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3.46  ·  Rating Details  ·  603 Ratings  ·  114 Reviews
Dear Me: More Letters to My Sixteen Year Old Self Dear Me: More Letters to My Sixteen-Year-Old Self A collection of letters from celebrities written to their sixteen-year-old selves Full description
Hardcover, 160 pages
Published 2011 by Simon & Schuster (first published October 15th 2009)
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Nov 30, 2011 Tressa rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: nonfiction
What a neat concept for a book. In Dear Me: A Letter to My Sixteen-Year-Old Self, Joseph Galliano has enlisted seventy-five celebrities to write letters full of advice, warnings, and encouragement to their sixteen-year-old selves. With a group that includes writers, singers, actors, and musicians, old and young, you won't be surprised that the letters range from the humorous to the serious to the touching.

Some of my favorite advice:

Dear Angie, Treasure your abilities: you won't always have them.
Mar 16, 2012 kylajaclyn rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
What an inspired and charming book. I'd like to see another one published with letters from Everyday Joes (and Janes). In the spirit of this book, I am going to write a letter to my 16-year-old self too. I think everyone should do the same!!

Dear Ky (Miss 16),

What baggage you will have in the future! But as heavy as it is, it's all you, girl! I am here from the future to dispense a bit of advice to you. My first thought penny is that you should take everything with a grain of salt, including all
Laala Alghata
Feb 24, 2010 Laala Alghata rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
“You seem to spend a lot of time laughing: that’s good. You’ll remember laughing like that when you’re old.” — Joanna Lumley

This is a really, really lovely book. I adore it. It is what the title states — lots of celebrities and personalities writing letters to themselves when they were 16. Most have advice, some are funny, some are sad, some are touching. It doesn’t matter that these people are famous. That may be why some people buy it, but that’s not what you get from the pages. If you’re youn
Dec 07, 2011 Fen rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I will freely admit that the only reason I even knew about this book was because my favorite actor, James Marsters, has a letter printed in it... but it was really quite an interesting read. Some of the letters were flippant, some were way more personal than I would have expected, but nearly all of them got me thinking. My favorite may have been the letter from Alan Rickman saying, basically, if in the future someone asks him to write a letter to his 16 year old self, don't do it: "Make your own ...more
Like in any anthology, there are hits and misses. It's hard to single out anything particular for the former because they all say more or less the same thing - a Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul II blend of make the most of the time you have and don't sweat the small stuff. The difference really amounts to whether there is a smattering of humour (Joanna Lumley, Emma Thompson) or a little bitterness (Annie Lennox, Lesley Manville) and more or less biographical information in the letters. As for ...more
Apr 25, 2012 Scott rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction
Too homogeneous to read more than a handful of entries in one sitting, but not meaty enough to work as a coffee table book. It casts a wide net, covering everything from bestselling authors to youtube sensations, but the same sentiments are repeated over and over, those sentiments themselves being rife with cliches.

I also take fundamental issue with the premise of the book. I know the point of it is to see what wisdom various personalities have gained in the course of their lives, and there's n
Jun 12, 2012 Jayde rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: motivational
A letter to my sixteen year old self is a great concept but the book does not live up to the potential of it's idea. The letters contained within on very rare occasions invoke emotion but for the most part miss the mark and land somewhere in mediocre territory. I constantly found that my eyes were wandering down the page to judge how much more there was to go before I could gratefully turn the page, a tell tale sign of an uninteresting read. There are a few familiar big names but for the most pa ...more
Ari Santillanes
Some of the content of the letters got repetitive, but I think that just speaks to the universality of life's journeys. I was looking forward to the letters of the celebrities I admire a lot, but was surprised at how touching I found some of the letters by celebs I'd barely given a second thought to before. Elvira's letter to her younger self was so sincere and void of camp! I might start carrying a handkerchief, thanks to Graydon Carter's (Editor of Vanity Fair) list of all the possible uses. A ...more
Dec 09, 2015 Billie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favorites
I bought this book because my favorite musician of all time had a letter published to his 16-year-old self (Rob Thomas). I was, of course, very impressed by his letter as I think most of what he writes is poetry.

With that said, the entire book impressed me. I enjoyed reading the letters from celebrities I knew, as well as from ones I'd never heard of. I go back and read it on occasion to remind me what I'd like to tell a 16-year-old me.

