The Soldier's Wife
Dan Riley is a major in the British Army. After a tour of duty in Afghanistan, he is coming home to the wife and young daughters he adores. The outside world sees these reunions as a taste of heaven after months of hell. But are they? How does a man who's trained to fight adjust to family and domestic life? And how does the family cope if he can't? How much can Dan's wife,...more
Hardcover, 352 pages
Published
February 2nd 2012
by Doubleday
(first published 2012)
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I won this book from First Reads in May of 2012. Two Three almost four months later and it has still not arrived. Hmm..
I've contacted the publisher and Goodreads support and still have not received the book. I think we can consider this my negative review.
Final Edit: Not only have I contacted the publisher but contacted Goodreads support 3 additional times and they ensured me they would get back to me about it. It's been just shy of 7 months now and there's been no responses or book. I give up o...more
I've contacted the publisher and Goodreads support and still have not received the book. I think we can consider this my negative review.
Final Edit: Not only have I contacted the publisher but contacted Goodreads support 3 additional times and they ensured me they would get back to me about it. It's been just shy of 7 months now and there's been no responses or book. I give up o...more
Alexa Riley is home, alone, waiting. Today is the day Dan returns home from his military tour in Afghanistan; six months away from home, the marriage, the children, everyday life. How will it go? The books all say there will be a period of adjustment, but that doesn't apply to them and their storybook marriage. Does it?
But once Dan is home, things are different. Alexa has changed and so has Dan and there are many other factors to consider. Alexa is offered a great job, but one she knows she cann...more
But once Dan is home, things are different. Alexa has changed and so has Dan and there are many other factors to consider. Alexa is offered a great job, but one she knows she cann...more
It is difficult to be the family member of someone in the military whether they are deployed or not. The military always seems to come first and non-military family doesn’t understand what their loved one is going through. My brother was in the Army and was deployed overseas two or three times. I know it was difficult for our parents and even more so for his wife. It was hard for him adjusting when he returned to the States and at times I did not recognize the man my brother had become. Many rel...more
From the first page, I wanted the Rileys to make it through as a unit. Dan Riley knows all about protecting the unit as part of his British army training and experience, so why can't he keep his family unit together and happy? Alexa Riley has lost one husband already and can't bear to lose another one.
It's amazing how two people so in love can stop talking, stop listening. But that's exactly what happens to them. Thanks to wonderful friends and family, help is never far away. But in the end, it'...more
It's amazing how two people so in love can stop talking, stop listening. But that's exactly what happens to them. Thanks to wonderful friends and family, help is never far away. But in the end, it'...more
Probably one of my least favourite of her books and I've read them all. The reason is, I think, because she is writing about experiences and situations without first hand knowledge. This is what makes her books about upper middle class families and their trials so compelling and surely drawn In this case, she seems to be going from notes of interviews and of articles read, and a bit of imagining as to what it would be like to be the wife of a soldier returning from active combat. One of the thre...more
Does marrying a soldier mean marrying the army?
When Major Dan Riley returns from a six month tour of Afghanistan, his wife Alexa, expects his return to England to be difficult, and she is aware that allowances will have to be made in order to ease the transition from life on the battlefield, to life at home. However, she is unprepared for the sheer volume of work that engulfs Dan on his return to barracks, and his commitment to his band of brothers threatens to ruin Alexa and Dan’s once strong...more
When Major Dan Riley returns from a six month tour of Afghanistan, his wife Alexa, expects his return to England to be difficult, and she is aware that allowances will have to be made in order to ease the transition from life on the battlefield, to life at home. However, she is unprepared for the sheer volume of work that engulfs Dan on his return to barracks, and his commitment to his band of brothers threatens to ruin Alexa and Dan’s once strong...more
Dan is husband to Alexa, father to twin girls, Flora and Tassy, stepfather to Isabel, son, grandson, son in law, friend and soldier. On return from a six month deployment in Afghanistan Dan cannot seem to find what he is anymore. Being a soldier is the easiest for him than returning to family life, the army life gives him more structure, purpose and plenty of knowns. Families bring plenty of unknowns and no orders on how to deal with them.
