The Tools: Transform Your Problems into Courage, Confidence, and Creativity
A groundbreaking book about personal growth that presents a uniquely effective set of five tools that bring about dynamic change—as seen onThe Dr. Oz Show
The Tools offers a solution to the biggest complaint patients have about therapy: the interminable wait for change to begin. The traditional therapeutic model sets its sights on the past, but Phil Stutz and Barry Michels...more
The Tools offers a solution to the biggest complaint patients have about therapy: the interminable wait for change to begin. The traditional therapeutic model sets its sights on the past, but Phil Stutz and Barry Michels...more
Hardcover, 288 pages
Published
May 29th 2012
by Spiegel & Grau
(first published 2012)
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At the core of this book are some good ideas that most cognitive therapists would be familiar with. The authors have drawn from their many years of therapeutic practice to identify key areas of human difficulty and suggest ways of facing those problems.
The reasons for the low rating are:
1) I felt there was a lot of "padding" in the book to give it more length than it merited. There was a good core, but to me it didn't seem to justify the length.
2) Anybody who seriously expects me to embrace "hig...more
The reasons for the low rating are:
1) I felt there was a lot of "padding" in the book to give it more length than it merited. There was a good core, but to me it didn't seem to justify the length.
2) Anybody who seriously expects me to embrace "hig...more
I didn't manage to finish this book before it had to go back to the library, but I read most of it. It was ok, but some of the ideas were worded in a way that made you think that there was some outside spiritual force involved. There isn't when you actually read the chapter itself so this is an unfortunate use of words.
The ideas of the Tools is good, but as with all these type of books, if you are looking for a magic wand to end your problems you won't find it. You do have to put in the work!!
The ideas of the Tools is good, but as with all these type of books, if you are looking for a magic wand to end your problems you won't find it. You do have to put in the work!!
Make that leap, use this book to exponentially improve your life. This book gives you practical ways to conquer some of life's biggest issues! I LOVED this book. In fact, this is one of the most important books I have ever read!
*view problems as "portals to enter the world of untapped potential" and see problems' purpose as primary avenues to growth
* simple--but not necessarily easy--techniques called tools which change not only attitudes, but behaviors as well.
for those--
-If you ever find yours...more
*view problems as "portals to enter the world of untapped potential" and see problems' purpose as primary avenues to growth
* simple--but not necessarily easy--techniques called tools which change not only attitudes, but behaviors as well.
for those--
-If you ever find yours...more
**There’s a tool for that**
Pain.
It’s one of those inconvenient givens of life. Although we spend so much energy trying to avoid it, it makes a regular appearance in our daily lives: in our constantly playing thoughts of “things shouldn’t be this way; ” in the insecurities that hold us back from doing what we want to do and being who we want to be; and in the negative thought clouds that can easily black out the bright spots in our lives.
What a pain.
In their book _The Tools_, Phil Stutz and Bar...more
Pain.
It’s one of those inconvenient givens of life. Although we spend so much energy trying to avoid it, it makes a regular appearance in our daily lives: in our constantly playing thoughts of “things shouldn’t be this way; ” in the insecurities that hold us back from doing what we want to do and being who we want to be; and in the negative thought clouds that can easily black out the bright spots in our lives.
What a pain.
In their book _The Tools_, Phil Stutz and Bar...more
I was really interested by the ideas is this book, mostly because they are extensions of a lot of things I've been thinking about lately. The section about consumers vs creators particularly hit home, as lately I've felt especially beat down by the barrage of ads every single place I turn in life and the realization that their sole purpose is to create dissatisfaction.
To be honest, part of me feels stupid revealing that I've read a "self help" book. Mostly, they are just another thing to market...more
To be honest, part of me feels stupid revealing that I've read a "self help" book. Mostly, they are just another thing to market...more
Let me break down the analysis of this book into 3 parts.
Part 1 – What is this book about.
Part 2 - Outline of the Tools
Part 3 – What I really think about this book.
Part 1 – What is this book about?
By combining 60 years of hands-on working experience using the elements of Jungian psychology with the kind of practical approach found in Ellis' Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy, Psychiatrist Phil Stutz and Psychotherapist Barry Michels have designed an innovative approach to help clients sufferi...more
Part 1 – What is this book about.
Part 2 - Outline of the Tools
Part 3 – What I really think about this book.
