre for me: the memoir. Sure, I've read a couple, like The Glass Castle, which I am one of the only people in the world not to like, but, mostly, I've avoided them. Thankfully, I have been rewarded for...more
Tammy
The book itself unfolds gently as both mother and daughter grow more comfortable opening up to one another and you the reader find your footing in their relationship. The pacing is quite perfect. At times, the sharing and candidness was so shocking yet so caring and empathetic that I was distracted by my own thoughts of "What if I had this kind of relationship?" Their ability to share their failures and successes is really quite enviable because it is not with fanfare or with an expected respons...more
Jaime (Twisting the Lens)
This is one of those memoirs that gives away nearly the entire story in the description. So, while reading, there really is not suspense or surprise as to what is going to happen. We know that there is going to be a lot of sentimental moments throughout the journey of the Fontaine ladies, and that they are going to relate their own experiences in life to those of the people and places they encounter along the way. Of course, they have the added struggle of their strained relationship due to the...more
Margie
My daughter, Kristin of Kritters Ramblings and I decided to "travel" through this book together. It is always fun to discuss books with her, but this one was especially interesting. It was fun to share our perspectives of each other, with each other. It seemed so appropriate to post this book on Kristin's birthday!

I really enjoyed the mother and daughter relationship. Some of the history was not interesting to me, but I am not much of a history person. Watching the mother and daughter react to...more
Olga Jacobi
While the first part of the book--ostensibly the "travel" heavy part--is interesting, what really rung true and insightful was the two-voiced reflections in the second half. The book serves as a careful reminder that while in some manner the mother-daughter relationship is slipped onto us by accident of birth, the core of the relationship is not, and can and does--grow in ways that we can help cultivate, if we take the time to practice some measure of self-awareness, and take pleasure in that sa...more
camilla
So I haven't read the first book this mother-daughter team co-wrote but I love traveling and I love my mom so I thought I'd love this. But I didn't. I loved the beginning when the duo is racing around the world in the Great Scavenger Hunt but then things stall a bit once they get to France. Maybe this is a better read for mothers but there was just soooo much reflection about the nature of a mother-daughter relationship. It just got a bit too mushy for me. I had to struggle a bit to finish this...more
Pamela
This book was a Goodreads giveaway win. Thank you, thank you!

I wasn't sure what to expect going into it; I've never read a travel memoir other than Eat, Pray, Love, which I really enjoyed. I was pleasantly surprised at just how much I enjoyed this book as well! I loved hearing the story from both's perspective, though I often got confused as to whom's voice was telling the story. (This is probably due to the fact that I don't have a lot of reading time, which leaves me setting book down/ picking...more
Elisa
I actually didn't finish reading the book. I really enjoyed it at first, but it got a little boring and there wasn't really very much "action" or story telling and I found myself falling asleep every time I'd try to read some more. I made it to page 168 out of 307 and just gave up. I actually ran out of time! I only had it on lend for 21 days and this is the first time I wasn't so engaged in a book that I didn't finish it within a week.

I'm not trying to discourage anyone from reading it, like I...more
Donna Ziegler
Despite the fact that I never understand how people have the money and time to drop out of their lives to travel for months, I truly enjoyed this book. Claire's fierce mothering style, the description of mother-daughter conflict and interaction, the travelogue, and the cross-cultural child rearing/lifestyle comparisons made this a very satisfying book for me.
Teresa
This was a goodreads win!! I loved loved this book...such a great story. I love memoirs and this was just a refreshing read. Being a mother of two girls in their twenties this touched my heart!
I did not read the first book "come back" but I certianly will after reading this!!!
I will highly recommend this book!!
Kim
Amazing, funny, heart-rending, superficial, and deep, all at the same time. Beautifully done in depicting the story of a mother and her daughter, and how they strengthen their relationship. I'm amazed at the honesty between the two of them, and shocked that they survived the events of their past.
Pam Wilbur
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Thoughtful
Great mother-daughter memoir about traveling the world together, seeing the sights, working through past hurts and seeing each other as women rather than 'mother' and 'daughter'.
Kristin (Kritters Ramblings)
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A piece of nonfiction which was perfect as a read a long with my mom! We were both provided the book for review and decided that it would be neat to read it together so we could talk about it.

I knew that it was written by a mother/daughter duo and assumed that I would fall in love with the daughter's voice because it would be so similar to my own thoughts as we are close in age, but this was not the case. From the beginning I loved reading the part...more
Lindsey
Read this book, then give it to your mom. Be prepared to cry, to laugh, and to explore the intensity and beauty of mother/daughter relationships. There were so many moments that moved me when I was reading this amazing memoir!
Mandy
I don't like reading in italics and I just got bored with the writing. I might have finished it eventually, but it was due back at the library.
Florinda
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Sharon Galligar
I really enjoyed this book. Seperated into chapters by mom and daughter, the reader follows on their once-in-a-lifetime adventure of traveling the world together, and not killing each other in the process!

This is a fascinating look at mother/daughter dynamics, and the Fontaine's skillfull storytelling puts the reader right into the story (and on the trip!) with them.

I highly recommend this book!
Amanda
A must read for mothers and daughters alike. While I did not read their first book, I thoroughly enjoyed this one.
Christine
Couldn't finish, did not enjoy narration and after 100 pages just realizes I didn't care what happened. Enjoyed Come Back so much more.
Aida
Much more than a travel book. i enjoyed the wit and humor as much as the insight into the enigmatic mother-daughter relationship. This is a book I will gift my mother and save for my daughters to read some day.
Lucy
I really enjoyed this book...it hit so many notes that were familiar to me as a Mother of a daughter and as a woman of a "certain age". I've recommended it to friends who have daughters and to my daughter as well.
Harvee
I did enjoy their travel narratives and interactions best of all.
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“Claire: One of the hallmarks of a mother-daughter relationship is what I call the Zero to Sixty Factor. We can get instantly irritated at each other and just as instantly move on… Men don’t get this. Paul will say, “Girls, stop fussing,” and we’ll immediately turn and say in unison, “We’re not arguing.” 3 people liked it
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