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The Stone Girl

3.18 of 5 stars 3.18  ·  rating details  ·  408 ratings  ·  109 reviews
She feels like a creature out of a fairy tale; a girl who discovers that her bones are really made out of stone, that her skin is really as thin as glass, that her hair is brittle as straw, that her tears have dried up so that she cries only salt. Maybe that’s why it doesn’t hurt when she presses hard enough to begin bleeding: it doesn’t hurt, because she’s not real anymor...more
Hardcover, 224 pages
Published August 28th 2012 by Knopf Books for Young Readers
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I have conflicted feelings about Alyssa B. Sheinmel’s The Stone Girl. At the beginning, the third person present tense made it really hard for me to get into the story. Although the author might even have aimed for it, a story about eating disorders and self-harm told in an almost clinical way just wasn’t what I was looking for. While I did get used to the writing style with time, it definitely made it hard for me to feel close to Sethie or even grasp her motivations, to understand her and – mos...more
Sarah (Workaday Reads)
This is definitely an “issue” story. Sethie has a serious eating problem, something between bulimia and anorexia that progresses and worsens as the story moves forward. It’s a very slow slide for Sethie, one that she doesn’t really recognize as happening as it does.

Sethie is easy to feel bad for. She has normal body issues in the beginning, that seem to get out of control. She is naive when it comes to guys and her “boyfriend” Shaw. I use quotes because he’s a jerk and while Sethie knows somethi...more
Anna (Yoda Is My Spirit Animal)
Sethie Weiss is in control of her body and the way it makes her feel. She is in control of her grades, her friendships and the relationship she has with Shaw, even if he isn't exactly her boyfriend yet. All she has to do is keep pleasing him, taking drugs with him and making sure to keep it low pressure. Than he'll finally want her for more than just sex. But when everything starts to disappear, leaving Sethie alone with her body the last thing she can control, will it be enough for her? I could...more
I picked this book to review on a whim. It reminded me of Wintergirls by Laurie Halse Anderson (also about an anorexic girl) and I remembered that I had really liked it, so I decided to give this a try. I LOVE LOVE LOVE books with broken, messed up main characters, it's fantastic. It definitely didn't disappoint. I read about 80% of this book yesterday and then finished the rest early this morning.

I enjoyed reading The Stone Girl, it was an interesting portrayal of a teen girl living with an eat...more
If only the story was as lovely as its cover, then there shouldn't be any problem. But that wasn't the case, and this just left me a stone girl literally. It made me feel nothing, not even pity for Sethie who was anorexic and had deeply disturbing issues with her self. It's probably really very hard to write about this, anorexia and weight issues and all, but I've read a few before and I couldn't find even half of the terribleness of this book in those. I would attribute this bad rating to the b...more
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Cover Impressions: I do not believe that this cover would stand out on a shelf. It is not particularly unique. As for connection with the plot, the cover model doesn't look unhealthy or troubled and her expression does not evoke much of anything in the viewer.

The Gist: Sethie Weiss is determined. Determined to be the perfect, sort-of girlfriend for Shaw. Determined to ace the SAT and have her pick of colleges. Determined to control he...more

Sethie is a very broken girl. While she could easily be labeled as a girl with an eating disorder, her challenges are much greater. She's depressed and that is what causes her to become needy, to seek control when it comes to her body and her weight, to use drugs heavily, to become extremely dependent on her cheating boyfriend and a girl who is anything but a real friend to her.

I appreciated how Sheinmel wrote this in the third person, removing the reader from Sethie, just as she's so far re...more
See if I started this with an ‘Isa didn’t get this book’ then proceeded to say ‘Isa this,’ ‘Isa that…’ the same the Stone Girl progressed with its ‘Sethie this and Sethie that,’ well, I’d likely drive you crazy. That is if you’ve an issue with third person which I didn’t realize that I had an issue with myself.

