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May 16, 2013
This book annoyed me.
And by annoyed I mean it really pissed me off.
And by pissed me off I mean this was the most destructive relationship. Ever.
And by most destructive relationship ever... I mean they both were complete idiots.
Jack is the biggest asshole I have ever read about. Seriously He just used women and then through them away. Actually he didnt throw them away. He kept them and dragged them along and lied to them. He lead Lexi on for 6 freakin years! And even though he swore he would ne More...
And by annoyed I mean it really pissed me off.
And by pissed me off I mean this was the most destructive relationship. Ever.
And by most destructive relationship ever... I mean they both were complete idiots.
Jack is the biggest asshole I have ever read about. Seriously He just used women and then through them away. Actually he didnt throw them away. He kept them and dragged them along and lied to them. He lead Lexi on for 6 freakin years! And even though he swore he would ne More...
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Mar 13, 2013
4.75 Stars
They were not a couple. They were lovers and most definitely in love. Yet, they were a disaster together.
Warning: I tend to use a lot of expletives when I’m emotional. This book, my friends, has made an emotional wreck out of me. So be warned, I will cuss and swear, a lot, in this review :)
I’m a total mess. I think I just had a minor stroke. My speech is slurred, I feel weak all over, and I’ve lost all ability to think straight. They need a support group for those who read this book. More...
They were not a couple. They were lovers and most definitely in love. Yet, they were a disaster together.
Warning: I tend to use a lot of expletives when I’m emotional. This book, my friends, has made an emotional wreck out of me. So be warned, I will cuss and swear, a lot, in this review :)
I’m a total mess. I think I just had a minor stroke. My speech is slurred, I feel weak all over, and I’ve lost all ability to think straight. They need a support group for those who read this book. More...
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Mar 12, 2013
This review was posted at My Secret Romance
To sum it up: Jack and Lexi never had a typical relationship. After two years without speaking, she receives a phone call that changes everything. He unexpectedly asks her to convince the new girl, Bekah, that he's ready to commit. Jack is calling now after everything they had been through because there is another woman. She can't believe it.
Follow Lexi in this heart wrenching drama as she relives her past relationship, or lack thereof, with Jack, and More...
To sum it up: Jack and Lexi never had a typical relationship. After two years without speaking, she receives a phone call that changes everything. He unexpectedly asks her to convince the new girl, Bekah, that he's ready to commit. Jack is calling now after everything they had been through because there is another woman. She can't believe it.
Follow Lexi in this heart wrenching drama as she relives her past relationship, or lack thereof, with Jack, and More...
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Sep 24, 2012
This review was posted at My Secret Romance
Author Interview & Giveaway with K.A. Linde 7/11/12
Five stars? Please. More like ten stars!
I don't normally add photos to my reviews. While I was reading this book the Olympics were on at the same time and I saw Ryan Lochte's face and said, OMG, THAT'S RAMSEY! Then I decided I couldn't just have a photo of Ramsey and not Jack. So a friend found this photo of Jack, and I must say she is spot on. Those piercing blue eyes and devilish smirk is exactl More...
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Nov 30, 2012
4 STARS out of 5
Genre: Adult Contemporary Romance
Series: Book #1 in Avoiding Series
->Review contains foul language read at your own discretion.
WARNING: You should re-frame from reading this in public because
This book may cause you to throw your reading device. Shout unexpectedly in public. Wanna kill a B*tch. And scream "OH HELL NO" and "OH SH#T" at least twenty times out loud.
If a fictional character can make me hate him/her as if they are a living entity than you get 4 Stars for that alon More...
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Mar 12, 2013
Avoiding Commitment tells the story of Alexa (or Lexi as she likes to be called), a 20-something college student who, after 6 years of doing the same bullshit again and again, has apparently learned absolutely nothing from her mistakes, and Jack, the most prime example of a lying, manipulative player.
