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    <![CDATA[The audio of the book that's taking Britain by storm! 10 weeks at number one in Australia now a bestseller in the UK after just four weeks: number 2 at Bertrams, 3 at THE, top 20 on Amazon for ten weeks - outselling Men are From Mars by 10 to one. Bestselling authors Allan and Barbara Pease - four million copies of Body Language in print in 32 countries - spotlight the differences between the way men and women think. Barbara and Allan Pease travelled the world collating the dramatic findings of new research on the brain, investigating evolutionary biology, analysing psychologists research, studying social change and annoying the locals. The result is Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps the sometimes shocking, always illuminating, frequently hilarious look at where the battle line is drawn between the sexes, why it was drawn and how to cross it. Revealed:  Why men really can't do more than one thing at a time. Why women make such a mess of parallel parking. Why men should never lie to women. Why women talk so much and men so little. Why men love erotic images and women aren't impressed.	Why women prefer to simply talk it through. Why men offer solutions, but hate advice. Why women despair about men's silences.  Why men want sex, and women need love.	WHAT MEN AND WOMEN REALLY WANT ]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[saya beli buku ini untuk lucu-lucuan saja, menyelingi buku lain yang makin bikin bingung...<br/>tapi memang buku ini ditulis denga lucu, dengan menyenangkan, sehingga kita ingin terus ingin tahu.<br/>terus terang,<br/>banyak yang baru saya tahu tentang hubungan laki-laki dan perempuan, perbedaan ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/68283725">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen &amp; Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It]]>
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    <![CDATA[Ever wonder why women can brush their teeth while walking and talking on various subjects while men generally find this very difficult to do?  Why 99 percent of all patents are registered by men?  Why stressed women talk?  Why so many husbands hate shopping? According to Barbara and Allan Pease, science now confirms that &quot;the way our brains are wired and the hormones pulsing through our bodies are the two factors that largely dictate, long before we are born, how we will think and behave. Our instincts are simply our genes determining how our bodies will behave in given sets of circumstances.&quot;  That's right: socialization, politics, or upbringing aside, men and women have profound brain differences and are intrinsically inclined to act in distinct--and consequently frustrating--ways.<p> The premises behind <em>Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps</em> is that all too often, these differences get in the way of fulfilling relationships and that understanding our basic urges can lead to greater self-awareness and improved relations between the sexes.  The Peases spent three years researching their book--traveling the globe, talking to experts, and studying the cutting-edge research of ethnologists, psychologists, biologists, and neuroscientists--yet their work does not read a bit like &quot;hard science.&quot;  In fact, the authors go to considerable lengths to point out that their book is intended to be funny, interesting, and easy to read; in short, this is a book whose primary purpose is to talk about &quot;average men and women, that is, how most men and women behave most of the time, in most situations, and for most of the past.&quot;<p> <em>Why Men Don't Listen</em>, therefore, deals largely in generalizations, and this is bound to alienate some readers. &quot;We don't beat around the bush with suppositions or politically correct clichés,&quot; the Peases claim.  Those up for an irreverent and unapologetic take on why men and women just can't help themselves sometimes may just decide to read on. <em>--Svenja Soldovieri</em></p></p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[Well, because I am a woman, so I learned lot of things about men from this book. And I got so much explanations why sometimes women (like me) just couldn't understand men. Hahaha.. I think, men should read this book too. If they were reading this, good for them. With this book, men would much more u...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/5157893">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It]]>
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    <![CDATA[Have you ever wished your partner came with an instruction booklet? This international bestseller is the answer to all the things you've ever wondered about the opposite sex.<br/><br/>For their controversial new book on the differences between the way men and women think and communicate, Barbara and Allan Pease spent three years traveling around the world, collecting the dramatic findings of new research on the brain, investigating evolutionary biology, analyzing psychologists, studying social changes, and annoying the locals.<br/><br/>The result is a sometimes shocking, always illuminating, and frequently hilarious look at where the battle line is drawn between the sexes, why it was drawn, and how to cross it. Read this book and understand--at last!--why men never listen, why women can't read maps, and why learning each other's secrets means you'll never have to say sorry again. <br/><br/>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[Aaron and I read this outloud together and had a great time doing it. The authors reveal some very fascinating information about the male and female brains and the ways in which we process information and even run our bodies based on the hormones that are dished out once we're all gender labeled. Ve...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/76965013">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It]]>
