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The Soldier's Wife

3.21 of 5 stars 3.21  ·  rating details  ·  1,057 ratings  ·  207 reviews
After six months away in Afghanistan, the soldiers come home to their girlfriends, wives, parents, and children. After six months of hell, being home will surely be heaven. Except that it isn't. When Dan returns home to Alexa and their children, it's still the army that comes first.
Hardcover, 352 pages
Published February 2nd 2012 by Doubleday (first published 2012)
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I will start this review by saying I am a Navy wife so I understand the issues faced by Military families.

I found this book to be very true (from my own experiences.)
The homecoming after a deployment is always difficult, the excitement at seeing your loved one again is often plagued with doubts about what will they be like, have I changed, have they changed?

The kids adjust quickly to having their parent back but the adults often find it harder to adjust. The serving parent doesn't know how quick
Star (The Bibliophilic Book Blog)
It is difficult to be the family member of someone in the military whether they are deployed or not. The military always seems to come first and non-military family doesn’t understand what their loved one is going through. My brother was in the Army and was deployed overseas two or three times. I know it was difficult for our parents and even more so for his wife. It was hard for him adjusting when he returned to the States and at times I did not recognize the man my brother had become. Many rel ...more
Sheena Wilkins
I have a thing about finishing every book I start, otherwise I would have closed this and sent it to the charity shop.
I have read a couple of her books and quite enjoyed them but I was totally BORED by the storyline which I found extremely laboured and I did not warm to one single character. Not one. I get the message - my bother in law was an officer in the Royal Navy for over twenty five years, served in Korea and the Falklands and the family moved around 16 times. My niece eventually boarded
Joanne D'arcy
Dan is husband to Alexa, father to twin girls, Flora and Tassy, stepfather to Isabel, son, grandson, son in law, friend and soldier. On return from a six month deployment in Afghanistan Dan cannot seem to find what he is anymore. Being a soldier is the easiest for him than returning to family life, the army life gives him more structure, purpose and plenty of knowns. Families bring plenty of unknowns and no orders on how to deal with them.

Alexa adores her husband and knew exactly what she was g
Ah, finally! I think 3 stars are fairly enough.

I like The Soldier's Wife for many reasons:
-It employs creativity.
-It sends you into the world of soldiers and the army. You get to know many stuff you thought were totally the opposite.
-The main theme is captivating, "Couples have got to TALK. Taciturn, long life between couples is rather dangerous."
-It uses marriage as the relationship between all characters, not the date-then-marry one.

However, this book has given me a hard time while I was re
I love Joanna Trollope's novels for their insightful examination of human relationships and human frailties. The Soldier's Wife is set mostly on a military base in the UK, and focuses on the challenges facing personnel in the modern Army. What sacrifices must a woman make when she commits to the life of an army wife? What compromises are necessary? How does a long deployment impact on the emotional health of both partners? Through central couple Dan Riley, a major in the British Army who is just ...more
When Joanna Trollope is good, she can actually be great. But when she's not it's a bit of a slog. And unfortunately that was the case with this one. I'm sympathetic to the themes here -- how do modern military families cope with the fact that soldiers' wives have ambitions and careers of their own in the face of an overly traditional military that assumes they will drop everything for their husbands' careers? -- but it all felt a bit didactic and heavy-handed. I also did not quite understand the ...more
Andrea Galbusieri
I could personally only relate to some of the struggles Alexa goes through as the wife of a British Army officer, but I think Joanna Trollope did an excellent job describing the conflicting emotions military wives go through continuously and the different ways they cope with those emotional challenges. Although I often wanted to throttle Alexa for her indecisiveness, I like how Trollope eventually makes her characters - and her readers - remember what we all know to be the main factor in any wor ...more
Tia Bach
From the first page, I wanted the Rileys to make it through as a unit. Dan Riley knows all about protecting the unit as part of his British army training and experience, so why can't he keep his family unit together and happy? Alexa Riley has lost one husband already and can't bear to lose another one.

It's amazing how two people so in love can stop talking, stop listening. But that's exactly what happens to them. Thanks to wonderful friends and family, help is never far away. But in the end, it'
Steve lovell
A writer such as Trollope can take a reader and place her (more likely)/him (considerably less likely) into a groove from page one and transport seamlessly through a three hundred or so pages to, invariably, a neat, satisfying resolution. When on song, as she is in this novel, the reader will lose all track of time as this skilled practitioner inveigles the reader to care about her protagonists to the degree that there is always an unsatisfactory sigh emanating as the book is placed to one side ...more
Another excellent novel by Joanna Trollope. In this novel she examines the difficulties faced by soldiers returning from a dangerous tour of duty in Afghanistan. One would imagine that reunions with wives and families at home would be joyous for everyone concerned, but in this novel, this is not the case.

Joanna Trollope explores the difficulties faced by soldiers and the families who have waited to welcome them at home. In this day and age it is not enough for many soldiers' wives to be home-ma
Reading Fool
The story of Alexa Riley and her husband Dan, who is a major in the British army. Dan has just returned from a 6-month stint in Afghanistan, and the Rileys are trying to adjust to life after his return. Alexa is considering the offer of a teaching job but is torn between the desire for a career and her loyalty to her husband and the Army. Dan is struggling with life back on base while trying to help his fellow soldiers. The entire family is on the verge of breaking down.

This was my first Joanna
Dec 02, 2012 Tima marked it as started-but-abandoned  ·  review of another edition
I won this book from First Reads in May of 2012. Two Three almost four months later and it has still not arrived. Hmm..

I've contacted the publisher and Goodreads support and still have not received the book. I think we can consider this my negative review.