Alexa adores her husband and knew exactly what she was g...more
Alexa adores her husband and knew exactly what she was g...more
A writer such as Trollope can take a reader and place her (more likely)/him (considerably less likely) into a groove from page one and transport seamlessly through a three hundred or so pages to, invariably, a neat, satisfying resolution. When on song, as she is in this novel, the reader will lose all track of time as this skilled practitioner inveigles the reader to care about her protagonists to the degree that there is always an unsatisfactory sigh emanating as the book is placed to one side...more
The Soldier's Wife follows Dan and Alexa Riley and their extended family and friends in the time following Dan's return from a deployment to Afghanistan. Being a member of a military family can be very difficult, and we see how it affects not just Dan and Alexa, but their daughter Isabel, who has been sent to boarding school to prevent frequent school changes that come with frequent transfers common in the military, Alexa's parents; Dan's father and grandfather; Gus, Dan's army buddy, and his wi...more
I listened to this book on audio and three of the CDs in the middle of the book were misnumbered. I ended up listening to a good portion of the book out of order before I realized the error. I thought it was just really disjointed story! Anyway, I listened to a review copy so I'm assuming (hoping) that the CDs are labeled correctly on the final copy.
Charlotte Anne Dore did a good job with the narration. I'm not familiar with the different regional accents in England but I did notice that some of...more
Charlotte Anne Dore did a good job with the narration. I'm not familiar with the different regional accents in England but I did notice that some of...more
I’m giving this book, three and a half stars. I pounced on this when I saw it at the library as I like Joanna Trollope’ s books and adore her one prior to this Daughters- in-Law. Perhaps part of the problem with this one was my expectations were too high and then I found it hard to get into at first, as I didn’t warm easily to the characters, especially Dan.
However, once it got going I became involved in the story of Alexa, married to Dan who has just returned from six months tour if duty in Af...more
However, once it got going I became involved in the story of Alexa, married to Dan who has just returned from six months tour if duty in Af...more
I enjoy books by Joanna Trollope. Mostly they involve family life in the UK and often have a current issue to be explored. In the novel, Trollope takes on the difficulties faced by the families of active servicemen in the armed forces.
The novel opens with the return of a regiment to Britain after deployment in Afghanistan. What should be a happy reunion with immediate families turns out to be problematic. The soldiers themselves find it hard to adjust to family life and are still closely attache...more
The novel opens with the return of a regiment to Britain after deployment in Afghanistan. What should be a happy reunion with immediate families turns out to be problematic. The soldiers themselves find it hard to adjust to family life and are still closely attache...more
With the title it seems that Joanna Trollope wants you to compare it to the Rector's Wife, which I read about 20 years ago. The books are certainly comparable - they both concern women dealing with being married to men who are married to their careers. Without going back and actually reading the previous book I thought this seemed like a stronger story that came up with more answers than the Rector version, but the fact that I'm twenty years older with far more relationship experience myself mig...more
Book jacket summary:
Dan Riley is a major in the British Army. After a six month tour of duty in Afghanistan, he is coming home to the wife and young daughters he adores. The outside world sees those reunions as a taste of heaven after months of hell. But are they? Can a man trained to fight adjust again to family and domestic life? And how will the family cope, if he can't? To what extent can Alexa, Dan's wife, sacrifice her own needs and fulfilment to support his commitment to a way of life tha...more
Dan Riley is a major in the British Army. After a six month tour of duty in Afghanistan, he is coming home to the wife and young daughters he adores. The outside world sees those reunions as a taste of heaven after months of hell. But are they? Can a man trained to fight adjust again to family and domestic life? And how will the family cope, if he can't? To what extent can Alexa, Dan's wife, sacrifice her own needs and fulfilment to support his commitment to a way of life tha...more
I quite enjoyed this, though I'm unlikely to read anything from the author again. This sort of literature really isn't my cup of tea. Too realist, middle class, mundane.