I picked this book up because a few people compared it to S.C. Stephens’s Thoughtless, which I absolutely loved even though it wasn’t an easy read (if you’ve read it you know what I’m talking about) More...
I picked this book up because a few people compared it to S.C. Stephens’s Thoughtless, which I absolutely loved even though it wasn’t an easy read (if you’ve read it you know what I’m talking about) More...
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Apr 28, 2013
When i finished this book I was totally exhausted by all the drama/lies/secrets and cheating this book contained. And when a book can make me feel that way, that it´s impossible to put it down, then it have to be a good sign, right? A part of me wanted to give this booka a five star rating just because of that, the authors ability to capture me like a prisoner. But another part of me only wanted to give it 3 stars, simply because that I didn´t feel emotionally connected with any of the character More...
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Aug 05, 2012
Reviewed at toughcriticbookreviews.blogspot.com
Avoiding Commitment has taken my book slump and crushed it beneath its mind shattering awesomeness. Where do I start? Where do I finish? What the hell can I say that's not a four-letter word?!
I feel so used! I feel so abused! I feel so awesomely turned on! There's such a fine line between love and hate. Avoiding Commitment totally gets rid of the line and has one big love/hate orgy. There wasn't a character I didn't want to punch in the face! Everyo More...
Avoiding Commitment has taken my book slump and crushed it beneath its mind shattering awesomeness. Where do I start? Where do I finish? What the hell can I say that's not a four-letter word?!
I feel so used! I feel so abused! I feel so awesomely turned on! There's such a fine line between love and hate. Avoiding Commitment totally gets rid of the line and has one big love/hate orgy. There wasn't a character I didn't want to punch in the face! Everyo More...
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Aug 20, 2012
My thoughts?
AVOIDING COMMITMENT did things to my brain, heart and soul that I have not had since reading Colleen Hoover’s books - SLAMMED and POINT OF RETREAT. AVOIDING COMMITMENT gave me the same feeling that I had to lock myself away until I read the entire book from cover to cover. There are words that I need to use to describe this book that I’m not currently able to produce, but I will do my best.
broken. ELATED. beat. CONSUMED. hurt. LOVED. sad. WANTING. confused.
AVOIDING COMMITMENT did things to my brain, heart and soul that I have not had since reading Colleen Hoover’s books - SLAMMED and POINT OF RETREAT. AVOIDING COMMITMENT gave me the same feeling that I had to lock myself away until I read the entire book from cover to cover. There are words that I need to use to describe this book that I’m not currently able to produce, but I will do my best.
broken. ELATED. beat. CONSUMED. hurt. LOVED. sad. WANTING. confused.
Yes, that may do it
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Jan 06, 2013
3.5 stars - I'm so sorry, but I can't review this book without spoiling it. I'm giving it three stars because the book sucked me in, but it was long and painfully torturous to read - not only for me, but also for my desk, my wall and my poor ereader.
All I'm going to say is (view spoiler) from beginning to end. And I sympathize with Lexi, but after the first time - no first FEW times - no the first GAZILLION times, I've about had it.
Yes, I did feel like I was reading "Thoughtless" by S.C. Ste More...
All I'm going to say is (view spoiler) from beginning to end. And I sympathize with Lexi, but after the first time - no first FEW times - no the first GAZILLION times, I've about had it.
Yes, I did feel like I was reading "Thoughtless" by S.C. Ste More...
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Feb 10, 2013
In the end, no matter how good the writing or plot is, I read for characters. In order for me to like a book, at least one of the characters needs to, at a minimum, be redeemable. Up until the last 2% of this book, it was going to go into the "I wish I could get those hours back" pile.
Lexi and Jack. What an insanely 'effed up, dysfunctional, painful, messed up, deranged relationship they had. Every time there was a flashback, it felt like I was watching this over and over again.

The more that w More...
