My Policeman

My Policeman

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An exquisitely told, tragic tale of thwarted love.

From the moment Marion first lays eyes on Tom -- her best friend's big brother, broad, blond, blue-eyed -- she is smitten. And when he comes home from National Service to be a policeman, Marion, a newly qualified teacher, is determined to win him. Unable to acknowledge the signs that something is amiss, she plunges into mar...more
Paperback, 352 pages
Published March 5th 2012 by Chatto & Windus (first published February 2nd 2012)
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Sandra Matteotti
Wir schreiben das Jahr 1999 und Marion hat beschlossen, Patrick bei sich aufzunehmen, nachdem dieser zwei Schlaganfälle hatte und nicht mehr für sich sorgen kann. Die beiden verbindet eine lange Geschichte, eine, die Marion nun aufschreiben will, eine Geschichte, die auch Marions Mann Tom betrifft.

Marion beschreibt ihre erste Begegnung mit Tom. Sie erinnert sich, wie sie über Jahre für ihn geschwärmt hatte, endlich von ihm wahrgenommen und schliesslich geheiratet wurde. Sie konnte ihr Glück kaum...more
Michael Soros
I don’t know what inspired me to buy this book – must have been a spur of the moment thing. I like books set in this time period – late 1950s. I thought it might be something like ‘London Triptych’. It couldn’t be further from it though. The plot is described well enough by others so I won’t go into that. The book itself is well crafted. I’m not sure if I should say ‘well written though’. After I read half of it before giving up I looked up the author’s profile and found that she had taught crea...more
Julie Rainey
One of those books (like The Poisonwood Bible) which inhabits your field of vision while you're reading it. Walking around Brighton this past week, I half expected to see the characters slip out of the museum or stroll, arms swinging, through the arch at Queen's Park.

Roberts crafts a story from the desires and fears of the three main characters as they try to negotiate the social strata of the south coast in the 1950s. Starting and fiinishing in present day Peacehaven, the characters long for p...more
Roger Pettit
I think it was George Bernard Shaw who coined the maxim: "He who can, does. He who cannot, teaches."! While there may sometimes be some truth in those words, they most certainly do not apply to the writer of this very good novel, Bethan Roberts. Roberts has apparently taught Creative Writing at Chichester University and at Goldsmiths College, both of which are in the UK. On the evidence of this, her most recent book, she is an exceptionally talented writer. "My Policeman" is a beautifully told a...more
Cate
Heartbreaking. Beautifully written, measured story but oh how sad. There are no winners here. Marion meets her friend Sylvie's older brother & falls madly in love with him, despite her friend's warning "Tom's not like that". But Marion is determined to have her way & marry him. Tom has done his National Service & joined the police force and thru this he meets the erudite, cultured & charming Patrick. As madly as Marion loves Tom, so to does Patrick. Both love his beauty, his bare...more
Bonnie Brody
Since Marion was a girl she has been besotted by her friend Sylvie's older brother, Tom. She dreams of their being together and tries to scheme her way into seeing him any which way she can. As they grow older, Tom goes into the military and then becomes a policeman. He is a good swimmer and gives Marion swimming lessons. Though Marion feels so strongly about Tom and he must know it, he is slow to make any sort of advances. Sylvie tries to warn Marion about Tom, alluding to the fact that he is d...more
Nigeyb
I decided to read this book after it was chosen by Brighton & Hove's wonderful City Reads initiative as the city's book for 2012. The City Reads website is here: http://cityreads.co.uk. Most of the story takes place in and around Brighton and Hove.

I struggled with the book for the first hundred pages or so. This section contained, what felt like, a lot of background information. After this first section, the book switches into a second narrative voice and picks up considerably. Once the seco...more
Sonja
beautifully written and incredibly sad. set in the 1950s when homosexuality was still illegal in great britain, a woman and man recount their lives being in love with the same man ...

i found myself wondering/growing increasingly frustrated with certain elements of the story, such as - (view spoiler)[WHY did marion and tom stay together for fourty years? i can understand the reasons at the time, but what kind of existence is that? it just felt like their whole lives had been a big waste. (hide s...more
Ruthiella
My Policeman is a set in 1950’s Brighton, England, at time when homosexuality was a criminal offence. Never really friends, Marion and Patrick’s relationship hinges solely on the fact that they both love the same man, Tom. The story is recounted some 40 years later alternatively by Marion in a confessional letter and Patrick using excerpts from his journal. This book was a quick read…very easy to devour. On the whole I found it a very moving story, but told fluidly; it never got too heavy, I nev...more
Robyn
Sad, sad, sad. Such a beautifully written book - one that really got inside the hearts and minds of the 3 main characters. Fabulously set in late 1950s (and present day) Brighton, this book was totally compelling, and very telling about how difficult it was being gay, or indeed a woman, in those times. I was struck by the sadness of each of the characters in this book, and the way most people in the story, both primary and minor characters had such empty and wasted lives. Ms Roberts' description...more
Vika Ryabova
Серьезная и печальная книга. Автор, будучи специалистом по работе с документами, проделала предварительную работу с источниками проекта «Жизнь геев и лесбиянок в Брайтоне в 50-60-х годах». Интересна конструкция романа – несколько дневников, заметно отличающихся друг от друга по стилю.

