We Only Know So Much
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We Only Know So Much

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Jean Copeland, an emotionally withdrawn wife and mother of two, has taken a secret lover—only to lose him in a moment of tragedy that leaves her reeling. Her husband, Gordon, is oblivious, distracted by the fear that he's losing his most prized asset: his memory. Daughter Priscilla (a pill since birth—don't get us started) is talking about clothes, or TV, or whatever, and...more
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Published June 12th 2012 by Harper Perennial
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One hot mess. That’s the first thought that comes to mind. The story was told out of sequence; the characters proved unlikeable and sometimes odious; the entire family managed to engage in conversations without ever really talking about anything meaningful; relationships died faster than a daisy in the middle of a blizzard; the voice was quirky, at times eccentric, and it filled me up with about as much hope as a five car pile-up. But I enjoyed the hell out of it anyway. I can’t adequately expla...more
We Only Know So Much is a wonderful book, bursting with heart and wit. This is one of those books where you will laugh over and over because so much of the story of the Copeland family is so open and honest and human.

Crane was really effective in showcasing the concerns of each family member--Gordon, the loquacious, self-involved, deeply distracted father, Jean, the mother mourning the suicide of her lover, Priscilla, the bitchy daughter, trying to figure out what she's going to do with her lif...more
I've never had so much fun reading about such messed up people. Messed up people are always the most interesting (though I suppose everyone is messed up anyway and it is just where they are messed up that they are interesting), but it can sometimes be unpleasant to read about it. Interesting and pleasant are not the same thing. Crane balances wonderfully in this book. The characters go through some real bad times with their messed up selves, but I still found the book enjoyable to read. I have r...more
Christine Palau
My favorite type of book: funny, sad, super obsessive, dark and twisted, and so charming. I didn't want it to end. And in a way it doesn't just end. The P.S. is such a personal and honest account of the writer's background, her influences, and a little bit about the novel, the story behind it, from its inception at Yaddo to the changes from agent to editor to page. You get the sense that E. Crane is a very cool person, plus, she was on a DFW panel, which proves that she's special.

Add a star for not following the formula of adultery novels. Take away a star for the precocious kid who doesn't have words for all he understands; I wanted more from him than he was allowed in his story of not understanding what his mother told him and having that elementary school first love. Add stars for compassion for characters lacking self-awareness. Add two stars because her short stories have made me life-long loyal and this disconfirmed my hypothesis that people who can really do short...more
Brandon Will
This novel shows familial struggles so well from inside all sides you get to thinking: man, why doesn't Jean leave her husband Gordon, they're just miserable and can't even relate to each other, they're so wrapped up in their own struggles -- and then you think yeah, they have kids, so it's complicated, and they did care for each other, it was a long, slow progression of getting to this place, maybe they can get out of it, but then just no, sometimes relationships outgrow their potential for pos...more
Cannot even express how much I enjoyed this writing style. It flowed so freely & fluidly. If not for the chapter breaks, I probably would have read this book in one sitting, that's how difficult it was to put down.

The story centers around the various members of the Copeland family. There's Gordon - the dad, a kind of know-it-all, although he means well; Jean - the mom, a good person but a little preoccupied with her own issues as of late; Priscilla - the bitchy fame obsessed daughter; Otis -...more
I didn't hate this book, but I also didn't love it. It left me feeling "meh." There were parts that I really like. I liked Otis and his ill-fated love with Caterina, lover of jelly beans. I liked Theodore, and his relationship with Pricilla. I do think that much of this book is witty and funny. I'm just not sure what it's all supposed to add up to (or what we're to make of that move towards magical realism (maybe? I'm not even sure) at the end that seems to come out of nowhere. Really, no one wi...more
I LOVED this book- reading about the Copeland family had me laughing, cringing and crying almost at the same time. This family is one at a cross roads- each for a slightly different reason- each wrapped up in their own personal drama that they don't see the turmoil in the lives of those around them. This first novel will be one that sticks with you and makes you want to spend more time with this cast of characters.

This is a book I recommend for any one who loves Wes Anderson's movies as it has...more
Eh. The cover made me expect it would be barely disguised chick lit. But it was better than that. It was a portrait of all the people in one family. They didn't really seem to have a whole lot to do with each other, so it was more like a bunch of short stories about people who happened to be related. Which makes sense because the author says she always wrote short stories and when she tried to write a novel (I'm guessing her publisher asked her to do it), she didn't really know how. But that's b...more
a novel from a short story. and has wonderful letter to the reader and reading list and essay on the writing of the book. now for something completely different
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Jason Pettus
(Reprinted from the Chicago Center for Literature and Photography [cclapcenter.com]. I am the original author of this essay, as well as the owner of CCLaP; it is not being reprinted illegally.)

Former Chicagoan Elizabeth Crane is just a little too good a personal friend for me to claim I could do an "objective" review of her newest book, last year's We Only Know So Much (BONUS: Listen to my 2007 podcast interview with Crane); but I wanted to get a mention of it up here anyway because I enjoyed it...more
We Only Know So Much tells the story of the Copeland family - a seemingly happy family of 6 comprising of four generations - all living in the same house. The story is told from each character's point of view, and they are presented, flaws and all, very humanly and honestly. The characters appear as stereotypes but as the novel progresses we get deeper insight into each of their lives, from nine year old Otis to ninety-eight year old Vivian, and the others in between.

The novel embodies what I di...more
It takes a little time to get used to the writing style of this book. It has a first-person plural omniscient narrator (I had to look that up), with short, choppy, conversational sentences or half-sentences that might start with, "Okay, so..." This style of narration works for the book, though, which is an insightful look at six members of a family, ages 9 to 98. While they weren't necessarily likeable, there was never a character that I didn't want to revisit as the short chapters progressed. T...more
I pulled this book off the "new fiction" shelf at the library, and ended up loving it.

