To Be Sung Underwater

To Be Sung Underwater

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Judith Whitman always believed in the kind of love that "picks you up in Akron and sets you down in Rio." Long ago, she once experienced that love. Willy Blunt was a carpenter with a dry wit and a steadfast sense of honor. Marrying him seemed like a natural thing to promise. But Willy Blunt was not a person you could pick up in Nebraska and transport to Stanford. When Judi...more
Paperback, 464 pages
Published June 5th 2012 by Back Bay Books (first published June 2nd 2011)
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Teresa Lukey
At its heart, this is a love story-first love to be exact, but it also touches on elements of growing up, the intricacies of marriage and past regrets. The start of this book is like the casting of a line. Almost immediately you snag something delicate, then you begin to very slowly reel the line in. As you reel the line in, you know the line is there but it winks in and out of sight, but, again, you always know it is there.

I can't remember the last time I felt so perfectly cradled in the crook...more
Marialyce
Can one ever forget their first love? Should one go back and try to find that love and see what just might happen?

This occurs in this novel which brought about so many emotions and feelings that touched me deeply and soulfully. The story deals with the blandness of marriage, the longing for something of long ago, and the ability to try and recapture the moments that thrilled and excited our protagonists, Willy and Judith. Judith seems haunted by a number of ghosts: is her husband having an aff...more
Laura
A tremendous read, something that will stay with me for quite some time. This one grabbed me from the first page. The prologue made me say "Whaaaaaa?" and I was sucked right in, with some big questions from the start.

The book transitions from past to present, which are somehow equally compelling. You may not love the protagonist, but you can't help but be interested in her. She's pretty complex, and as the story unfolds, her motivations become easier to understand and relate to.

The book examine...more
Suzanne Moore
This was a long, three-part story told by alternating chapters between the past and present. The main character is Judith Whitman who finds her life becoming less and less what she had first imagined. Of course there was a moment in time when she changed gears … now looking back she wonders if she did the right thing. She reminiscences about her first love and even creates an alternate identity to help her find him again. Willy Blunt has spent the last twenty-seven years holding on to memories a...more
Andy Miller
This novel has gotten great critical acclaim, but it left me empty. The story goes back and forth from Judith's high school years in a small Nebraska town and present day where she lives in southern California with her banker husband and only child while she works as a television film editor.

The flashbacks are more interesting, partly because Judith's dad and mother were interesting....Present day Judith and her husband not so much.Unless whining about your life is interesting.

I'm in a minority...more
Cook Memorial Public Library
"It is the first shower that wets."

"Marriage is like picking the place where you're going to live for the next fifty years by using a wall map, a blind fold, and what you really, truly, deeply believe is your lucky dart."

"Our marriage, like all marriages, was happy until it wasn't."

Judith was living the dream and had the sort of marriage to Malcolm she had envisioned for herself during her college years at Stanford. Her life was settled and serene, until a little 'swerve' occurred which she mi...more
Lena
This novel about a 40-something LA film editor whose thoughts begin drifting back to the summer she loved a Nebraska farm boy gets off to a promising start. It was recommended to me for the quality of the writing, and I was in fact impressed with McNeal's lovely, carefully crafted prose. I was also drawn into the thoughtfully developed characters - not just the main character, Judith, but also her parents, who were struggling to deal with the impacts of their choices in a rapidly changing world....more
Sherry
This was a lovely book. It offered complex characters in complex, real-life situations. They weren't entirely sympathetic and they seemed very real. The combination of flashback and present tense was effective and kept my interest. The protagonist, Judith, was intelligent and introspective, lost and confused. In a very real world way she finds herself looking at her life and wondering how she got here and why it isn't satisfying. It's a look at love and life, opportunities made and missed, and t...more
Jennifer
a couple of takeaways from this book:

1. judith is having a mid-life crisis. she doesn't feel passionate about her marriage; she is stressed out at work; she is semi-alienated from her teenage daughter. with this context, it is understandable that she begins to long for a time in her life when she was happier, felt more free and alive.

