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Giving Up the Ghost: A Story About Friendship, 80s Rock, a Lost Scrap of Paper, and What It Means to Be Haunted

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At once hilarious and incredibly moving, Giving Up the Ghost is a memoir of lost love and second chances, and a ghost story like no other.

Eric Nuzum is afraid of the supernatural, and for good reason: As a high school oddball in Canton, Ohio, during the early 1980s, he became convinced that he was being haunted by the ghost of a little girl in a blue dress who lived in his
Paperback, 320 pages
Published August 7th 2012 by Dial Press Trade Paperback (first published January 1st 2012)
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Kate Carpenter
Aug 23, 2012 Kate Carpenter rated it really liked it
This book isn't really about ghosts. It's about sadness and growing up and the way the world likes to stifle the creative spirit. It's about friendship and loss and finding acceptable ways to express yourself when you can't get your brain to settle down. It's about darkness and acceptance of that darkness and how sometimes the world is poetry but mostly it's not. It's about how the very best thing about a person is often the very worst thing as well. It's about how it's amazing that anyone lives ...more
Jun 22, 2012 Chris rated it really liked it
Shelves: won-on-goodreads
I am so excited! I just found out that I won this book on GoodReads! I will read it as soon as I receive it. Thank you.

Came home from work to find the book waiting for me. I was surprised to get it so quickly! Thank you again. I will post again once I have finished reading it.

Great book. I read the preface and really wasn't sure it would interest me, but once I started reading I couldn't stop. In fact, I was annoyed to go to work without finishing it! I love books that I connect with so thorough
Aug 15, 2012 Caitlin rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2012
One of the best things about Giving up the Ghost is that it is not the memoir you expect. From the publisher's description it sounds like it's going to be sort of a search for information about his friend, but mostly a somewhat serious/somewhat silly romp through paranormal places. It's not that. Not even close.

If you were ever different as a kid, ever bullied or just shunned by the other kids around you, you're left with two basic choices: conform or defy them. Mr. Nuzum chose to defy his class
Scott Rhee
May 25, 2015 Scott Rhee rated it it was amazing
Everybody has a ghost story. I had what could be called a "paranormal" incident when I was younger, although as time passes and my skepticism grows, I often wonder if I imagined it.

There is a certain tragedy in that.

Eric Nuzum, in his book "Giving Up the Ghost" would probably feel the same way. Nuzum, a Canton native, was personally haunted, in his dreams and in his everyday life, by a terror-inducing vision of a young girl in a blue dress starting when he was about ten years old until his ear
Jul 17, 2012 Sarah rated it it was ok
Shelves: arc, own, nonfiction
With quotes on the back cover of my ARC from Chuck Klosterman and Rob Sheffield, I guess I was expecting quite a bit from this book. And I think seeing those two names had be expecting something very different from what I got. Additionally, I think the subtitle gives a different impression than what the book is really about. I'm not entirely sure I can elucidate what exactly this book is about - it's a memoir, I got that part covered. But is it about Nuzum's fear of ghosts, grown from an adolesc ...more
Jan 18, 2017 Diana rated it liked it
I found this book at Dollar Tree! The title intrigued me, so I figured I could take a chance on it, since I was only out a dollar. I'm glad I did.

The writing didn't blow me away or anything, but the author's story--about his close friendship with a girl during a turbulent time in his teenage years--was touching, evocative and original. I found myself tearing up several times throughout this story, and no matter what a book's shortcomings may be, if it can touch me that deeply, I am grateful.