I bought this as a gift for a couple teenagers at the time,
Aug 18, 2013 Laura rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-in-2013
I think this book would be just as interesting if it was written by everyday people, as opposed to just those who have gone one to fame and success. Thankfully, there seem to be lots of places for people to post their own (the book's website, Facebook page, Twitter, etc.) which I think I'll enjoy checking out. This also made me think a lot about what I would write to myself, which has proved to be an interesting thought exercise.
Edwina Hall Callan
Jun 15, 2013 Edwina Hall Callan rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: library-book, 2012
75 celebrities, (writers, musicians, athletes and actors) are asked to write a letter to their "Sixteen-Year-old Self."
I enjoyed reading most of the letters, but, there were a few where the hand-writing was simply so illegible, that I had to give up on trying to decipher it and move on to the next page.
Other than that little bit of bother, it was a really good book.
Jul 29, 2011 Sharon rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: loved-this-one
Great book, that inspired me to think what would I say to my sixteen year old self, and how would I advise myself.

Love the fact that most of the writers at some point usually tell themselves to not start smoking.

Good little book, I just wish I knew more of who some of the contributors are.
Caitlin Simm
Jun 13, 2015 Caitlin Simm rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book was a really great read, and I didn't want to put it down the whole time. I got some really great advice, and when ever I could read it through out the day, I didn't put it down. I loved reading the short letters as well because they were entertaining and some were funny. Although I'm 18, I think these still apply to me so I found the advice for heartbreak, dating, friendship and life very useful. My favourite letters were by Lesley Manville, Sir Ranulph Fiennes, Nadia Sawalha, Paul O ...more
Oct 10, 2015 Bhavik rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
2.5 stars

Some of these letters were funny and pretty enjoyable but most of these went down the heartfelt, nostalgic route and after a while it got old. I'm not saying I don't enjoy nostalgia or I don't enjoy someone trying to be really true with their writing but this didn't feel like that. When someone asks you to write a letter to yourself, I guess you feel an obligation for it to be beautiful and something that teaches you of your mistakes but a lot of that felt forced, as if the writers were
Feb 22, 2012 Isis rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2012-reads
I became interested in Dear Me: A Letter to My 16 Year-Old Self when I discovered that many celebrities I look up to and admire had written letters to their younger selves, and all were compiled into this book. Then, as a surprise birthday present from my sister, I received a copy. I immediately started the book, and it was so much more than I imagined.

The letters vary on topic, style, and intent. Some are hilarious while others have a much more somber tone. My favorites can be found somewhere i
Mitch Lavender
If you wrote a letter to your sixteen-year-old self, what would you say?

In Dear Me – A Letter to My Sixteen-Year-Old Self (Hardback, 128 pages, Simon and Schuster, $20), that is the topic addressed by 75 celebrities, writers, musicians, athletes and actors. They offer words or encouragement, reassurance, warning and advice.

Initially, I was attracted to this book because of the entries by authors; I wanted to see what Stephen King would say to his younger self. I did read that, and I expected the
Apr 14, 2012 Roxanne rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This book is a collection of letters that are being written from various well-known celebrities and successful people. They are letters they are writing to themselves. They are their sixteen-year-old selves writing nuggets of wisdom that only time exposed to them.

This book was fun to read and worth reflecting on.

A few of my most touching individuals:

Angie Dickinson - Treasure your abilities; you won't always have them.
James Woods - Call someone in your family every single day.
Jodi Picoult - Calc
Mar 09, 2012 Melinda rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: partially-read
I did not read the entire book because I only read the stories that interested me. I read Erykah Badu, Alan Cummings, Seth Green, James Avery, Rose McGowan, Michelle Rodriguez, Ricki Lake and Pauly Shore. All of the authors that I read really engaged with the idea of what they could give to their younger selves that would have made a difference. They focused on letting go of the things that didn't matter and bolstering self-esteem. Things were hard but you made it through. For me Seth Green's wa ...more
Jan 14, 2011 Em rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: epistolary, 2011
The premise of this book is that a number of actors, writers, sports stars, comedians and musicians (among others) write a letter to themselves at 16 with words of wisdom, humour, reassurance and advise. Proceeds from the book go to the Elton John AIDS Foundation.