Final Edit: Not only have I contacted the publisher but contacted Goodreads support 3 additional times and they ensured me they would get back to me about it. It's been just shy of 7 months now and there's been no responses or book. I give up o
Gabriella O'Toole
This book was very "eh". A very cliche and over-dramatic story about family life of a modern British Army family. The story was told just like a soap opera tells it's stories. At the end of each chapter or section in a chapter, the author completely leaves you in the dark about what's really going, and not in the good, suspenseful kind of way but rather in the "what even just happened" kind of way. The drama of the protagonist, Alexa, was not knowing what to do with her unhappiness with her husb ...more
Maybe 3.5 stars. This is at its heart a perfectly competent Joanna Trollope novel. It delivers most of the things a Joanna Trollope fan has come to expect in her books. It is somewhat reminiscent of Trollope's Rector's Wifein that at the centerpiece is a woman whose own dreams and ambitions are thwarted by the expectations and restraints placed on her by her husband's career. The difference though is that in The Soldier's Wife we are told rather than shown most of the constraints on Alexa. I kno ...more
I was once an Army wife, so thought this would be an interesting one, and it's the book we're discussing in next week's book group.
Alexa and her neighbours are waiting for their officer husbands to return from Afghanistan. Having coped alone with families and households for six months they face practical and emotional challenges, as do the officers themselves.
I do like the way the author explores marriages and relationships, and really tries to get the reader inside the minds of her characters
Apeksha Bhateja
A random pick, The Soldier's Wife was actually interesting. I was cheering for Alexa throughout the book. Too hard not to empathise with her.
A great insight into military families and the difficulties they face when a loved one returns from a war zone. But, most importantly, a story of "family" in all its variations: nuclear and extended, friends, military family, and the many kinds of support each can offer. This is my first Joanna Trollope novel, but it won't be my last.
Lynne - The Book Squirrel
Can really relate to this book as an army wife. I like how the name of the camp was a mixture of Larkhill and Bulford - Larkford as I knew exactly where the setting is.
The usual Joanna Trollope thing - people make bad choices then endlessly discuss those choices (or inadvisably refuse to). Well written, easy read.
I hadn't read any Joanna Trollope for a while and I was really pleased with her return to form with this book.

I am a long time fan of Joanna Trollope. Have been reading her novels since her first 'The Choir' was published in 1989 and always found her novels to be light and entertaining, 'Aga Sagas' used to be the popular term for them. In fact it is many years since I last read one, though I have a few reclining on my bookshelves, somehow they never got read whilst I was living abroad! Having now rectified this by reading this latest title, I now intend to catch up with her back catalogue just as soon a
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I found The Soldier's Wife to be a disappointing novel by Joanna Trollope. I haven't read many of her books, but had reasonable expectations that unfortunately haven't been met.

Alexa is the frustrated soldier's wife of the title. Trapped in Army accommodation with young children and no job, the return of her husband, Dan, from Afghanistan triggers a crisis in her marriage. Alexa is unable to talk to Dan about wan
Dale Harcombe
I’m giving this book, three and a half stars. I pounced on this when I saw it at the library as I like Joanna Trollope’ s books and adore her one prior to this Daughters- in-Law. Perhaps part of the problem with this one was my expectations were too high and then I found it hard to get into at first, as I didn’t warm easily to the characters, especially Dan.
However, once it got going I became involved in the story of Alexa, married to Dan who has just returned from six months tour if duty in Af
Just finished "The Soldier's Wife," by Joanna Trollope. Having read 8 or 9 previous novels by Trollope, I have to say that this was the weakest, by far. HOWEVER, even a mediocre novel by Trollope standards, is a good novel when compared to other writers. It was the story that lacked something for me, rather than the writing itself, which is always brilliant when penned by this author. I just had trouble feeling much deep empathy for the characters, other than a grandfather and great grandfather ...more
Kirsty Darbyshire
With the title it seems that Joanna Trollope wants you to compare it to the Rector's Wife, which I read about 20 years ago. The books are certainly comparable - they both concern women dealing with being married to men who are married to their careers. Without going back and actually reading the previous book I thought this seemed like a stronger story that came up with more answers than the Rector version, but the fact that I'm twenty years older with far more relationship experience myself mig ...more
I listened to this book on audio and three of the CDs in the middle of the book were misnumbered. I ended up listening to a good portion of the book out of order before I realized the error. I thought it was just really disjointed story! Anyway, I listened to a review copy so I'm assuming (hoping) that the CDs are labeled correctly on the final copy.

Charlotte Anne Dore did a good job with the narration. I'm not familiar with the different regional accents in England but I did notice that some of
The Soldier’s Wife by Joanna Trollope is a slow-burn read. Almost so slow-burning that the story failed to catch alight. But slowly, slowly the characters and their problems drew me in and I found myself reading avidly.

The soldier in this story is Dan Riley – a major in the British Army. He has just returned home after a six-month tour of duty in Afghanistan. His wife, Alexa, has been left caring for twin toddler daughters and Isabel, her twelve-year-old daughter from her first marriage. The sto
Linda K
The inner workings of a British soldiers' family are on display in this very insightful story. Dan is home from from Afghanistan, at least physically, although his emotions are still very much with his men as he seeks to assist them in acclimating back to their home life. Wife Alexa and three daughters are left to continue on their own, as Dan cannot seem to reconnect as needed.

The couples' parents and grandparents give the family lots of space at first, but then combine to offer their support a
Helena Halme
This novel is classic Joanna Trollope. It's a well-told story of a woman's life.

Alexa's army husband returns from Afghanistan preoccupied and seemingly uninterested in his family. Trollope sets the scene skilfully; as patiently as his old Labrador, Alexa waits for her army husband, Dan, to 'get out of the zone' and become the loving, caring father of his three year old twins, and step father of the rebellious pre-teen Isabel who's fighting her own battles. But Dan keeps putting his regiment firs
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