If y
Sep 09, 2012 Barry rated it really liked it
I heard the author interviewed on NPR and I was pretty apprehensive at first- a guy talking about his dark and tangled teen aged years, 80s rock, and the paranormal? It could be right up my alley or force me to do serious neurological damage from severe and repeated eye-rolling. I'm pleased to report that this book fit into the former category. I appreciate the fact that the author resisted the urge to sum things up or package them a little more clearly cut than they originally occurred because ...more
Jul 09, 2012 Cynthia rated it really liked it
Every so often a book comes along that stays with you long after you've read the last word. This is one of mine. The author is obsessed with ghosts of all kinds. Ghosts in the attic. Ghosts in his memory. Ghosts in his heart. Giving Up the Ghost is an emotional amalgamation. On one hand, Nuzum's account of cruising a dark and forbidding road rumored to be haunted by everything under the sun and moon was so incredibly funny that I found myself reading passages to friends and co-workers. But it wa ...more
Jun 22, 2012 Stewart rated it it was amazing
I'm a sucker for a good memoir so when I won this book through Goodreads I was excited to give it a go. Giving up the Ghost is easily one of the best memoirs I have read to date. Although the entire book revolved around Eric Nuzum's experiences with ghosts and his own personal hauntings, it actually felt like a story that we can all relate to in some way. Of course we all might not be scared of the ghost of a little girl in a blue dress or enjoy hallucinogenics on a regular basis, but this memoi ...more
Like every one else, I went into this book thinking it would be one thing and left with something completely different. Do you know how rare it is to find a non-fiction book about mental illness that puts you in their shoes and makes you feel as if it were you experiencing it as if you were there? That opens your eyes to what really goes on in the mind of a teenager with mental issues and how to view it from their perpetive? That inspires you to want to march for the health and progress? This is ...more
Sep 10, 2012 Melissa rated it it was ok
This isn't a bad book, but it's not exactly a good one either. Two parts memoir and one part journalistic investigation of famous haunting sites, it would have been better off had it just stuck with memoir. It's not that I'm not interested in a journalistic investigation of famously "haunted" places, it's just that I'm not sure this book was the right place for it. The memoir parts of the book are much stronger than the ghost-hunting parts.

That said, the book suffered from many instances of seem
Joanna Liberty
I love reading memoirs, partly because my favorite class in high school was about writing memoirs. While I still don't think I really accomplished the goal of the class (writing an awesome memoir), I did learn quite a bit about the craft of the memoir. To me, a successful memoir is one that is the author's personal story yet other people are able to relate to their own lives, to learn from, to understand, and to take a message away from the story. In this respect, Giving Up the Ghost by Eric Nuz ...more
Jun 07, 2013 Sx3 rated it it was amazing
I selected Eric Nuzum's Giving Up the Ghost to read because it was compared to Rob Sheffield's Love is a Mixtape which I had liked very much.

Yet even though both books deal with death, Giving Up the Ghost hit a little closer to home for me so I couldn't read it in chunks. I had to take it in small bites or I would be overwhelmed with nostalgia laced melancholy.

Although I didn't grow up in Canton Ohio (where the author is from and where much of his memoir is based), I went from teenager to adult
Laura Morgan
Mar 08, 2015 Laura Morgan rated it really liked it
A rough read that took time for me to get through, not because it isn't a good book, because it is, but more so due to the personal points it hit that were hard on me personally. At times, I was so frustrated with things, like knowing who Little Girl was, knowing what the Mystery Poem meant, and understanding Laura more. But, that was the point, right? Sometimes the people who have the biggest impact on our lives are the ones we never seem to know completely, or we lose them far too soon, but th ...more
Andrea Blythe
Aug 24, 2012 Andrea Blythe rated it really liked it
Shelves: nonfiction
When I first saw the eerie cover and read the above description, I assumed this was a novel. It's not; it's a memoir. The instant I realized this was not fiction, the story became all the more compelling to me. A book about being really haunted? YES!

Nuzum neither presumes that ghosts are real or not real, he simply tells his own story with being haunted and how it became a contributing factor in a downward spiral of despair in self-destruction. While a teenager, Nuzum did many things that were u
M. Fenn
Sep 29, 2012 M. Fenn rated it really liked it
I received a copy of Giving Up the Ghost by Eric Nuzum as an Early Reviewer and I enjoyed it quite a bit. Nuzum's memoir deals with his troubled childhood and adolescence, the Little Girl in the Blue Dress who he thought lived in his attic, and Laura, his best friend he knew next to nothing about. It's a poignant tale, sometimes funny, written from Nuzum's point of view as a fairly successful adult as he tries to figure out his fear of ghosts. He travels to some of the best known haunted places ...more
Dec 14, 2014 Kali rated it really liked it
I didn't actually pay attention to what this book was when I picked it up on a friend's recommendation, so I was 2/3 of the way through before I realized it was a memoir and not fiction.