Covering a month or 2 of time in the lives of the 6 members of the Copeland family, each person narrates chapters, so we get 6 different perspectives on their family, their lives, and their household. Otis (9), Priscilla (19), Jean (mom), Gordon (dad), Theodore (76, Gordon's dad), and Vivian (95, Theodore's mom).

I love the narration style and different voices. This is a regular odd family, everyone does truly c...more
If you are hoping for a well defined plot, this is not the book for you. If, however, you enjoy interesting characters who evolve, a unique voice, and well-crafted words, I think you'll like this as I did. I didn't love it, but it was a fun, quick read. I held off from a 5 star rating because I do like when characters find more redemption that these did, and I didn't care for some of the subject matter. Crane's voice is enviable though, which might have been what I liked the most about this book...more
S.G. Wright
This novel wasn't for me. It's a quirky look at a family disconnected from one another, but it didnt seem to really go anywhere. I grew tired of the "Copelands." For more see my review at http://www.thecuecard.com/
Jeni Decker

This is a story about family in flux – not together in that, oh no – they’re separately in flux. Also of note: this is a character study, so if you’re turned off by lack of slick plot, you might want to put this one down.

But… if you do, what you’ll miss is the entertaining voice of the narrator, which is truly the best thing about this book. The narrator is a character itself, in that you’re constantly being told what he/she (it?) believes each of the characters is or might be thinking at any gi...more
We Only Know So Much is a wonderful book, bursting with heart and wit. This is one of those books where you will laugh over and over because so much of the story of the Copeland family is so open and honest and human.

Crane was really effective in showcasing the concerns of each family member--Gordon, the loquacious, self-involved, deeply distracted father, Jean, the mother mourning the suicide of her lover, Priscilla, the bitchy daughter, trying to figure out what she's going to do with her lif...more

What would we do without the ill functioning family as we know it today? We'd certainly have much less material to draw from to create fanstastically entertaining stories that might just make you feel better about your own, or at least not feel like you are the only one.

Meet the Copelands. We have four generations of characters here ranging from matriarch, Vivian and her son, Theodore to his son, Gordon, and his wife Jean, and then their kids, Priscilla and youngest Otis.

Elizabeth Crane takes u...more
This narrative might easily have appeared in comic strip form, such was the level of caricature. Like theater of the absurd, it contained moments that were at the same time hilarious and startling, leaving you hanging at the end with the uncertainty of what we can ever really know.
The only reason I completed this book is because I paid my hard earned money for it, it I hadn't I would have stopped it after the first chapter. The story was so disjointed, no real connections between the characters, not real direction to the story, ended abruptly with no real satisfaction to wrapping up the book.
Not the most exciting book I've ever read. The story of a messed up family that just can't seem to get itself together or help themselves out at all, I really wanted to shake them and knock some sense into them throughout most of it, but obviously couldn't.
Mar 31, 2014 Christy rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Christy by: Daily Candy Book Review
I really don't like 3rd person omniscient narrators, much like I don't like movies where the narrator talks directly to the viewer. I want to be a passive observer and narrators who talk directly to me are off-putting. This story covers a (typical?) dysfunctional family where are the members are caught up in their own lives, with little to no regard for one another. Self-absorbed father, cheating mother, entitled teenager and a naive nine-year-old. Maybe because of the 3rd person narrator, I nev...more
Elyse Rudin
3 1/2 stars. Well told dysfunctional family story. A 93 year old great grandmother, her son and grandson and his family of four all live together. Trials and tribulations abound but you come to love this family. A good read!!
Kay Marie
Im not even too sure what to think about this book.. I loved the writing style and I found the characters to be interesting most of the time. in the end though the book really is about nothing! just follwos the life of a family over time. I thought it ended entirely too aburptly. like the author got bored with their own thoughts. however the characters were developed well. I liked the daughter the most. just because she is exactly what I think most misguided youth are today. she just cares about...more
About half-way through. I find the voice of this book VERY interesting. The sentence structure appeals to me as well. I keep waiting to see where the story takes me. For whatever reason, when I started reading the book, I assumed it took place in the past. I was a bit surprised to find out it takes place now...

I picked this book up because the description mentioned something about the Royal Tannenbaums. Can't say the family is quite that interesting yet...

I enjoyed this book's voice the most. Th...more
I loved Crane's earlier works. With this book, I thought it was fine but not quite up to her usual standards for the first two-thirds. But the characters slowly took form and, by the end, I was sad to say goodbye to them. In assessing my lukewarm appraisal of this book, I should admit that I loved Crane's young, manic voice but that was not necessarily going to be (nor should be) sustainable and that the shift towards a more family-oriented plot and voice ended up being totally enjoyable. One la...more
Victoria Moore
"We Only Know So Much" by Elizabeth Crane is one of the most fascinating novels about a dysfunctional family I've read in a long time. It was enjoyable, witty and hip without being clichéd and well paced enough to hold my interest. Narrated as though the Copeland's (the family the story's about) were being observed as a case study in a psychological study each character is developed slowly and realistically throughout the story. The main thing tying the story together, and what makes it so comp...more
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Elizabeth Crane is the author of three collections of short stories: When the Messenger Is Hot and All This Heavenly Glory (Little, Brown) and You Must Be This Happy to Enter (Akashic Books). Her work has been featured in Other Voices, Mississippi Review, Bridge, the Chicago Reader, the Believer, and several anthologies including McSweeney’s Future Dictionary of America, The Best Underground Ficti...more
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