2. when peoples' first experiences with love are cut short before the passion wanes, they always idealize the first love. we remember every thrilling detail--the co...more
MyBookAffair
If it is a great summer read that you are looking for, then look no further than 'To be Sung Underwater', by Tom McNeal. It tells the story of Judith Whitman, an unhappily married mother of one who suddenly does not feel that she belongs in her own house any more. Her family has outgrown her, her husband is having an affair, her teenage daughter is embarrassed by her. So, she sets up home in a storage facility and makes up a new identity for herself.
I suppose we can all relate to the desire to...more
Ellen
"It is the first shower that wets."

"Marriage is like picking the place where you're going to live for the next fifty years by using a wall map, a blind fold, and what you really, truly, deeply believe is your lucky dart."

"Our marriage, like all marriages, was happy until it wasn't"

Judith was living the dream and had the sort of marriage to Malcolm she had envisioned for herself during her college years at Stanford. Her life was settled and serene, until a little 'swerve' occurred which she mig...more
Amy
Who hasn’t wondered about the decisions made in the past? The person were once were when we were becoming adults? How we ended up in the situations we find ourselves in? These are the questions that face Judith Whitman in the brilliant novel, To Be Sung Underwater by Tom McNeal. Judith, at forty-four, is a film editor, mother of teenage daughter Camilla, and wife of Malcolm, a banker that may or may not be having an affair with his assistant. As the trials and tribulations of Judith’s everyday l...more
Candace
To Be Sung Underwater, by Tom McNeal, is a moving story about a middle aged women and what has come of her life. Judith is a wife, mother, but most importantly a career women. Working in Hollywood as a television show editor, Judy puts in long hours at work and lives what others might call a perfect life. She has a handsome banker husband, a beautiful and smart daughter, and an impressive Hollywood career.

Unbeknownst to those looking in, Judy has recently come to question her husband's fidelity...more
Luane
A forgettable story about young love and the midlife pining for what could have been. Judith is the wronged wife who sequesters herself (quite literally in a storage unit) in the memory of a love that supposedly you'd uproot yourself for. Funny thing is, she didn't. So how fantastic could it really have been, especially considering that they were inebriated during their profound moments of togetherness? Their love wasn't all that exciting either. It was rather boring and ordinary. But perhaps th...more
Steve lovell

Sometimes we daydream back to past loves and wonder ‘what if’. It is natural, it is human to meditate on what could have happened if that girlfriend/lover/wife/mistress/ whatever had not drifted/blazed out of one’s life – had the relationship continued on, where would we be now. If all is fine in the present moment these warm whimsies pass, but if existence is barely bearable then such notions may not remain so tucked away.

The sad feature of ‘To Be Sung Underwater’ is that it had to end – always...more
Virginia
I honestly cannot figure out if I loved this book or hated it. I became engaged in the story and yet found it familiar. I liked the main character, Judith, as a little girl and teen, but really disliked her as an adult. I still haven't decided if her teenage love, Willy, was a good guy or a conniving underhanded sneak.

The story involves a film editor named Judith who lived in California, but spent her teenage years living with her lovely father (a totally likable character) in Nebraska after he...more
Susan
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Jean
There are no surprises in this beautifully written story of the well-worn cliched road not taken.

" For you, I was a chapter - a good chapter maybe, or even your favourite chapter,but,still,just a chapter - and for me, you were the book" is what Willy tells Judith 27 years after she abandoned him in Nebraska to pursue an ambition that extended beyond what Willy could offer her.Willy did not fit in with the life that she had planned for herself.
Now Judith is forty four and her life has hit a swerv...more
Banafsheh Serov
The first time we fall in love, lasts forever.


Love is complex. It can uplift spirits and it can bring them crashing to the ground. Traversing between Vermont and Nebraska where her parents have separated to, Judith meets and falls in love with Willy Blunt. They separate, promising to wait for one another when she leaves for college. But now Judith is introduced to a different world and has new sets of friend. She meets Malcolm and consciously starts to let go of her past; starts to let go of Wi...more
Bess
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Elizabeth
This novel by Tom McNeal is about Judith, a young woman who, when her parents divorce, moves from Vermont to a small college town in Nebraska where her father is a professor. It is also about Willy, a young man she "abandoned, and yet never quite left behind."
The story is about two worlds: the surface and what lies beneath the surface; the present and the past; the world Judith finds herself in when she reaches a mid-life crisis, and the world she longs for.
Judith lives in Los Angeles with her...more
Bookworm
What a great find To Be Sung Underwater has turned out to be. With it's wonderful writing, moving storyline and dynamic characters, this was one of those books that I lost myself in for a few days.