Никто из героев-«первертов» романа не борется за свои права : ) Эта книга – не призыв к действию, а попытка показать чувства, мысли «нетрадиционных» людей, которые, на самом деле, ничем не отличаются от чувств люде...more
Lindsay (Little Reader Library)
‘The words that come to mind when I think of my policeman are light and delight.’

This is a wonderful literary novel from Bethan Roberts. Beautifully written, heart rending in it’s pain, not a word out of place I felt, and it tells of the love, secrets, shame and torment endured in the lives of three people, Marion, Tom and Patrick.

The opening grabs the reader’s attention. We are immediately plunged into Marion’s very personal written confession addressed directly to a man named Patrick, and the...more
lucy by the sea
This is a beautiful book about love, shame and regret. Marion is a 1950's schoolteacher in love with Tom, her best friend's brother. Patrick is a closeted gay art curator who is in love with the same Tom his local bobby.

The characters are deeply drawn out and the place is slowly sketched around the story. Even the supporting cast are given a lot of room to grow. I particularly liked the story around Julia, Marion's feminist teacher friend.

Brighton in the 50's, sea swimming, pie and mash and lay...more
Kevin Shannon
love these novels set in the familiar surroundings of the hometown (cf roy grace stories). It is the old story of boy meets boy, boy meets girl, boy marries beard, beard throws other boy under the wheels of the law etc etc. All in the Brighton of the 1950s where to bbe an "invert" was not half as cute as it is today. The first sections dragged somewhat, but as the tragedy unfolds it is rather gripping.
Shar
A really quick and easy read - and overall I did enjoy it. I hesitated over the star rating because whilst it was very well written (Which made me want to give a higher rating) and I was able to empathise with the subject matter - I found it difficult to actually like any of the characters involved - that includes the main characters and the extras!

Judy
Sep 08, 2012 Judy added it
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A sad story about another time but an age-old issue. Simply and effectively told, people and events revealed gradually. I am glad that I read this book, particularly as I am old enough to remember a slightly later period of time but one where the same prejudices saw a lot of heartbreak and physical pain inflicted on others who were different.
Scott Loman
What a sad, moving story. It's amazing that in a time when same-sex marriage is becoming "accepted" that only a few short years ago these same relationships/individuals were punished by prison sentences and even death. How these two - each in love with "my policeman" - adapt their feelings, expectations, and lives is touching and poignant.
Simon Packham
I loved this book. Those words you see time and time again in book blurbs, 'heartbreaking' 'evocative''compelling' are actually appropriate here. The 1950s Brighton setting was a plus for me. I imagined my grandparents in the background - in Kemp Town mostly - living very different lives from the characters in the book. I'll definitely be reading some more Bethan Roberts.
Nigel
This 2012 City reads choice for Brighton is a quick but thought-provoking and atmospheric read. Mostly set in the repressive 1950s it is big on the fateful consequences of the period's reactionary legislation and widespread discrimination, but for many of the characters one can't help wanting to give them a good shake and make them wake up and smell the coffee... or stewed tea.
Kristeen
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Abigail
I loved this book, which is the story of two people - one man, one woman - who share an obsessive love for a policeman during the 1950s when homosexuality was illegal. The voices of both Marion, the determined and resentful wife, and Patrick, the urbane but ultimately fragile lover, are compelling. This book will break your heart but should also leave you with the reassuring feeling that mistakes can be rectified.

Kate
Very typical of the gay world in England at the time. Because I'm local I enjoyed the places. Well written, very moving, very easy to read.
Carol
What a poignant and, sad, sad story reminding us how intolerance can destroy lives - no winners in this beautifully told tale
carelessdestiny
This is perhaps one of the most badly written books I've ever read. It says on the flyleaf that she teaches "creative writing" - poor students!
Mary-jane Hamer
Loved this book. Trying to locate earlier novel by same author. The pools without success
Mel
A very different book, delightfully melancholy! The characters were very well developed.
Melissa
The first book I have read of Bethan Roberts. An easy and enjoyable read.
Lauren Hetreles
A beautiful but heartbreaking story. I very much enjoyed this book.
Claire
I loved this book. Beautiful and painful
Nikki (Whitters)
A really beautiful book.
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Bethan Roberts was born in Oxford and grew up in nearby Abingdon. Her first novel 'The Pools' was published in 2007 and won a Jerwood/Arvon Young Writers’ Award. Her second novel 'The Good Plain Cook', published in 2008, was serialized on BBC Radio 4’s Book at Bedtime and was chosen as one of Time Out’s books of the year. Her third novel 'My Policeman' is published by Chatto and Windus in February...more
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