Lexi and Jack. What an insanely 'effed up, dysfunctional, painful, messed up, deranged relationship they had. Every time there was a flashback, it felt like I was watching this over and over again.

The more that w More...
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Feb 03, 2013
"She had known all along that her and Jack were meant to be. They were cut from the same mold...He was the other half of her whole."
It took me some time to get my head to stop spinning so that I could right a coherent review. I honestly don't even know what to say about this book.
Avoiding Commitmentwas nothing that I expected and everything that I wanted. I know I'm late on the Avoidingtrain ... I had this on my TBR forever and just continued to avoid it (haha) because I knew the angst and emot More...
It took me some time to get my head to stop spinning so that I could right a coherent review. I honestly don't even know what to say about this book.
Avoiding Commitmentwas nothing that I expected and everything that I wanted. I know I'm late on the Avoidingtrain ... I had this on my TBR forever and just continued to avoid it (haha) because I knew the angst and emot More...
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Oct 08, 2012
Avoiding Commitment is a book that I really wish I hadn’t read! Yeah, you heard me, I wish I hadn’t read it because it was an absolutely fantastic read and now I’m going to spend the next few months, eagerly awaiting for the release of book two and then, I’ll be in the same position again waiting for the release of book three. I could cry – really, It’s painful waiting for the next book. Not only that but it’s been nearly 24 hours since I finished and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about i More...
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Jul 16, 2012
This book was amazing but i completely hate it! i'm an emotional wreck! i will curse many timessssss in this review
i fucking hate most of these characters.. lexi is a dumb ass bitch..jack is a heartless prink..and bekah o dear god i hope u fall off a cliff
there is just so much heartache in this book..i wanted to burn my kindle to the ground and still do!
K.A. Linde job well done by bringing so much emotion out of so many people but i hate cheating and i despise these people. A good author can alw More...
i fucking hate most of these characters.. lexi is a dumb ass bitch..jack is a heartless prink..and bekah o dear god i hope u fall off a cliff
there is just so much heartache in this book..i wanted to burn my kindle to the ground and still do!
K.A. Linde job well done by bringing so much emotion out of so many people but i hate cheating and i despise these people. A good author can alw More...
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Feb 14, 2013
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> "Group read!" <---- LOOOOOOL group of one, but whatever.
I finished this and I'm very pleased with myself.
It actually wasn't that bad, if you've read my comments during the reading, you probably wouldn't want to read this book. BUT it wasn't all that bad.
It was total emotional-clusterfuck however, and not to mention one lost oh so very lost heroine.
But in the end she got a grip on herself (and It's only because I was praying to God that she would).
Anyway..
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> "Group read!" <---- LOOOOOOL group of one, but whatever.
I finished this and I'm very pleased with myself.
It actually wasn't that bad, if you've read my comments during the reading, you probably wouldn't want to read this book. BUT it wasn't all that bad.
It was total emotional-clusterfuck however, and not to mention one lost oh so very lost heroine.
But in the end she got a grip on herself (and It's only because I was praying to God that she would).
Anyway..
People who love drama, More...
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Mar 06, 2013
Avoiding Commitment
Phew, what a rollercoaster!!
Lexi's story begins with and out of the blue phone call from her old flame Jack, the one who got away!
Jack is 'avoiding commitment' with his current girlfriend Bekah and she thinks it will help if she speaks with Jacks ex girlfriends to understand why he won't commit.
The story is told in alternating chapters from time passed and present day. We get taken back to when Jack and Lexi met, and discover the dynamic of their relationship. It all forms wh More...
Phew, what a rollercoaster!!
Lexi's story begins with and out of the blue phone call from her old flame Jack, the one who got away!
Jack is 'avoiding commitment' with his current girlfriend Bekah and she thinks it will help if she speaks with Jacks ex girlfriends to understand why he won't commit.
The story is told in alternating chapters from time passed and present day. We get taken back to when Jack and Lexi met, and discover the dynamic of their relationship. It all forms wh More...