One summer, while living in Nebraska with her father, Judith Toomey met and fell in love with a carpenter named Willy Blunt.
When she left for college, she promised him she would return and marry him. Instead, Judith wound up meeting and marrying a banker named Malcom and has a daughter named Camille....more
Pearl
"If we had to do it all again, would we? could we?"

There's the central question of the novel which I'm not sure is answered. And who knows the answer about the road not taken?

This is a very pastoral, romantic, lushly written novel that moves between past and present. The two central characters are Willy, a Nebraska farm boy and carpenter, and Judith, a New Englander who, as a young teenager, moved to Nebraska with her father when her parents separated and then to California to attend Stanford...more
Krystal



Judith always believed in marriage. She has her dream job and a husband she considered nice enough. Now, she wonders if her husband is cheating on her and her thoughts continually drift to Willy, a boy she loved long ago. The novels switches between the past and the present. The reader will get a sense of what went on long ago and how Judith came to make her present choices. Judith is an interesting character, she is nice, caring, and overall "smart" in her choices...




The reader will get to know...more
Jim
Beautiful. Lyrical in its simple prose. Imagine if Hemingway were to write a novel that combines the best of THE HORSE WHISPERER with the best of THE NATURAL (in terms of relationships and destiny) and you might get a sense of this one. Willy Blunt was Judith Whitman's first love during her teenage years in Nebraska, where she had chosen to live with her college professor father after the breakup of her parents' marriage. But fate throws the young couple a late summer curve, and their plans go t...more
Mary (BookHounds)
Judith has been married to Malcolm and begins to wonder if she married the right man. Her thoughts turn to Willy, the boy she left behind years ago. The story flips back and forth between the present and the years before when she first met Willy. The story flows easily between the two time periods and you can easily get a feel for how Judith has matured. She has a dream job editing films, a lovely home and a man she thinks might be cheating on her. The drama builds effortlessly and the words are...more
drey
Tom McNeal's To Be Sung Underwater isn't just a love story. It is a love story in the past, and a journey of angst and (re-?) discovery in the present. There's a lot of background here, and this is where I'll admit that I did not like Judith when I first meet her. In fact I definitely disliked her until we get past her first summer in Nebraska, visiting her father.

Then I felt a bit sorry for her. Her mother doesn't fit in. Her father's umpteen states away. She doesn't have friends. All this whil...more
Brenda Casto
"To Be Sung Underwater" revolves around Judith Tooney Whitman. She was a teen when her parents separated, her mother stayed in Vermont but her father took a job in Nebraska, and Judy decides to follow him. When she falls in love with Willy Blunt, she can easily see herself married to him, but when she is accepted to Stanford, things change, and theirs is a love lost. Fast forward twenty years and Judy is a successful film editor in California who seems to have it all, she married Malcolm Whitman...more
Deb Carpenter
This novel by Tom McNeal is about Judith, a young woman who, when her parents divorce, moves from Vermont to a small college town in Nebraska where her father is a professor. It is also about Willy, a young man she “abandoned, and yet never quite left behind.”

The story is about two worlds: the surface and what lies beneath the surface; the present and the past; the world Judith finds herself in when she reaches a mid-life crisis, and the world she longs for.

Judith lives in Los Angeles with her...more
Deborah
I'm frankly so humbled and left lingering in the aftermath of Tom McNeal's writing that I hardly know how to express myself. A strange place for me; ask anyone who knows me!

Having just finished "To Be Sung Underwater" today, I find myself heart-weary and contemplative...much like I felt after reading Pat Conroy's "The Prince of Tides," though the story lines are nothing alike and the protagonists are far from the same. It's just the quality of how the books both reach something deep inside, some...more
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Tom McNeal was born in Santa Ana, California, where his father and grandfather raised oranges. He spent part of every summer at the Nebraska farm where his mother was born and raised, and after earning a BA in English at UC Berkeley and an MFA in Creative Writing at UC Irvine, he taught school in the town that was the inspiration for his novel, Goodnight, Nebraska. Tom has been a Wallace Stegner F...more
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