Against Happiness: In Praise of Melancholy
by Eric G. Wilson
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Read in May, 2008
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It's no secret that I'm into books about our inner mental states, and the trouble they sometimes give us. So when a review copy of "Against Happiness: In Praise of Melancholy," by Wake Forest University English professor Eric G. Wilson came to the office, I greedily snatched it up.
What we've got here is a collection of four essays plus an introduction and conclusion. Wilson lets on that he's experienced depression, which he prefers to call melancholia, all his life. He doesn't go i...more
What we've got here is a collection of four essays plus an introduction and conclusion. Wilson lets on that he's experienced depression, which he prefers to call melancholia, all his life. He doesn't go i...more
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Read in March, 2008
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Against Happiness is Eric G. Wilson’s counterargument to the stream of happiness-touting self-help books bombarding the market recently. While the current aim of Americans seems to be achieving happiness at all costs, Wilson argues that melancholy is a necessary state of being for creativity and innovation. In Peter D. Kramer’s book, Against Depression, his main point is that we view sadness as a precursor to great achievement, and therefore view depression as a necessary evil ...more
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Read in May, 2008
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In our society Happiness is key. It is found in the media, it is prevalent in almost everything people say and do. It is what most people claim is their number one goal in life: "I just want to be happy." What Eric Wilson suggests with Against Happiness is that instead of following the Pied Piper of Happiness, one should embrace the Melancholy that one usually struggles to fight. His strongest argument is that out of melancholy comes creativity (not a new argument there) as ...more
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One of the things that any foreigner who’s lived in the U.S. long enough will eventually notice is how fixated Americans in general are with being, and being perceived as, happy. There’s quite a contrast with the rest of the world, as it’s pointed out very well in this book. In the rest of the world, you’re not committing social suicide if you don’t project a happy image of yourself.
Needless to say, making Americans happy has turned into quite a business. Who knows how much is spe...more
Needless to say, making Americans happy has turned into quite a business. Who knows how much is spe...more
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Read in April, 2008
For such a short book it sure took me a long time to get around to this, but I wanted to knock it out in one sitting. Wilson's approach is essentially an effort to explain the benefits of Romantic melancholy to a "don't worry, be happy" world. It's a daunting task given that Americans in particular prefer the cheery optimism of the manifest destiny soul to the sublime darkness of the introverted soul. While I generally liked the book, I found some of the points and examples came and we...more
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Read in July, 2008
Just so there's no misunderstanding: I totally concur with Wilson's thesis, which is that "happiness" is not the natural human condition (indeed, it's possibly a recent invention), and suffering (or, as he keeps calling it, "melancholia" [*retch*]) is not only more valuable creatively, but closer to the human norm.
But wow, this book is just godawful.
First problem: he completely avoids the fertile relationship between capitalism, "happiness", and the pharmac...more
But wow, this book is just godawful.
First problem: he completely avoids the fertile relationship between capitalism, "happiness", and the pharmac...more
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Read in July, 2008
The author makes his point in the first chapter; the shallow pursuit of material goods and 'pleasure' does not equate to happiness. I think this would have been a pretty solid essay, but he belabors the point through the short book. The point is, sadness is not something to be compulsively avoided through hedonistic pursuit but a part of the richness of human experience. While I think the author wallows a bit in his idea of sadness being GOOD (functions as a muse, as a reminder of our humanit...more
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Read in July, 2008
I love a rant. One tormented soul railing against the world: yes. Also, I'm not that into happiness. Don't get me wrong, I love fun and not feeling like shit all the time or whatever, but I'm just not one with a sunny disposition...and I like it that way. Hell, sometimes feeling like shit is the only way to properly align yourself with the world.
At times Wilson's writing was beautiful and sad. He argued eloquently against the destruction wreaked by the happy majority. He described with some pr...more
At times Wilson's writing was beautiful and sad. He argued eloquently against the destruction wreaked by the happy majority. He described with some pr...more
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Still reading, almost done with the first half. I thought I wasn't going to like it becuase the first part discusses America as materialistic and opportunistic and that this country was founded on the idea of not facing reality and trying to find an escape from this cold hard life: i.e. Americans live in lala land. And not that he's wrong in all his points, but this is no new idea, yes we're materialistic, and we take over everything in order to get a profit, yes it's capitalism, nothing groundb...more
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Read in May, 2008
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Wow, it took me forever to finish this. Not because it was poorly written, but because I seem to just take a really long time to read non-fiction!