Part 1 – What is this book about?
By combining 60 years of hands-on working experience using the elements of Jungian psychology with the kind of practical approach found in Ellis' Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy, Psychiatrist Phil Stutz and Psychotherapist Barry Michels have designed an innovative approach to help clients sufferi...more
I saw a review for this book, I think in Time Magazine, and thought it would be a great self help book. The authors are both psychologist that provide tools to deal with life problems in there psychotherapy approach with there patients. This book provides many of those examples.
The tools are
1. The Reversal of Desire - When you need to take action that you have been avoiding. This says we need to welcome trips outside of our Comfort Zone when actions need to be taken. I can say there have been th...more
The tools are
1. The Reversal of Desire - When you need to take action that you have been avoiding. This says we need to welcome trips outside of our Comfort Zone when actions need to be taken. I can say there have been th...more
The Tools is a self-help book that offers mental methods that can be used to change your attitudes and reactions. It’s not the type of book you read. You read, think about it, let it sink in, and then read some more. As such, it’s a good book to read before bed when you have time to relax and let your mind wander. It will take some time to digest, but offers plenty of food for thought.
Phil Stutz is an atheist who came to believe in higher powers that direct our lives. He insists that the tools u...more
Phil Stutz is an atheist who came to believe in higher powers that direct our lives. He insists that the tools u...more
I thought it was outstanding! Two psychiatrists accepted that "this just really isn't working" when they realised that encouraging their patients to talk endlessly about their past wasn't giving them any relief in the present day. They found they hadn't been trained to do anything else and so were forced to devise 5 visualisation exercises of their own that anyone can apply and practice for lasting inner change. The tools are simple and they worked for me - and they also have their own philosoph...more
An excellent self-help book that addresses the main problem of changing your life, either in therapy or with the use of a book, or both: it's not hard to change thinking and behavior at first, but it is hard to stick with it, and most of us give up, forget, or find temporary relief and then think we can stop being "different". This book advises that the tools within are to be used for the rest of your life, similar to the difference between going on a diet (and then gaining weight back after) an...more
Torn between one and two stars for this book, but finally went with one because of what I perceive as the underlying disingenuous nature of it.
I'm a big fan of taking action to change things, and if something works, it's hard to argue with. But this book managed to turn me off because it was positing unseen spiritual forces ("the Source") that we either need to believe in a priori, or exercise The Tools until we arrive at that connection. However, they're just playing with semantics: the authors...more
I'm a big fan of taking action to change things, and if something works, it's hard to argue with. But this book managed to turn me off because it was positing unseen spiritual forces ("the Source") that we either need to believe in a priori, or exercise The Tools until we arrive at that connection. However, they're just playing with semantics: the authors...more
This book has been flying off our shelves at work, so I'm going to see what it's all about!
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Now that I'm finished, I feel that my rating (5/5) requires a nuanced review...especially given how split the readership seems to be in regards to the ratings. Whether or not I'll achieve the nuance and success in explaining...we'll see.
So, overall this is an excellent book for people who want a real way to take control of the psychological issues that they face in their lives. Out of control emotions,...more
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Now that I'm finished, I feel that my rating (5/5) requires a nuanced review...especially given how split the readership seems to be in regards to the ratings. Whether or not I'll achieve the nuance and success in explaining...we'll see.
So, overall this is an excellent book for people who want a real way to take control of the psychological issues that they face in their lives. Out of control emotions,...more
We always hear that we've got to move on, let go and what not.. but how does one achieve this? What, specifically, does one have to do to get over one's fears, for example?
Well, this book provides you with some straightforward exercises to do this, and also other things.
Although none of the ideas expressed in this book are in any way different, I will still say that having these specific steps at hand really helps.
And the way that they have been explained makes it simpler to put into practice.
Of...more
Well, this book provides you with some straightforward exercises to do this, and also other things.
Although none of the ideas expressed in this book are in any way different, I will still say that having these specific steps at hand really helps.
And the way that they have been explained makes it simpler to put into practice.
Of...more
If you've read self-help or metaphysical stuff before, this is not new. Calling them "tools" may be, and they are presented in a way that's unique to these authors. But imagining myself at the end of my life when considering doing something -- well, I've been doing that for years, especially for big decisions. And pushing through pain by saying I accept it, well, Alanis Morissette told me in song years ago what I already knew, too -- the only way out is through.