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Aug 06, 2012
Okay so I've taken a few days and I decided that I just cannot put into word how this book made me feel. So I decided to come up with a play list that encompasses the emotions I felt while reading. So here you go...
1. Always by Saliva
2. Becasuse of You by Kelly Clarkson
3. Before He Cheats by Carrie Underwood
4. Broken featuring Amy Lee by Seether
5. Call Me When You're Sober by Evanescence
6. Crash Into Me by Dave Mathews Band
7. Epiphany by Staind
8. Everything Changes by Staind
9. Forever by Papa Ro More...
1. Always by Saliva
2. Becasuse of You by Kelly Clarkson
3. Before He Cheats by Carrie Underwood
4. Broken featuring Amy Lee by Seether
5. Call Me When You're Sober by Evanescence
6. Crash Into Me by Dave Mathews Band
7. Epiphany by Staind
8. Everything Changes by Staind
9. Forever by Papa Ro More...
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Aug 01, 2012
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Beware: Avoiding Commitment by K.A. Linde is an emotional rollercoaster that will have you yelling, cursing, and throwing things. The two main characters, Jack and Lexi, are not right for each other. From the start, their "relationship" was tainted with lies, and things only get worse from there. Along the way, they ruin any chance at a normal, healthy relationship, but unfortunately they do not see it! Their "rel More...
Beware: Avoiding Commitment by K.A. Linde is an emotional rollercoaster that will have you yelling, cursing, and throwing things. The two main characters, Jack and Lexi, are not right for each other. From the start, their "relationship" was tainted with lies, and things only get worse from there. Along the way, they ruin any chance at a normal, healthy relationship, but unfortunately they do not see it! Their "rel More...
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Aug 08, 2012
Oh, the things this book did to me!! Words fail to express the beatings my heart was subjected to, the incomparable lust I experienced, or the nauseating trepidation that plagued my stomach. Avoiding Commitment isn't just a story, it's an emotional, lust-filled, gut-wrenching journey that will be on your mind long after you finish that last page.
Avoiding Commitment follows the path of Jack and Lexi's all-consuming, intensely passionate relationship over it's 6 years. The blurb for this book had More...
Avoiding Commitment follows the path of Jack and Lexi's all-consuming, intensely passionate relationship over it's 6 years. The blurb for this book had More...
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Aug 04, 2012
Well I'm trying to figure out what I can say about this book to do it justice!! It was superb, outstanding and just amazing! While reading reviews on this book a reviewer described it as a mix between The Opportunist by Tarryn Fisher and The Thoughtless series by S.C Stephens and she could not have described it any better. Lexi and Jack have a seriously F*cked up love story and are both two extremely selfish and self serving people that have an undeniable chemistry and addiction to each other bu More...
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Mar 24, 2013
Review also posted at Under The Covers Book Blog
“Ms. Linde knows angst, false hopes and heartaches well. Her writing flowed and she kept me intrigued from beginning until the end.” ~Under The Covers
I have thought about how to review this book a few times before writing it. I will not sugar coat it or make it pretty with pictures but simply just tell you what I feel. First, I want to forewarn you that if you are looking for a feel good book or a novel that has a happy-ever-after (HEA) within a b More...
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Nov 26, 2012
Avoiding Commitment completely and utterly exhausted me mentally and emotionally. It's one of those books where you will love and hate the characters. My thoughts and feelings were all over the place. I suppose you could say that I was along for a ride I never even imagined. Yes, I knew going into this book it was full of angst and drama but I never expected to feel so much anger towards the two main characters: Lexi and Jack. I also felt a lot of empathy for their situation. If anyone has ever More...
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Feb 24, 2013
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Oh man, where to start this review for Avoiding Commitment by K.A. Linde… this is a toughy. I am so torn with this book. It was amazing but that is not why my review is hard to write… first let’s start with the novel.