It's about a young woman, Alexa, who has two three-year old twins with her husband, Dan, who's about to return from a tour of duty with the British Army in Afghanistan, plus Alexa's daughter, Isabel, with her first husband who died young. Isabel's been having a rough time at boarding school, where she is placed for stability and...more
It's about a young woman, Alexa, who has two three-year old twins with her husband, Dan, who's about to return from a tour of duty with the British Army in Afghanistan, plus Alexa's daughter, Isabel, with her first husband who died young. Isabel's been having a rough time at boarding school, where she is placed for stability and...more
I will start this review by saying I am a Navy wife so I understand the issues faced by Military families.
I found this book to be very true (from my own experiences.)
The homecoming after a deployment is always difficult, the excitement at seeing your loved one again is often plagued with doubts about what will they be like, have I changed, have they changed?
The kids adjust quickly to having their parent back but the adults often find it harder to adjust. The serving parent doesn't know how quick...more
I found this book to be very true (from my own experiences.)
The homecoming after a deployment is always difficult, the excitement at seeing your loved one again is often plagued with doubts about what will they be like, have I changed, have they changed?
The kids adjust quickly to having their parent back but the adults often find it harder to adjust. The serving parent doesn't know how quick...more
The Soldier's Wife is about a wife waiting for her husband to get home from Afghanistan. While he is gone, she struggles with her daughter and her own hopes and dreams. While I empathize with those who wait for loved ones in the military, their problems are much like those of civilians. Teenagers have problems, marriages have ups and downs and sometimes one decision can have a huge impact on everything else.
Joanna Trollope handles the material with subtly and compassion. The reader finds themse...more
Joanna Trollope handles the material with subtly and compassion. The reader finds themse...more
A great insight into military families and the difficulties they face when a loved one returns from a war zone. But, most importantly, a story of "family" in all its variations: nuclear and extended, friends, military family, and the many kinds of support each can offer. This is my first Joanna Trollope novel, but it won't be my last.
Dan Riley is a major in the British Army. After a six month tour of duty in Afghanistan, he is coming home to the wife and young daughters he adores. The outside world sees those reunions as a taste of heaven after months of hell.
But are they? Can a man trained to fight adjust again to family and domestic life? And how will the family cope, if he can't? To what extent can Alexa, Dan's wife, sacrifice her own needs and fulfilment to support his commitment to a way of life that demands everything...more
But are they? Can a man trained to fight adjust again to family and domestic life? And how will the family cope, if he can't? To what extent can Alexa, Dan's wife, sacrifice her own needs and fulfilment to support his commitment to a way of life that demands everything...more
I love Joanna Trollope's novels for their insightful examination of human relationships and human frailties. The Soldier's Wife is set mostly on a military base in the UK, and focuses on the challenges facing personnel in the modern Army. What sacrifices must a woman make when she commits to the life of an army wife? What compromises are necessary? How does a long deployment impact on the emotional health of both partners? Through central couple Dan Riley, a major in the British Army who is just...more
Another excellent novel by Joanna Trollope. In this novel she examines the difficulties faced by soldiers returning from a dangerous tour of duty in Afghanistan. One would imagine that reunions with wives and families at home would be joyous for everyone concerned, but in this novel, this is not the case.
Joanna Trollope explores the difficulties faced by soldiers and the families who have waited to welcome them at home. In this day and age it is not enough for many soldiers' wives to be home-ma...more
Joanna Trollope explores the difficulties faced by soldiers and the families who have waited to welcome them at home. In this day and age it is not enough for many soldiers' wives to be home-ma...more
The Soldier’s Wife by Joanna Trollope is a slow-burn read. Almost so slow-burning that the story failed to catch alight. But slowly, slowly the characters and their problems drew me in and I found myself reading avidly.