Anyway, it was not as good as I had hoped. While I appreciate melancholy & feel that people (namely Americans, as the author suggests) go a little too far in trying to be completely happy 100% of the time, I also didn't appreciate the fact that he seemed to suggest that we should be miserable all the time. I like to think that I have a heal...more
Anyway, it was not as good as I had hoped. While I appreciate melancholy & feel that people (namely Americans, as the author suggests) go a little too far in trying to be completely happy 100% of the time, I also didn't appreciate the fact that he seemed to suggest that we should be miserable all the time. I like to think that I have a heal...more
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There were parts of this book that I thought were interesting, but other parts where the writer seems way off the mark. I agree with some form of his diatribe against a culture intent on happiness as the goal of life. I agree with him that we shouldn't run from our sorrows or try to make life into something that it is not. But, his perception that pills "slap smiles" on to people is far from accurate. The pills people take for depression and other such disorders don't make people m...more
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Read in March, 2008
I loved parts of this diatribe--a very literate diatribe at that--in praise of melancholy. The book promotes the subversive idea that sadness isn't a "bad" thing, it's just an aspect of living that has been deemed abnormal--especially in America where 85% of the population consider themselves very happy or content.
85%? To me that doesn't seem right as I seem to know some people prone to black moods and depression. Heck, I'm one of those people but like Wilson, have always sort of rev...more
85%? To me that doesn't seem right as I seem to know some people prone to black moods and depression. Heck, I'm one of those people but like Wilson, have always sort of rev...more
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Read in April, 2008
So my obsession with happiness is satisfied for the time being. It was interesting to read a totally different approach to the topic - this one from a reader of literature. I agree, what many Americans call happiness is an empty shell of existence and medicating to lessen negative emotions may rob me of a chance to grow. I think emotions are a gift - a message or clue from your psyche or spirit which is trying to express itself. We try hard to connect with our inner spirit, but I think stron...more
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Read in February, 2008
The premise was interesting- that you need to feel sadness to experience the breadth that life has to offer. But I don't think he understands that depression is usually not productive. He argues that the pain that great artists who committed suicide felt was worth it because it brought such beauty to humanity- which seems self-centered to me. And his defintion of beauty is that which makes you remember death. I think there's a lot more to beauty than that. Also he was really repetitive in t...more
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I heard the author interviewed on NPR, and this sounded interesting, so I gave it a shot. I was only able to read 30 pages before I threw the book down in disgust. This thing is an essay that has been padded with just enough ridiculously melodramatic prose to justify being categorized as a book. I can't believe this guy teaches at the university level. The premise is sound, but there is way too much fluff to get through; I couldn't stomach it. Absolute disappointment.
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I don't know if I'll be running out to get this or not. I read an excerpt from it on NPR, and to say the least, I can tell it is written by an English professor. I'm already having a negative reaction to it, so I figure I should read it before making a true judgment on it. Without reading it, I have to say my biggest qualm is that, from what I read online, the author is assuming that anti-depressants are fix-alls. Sad and depressed are very different issues, and you can still feel sad while ...more
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"I’m reading this for my book club, and trying my darnedest to get through it. A few good points mired in a wordy rant full of generalizations, like this: “Happy types ultimately don’t live their own lives at all.” “Happiness is, at the end of the day, a kind of unknowing necrophilia.” “…the American dream might be a nightmare. What passes for bliss could well be a dystopia of flaccid grins.” Oh, please. Happiness, like everything else, is not that simple. On a positive n...more
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I didn't actually finish reading it - I stopped midway once I felt that the author's point had been clearly explained using various arguments. Although I agree with his basic premise that America's obsession with being happy (and its sense of entitlement in regarding to finding it) has led to a lot of problems including environmental degradation (due to over-consumption), he is a bit self-congratulatory and elitist about the benefits of being a mope. Again, I agree with him mostly but he event...more
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Read in June, 2008
Romantic, holistic acceptance of "melancholia" and other less than ideal thoughts, feelings, and states of self as essential aspects of the mind and experience. the current cultural shift, encouraging us to deny or eradicating anything that is not bliss, cheapens our capabilities and makes hollow the remaining experiences. bottom line: embrace all thoughts/experiences we are capable of to better understand our existence, even the darkness.
beautifully written, and a joy to read.
beautifully written, and a joy to read.
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This book is amazing and poetic -- a great look at the American culture of suburban "happiness" and a cry to preserve some gloominess in our lives. I thoroughly enjoyed reading every sentence of this book. The author interweaves psychology, philosophy, art, literature and music perfectly. I rarely buy books these days, but I am going to buy this book and re-read it immediately (and many times again in the future).
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