If, however, you are new to this t...more
If, however, you are new to this t...more
First of all, if you are not a Believer, you're going to have difficulties with this book and the tools found within. The authors do a kind of sneaky-Pete maneuver, sucking you in via the secular self-help standpoint, shifting into a hard-core spiritual stance about 3/4 of the way in. I wasn't surprised; all five of the tools are variations on principles arrived at by various spiritual traditions for the pursuit of a happy, meaningful, fulfilled life, i.e. one of service and gratitude.
Secondly,...more
Secondly,...more
Jan 16, 2013
Sarah Stewart
rated it
4 of 5 stars
·
review of another edition
Shelves:
deep-thinking-books
I am starting to feel like I'm going to lose credibility because I keep saying, "Wow, this book was mind blowing." Its like the cream of the crop of the psychological literary offerings out there all came into my life THIS YEAR. I have always had issues with a therapy-centric community that feels that talking about and identifying your issues was enough. I craved specific things I could do to work through areas where I struggle. That is a good summary statement of this book. It addresses common...more
I received the “advance reader’s edition” free from Random House Publishing, so I hereby thank them for providing me with a valuable book. I honestly felt some obligation to read this sooner than later, and to write a review, but I do so happily, since I appreciate the book.
The authors present 5 simple metaphors and visuals to help think through, and overcome, common psychological difficulties and to help reevaluate priorities. Some of the resulting “thinking” is from the unconscious according t...more
The authors present 5 simple metaphors and visuals to help think through, and overcome, common psychological difficulties and to help reevaluate priorities. Some of the resulting “thinking” is from the unconscious according t...more
I didn't expect to find Yoda sharing the secrets for how to tap into the Force. Books like this bring out the skeptic in me, it was hard to get through it. I wonder if how I felt is similar to how the likes of Michael Shermer and Richard Dawkins feel when they read works by Christians--If so I pity them as they research. Phil Stuzz does share some decent "tools" like gratefulness and some other psychological tricks, and I have little doubt that some people trying these tools "feel" something tha...more
I read about this book in The New Yorker:
http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/20...
I was intrigued and borrowed it from the library. I liked that the authors are trained therapists and have a basis in classic counseling techniques. From this, they created their own counseling approach, comprised of practical tools. They both share their own struggles that led to the development of their techniques.
This book will not be appealing to others unless you can tolerate concepts of 'higher forces' and som...more
http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/20...
I was intrigued and borrowed it from the library. I liked that the authors are trained therapists and have a basis in classic counseling techniques. From this, they created their own counseling approach, comprised of practical tools. They both share their own struggles that led to the development of their techniques.
This book will not be appealing to others unless you can tolerate concepts of 'higher forces' and som...more
A good book as far as it goes. Which sometimes seems further than it actually does. The chapter on the shadow was promising, but ultimately weak. Underlying is an appeal to religious (as opposed to spiritual) notions of god....Which to me is a weakness. It grounds it in a limited source.
I was unimpressed by the authors not only suggestion, but assertion that they have mastered aspects of the Shadow beyond what Jung understood. I know Jung knew he was only beginning the conversation into these de...more
I was unimpressed by the authors not only suggestion, but assertion that they have mastered aspects of the Shadow beyond what Jung understood. I know Jung knew he was only beginning the conversation into these de...more
The Tools outlines a spiritual approach to overcoming negativity and hardship. Written by two psychologists - master and protege in Tools techniques - the book serves as an introduction and a handbook.
Five Tools are described, illustrated by stories of real patients. Each chapter begin with a problem, described through a real-life case. The authors then introduce the Tool and explain how it helps people overcome the problem. Each chapter concludes with several pages of frequently asked questions...more
Five Tools are described, illustrated by stories of real patients. Each chapter begin with a problem, described through a real-life case. The authors then introduce the Tool and explain how it helps people overcome the problem. Each chapter concludes with several pages of frequently asked questions...more
May 27, 2012
Mad_Maudie
rated it
4 of 5 stars
·
review of another edition
Recommends it for:
fans of Oprah Winfrey
I'm stuck between a three-star and a four-star rating, so I rounded up. I guess a 3.5 is accurate because I would take off half a star for profanity, which some people might find objectionable, and I deduct another point for the awful illustrations that I guess are meant to be cute.