It felt clunky and clumsy at times with the all the telling going on. And if that’s not bad enough, the POV effectively distanced the girl from me. It kept me from feeling more sympatheti...more
Uncomfortable but realistic, The Stone Girl is an aching but beautiful tale of body issues and friendship. Though the third person point of view creates a different kind of connection to the book, especially one so character and relationship focused, it’s still engaging in an inexplicable way and. I fell into this one right away, stunned by the depth of Sethie’s hatred towards herself, even when she couldn’t see it for what it was. Sethie’s entire character arc is so well done, so intricate from...more
Cara Blevins
Going into her senior year at a prestigious New York City all girls prep school, Sethie struggles with body image issues. As the year progresses, her emotional state and personal relationships degenerate as she becomes more and more obsessed with her weight and appearance.

When I received this book, I was interested to see how the author demonstrated the hot topic issue of eating disorders. They are not something I have faced personally, but I have seen their devastating effects on friends. I wis...more
Well this book did have a lot of conflicting reviews, some rating it the highest and some the lowest. I am meaning toward the latter.
This is an extremely important and relevant issue with teens and adults, primarily female but can affect anyone. The author captures a lot of the classic symptoms of both anorexia and bulimia; the obsession with fat and the number on the scale. Sethie is obsessed with the fat around her waist and has the need to remain at 111 or lower, although no one weighing tha...more
Felicia Chien
Book: The Stone Girl by Alyssa B. Sheimmel
Pages: 212
Genre: Young Adult
Source: Sent from Random House

Short Synopsis: Sethie is a complicated girl. She struggles with her weight but doesn't know how far is too far, and her relationship with the one boy she's loved, named Shaw is anything but what she expected it to be.

My Thoughts: A haunting tale of one girl's dream of being thin, and the struggles she deals with in everyday life.

Sethie Weiss is hungry, a mean, angry kind of hunger that feels li...more
Lisseth (Read-a-holicZ)
**Originally on Read-A-holicZ, HERE**

It was an interesting read, I haven't read many books on this topic & this was one I really liked because it was on a real & important topic.
I didn’t like Sethie, her personality was just to ignorant. I guess this is how the anorexic mind must work, but there are times you just want to shake her and make her really see herself.

The author truly does capture the differences in how she really looks and how she sees herself. The author describes the bon...more
As someone who has, in the past, suffered from a severe eating disorder, I was immediately interested in reading and reviewing this book.
Let me begin by saying that it wasn’t an easy one to get through, since anyone who’s ever suffered from these diseases will identify in a painful way with Sethie’s struggle. With her every thought and action. She is a wonderfully realized character, one we begin to care about from the very first page. Her struggle is not unique, but this doesn’t make it any le...more

She feels like a creature out of a fairy tale: a girl who discovers that her bones are really made out of stone, that her skin is really as thin as glass, that her hair is brittle as straw, that her tears have dried up so that she cries only salt. Maybe that's why it doesn't hurt when she presses hard enough to begin bleeding: it doesn't hurt, because she's not real anymore.

This is one of those novels I think I might like but end up not liking. I've never read any b...more
Bethany Miller
Seventeen-year-old Sethie has two obsessions in life. The first is to be skinny. She counts calories obsessively and has lots of rules for herself about what and when she can eat and drink. Her second obsession is her “boyfriend” Shaw. Sethie likes to think of him as her boyfriend although she knows she can’t really say it out loud. Though they have an active sex life, he has never once held her hand in public. At home, it’s just Sethie and her mom, who doesn’t seem to notice that her daughter i...more
Ashlee Hollowell
A very powerful book to read about a young girl with an eating disorder. As a teenager who has lived through the years of pinching your stomach and questioning your weight I must say this book hit home for me. It truly is a disturbing disease that is all too common in this day and age. Alyssa Sheinmel does a fantastic job of bringing to life Sethie and her struggles. They way Sethie see's another girl struggling with the same disorder and finds her to be ugly skinny, and yet can't recognize the...more
Elvina Barclay
This book started off slowly for me. I felt it was going to be hard to like Sethie and understand what she was doing to herself. Eventually the story picked up and I began to get into Sethie's head and understand what she was going through. As you go deeper into the story, you really begin to root for Sethie and hope that she will reach out to her friends. I wish her mom's concern appeared earlier in the story but the ending was very satisfying. A great story from Alyssa.
Another book I reviewed for LMC - this one would be for high school age or maybe eighth grade. It's about a girl battling an eating disorder - I think teen girls will like this book, however I was concerned that it won't actually motivate girls who may need help with eating disorder to seek the help they need.
So, after going through the summer from hell, I shose this as the book that would get back into reading. Good choice, Loulou.

