The Honest Truth About Dishonesty: How We Lie to Everyone--Especially Ourselves

The Honest Truth About Dishonesty: How We Lie to Everyone--Especially Ourselves

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The New York Times bestselling author of Predictably Irrational and The Upside of Irrationality returns with thought-provoking work to challenge our preconceptions about dishonesty and urge us to take an honest look at ourselves.

Does the chance of getting caught affect how likely we are to cheat?
How do companies pave the way for dishonesty?
Does collaboration make us more h...more
Hardcover, 285 pages
Published June 5th 2012 by Harper (first published January 1st 2012)
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Trevor
This might save you needing to read the book - http://www.thersa.org/events/video/vi...

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A few years ago I read Predictably Irrational – a book that remains one of my favourite books on Behavioural Economics. The research reported in that book has just about everything going for it – it is amusing, fascinatingly interesting, clever and fundamentally undermines the core dogma of our age, that we are economically rational agen...more
Oana Sipos
My rating is 5 because it is that kind of book which made me reflect upon my own behaviour. On the one hand, because of some mistakes and the stories I told to myself, and on the another hand because it was a confirmation for the times I felt really bad, as I was aware of my action.

First thoughts when trying to predict what is the book subject, were that it's most probably a book about cheating in relationships and cheating for becoming richer. Sorry to disappoint you, but it's not about cheati...more
Mike O'connell
After reading Ariely's first book, Predictably Irrational, I was looking forward to this one. It does not disappoint.

Airely is one of the nation’s top academics in the field of behavioral economics; he has taught and MIT and currently teaches at Duke. Sounds like what would make for boring reading, but in these books, designed for a wider audience, Airely brings humor, wit and fascinating overviews of experiments about dishonesty.

Some captivating examples…

-We are less likely to cheat if we sign...more
Sheryl Tribble
Some good info, some of it new to me. Well, a lot of it I had suspected, but I didn't know there had been studies on these thoughts. One I hadn't considered was the connection between lying and creativity; obvious once he explained the previous study but I hadn't thought of it that way before, even though I probably should have. I particularly appreciated the cross-cultural studies at the end, which I'd wondered about but had no real opinion on.

One thing he did not explore that I would have bee...more
Ben Thurley
Behavioural economist Dan Ariely argues against an economist's simple model of rational crime to demonstrate that cheating and lying is not simply a matter of weighing up costs and benefits, the rewards of lying or cheating versus the risks of detection and punishment. His central argument, that (particularly absent strong moral reminders) we all have make use of a certain moral "fudge factor" –how much we can get away with and still maintain our perception of ourselves as fundamentally decent,...more
Franci
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Harini Padmanabhan
I have enjoyed 2 books of Dan Ariely and both have influenced me into looking at myself in multiple levels. This one that way had to live up to high expectations and I have to admit that it effortlessly did. I loved the read and considering my long vacation I read it over a period of time and did not finish it in one sitting like i usually do.

There are multiple ways in which we lie to ourselves and coincidentally before reading the book i had been talking with people about how our moral standar...more
Deb
**A five-star read—no lie!**

The truth is that we all lie and cheat. (Refusing to admit that reality is just case in point!)

From the “innocent” white lie to the complex corporate scandal, the seeds of dishonesty lie within us all. Telling us like it honesty is, Dan explains that:
“We human beings are torn by a fundamental conflict—our deeply ingrained propensity to lie to ourselves and others, and the desire to think of ourselves as good and honest people. So we justify our dishonesty by telling...more
Whitedragon
Iedereen liegt wel eens of doet zich beter voor dan hij of zij is. In het boek "Heerlijk Oneerlijk" probeert Dan Ariely door middel van een aantal goed bedachte experimenten uit te vinden welke factoren van invloed zijn op de mate waarin mensen liegen en bedriegen.

Juist omdat leugens en bedrog in ons dagelijks leven zo vaak voorkomen is dit een interessant onderwerp om over te lezen. Ook onderzoekt Dan Ariely niet alleen hoe fraude onstaat maar ook hoe je fraude kunt tegengaan. Hier kun je als l...more
Malda
The honest truth is, we are all dishonest.

I want to share a real life scenario that happened with me just yesterday right after I finished reading Dan Ariely's new book The Honest Truth About Dishonesty.

