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January 8th 2008
by Knopf Publishing Group
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Hardcover, 320 pages
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0307264203
(isbn13: 9780307264206)
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Once again Sue Miller takes us deep into the private lives of women with this mesmerizing portrait of two marriages exposed in all their shame and imp
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The first word that comes to mind is 'uncomfortable.' This might have to do with reading it on the absolute most hellish plane ride ever, but it also had to do with the general content. This book was one of those - wow it would be so good if she would just x,y,z and the rest of the alphabet ...
The plot was set up well enough - couple moves next to aging woman who has been 'the senators wife' for ages, in that she has watched her senator husband cheat on her repeatedly and stuggled with s...more
The plot was set up well enough - couple moves next to aging woman who has been 'the senators wife' for ages, in that she has watched her senator husband cheat on her repeatedly and stuggled with s...more
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Read in February, 2008
Life Doesn't Change in its Fundamentals"
I've read enough work by Sue Miller to say with complete confidence that she's a brilliant writer, and a master at character development. The Senator's Wife is a gray tale of two couples, neighbors sharing an east coast duplex in an upscale neighborhood. In the story, Miller brings in the focus so tightly, that it feels a little voyeuristic prying into the everyday thoughts, feelings and actions of these characters. Said characters are or...more
I've read enough work by Sue Miller to say with complete confidence that she's a brilliant writer, and a master at character development. The Senator's Wife is a gray tale of two couples, neighbors sharing an east coast duplex in an upscale neighborhood. In the story, Miller brings in the focus so tightly, that it feels a little voyeuristic prying into the everyday thoughts, feelings and actions of these characters. Said characters are or...more
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Read in March, 2008
Sue Miller honestly drives me crazy. I love her writing, it's very personal and raw. This is the third book I have read of hers, and while the books have all kept my interests, their endings either leave me unfullfilled, or freak me out. The Senator's Wife falls into the latter category. I didn't really know what to think of this book. What was it trying to say? You have poor dedicated Delia, stuck in this love trap with her philandering husband. You have Meri-who I just couldn't figure out...more
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Read in January, 2008
Oh, literary women's fiction. So much of you feels so much the same. You drip with relationship drama and way overly descriptive language. The way someone peels an orange and then sits on a chair and feels the wood beneath her and smells the air and etc etc etc does not tell me much about her character. But I tend to devour you anyway, you literary comfort food, you. You are a cup of tea in bed on a cold day, or maybe those Oreos I treat myself to after a healthier dinner.
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Read in March, 2008
The senator's wife, Delia, is faithful to a fault. After her adultrous husband has embarrassed and humilated her numerous times, she still lives in a la-la, fairy tale land of denial. Delia is delusional in thinking that by running away to Paris for a few months, it puts everything into perspective. Add to that, the fact that she is a raging alcoholic. Her three kids, in varying degrees of disgust, offer some advice to Delia, which she categorically ignores. Meri and Nathan, Delia's next door ne...more
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Read in March, 2008
I always like Miller's writing style and this was book was no exception to that. Also, I've always liked her perspective on the minds of women who are disinterested in traditional women's roles/expectations.
In terms of the story, though, several parts of it were left unresolved, in my mind at least. For example, Meri struggles with the above throughout the story, but by the end is enjoying domestic bliss and is seemingly a different person---how or why this transition took place isn'...more
In terms of the story, though, several parts of it were left unresolved, in my mind at least. For example, Meri struggles with the above throughout the story, but by the end is enjoying domestic bliss and is seemingly a different person---how or why this transition took place isn'...more
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Read in February, 2008
I've had the same experience with both of the Sue Miller books I've read... this one and While I Was Gone. It starts out great, and I really do like Miller's handling of language, and then it all just goes wrong.
Another reviewer put it best... "uncomfortable". That's where these books take you -- to an uncomfortable place. And not the kind of uncomfortable where you think, "Oh, this is good for me, I need to learn something." No. It's just wrong somehow.
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Another reviewer put it best... "uncomfortable". That's where these books take you -- to an uncomfortable place. And not the kind of uncomfortable where you think, "Oh, this is good for me, I need to learn something." No. It's just wrong somehow.
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Read in June, 2008
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A lady in the libraryrecommends it for: Women
Disregard all my other 5 stars for this one. It was amazing. If you are a woman, read it! It was my first Sue Miller book and she is a very talented writer. I felt that the characters were very real. It was an extremely peaceful read and sometimes when something catastrophic is about to happen, an author will go into ridiculous detail right before it happens (ever notice that?) And a couple times she goes into extreme detail and you find yourself holding your breath and then you slowly let it ou...more
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I think the book cover for The Senator's Wife says it all - boring and unimaginative. Miller's latest tells the story about Delia, the wife of a former Washington senator, who hasn't lived with her philandering husband for decades. But, it is also the story of Meri, a newly married 38-year old who is pregnant with her first child. Meri and her husband Nathan move in next door to Delia, and Delia and Meri strike up a seeming friendship. My initial difficulty with the characters is that Meri is wr...more
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Read in December, 2008
After finishing this book, I realized I didn't really like any of the characters. At first Delia, the senator's wife, seems to be an interesting person. She appears to be a graciously realistic, secure older woman. As the book progresses, she becomes less so. Cracks appear in her seemingly flawless presentation, and in the end, she crumbles.