The soldier in this story is Dan Riley – a major in the British Army. He has just returned home after a six-month tour of duty in Afghanistan. His wife, Alexa, has been left caring for twin toddler daughters and Isabel, her twelve-year-old daughter from her first marriage. The sto...more
The soldier in this story is Dan Riley – a major in the British Army. He has just returned home after a six-month tour of duty in Afghanistan. His wife, Alexa, has been left caring for twin toddler daughters and Isabel, her twelve-year-old daughter from her first marriage. The sto...more
Alexa Riley is the wife of a British Army major who has just returned with his men from a six month deployment in Afghanistan. Physically he's back. Mentally, he is still in "The Zone." Alexa's twelve year old daughter is miserable at boarding school and three year old energetic twins barely know their father. And she'd like to resume her professional life. But military families must follow protocol, not make waves and be ready to move on short notice. The tensions brought about by these various...more
The story of Alexa Riley and her husband Dan, who is a major in the British army. Dan has just returned from a 6-month stint in Afghanistan, and the Rileys are trying to adjust to life after his return. Alexa is considering the offer of a teaching job but is torn between the desire for a career and her loyalty to her husband and the Army. Dan is struggling with life back on base while trying to help his fellow soldiers. The entire family is on the verge of breaking down.
This was my first Joanna...more
This was my first Joanna...more
This story was very different from anything I have ever read, in that it deals with modern home life in the British Military. Alexa Riley welcomes her husband home from Afghanistan but finds that Dan can't quite make the switch from the intense comraderie with his army mates to being a husband and a father. I enjoyed reading about life on a army post in England. I realize that this is a problem that can occur with any soldier, British, American, or whatever. We owe these men so much and just don...more
The inner workings of a British soldiers' family are on display in this very insightful story. Dan is home from from Afghanistan, at least physically, although his emotions are still very much with his men as he seeks to assist them in acclimating back to their home life. Wife Alexa and three daughters are left to continue on their own, as Dan cannot seem to reconnect as needed.
The couples' parents and grandparents give the family lots of space at first, but then combine to offer their support a...more
The couples' parents and grandparents give the family lots of space at first, but then combine to offer their support a...more
This is probably the best JT novel I've read yet, and certainly one of the best books I have read this year. It highlights the complexity of army life and the fact that the soldier's life has a knock on effect to the family, children, spouses etc. of all of those left behind. I could actually feel the main characters pain and anguish and felt aggrieved that it seemed as though nobody, even her closest friend was on her side. So hot on the heels of "Military Wives"; it would be good if people wer...more
Who knew there were four other books called The Soldier's Wife? Thanks, Goodreads! I always find Joanna Trollope's writing to be rather cool and aloof, which I confess I admire, and this book is no different. I loved the father and grandfather characters, but found Alexa (the wife of the title) to be a bit of a nothing. I wasn't sure what interested or motivated her - and she didn't seem to have much genuine affection for her hubbie at all. Maybe I'm not British enough, and she was in fact throb...more
Trollope's novels are always pleasurable -- she's so much better than most "domestic drama" authors -- but this one left me a little cold. It's the first of her books that felt like it was trying to educate us about a Big Issue (the problems of military families), rather than describing difficulties that might occur in any marriage. However, and I may have said this before in my reviews, nobody writes kids' dialogue better than she does. The nutty twin toddlers in this one are particularly (and...more
Just finished "The Soldier's Wife," by Joanna Trollope. Having read 8 or 9 previous novels by Trollope, I have to say that this was the weakest, by far. HOWEVER, even a mediocre novel by Trollope standards, is a good novel when compared to other writers. It was the story that lacked something for me, rather than the writing itself, which is always brilliant when penned by this author. I just had trouble feeling much deep empathy for the characters, other than a grandfather and great grandfather...more
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Joanna Trollope Potter Curteis (aka Caroline Harvey)
Joanna Trollope was born on 9 December 1943 in her grandfather's rectory in Minchinhampton, Gloucestershire, England, daughter of Rosemary Hodson and Arthur George Cecil Trollope. She is the eldest of three siblings. She is a fifth-generation niece of the Victorian novelist Anthony Trollope and is a cousin of the writer and broadcaster James Trol...more
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Joanna Trollope was born on 9 December 1943 in her grandfather's rectory in Minchinhampton, Gloucestershire, England, daughter of Rosemary Hodson and Arthur George Cecil Trollope. She is the eldest of three siblings. She is a fifth-generation niece of the Victorian novelist Anthony Trollope and is a cousin of the writer and broadcaster James Trol...more
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