Stand-outs for me are Stephen Fry (that probably goes with out saying) but also Baz Luhrmann who's heartfelt letter shows just how much understanding he has gained about his relationship with his Father - parents can baffle and frustrat
Erika B. (Snogging on Sunday Books)
I just found this at the library today and thought it sounded interesting! I stood there in the aisle reading the many letters written by famous people to their 16 year old self. Some were eloquent-so funny-some foreboding-some happy-some sad. Of course I found Hugh Jackman's letter to himself first because I love that man! hahaha What would you say to your 16 year old self? I think a rough draft letter to my 16 year old self would be something like-
Dear Eri-
Hey sweetie! How's that red oldsmobil
Jan 03, 2012 Ozy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: blog
capodanno 2012

Eccomi, come ogni Capodanno, a fermarmi per qualche giorno a pensare, e alla fine a raccomandare agli amici un libro che mi sembra particolarmente adatto a capire l'anno appena trascorso e a prepararci a quello che arriva.

Il libro di quest'anno si intitola Caro Me: lettera a me stesso sedicenne (Dear Me: A Letter to My Sixteen-Year-Old Self, Autori Vari, a cura di Joseph Galliano, Atria Books, ottobre 2011). 75 scrittori, atleti, attori, scrivono a altrettanti se stessi adolescenti
Jun 09, 2014 Tracy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: writing
“Dear Me” by Joseph Galliano was sitting on the library book shelf waiting for me to pick it up and read. I think it was another one of those timing things. I don't know the author or if he has written/edited other books. This was a quick read. The book contains letters by “famous” people written to their sixteen year old selves. (Although, I did find myself looking at the front of the book that explained who some of these people were)
Most of the letters contained warnings for this or that, all
Niklas Pivic
A bunch of celebrities, or quasi-celebrities, write letters to their 16-year-old selves. This is kind of cute. In some instances, it's touching, as with J.K. Rowling:

One last thing. One day, you will not only meet Morrissey, but he will know who you are. I KNOW!

All in all: interesting, funny and in some instances boring (as where several writers say something like "don't start smoking" or "you should invest in Google, Apple and Microsoft!") but all in all an entertaining read.
Aug 21, 2012 Jen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This was a cute, quick read. It definitely makes one think about what one would do differently if what was known now was known made me think at least. It was also interesting to see what famous people would say to their 16 year old self. Most seem pretty happy with where they are, so most of it was about trying to feel better about themselves. I talked this topic over with my partner at work and he said that he would write down all the power ball numbers and the days to play them! I wo ...more
This was a very quick read. I'm not entirely sure what I really expected from it. I guess maybe some interesting insight into people who are now well known accomplished people. I enjoyed a few letters more than others, but overall it is an ok read. I think aside from getting an insight into these well known people and to see what kind of advice or wisdom they would like to have known then is the fact that this is written in letter form. I always like to read letters in books and this was a reall ...more
Dec 08, 2011 Terri rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
What a fun and fascinating collection of letters from an ecclectic group of celebrities. If you're an adult, you'll read the letters and feel like you're 16 again. You'll also wonder what you'd write to your teenage self. If you're 16 (or near there) you'll find great nuggets of wisdom and realize high school is just a small splash of paint on the masterpiece of your life.

Galliano's collection of posts offers rare and honest insight into the personal lives of celebrities who felt anything but a
Wayne McCoy
An interesting premise: If you could send a letter to yourself at 16, what would you say?

This book collects a series of letters from various celebrities and successful people, along with pictures of them at the age of 16. There is some similar advice ("stop smoking now," "talk to your loved ones before you can't anymore") along with the surprising advice to stay the course. These folks realizing that the bumps along life's road are not to be avoided, but that they are what shapes our character.
An interesting premise, and the letters range from pragmatic through inspirational. I didn't know every author, but the handy listing of short bios helped with that. A couple of young authors were not yet sixteen, so their letters looked ahead rather than back; I enjoyed the wit of Lucas Cruikshank's letter. I liked Erykah Badu's hand-drawn map of her life, James Woods' touching insights, and George Watsky's angst. But most especially, I appreciated the plights of young gay teens (specifically A ...more
Stacy Knight
This could of been great, this could of been romantic, it could of been compelling, it could of been real it could of been epic. Instead it's a brilliant concept, an inspiring notion but it was mildly humorous and rushed. What could I
Of made this better???? Real people possibly not celebrities.
Nathan Schwartz
Dec 28, 2015 Nathan Schwartz rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Paged through this to see if it would be something interesting to give to my teenage kids, and boy am I glad that I did before I gave it to them! There are probably some interesting letters in here, but all of the ones that I read lacked all insight and were dull beyond words.
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