Most of the book reads like a novel and I found it a very engaging, quick read. It's a combination of a coming-of-age story and an exploration of haunted places, with ghosts as the common theme tying everything together.

Nuzum can't quite keep the fiction feeling up through the end, but since it's a memoir I wil
Aug 26, 2012 Brian rated it did not like it
Oh man, I wanted to love this book. It's about, among other things, lost love, haunted places, and it's set in Ohio. I even interrupted reading two other books to read this one because I was so excited about the possibilities. However, it just never comes together into anything other than essentially a list of events and a bunch of cliched conclusions.
Peter Derk
Feb 11, 2013 Peter Derk rated it it was ok
It's hard to give a book like this a bad review because my feelings about the author and my personal feelings about this whole situation definitely come into play. It's a hard thing. You might want to give a book a two-star rating, but somehow differentiate that from giving a person or his life a two-star rating. The guy clearly went through some very rough things, and I don't want to armchair quarterback his life.

The book feels, to me, like it was written too soon. In the thick of the whole th
Vivi Vo
Dec 20, 2013 Vivi Vo rated it it was amazing
Eric Nuzum tells the story of his ordeal in the book Giving Up the Ghost and how he plans to overcome his phobia of ghosts, mainly revolving around a blonde girl and in a blue dress who he believes is haunting him, both in his dreams and every aspect of his life. He starts his book reminiscing about his high school years in Canton, Ohio where he introduces his crush to his best friend at Puttolinks, a closed and rundown golf course. Every person that Eric meets die within a couple months of know ...more
Eric Nuzum grew up in Canton, Ohio in the 80's. While he was in high school, he believed himself to be haunted by a ghost - a small girl in a blue dress who lived in his attic and showed up in his dreams. Whether She was a spectre, a ghost, a warning, or just a drug-induced hallucination, the result was Nuzum being committed to a psych ward. Numbing himself with drugs and alcohol, failing his classes, slowly pulling away from life, Nuzum had one thing keeping him from ending it all - a friendshi ...more
Jan 01, 2013 Cemeterygal rated it really liked it
I heard the author interviewed on NPR, which made me want to read this book. I really wanted to like it and like it a lot, and I did like it. Was it was different than I expected? Yes. If you are the type of person who wants everything answered at the end of a book and tied up in a neat little bow, you will be disappointed (I admit I was--I want the neat little bow). There are some mysteries in this book that are never resolved. But that's life. Sometimes there are things that happen in our live ...more
Meghan O'Dea
May 13, 2016 Meghan O'Dea rated it really liked it
The subtitle advertises this book as one about 80s rock, in the marketing vein of Rob Sheffield's "Talking to Girls about Duran Duran" or "Love is a Mixtape." Yet what Nuzum has done, more than write a book about his adolescence and what he listened to during it, is write a book about his adolescence and Canton, Ohio. This is an imperfect book built on an imperfect premise-- the interstitial ghost hunting sections feel like the operate more by the logic of a man writing a book and needing materi ...more
Andrea Mullarkey
May 16, 2013 Andrea Mullarkey rated it liked it
Shelves: memoir
I was so suckered by the subtitle on this book. I mean, there was no way for me to resist “a story about friendship, 80s rock, a lost scrap of paper, and what it means to be haunted.” I should have guessed it was mostly going to be a ghost story, but that little 80s rock hook and the possibility that everything could hinge on a tiny piece of paper was too enticing. Never mind that it has a 133 call number. Still it was a fairly straightforward memoir about a young man who is haunted by the ghost ...more
Sep 09, 2012 Kerfe rated it really liked it
Nuzum's personal demons affirm the fragility and ephemeral nature of our relationships to past, present, future, to each other and ourselves. Some parts of life will always remain a mystery: "Because life isn't neat and binary and clean; life is messy, troubled, and leaves ghosts in its wake."