Now, as for the tools themselves, I've started using them, and I can say that they do help. No, I'm not miraculously a different person overnight, but the writers don't make that promise. They're vrey direct about st...more
Now, as for the tools themselves, I've started using them, and I can say that they do help. No, I'm not miraculously a different person overnight, but the writers don't make that promise. They're vrey direct about st...more
I was sent an Advanced Readers Copy of this book, and I could not have been more excited to have received my first ARC, but just like ice cream on a hot summers day the excitement was short lived. In between the discolored red gradient I was browbeaten with this idea that the tools were the only way to live a successful life and that anyone that does not comply exactly with the rules is a consumer of the modern day culture, and without following their rules then you as a person are doomed to liv...more
I really liked this, more than I thought I would. Partially I think I liked it because I'd read the New Yorker piece, so I was primed to be open to these guys.
Plus I've used and am still using the tools, although not as often as I did. They do work - especially in my case, because I have a big bugaboo with shrinking in the face of disapproval. I step back from the hard stuff, in other words. So when I can really do the first tool on avoidance - step INTO the pain of what it is - I really find my...more
Plus I've used and am still using the tools, although not as often as I did. They do work - especially in my case, because I have a big bugaboo with shrinking in the face of disapproval. I step back from the hard stuff, in other words. So when I can really do the first tool on avoidance - step INTO the pain of what it is - I really find my...more
This is a hard read, not because its well written or because it makes one particularly introspective.. The air of condescension combined with the new age spiritual garbage really puts me off, and what's with the diagrams? The concept is not hard to follow, adding the stick men diagrams in an effort to ensure we all fully understand each "tool" is almost insulting, I'm fairly certain if we've picked up this book we are literate.. The diagrams are redundant.
I'm half way through, I'm going to finis...more
I'm half way through, I'm going to finis...more
I feel this is a very important and insightful book in human evolution. Stutz and Michels offer a way for each person to assume responsibility for their own individual development while contributing to the overall well-being of society as a whole. These guys are psychotherapists who felt the old model of spending years listening to clients talk about the past and saw a need for a new model that helped people grow and move forward in quickly in their lives without getting bogged down in the past....more
It's too early to tell if this book will change my life but I thought it was straight forward, honest and easy to understand. The authors have five rules or "tools" by which you should live your life. I am not totally convinced that these "tools" will solve every problem every time but they are certainly worth considering. I was a little leery when they started talking about The Source but after reading the entire book I understand where they were coming from and I agree with them. They correctl...more
I have to confess that I'm little bit skeptic about many ideas present in the book, but anyways, the book has a lot of interesting stories of people with psychological challenges and how they face it and get over it using the tools.
The Tools in summary are:
Build on top of by Heather's review (http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/...):
1. Reversal of Desire: Overcome avoidance of painful or difficult situations and get out of your confort zone.
2. Active Love: Deal with anger, prevent yourself pers...more
The Tools in summary are:
Build on top of by Heather's review (http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/...):
1. Reversal of Desire: Overcome avoidance of painful or difficult situations and get out of your confort zone.
2. Active Love: Deal with anger, prevent yourself pers...more
I got this book for freee through Goodreads First Reads. What I immediately liked was the fact that this book was easy to read, it didn't use a lot of jargon and was aimed at the average person. To me this made it not only accessible but easy to follow and understand. The chapters were clearly set out and were quite comprehensive often with diagrams to clarify points that were being made.
It was easy to relate points in the book to situations in my own life which I found particularly helpful as I...more
It was easy to relate points in the book to situations in my own life which I found particularly helpful as I...more
The book is twofold:
The description of the Tools, which are some nice intervention which you will find many alike in modern Therapy.
Nevertheless they are - as far as i can say it - good.
The second part is a spiritual concept which you can like or not.
The authors somehow switch between atheism and universe-theism, which is ok for me as long nobody tells me what the "higher power" wants me todo.
Too often this is just what this person wants me todo...
So - if you are not afraid of some spiritual con...more
The description of the Tools, which are some nice intervention which you will find many alike in modern Therapy.
Nevertheless they are - as far as i can say it - good.
The second part is a spiritual concept which you can like or not.
The authors somehow switch between atheism and universe-theism, which is ok for me as long nobody tells me what the "higher power" wants me todo.
Too often this is just what this person wants me todo...
So - if you are not afraid of some spiritual con...more
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