Avoiding Commitment is a novel about a young freshman, Lexi who meets Jack while she is studying in a coffee shop and he gives her coffee. They meet, have a romantic date at a carnival and have a great first month of dating. Then the More...
Oh man, where to start this review for Avoiding Commitment by K.A. Linde… this is a toughy. I am so torn with this book. It was amazing but that is not why my review is hard to write… first let’s start with the novel.
Avoiding Commitment is a novel about a young freshman, Lexi who meets Jack while she is studying in a coffee shop and he gives her coffee. They meet, have a romantic date at a carnival and have a great first month of dating. Then the More...
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Apr 13, 2012
Loved this book and felt the full force of the angst between Jack and Lexi.
Jack.....grrrr, I wanted to slap you buddy! Lexi...I went between wanting to slap you at times but then other times I felt like I needed to reach through the book and give you a big hug! Ramsey.....just *sigh*.
I couldn't put this book down. I got to a certain point and knew I was going to pull an allnighter finishing it because I couldn't leave it hanging.
I'm not normally a fan of switching from present day to past but bo More...
Jack.....grrrr, I wanted to slap you buddy! Lexi...I went between wanting to slap you at times but then other times I felt like I needed to reach through the book and give you a big hug! Ramsey.....just *sigh*.
I couldn't put this book down. I got to a certain point and knew I was going to pull an allnighter finishing it because I couldn't leave it hanging.
I'm not normally a fan of switching from present day to past but bo More...
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Aug 26, 2012
Wow!
What an emotional rollercoaster!
Honestly I think I might have whiplash.
I really enjoyed this book but to tell you the truth at times I was so frustrated with these characters I wanted to rip my hair out. At this point I am not certain my nerves will allow me to read the next book in the series.
And one final though- I love a bad boy just as much if not more then then the next girl (and this might be a spoiler) but seriously Jack is such a dick!!
What an emotional rollercoaster!
Honestly I think I might have whiplash.
I really enjoyed this book but to tell you the truth at times I was so frustrated with these characters I wanted to rip my hair out. At this point I am not certain my nerves will allow me to read the next book in the series.
And one final though- I love a bad boy just as much if not more then then the next girl (and this might be a spoiler) but seriously Jack is such a dick!!
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Oct 14, 2012
I am STILL trying to come up with words. What a wild ride and I finished almost two weeks ago. I was sleep deprived, distracted at work, and thinking about these crazy people when I was not home reading. Then I started reading at work and decided that there is a book out there that can make me obsessed. NOT how I thought it would end and I almost threw my iPad through the window several times in the final chapters. I have NEVER sent so many crazed texts to my girls who were also reading it. I wa More...
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Mar 29, 2013
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Jul 01, 2012
Avoiding Commitment had an effect on my emotions that I couldn’t quite get a handle on. Here I am, 3 days after finishing it, and I’ve finally grasped how to explain this phenomenon. It was as if my heart was the ball in a ping pong game. Back and forth, back and forth….sometimes a player would miss the ball and my heart would plunge. Other times, as the pace picked up, it would sore and my optimism would again be on the rise. Sometimes there were different players, but always the same perpetual More...
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Jun 27, 2012
"If you don't stop using that voice with me, I'm going to take you right here on the beach," he told her evenly. "You're so much sexier when you're angry.
The words of Jack Howard keep ringing in my ears even after I've closed this book. There are a lot of feelings that I have, and there was a lot of mixed ones through the entire book. To sum it up, we have two main Character's Lexi and Jack, Lexi meets Jack her first year in college, and is completely enamored by this guy, and he seems to feel e More...
The words of Jack Howard keep ringing in my ears even after I've closed this book. There are a lot of feelings that I have, and there was a lot of mixed ones through the entire book. To sum it up, we have two main Character's Lexi and Jack, Lexi meets Jack her first year in college, and is completely enamored by this guy, and he seems to feel e More...
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