The insecurity and sense of disconnect that is American adolescence comes across strongly in Eric's story. The fact that his experience was more exaggerated and intense than most, his hold on normal routine
Aug 04, 2012 Maraezimmerman rated it really liked it
Eric Nuzum has written a very engaging, sometimes intense book on what it means to be haunted, both by traditional ghosts and by life events. Nuzum takes us to some of the most haunted places in the U.S., in an attempt to find and confront his fear of ghosts. Interspersed throughout his current life are chapters on his childhood, teenage and early 20s, and how he was haunted by the ghost of "Little Girl." Throughout his ordeal, his only true friend is a girl named Laura, who has since also died. ...more
Jan 09, 2013 Crysta rated it it was amazing
Given that one of my roommates considers herself an amateur ghost hunter, when I unpacked this book at my job at a metaphysical bookstore, it instantly grabbed my attention. Also, I like 80s rock. I debated whether to give this a 4 or a 5 star rating, but in the end, I decided it was worthy of a 5 since I spent an entire shift with the ghost of the book floating around my head taunting me to read more. I finished it in about 3 days, staying up until 4am the last night because there was only a *l ...more
Jennifer Osterman
Jul 25, 2012 Jennifer Osterman rated it liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
I found this memoir to be exactly what Rob Sheffield described it as: "...powerfully sad and evocative...". I was drawn into the story of Nuzum's terror, his psychiatric decline, his experience as a misfit and social outcast, but it never struck me as hilarious. It was moving, sympathetic, intriguing, mystifying...amusing, but never all that funny, to me. That isn't to say that I wasn't raptly engaged in Eric's ghost hunt - both of the ghosts of the past and of the future. I found both parts of ...more
PJ Malik
Jul 09, 2012 PJ Malik rated it really liked it
As an adult who is also afraid of ghosts, I wasn't sure what to expect with this book. I wasn't sure if the story would be frightening, resulting in my needing to read it during the daytime, or something else.

Eric's story reminds me of the restlessness of youth, searching for meaning and finding confusion. Reading about his journeys to re-trace his youth made me laugh, and made me introspective about my own paths. His explorations of what it means to be haunted are thought provoking. By revisit
Apr 06, 2015 Lillian rated it really liked it
This is a great story. The misfit protagonist of this memoir captured my sympathy immediately with his pain, his sense of humor, and his powers of observation. The honesty and the effort at clarity make for an intriguing journey through Eric's nightmares about the Little Girl in the Blue Dress, his complex relationship with his best friend Laura, and the paradox of his need to disappear yet his drastic behaviors. A combination of drugs, alcohol, and sheer terror land him in the local mental ward ...more
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ERIC NUZUM is a recovering pop culture critic, VH1 pundit, and author of Giving Up the Ghost: A Story About Friendship, 80s Music, A Lost Scrap of Paper, and What It Means to be Haunted (2012), The Dead Travel Fast: Stalking Vampires from Nosferatu to Count Chocula (2007/2008) and Parental Advisory: Music Censorship in America (2001). He writes a lot of inane stuff that falls somewhere between the ...more
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“If there is one thing I'd learned about hospitals, it's that they aren't interested in healing you. They are interested in stabilizing you, and then everyone is supposed to move on. They go to stabilize some more people, and you go off to do whatever you do. Healing, if it happens at all, is done on your own, long after the hospital has submitted your final insurance paperwork.” 21 likes
“Right there in that room, listening to the tape Laura gave me, I decided that I wanted something more than what I’d allowed myself to become. Listening to the voices and piano notes fade in and out, I decided that I wanted to be happy. If I had to fight for things in life, I wanted to fight for something bigger than the right to eat with a fork. I wanted to love and be loved and feel alive. I had no idea how to find my way, but listening to that music wash over me, I felt, for the first time, that the struggle I faced would be worth it.” 4 likes
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