Shit, I don't even remember when I read it in September since September was stupid.
Rebecca A. Rogers
Apr 11, 2013 Rebecca A. Rogers marked it as did-not-finish  ·  review of another edition
Going to be a DNF for me. I made it through the first 40%, but the story dragged. Unfortunately, it wasn't enough to keep my attention so I could continue reading.

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Alyssa Greatbanks
This book is an easy read. I probably would have gotten through it in one sitting if I hadn't been so busy after the holidays.

The main character Sethie is relatable to just about every girl in High School, and anyone that's ever been through that. Even if you weren't anorexic, you can still relate to what she is going through in her life, and how she is feeling.

I feel like her downward spiral wouldn't have been so dramatic if she had a better support network. The other characters in the book, he...more
Wow...this is so not for 12 year old YA's...will post review in August, 2 weeks prior to publication. Again, wow!
More on the blog, including a small resource guide-please add in your own resources for eating disorders here or there!

This was not one of my favorites. I didn't think it was even one of the best eating disorder books I've read. Nonetheless I still feel it is an important book.

My chief complaint with the book is the POV. As third person we are told what happens: "Sethie gets good grades." "Sethie smokes a lot of pot." "Her fingers smell like vomit." Throughout this perspective it was extremely...more
It's hard for me to say that I 'like' this book because this isn't a book that you 'like.' It was heartbreaking and hard to read, but regardless, it is a good book.

I'm going to start by saying that I love Alyssa B. Sheinmel. This is only my second book that I've read by her, but I need to read more. She just has a way of putting so much emotion in her writing. In a way, the writing in this novel is very detached from the main character and story. This would normally not be a good thing, but it w...more
I read this a little while ago, but I wanted time to clear my thoughts about it. I gave it four stars originally, but really it's more 3.5. The reason it gets such a high rating isn't because it was beautifully written or because it was really interesting and well thought out. No, it was because it told a good story. And by good story, I don't mean the kind where good conquers all. I mean, it pulled me in and I WANTED to see how it ended.

Sethie was a bad character. I can't begin to describe how...more
A Beautiful Madness
I didn’t really know what to expect from The Stone Girl. I’m always interested in those kinds of issue novels, but this one simply didn’t catch my attention. The novel had a lot of potential, and I really thought it would be the kind of book that will leave you thinking once you’re done. Yet, even while I was reading it, I couldn’t wait to start something new and captivating, since this one really left me bored.

I wish I could talk about the characters, about their story and their relationship, b...more
Pam Camel
“She feels like a creature out of a fairy tale; a girl who discovers that her bones are really made out of stone, that her skin is really as thin as glass, that her hair is brittle as straw, that her tears have dried up so that she cries only salt. Maybe that’s why it doesn’t hurt when she presses hard enough to begin bleeding: it doesn’t hurt, because she’s not real any more.
Sethie Weiss is hungry, a mean, angry kind of hunger that feels like a piece of glass in her belly. She’s managed to get...more
I read this book because it was sent to my elementary school from the district. I knew it was inappropriate for my students just by looking at the cover. However, I wanted to read it myself. I was intrigued by the book cover flap and the back cover.

I read this in one sitting. Sethie starved herself in at least two ways. she got her weight down to 111 pounds by not eating. She also was suffering from a need for Shaw. Although Sethie is very smart, She is dumb about her relationship with Shaw. She...more
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Like so many writers, I grew up loving books. I loved stories so much that when there was nothing to read, I wrote my own stories just to give myself something to read. And when there was no pen and paper to be had, I made up stories and...more
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