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    <![CDATA[Have you ever wished your partner came with an instruction booklet? This international bestseller is the answer to all the things you've ever wondered about the opposite sex.<br/><br/>For their controversial new book on the differences between the way men and women think and communicate, Barbara and Allan Pease spent three years traveling around the world, collecting the dramatic findings of new research on the brain, investigating evolutionary biology, analyzing psychologists, studying social changes, and annoying the locals.<br/><br/>The result is a sometimes shocking, always illuminating, and frequently hilarious look at where the battle line is drawn between the sexes, why it was drawn, and how to cross it. Read this book and understand--at last!--why men never listen, why women can't read maps, and why learning each other's secrets means you'll never have to say sorry again. <br/><br/>]]>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[People wanting a funny yet informative book about the differences between men and women.]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Fri Jul 31 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Informative and amusing as long as you don't take it too seriously and remember that some of it is very generalized and stereotyped.<br/><br/>A few of the suggestions they give are downright ridiculous, for example:<br/>&quot;One of the best compliments a man can pay a woman is not to ogle inappr...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/65624839">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It]]>
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    <![CDATA[Have you ever wished your partner came with an instruction booklet? This international bestseller is the answer to all the things you've ever wondered about the opposite sex.<br/><br/>For their controversial new book on the differences between the way men and women think and communicate, Barbara and Allan Pease spent three years traveling around the world, collecting the dramatic findings of new research on the brain, investigating evolutionary biology, analyzing psychologists, studying social changes, and annoying the locals.<br/><br/>The result is a sometimes shocking, always illuminating, and frequently hilarious look at where the battle line is drawn between the sexes, why it was drawn, and how to cross it. Read this book and understand--at last!--why men never listen, why women can't read maps, and why learning each other's secrets means you'll never have to say sorry again. <br/><br/>]]>
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  <read_at>Fri Dec 18 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Saya pinjem versi Inggris buku ini di perpustakaan kampus setelah beres UAS... ceritanya lagi pengen refreshing dengan baca buku yang ringan, jadi iseng-iseng aja ambil buku ini.<br/><br/>Buku ini memberikan penjelasan yang cukup menarik mengenai perbedaan antara wanita dan pria. Penjelasan yang d...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/81525310">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: Mengungkap Perbedaan Pikiran Pria dan Wanita Agar Sukses Membina Hubungan]]>
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    <![CDATA[Lupakan segala sesuatu yang dianggap benar tentang lawan jenis yang pernah Anda dengar. Pria dan wanita tidak sama.]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[hmmmmm....<br/>buku ini mengungkapkan perbedaan pikiran antara pria dan wanita agar sukses membina hubungan. Lupakan segala sesuatu yang dianggap benar tentang lawan jenis yang pernah anda dengar. Pria dan Wanita adalah tidk sama. memahami hal ini merupakan free ticket bagi anda untuk mampu menikma...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/15779271">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: Mengungkap Perbedaan Pikiran Pria dan Wanita Agar Sukses Membina Hubungan]]>
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    <![CDATA[Lupakan segala sesuatu yang dianggap benar tentang lawan jenis yang pernah Anda dengar. Pria dan wanita tidak sama.]]>
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[wew..after you read this book you'll know exactly the reasons why are men and women have a different way in everything.<br/><br/>bis baca buku ini gua cuman bisa mikir sambil cengar-cengir sendiri...oh iya ya...oh gitu...baru tahu gua kenapa gua gak suka nemenin cewek gua ke mall...kenapa cewek gu...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23029542">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It]]>
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    <![CDATA[Have you ever wished your partner came with an instruction booklet? This international bestseller is the answer to all the things you've ever wondered about the opposite sex.<br/><br/>For their controversial new book on the differences between the way men and women think and communicate, Barbara and Allan Pease spent three years traveling around the world, collecting the dramatic findings of new research on the brain, investigating evolutionary biology, analyzing psychologists, studying social changes, and annoying the locals.<br/><br/>The result is a sometimes shocking, always illuminating, and frequently hilarious look at where the battle line is drawn between the sexes, why it was drawn, and how to cross it. Read this book and understand--at last!--why men never listen, why women can't read maps, and why learning each other's secrets means you'll never have to say sorry again. <br/><br/>]]>
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[hahaha...<br/><br/>why.. oh why..<br/><br/>Women seem hard to be understood.<br/><br/>They look gorgeous at one time.. but suddenly clueless in an instant.<br/><br/>believe me.. women can't read maps.. LOL..<br/><br/>And men.. yes.. they look so strong, so fast and agile.. yet.. to find a ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/78946680">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It]]>