The situation: An anonymous person at our office refills the office refrigerator with a dozen small water bottles, everyday. They’re stacked in the top compartment on their own, unlocked, unmarked, un-anything. They’re just there. Sinister, isn't it? Next to that fridge are two water coolers that...more
Andrew Macfarlane
Dan Ariely writes casually, informatively and convincingly on a topic that many of us will have pre-conceived opinions and hypotheses about. Dishonesty is part and parcel of being human, and as Ariely unravels, is often done for reasons other than being immoral/rebellious. As part of my own field, I have to read through academic psychology journals, and so it's a rewarding treat to have experimental methods told to me as if from a friend: you will find no 'x number of participants were recruited...more
Breakingviews
Review by Martin Langfield

It is said that the philosopher Diogenes the Cynic roamed ancient Athens with a lamp in daylight to search for an honest man. Dan Ariely, a professor of psychology and behavioral economics, uses more modern research techniques for a similar quest. He reports his findings in a new book, “The (Honest) Truth About Dishonesty.”

Diogenes said he found nothing but scoundrels. Ariely is more nuanced: most people will cheat, given half a chance, but only to the point where they...more
Alain Burrese
"The (Honest) Truth About Dishonesty: How We Lie to Everyone - Especially Ourselves" by Dan Ariely is a fascinating look at cheating and dishonesty. Backed by research, Ariely provides explanations for the unethical behavior that seems to be endemic from Washington to Wall Street, the classroom to the workplace, and everywhere else you turn.

It is interesting to see that irrational forces are often behind whether we behave ethically or not, and cheating and dishonesty are not merely derived from...more
Arvin
A really great look into the current research into how/why people cheat/lie to other people and even to themselves. The book is well written, well paced and I personally think the topics discussed are fascinating.

I really like Dan Ariely's (Professor of Psychology and Behavioral Economics at Duke, formerly of MIT) books because:

His writing is easy to understand and has a playful entertaining tone. His anecdotes always add to the topic being discussed - unlike Daniel Kahneman, Nobel prize winner...more
John
Didn't read it, listened to it on an audio book that included several interviews after the book ended. I found those interviews almost as good as the book itself. I'm not 100% convinced of the research in the book (because I'm not clear how many test samples and big the sample size for some of the assumptions in the book), but the test that were run seemed to be well-structured and some consideration of bias is considered. Trusting the findings, I did like hearing about how we fool ourselves int...more
Christine Cavalier
See this review on my blog: http://www.purplecar.net/2012/07/book...

I “cheat” on crosswords. I don’t cheat, exactly. I don’t look at the answer key; THAT would be Cheating, with a capital C. Instead, I cheat with a lower case c; I Google or Wiki the subject of the difficult clues online. This only works for clues with keywords like an author’s name or a movie title, but the answers I find give me enough forward motion to continue solving the puzzle. If I get stumped again, I scan the clues for m...more
Nik Conwell
Take home points:

Simple Model of Rational Crime (dishonesty based on rational analysis of cost/benefit of cheating, benefit of the crime, probability of getting caught, expected punishment) is completely bogus. Study was set up (solving math problems for $$), subjects did not cheat more when the payout (for cheating) was higher. It was actually less. Probability of getting caught? Study showed roughly the same amount of cheating as when there was NO chance of getting caught.

The more distanced f...more
Jaylia3
Entertaining, eye-opening, disturbing

This funny, fascinating, personal paradigm shattering book is in a genre I love, books that make me examine my thinking process, but this one caused me more soul searching than any other I’ve read. According to the Simple Model of Rational Crime (SMORC) we decide whether or not to be dishonest based on a logical, mathematically calibrated cost-benefit analysis, and we’d all be as dishonest as we could be as long as it brought us a benefit greater than the lik...more
Dale
To be published in June of 2012 (DWD's Reviews received an uncorrected proof advance copy) by Harper.

Dan Ariely's The (Honest) Truth About Dishonesty is a fun look at a serious topic - lying. Ariely, a professor of behavioral economics at Duke University, describes his simple experiments and details his results in a light, easy to understand way. His results are often surprising and counter-intuitive.

