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  <title><![CDATA[To Hell with All That: Loving and Loathing Our Inner Housewife]]></title>
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  <default_description>Caitlin Flanagan, the hilarious and hotly disputed social critic, compares the rituals and experiences that shaped the fifties housewife with those that have forged the modern woman, and arrives at some surprising conclusions. In her signature prose -- bitingly funny and brutally honest -- Flanagan examines everything from the contemporary white wedding craze to the epidemic of undersexed marriages. Whether she is reporting on the mommy wars, the anti-clutter movement, or America's new nanny culture, her book reveals both the high cost women pay for devoting themselves to the people they love, and also the matchless rewards that come from such a sacrifice. Caitlin Flanagan began her magazine-writing career at the Atlantic Monthly in 2001 with a series of essays on modern family life that became an immediate sensation and the subject of an ongoing and heated national discussion. Now a staff writer for The New Yorker, her essays are passed from friend to friend, challenged and championed in the media, and often made the subject of book group discussions. With its insightful observations and trenchant conclusions, To Hell With All That will generate controversy and serious media attention while it also delights and enlightens readers across the country.</default_description>
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  <original_publication_month type="integer">4</original_publication_month>
  <original_publication_year type="integer">2006</original_publication_year>
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      <name><![CDATA[Caitlin Flanagan]]></name>
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    <body><![CDATA[Almost everyone will find a hook (or several) in this volume of essays on modern family life.  Flanagan explores mothers, wives, work, sex, weddings, infertility, housekeeping, chaos, control, nannies, tax code as a moral issue, babies, children, death, and life. She does not proclaim to know much a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36101700">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Dec 20 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Caitlin Flanagan writes about motherhood without the sentimentality. In this book she covers every aspect of modern womanhood from overblown wedding ceremonies to the difficult decision to work outside the home. She writes about her twins' nanny, and she writes about Martha Stewart. She sees through...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40794856">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Flanagan has a sharp wit and can write some enjoyable prose.  But she really comes across as a Stepford Bee-otch in this book, so it was hard for me to appreciate.  On the one hand, she has all the fond rose tinted memories of childhood that I love as well.  I recall a simpler time (don't we all?) w...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58911730">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="66327665">
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  <read_at>Sat Aug 08 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sat Aug 08 19:22:13 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Flanagan's writing focuses on how the past 30 years has changed the lives and choices of women, but in that time we have also lost sight of so many things that really do matter.  <br/><br/>She writes on nannies, the anti-clutter movement (loved this one), lack of sex in marriage, weddings, motherh...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/66327665">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Apr 10 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was very good. I enjoyed following her along on her self discovery as a stay at home mom evolving into a somewhat working mom. I especially liked all the numerous references to books and movies on housewives and mothers in their numerous roles. It left me constantly reaching for a pen and ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51168355">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="35836508">
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    <body><![CDATA[I have read a number of Caitlin Flanagan's essays on modern family life in The New Yorker, and this collection is compelling and sometimes very moving.  She writes about weddings, infertility, twins, nannies, work, marriage, sex, and breast cancer: all the good stuff.  The book spoke to my ambivalen...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/35836508">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Apr 15 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Wed Apr 15 08:14:37 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I am so NOT enjoying this book, but since I'm 3/4 finished, I'm sure I will skim to the end of it.  She's a good writer, but I just really can't relate to what she's talking about.  Her stories are those of the problems with nannies, overscheduled kids, keeping up with the Joneses-Mommy Edition, etc...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52208389">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Feb 03 13:52:49 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[The book started out strong with some really interesting research.  I agreed with so many of her points, but really felt like she kept missing the mark.  I didn't appreciate her attack on Steven Covey and think that she simply doesn't really understand his philosophy.  She has a witty writing style ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45125228">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Jul 03 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book found its way to me via a yard sale on Melissa Lane.  I had to stop, felt the pressing need to spend the only dollar I had on something, anything.<br/><br/>I walked straight to a box of books, picked this one up, smiled and paid the lady her dollar.<br/><br/>I wonder, did she read it? ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/61983557">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Caitlin Flanagan is undoubtedly an amusing writer--but she holds herself out as an annoying &quot;i'm better than all of you&quot; example of I don't even know what--anti-feminism? neo-feminism? martha-stewart-is-my-idolism? i haven't quite figured it out. But I do like to read her articles and so I...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/38699644">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <date_updated>Wed Jan 21 22:39:00 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Caitlin Flanagan writes essays on modern family life for the New Yorker, which explains why this book is long on charm and short on tirades. Despite the inflammatory title, Mrs. (dare I call her?) Flanagan takes a friendly look at all things domestic as experienced by today's at-home mother.<br/><br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43895929">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Oct 23 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Nov 19 20:40:40 -0800 2008</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[To Hell with All That is a commentary on the past and present feelings surrounding “housewifery”.  I got frustrated with Flanagan's writing style because she is extremely well read and makes the assumption the reader is as well.  She quotes this person and that person and this piece of literatur...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/38194218">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="34352898">
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    <body><![CDATA[Flanagan uses her own family experiences as a springboard to compare sixties housewives to the modern mother, asking what have we gained from women's liberation?  What have we lost?  It is amazing how much things have changed in a mere 50 years.  (Just watch Mad Men.) Flanagan recalls her mother's f...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/34352898">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="15602211">
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  <read_at>Mon Feb 25 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really liked this book! My favorite chapters (on America's love of huge weddings and virgin brides) were the first two I read and I was hooked. <br/><br/>Basically, the author is pointing out the truth: we've gained so much as women in the last generation or two, but we've also lost a little bit...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/15602211">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="13549216">
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    <body><![CDATA[I loved this book. The reviews I read from other people on this site who are not on my friends list are pretty negative. I think they are quick to be offended without understanding the real purpose of this book.  I think this book does a wonderful job of being completely non-partisan.  She explains ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/13549216">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[The writing is amusing and engaging, but this book is just irritating. <br/><br/>Flanagan tries to laud and defend the decision of women to stay home with their kids through her own example. She makes some decent &quot;division of labor&quot; arguments, but it's just impossible to take her serious...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4581032">more...</a>]]></body>
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