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    <![CDATA[Have you ever wished your partner came with an instruction booklet? This international bestseller is the answer to all the things you've ever wondered about the opposite sex.<br/><br/>For their controversial new book on the differences between the way men and women think and communicate, Barbara and Allan Pease spent three years traveling around the world, collecting the dramatic findings of new research on the brain, investigating evolutionary biology, analyzing psychologists, studying social changes, and annoying the locals.<br/><br/>The result is a sometimes shocking, always illuminating, and frequently hilarious look at where the battle line is drawn between the sexes, why it was drawn, and how to cross it. Read this book and understand--at last!--why men never listen, why women can't read maps, and why learning each other's secrets means you'll never have to say sorry again. <br/><br/>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[I rated this book as a 4 only for the fact that I rounded up from a 3.5. I found the book to be very entertaining with the occasional informative statistics, which I typically only glanced at. It is a great book to remember all the differences that men and women share in this world. As well, it is a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42566514">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It]]>
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    <![CDATA[Have you ever wished your partner came with an instruction booklet? This international bestseller is the answer to all the things you've ever wondered about the opposite sex.<br/><br/>For their controversial new book on the differences between the way men and women think and communicate, Barbara and Allan Pease spent three years traveling around the world, collecting the dramatic findings of new research on the brain, investigating evolutionary biology, analyzing psychologists, studying social changes, and annoying the locals.<br/><br/>The result is a sometimes shocking, always illuminating, and frequently hilarious look at where the battle line is drawn between the sexes, why it was drawn, and how to cross it. Read this book and understand--at last!--why men never listen, why women can't read maps, and why learning each other's secrets means you'll never have to say sorry again. <br/><br/>]]>
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  <read_at>Thu Apr 30 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I received it as a gift. I hated it!  If I could give it zero stars I would.<br/><br/>The husband and wife who wrote this book claim to be social scientists.  Their style of writing is not in the least bit scientific. They do the reader the grand favor of presenting &quot;facts&quot; backed up by ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50607311">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Warum Männer nicht zuhören und Frauen schlecht einparken]]>
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    <![CDATA[Ever wonder why women can brush their teeth while walking and talking on various subjects while men generally find this very difficult to do?  Why 99 percent of all patents are registered by men?  Why stressed women talk?  Why so many husbands hate shopping? According to Barbara and Allan Pease, science now confirms that &quot;the way our brains are wired and the hormones pulsing through our bodies are the two factors that largely dictate, long before we are born, how we will think and behave. Our instincts are simply our genes determining how our bodies will behave in given sets of circumstances.&quot;  That's right: socialization, politics, or upbringing aside, men and women have profound brain differences and are intrinsically inclined to act in distinct--and consequently frustrating--ways.<p> The premises behind <em>Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps</em> is that all too often, these differences get in the way of fulfilling relationships and that understanding our basic urges can lead to greater self-awareness and improved relations between the sexes.  The Peases spent three years researching their book--traveling the globe, talking to experts, and studying the cutting-edge research of ethnologists, psychologists, biologists, and neuroscientists--yet their work does not read a bit like &quot;hard science.&quot;  In fact, the authors go to considerable lengths to point out that their book is intended to be funny, interesting, and easy to read; in short, this is a book whose primary purpose is to talk about &quot;average men and women, that is, how most men and women behave most of the time, in most situations, and for most of the past.&quot;<p> <em>Why Men Don't Listen</em>, therefore, deals largely in generalizations, and this is bound to alienate some readers. &quot;We don't beat around the bush with suppositions or politically correct clichés,&quot; the Peases claim.  Those up for an irreverent and unapologetic take on why men and women just can't help themselves sometimes may just decide to read on. <em>--Svenja Soldovieri</em></p></p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[<strong>Sehr interessant, aber viel zu einseitig und vereinfachend</strong><br/>	<br/>Nach längerer Zeit habe ich mich nun doch entschieden dieses Buch zu lesen und muss sagen, dass ich sehr zwiegespalten bin. Ein großer Pluspunkt ist der locker flockige Schreibstil, der durchaus ernst zu nehmende Themen leicht ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/39889331">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Por Que É Que os Homens Nunca Ouvem Nada e as Mulheres Não Sabem Ler os Mapas de Estradas]]>
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    <![CDATA[Sabe qual o motivo por que os homens só são capazes de fazer uma coisa de cada vez? E porque é que as mulheres têm tanta dificuldade em fazer marcha-atrás? Porque é que os homens nunca encontram a manteiga no frigorífico? E por que será que os homens e as mulheres nunca pensam a mesma coisa, no mesmo momento? E por que não deveriam os homens mentir às mulheres?<br/>Tudo isso acontece simplesmente porque os homens e as mulheres são diferentes. Nem melhores nem piores: só diferentes. Haverá alguém que diga o contrário? Na verdade, isto é uma coisa que toda a gente sabe mas que poucas pessoas estão dispostas a admitir.<br/><br/>É destas e de muitas outras diferenças que Barbara e Allan Pease falam neste livro surpreendente, muito esclarecedor e frequentemente hilariante. Todos nós nos podemos reconhecer nas situações da vida quotidiana descritas pelos autores.]]>