Meri never seems to have it all together. She is more real with her doubts and insecurities, but after what happens in the end, it's hard ...more
Meri never seems to have it all together. She is more real with her doubts and insecurities, but after what happens in the end, it's hard ...more
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Read in March, 2009
Sue Miller dives deep into the personal lives of two women - neighbors is all they are -- to reveal a whole world of surprising parallels, needs, and desires that allows the reader (but not always the characters themselves) to appreciate that each woman's thoughts and experiences align with, overlap, and even sometimes threaten the other's. The book is also a portrait of two marriages, and it does a nice job of capturing the difficulties inherent in making peace with a situation that is, in som...more
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Read in July, 2008
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I enjoyed this book immensely. It is a dually narrated story that goes back and forth between the two lives of Delia and Meri. Delia is an older woman who is the wife of the well known Senator Naughton. She lives alone on one side of an old New England duplex. Meri and her husband, a professor at the local College, move into the other side of the duplex. Meri is instantly intrigued by Delia and wonders as does the reader where her husband resides if not with his wife. Both women's stories ...more
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Read in January, 2009
Another story of betrayal. The loves we know better than. The lies we tell other people to protect how we see ourselves.
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Read in June, 2008
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Saw it in the Libraryrecommends it for: Probably no one
A book appropos of the political times- politicians cheating on their wives, destorying families and their careers. If more of these women left their cheating husbands and made examples of them, maybe the next philanderer would learn. My frustration grew with Delia. I don't understand the "stand by your man" attitude.
And please don't get me started on Meri.
This is the first book I've read of Sue Miller's. Are all her characters this shallow, whiney and sel...more
And please don't get me started on Meri.
This is the first book I've read of Sue Miller's. Are all her characters this shallow, whiney and sel...more
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Read in March, 2008
Delia is the Senaotor's wife who lives alone after ending her marriage with her philandering husband. Yet, despite his many affairs and betrayals, she stands by him at the cost of her own freedom.
Meri is the woman who has moved into the duplex, next door to Delia. She is a newlywed and we see her move through her struggles with marriage, pregnancy and their life after the birth of their child. She and Delia strike up a friendship, even though both of them are at different points in ...more
Meri is the woman who has moved into the duplex, next door to Delia. She is a newlywed and we see her move through her struggles with marriage, pregnancy and their life after the birth of their child. She and Delia strike up a friendship, even though both of them are at different points in ...more
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Read in May, 2009
Loved it, really loved it. I thought Sue Miller had an incredible way of writing flawed, complex characters, and practically every decision her characters make seemed authentic and interesting and true to me. The story focuses on two married women living somewhat parallel lives, sharing a duplex. Meri, newly married to her handsome husband, is slowly adjusting to married life, and Delia, a famous Senator's wife is estranged from her notoriously unfaithful husband and lives a quiet life. The ...more
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Read in April, 2009
I enjoyed the overlapping stories of two women addressing conventional problems in their own ways; their lives are at the heart of this novel. Delia and Meri, through whose voices the story is told, are complex and believable characters who face external marital and familial issues while also dealing with questions of their own identities--how much of themselves is defined by the people in their lives, and what do they determine about themselves? The quirky relationship between the two women is ...more
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Read in January, 2009
My mom, aunt, and grandmother all loved this book, but I don't know if I can join their club. I liked it alright, but the story just didn't grab me. It focuses on Meri and Nathan, a recently married couple in their mid-30s who move in next door to Delia, an elderly woman and the wife of a famous senator named Tom Naughton. Delia and Tom have lived apart for decades as a result of his infidelities, but they remain secret lovers. The chapters alternate between Meri and Delia, revealing both De...more
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Read in May, 2009
I have mixed feelings about this book. While it held my attention and I found it to be a page turner there were some things that just bothered me and maybe that is how it was intented. I nver felt comfortable with Nathan, I always felt that he was on the verge of something but yet it was never exlored, was he a bad guy or a good husband... hard to say.
I found it difficult to relate to Meri during her labor and the aftermath, although I never experienced such a horrible labor myself,...more
I found it difficult to relate to Meri during her labor and the aftermath, although I never experienced such a horrible labor myself,...more
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"Do you remember when everyone thought Bush (sr) had a mistress too"" he asks in the course of a Clinton era conversation. "But she was rumored to be someone wealthy and Waspy, of course...The problem here is the goddamn Democrats, who sleep down, you see. They love that white trash...And white trash loves publicity,so the Democrats are the ones who get into all the trouble. As opposed to the Republicans. They sleep up...Up, where all is Episcopalian and quiet as death itself, and no one ever has to hear a thing about it"
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