For example, it is often considered that people are dishonest because they have calculated the...more
Carl
Ariely is perhaps the most interesting social scientist writing today. This book is just as enthralling as his two others (and his engaging blog). (As I noted in my writeup about Jonah Lehrer's Imagine, I notice but am not troubled by what some may call self-plagiarism. Ariely does bring back notes he has made and experiments he has referenced in earlier texts. The context being different here, and the work being his own, I can't see any crime there -- even in a book about honesty and dishonesty...more
Taylor Ellwood
This was an intriguing and occasionally amusing book about the behavior of dishonesty and how dishonest people are in general. The author provided a variety of experiments and show cases where he demonstrated that there is some degree of dishonest in most people's behavior, though not so much that everyone is a thief or a crook. A lot of dishonesty ends up being based partially on altruism and in general people don't always weigh the benefit of being dishonest, so much as decide to do so for les...more
Jesse
Entertaining, quick read. Dan Ariely's books seem to be really popular right now, so I picked this up after Casey finished it. Ariely writes about dishonesty and cheating, and finds some not-entirely-unsurprising results:

- We don't perform cost/benefit analyses to decide whether to cheat
- We usually cheat in small amounts, presumably due to a sense of honor we like to keep about ourselves
- You're more likely to cheat if you see other people cheating
- Creativity tends to be linked to dishonesty (...more
Olivia
Dan Ariely (so far) never ceases to impress me in his quest to unlock the secret of human irrationality. In his third book, he puts dishonesty on the centre stage. I read it, I am hooked, I love it.

First, I admire his passion and ability to narrate researches using layman language in a way that makes readers feel as if they're involved in the journey. It makes me able to appreciate research more - you see something, no matter how trivial it is, that intrigues your interest, design the research c...more
Jon
So many times people want to say that if you've read these 47.5 words, you know everything this book has to offer and can go ahead and save your hard earned. Often I heed those warnings or try to find the book in the library.

However, I was so interested in the Wall Street Journal article which discussed this book from a few month ago, that I went ahead and took the leap. After all, I think I am an honest person. And I (think I) always strive to be more so - and especially to be a proper role mod...more
Grace
Author: Dan Ariely
Title: The (Honest) Truth about Dishonesty: How we Lie to Everyone—Especially Ourselves
Description: Ariely is a psychologist who has conducted many (slightly) varying experiments about the conditions under which people will be dishonest. Here he reports his findings in an accessible style in a book designed to give laypersons insight into their behavior and that of others.
Writing style: Blessedly free of academic jargon, thank goodness, but the endless variations on basically...more
Magdalene Lim
Social psychology is fun to read about and this book which focuses on lying does not disappoint. It was interesting to see which factors influence one's likelihood to cheat. Some findings seem obvious while others are surprising.

Two things stood out to me. One, that creative people are more likely to cheat because they can self-rationalize better and two, that of the 98574293742 who read this book, not many are going to put it into practice because it's kinda difficult and troublesome. I tried...more
Arun
Bravo to Ariely for doing the research and writing the book so that the reader can draw her own conclusions about dishonesty. I got more out of this book than the previous two books because this book extrapolates research on character traits for acting morally. Books like How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character focuses on character traits for success, so I was happy to get an analysis of honesty. Yet, I only gave this book 4 stars because (view spoiler)[althoug...more
Jacob
The rating is close here between 4 and 5 but I will tip it into the 4-star bucket because it doesn't quite live up to the promise of the title. I think about it a lot and I suspect it will be even more useful than the author's previous two books, but it doesn't build any real model of _how_ we lie, or _why_, other than destroying the "factor in the likelihood of getting caught and the severity of punishment" model. I have to admit I was interested in this book as soon as I heard about it; I like...more
Eric
Another great book from Dan Ariely on how we do - or do not - act in accordance to logic and rationality. All of his books, which center on behavioral neurology and specifically the "nonsensical" or irrational angles of it, have been fast enjoyable reads for me and this was no exception. He describes a number of experiments and methods - namely the "more dots on the right or left" and "how many matrixes did you fill out" - without dragging you into the muck of scientific methodology, and the app...more
Joaobispo
It's was enjoyable. Written by a social scientist, it is like a condensed and resumed version of his past research about cheating and dishonesty.

The conclusion? There are few people who are great cheaters, but most of us, if not all, cheat a bit. The interesting part, we cheat just enough to do the deed and feel honest anyway, by using some kind of justification.

In the end, this is a book about human psychology, and the pitfalls of our intuition and rationalizations. Some of the conclusions, fr...more
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Dan Ariely is the James B. Duke Professor of Behavioral Economics at Duke University. He also holds an appointment at the MIT Media Lab where he is the head of the eRationality research group. He was formerly the Alfred P. Sloan Professor of Behavioral Economics at MIT Sloan School of Management.

Dan Ariely grew up in Israel after birth in New York. He served in the Israeli army and...more
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