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  <date_added>Fri Jun 13 14:32:53 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Jun 13 14:32:53 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[É um livro engraçadíssimo, interessante e lê-se num ápice. A sua mensagem principal é: geneticamente, o homem é diferente da mulher e não há grande coisa a fazer. Podemos apenas tentar compreender essas diferenças e, conhecendo-as e o que as origina, viver melhor. Ajuda-nos a compreender p...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24435280">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It]]>
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    <![CDATA[Have you ever wished your partner came with an instruction booklet? This international bestseller is the answer to all the things you've ever wondered about the opposite sex.<br/><br/>For their controversial new book on the differences between the way men and women think and communicate, Barbara and Allan Pease spent three years traveling around the world, collecting the dramatic findings of new research on the brain, investigating evolutionary biology, analyzing psychologists, studying social changes, and annoying the locals.<br/><br/>The result is a sometimes shocking, always illuminating, and frequently hilarious look at where the battle line is drawn between the sexes, why it was drawn, and how to cross it. Read this book and understand--at last!--why men never listen, why women can't read maps, and why learning each other's secrets means you'll never have to say sorry again. <br/><br/>]]>
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  <date_added>Sat Jun 27 05:02:57 -0700 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[Sebuah buku psikologi populer yang sangat menarik. Buku ini mencoba menjelaskan secara ilmiah dengan bahasa sederhana bahwa pria dan wanita mempunyai perbedaan dengan alasan-alasan di balik perbedaan tersebut. Meskipun mungkin masih kalah populer dengan buku-bukunya John Gray, &quot;Mars &amp; Venus&quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/61274683">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[It's a neat book, but to be frank, it could have been condensed to about half of its size. A *very* large part of what was written was duplicate information. In fact, one section was almost a verbatim repetition of a previous section. It could have been an editing mistake, but it was still irksome. ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/77288774">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[sebagai gambaran umum..buku ini cukup oke jd referensi how to understanding our mate... tp menurut gw..setiap manusia itu unik, sangat spesifik dan spesial..tak ada yg sama, kembar siam sekalipun..jd kalo mw, belajar how to understanding our mate....dinamika hubungan itu sendirilah guru terbaiknya ;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/61157877">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[Can't we all just get along?!  Nope.  We, men and women, are wired differently from birth and trying to pretend that we are &quot;equal&quot; only widens the chasm between the sexes.  We are different.  Not better or worse, just different.  The sooner we understand this, the more effectively we will...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/59706775">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Entertaining, quick and fun. A quick description of why men and women think and interact differently to situation, filled with also personal views but very convincing. I am not a person who buy these books but a much older relative who know I love books gave me it saying he bought two copies mist ki...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/78630154">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[semalam sempat diskimming..<br/><br/>ternyata.. isinya jauh lebih kompleks dibandingkan Men are form Mars, Women from Venus. Buku ini memasukan unsur hormnolan (fisik dll) bukan semata konstruk budaya dan kejiwaan aja. Mau dibaca lagi, tapi kudu diawalin sama buku lucu, biar gak kebawa serius pas ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/68313119">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Por Que É Que os Homens Nunca Ouvem Nada e as Mulheres Não Sabem Ler os Mapas de Estradas]]>
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    <![CDATA[Sabe qual o motivo por que os homens só são capazes de fazer uma coisa de cada vez? E porque é que as mulheres têm tanta dificuldade em fazer marcha-atrás? Porque é que os homens nunca encontram a manteiga no frigorífico? E por que será que os homens e as mulheres nunca pensam a mesma coisa, no mesmo momento? E por que não deveriam os homens mentir às mulheres?<br/>Tudo isso acontece simplesmente porque os homens e as mulheres são diferentes. Nem melhores nem piores: só diferentes. Haverá alguém que diga o contrário? Na verdade, isto é uma coisa que toda a gente sabe mas que poucas pessoas estão dispostas a admitir.<br/><br/>É destas e de muitas outras diferenças que Barbara e Allan Pease falam neste livro surpreendente, muito esclarecedor e frequentemente hilariante. Todos nós nos podemos reconhecer nas situações da vida quotidiana descritas pelos autores.]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[HAHAHA um livro bastante engraçado e bastante, bastante curioso... Confesso que fiz aqueles questionários todos e que fiquei bastante interessado no que são, afinal, homens e mulheres... Sem dúvida ensinou-me mais sobre o ser humano e as diferenças entre si!]]></body>
    
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