My Cross to Bear

My Cross to Bear

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As one of the greatest rock icons of all time, Gregg Allman has lived it all and then some. For almost fifty years, he's been creating some of the most recognizable songs in American rock, but never before has he paused to reflect on the long road he's traveled. Now, he tells the unflinching story of his life, laying bare the unvarnished truth about his wild ride that has...more
Hardcover, 400 pages
Published May 1st 2012 by William Morrow
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Janet
Jeez but I love summer with its hall pass to unabashedly read trash like this. If it’s content you seek you’ll learn more from the back of a box of Cocoa Puffs. It’s a stretch to consider Allman even one dimensional. Still, his ability to use the word ‘shit’ as noun, adjective, adverb and verb is impressive and omission of that word alone would trim the book’s 400 pages down to 250. Eliminating the word ‘man’ would trim it an additional 75 pages.

I recall my mother once saying, “Oh, I’m so glad...more
Graham Elvis
I found this at the library and thought Id give it a read. Gregg got up and jammed with my band The Elvis Brothers in St. Louis around 1985 he played guitar with us which was a thrill and he liked The Elvis Brothers... After the show we were hanging in our dressing room with Gregg who was feeling no pain but just wouldn't chill so to speak. We had to leave our own dressing room for some peace and quiet... I remember thinking to myself " I can't believe I just had to leave my own dressing room t...more
Tom
"If I fell over dead right now, I have led some kind of life."

That's Gregg Allman near the end of "My Cross to Bear," and after reading his autobiography, "My Cross to Bear," I have to agree with him.

Some kind of life indeed.

Gregg Allman is best known, of course, as the frontman for The Allman Brothers Band, and his story is inextricably linked to the band's. In the early Allman Brothers days, Gregg's big brother, Duane, was running the show. Duane was the one who kept everyone in line, who wa...more
Joel Brown
Finally got around to reading this after interviewing Gregg about a year ago. He said his approach was influenced much by Keith Richards' memoir, "Life," and it's easy to see. Good stuff about his early life, about forming the band and shaping their sound. In Gregg's case that leads to painful stuff about the deaths of his brother Duane and bassist Berry Oakley and the mid-70s implosion of the band amid those tragedies and huge drug intake.

Like Keith's book, this one channels the star's voice re...more
Dave Ward
My Cross to Bear by Gregg Allman (William Morrow 2012)(780.92)is a memoir by one of the founding members of arguably the greatest Southern rock-and-roll band of all time. A disclaimer: I was and am a huge fan of the Allman Brothers Band, or I should say that I was a huge fan of the band's original early 1970's configuration (before Duane Allman (lead guitarist) and Berry Oakley (bassist) died in motorcycle accidents a year apart). The story of the band is well known; after the deaths of these tw...more
Bill
My first question when I started this book was did Alan Light do ANYTHING except have dictation typed up and organize the chapters. The answer is, it does not seems so. Gregg's voice at the beginning of this thing makes him sound to me like the 17 year old Daytona Dick Head that he was. For the first third of the book Gregory sounded to me like at 64 he was still an immature, self absorbed, cry baby.

I really began to like this book and to some degree G L Allman more as it went. For a while it s...more
Carey Shea
Sep 30, 2012 Carey Shea rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Allman Brothers fans
Recommended to Carey by: Found it on the internet
I am a big fan of the Allman Brothers and have been since 1970. I still listen to them. I did not know much about Gregg Allman except he was married to Cher and had a son by her Elijah Blue. I was so glad he came out with this autobiography. I really liked it and learned so much about him. He is still mourning the death of his brother Duane. You can tell it weighs heavy on him. Gregg was a herion addict and did other drugs as well. Then he started drinking really bad. He is now clean and sober a...more
RJ
I give this 4 stars as a fan who wanted to hear the inside scoop on the career of Gregg and the Allman Brothers Band. His early life is very interesting, with his unsettled childhood in Nashville and Daytona Beach. His father was murdered while Gregg was still a young boy, and his mother put the brothers into military school, feeling she had no option but to instill something into them. When he discovered the guitar, Gregg actually taught his older brother Duane how to play it and Duane became t...more
Lee
I enjoyed reading this book. I read this one at a fast rate because it was very interesting. I notice alot of people tend to make mistakes in their younger years using drugs, drinking, womanizing, etc and it's good to have a happy ending (or close to it) when they get older and manage to turn their life around and finally face those demons and live a healthier life. I emphasize with addicts and others that society tends to frown upon, that is those who can really try and make amends with their f...more
Teresa
Not the most well- written book I've ever read but overall a good read. I saw Gregg Allman promote the book on The Colbert Report. Even though I've seen The Allman Brothers at The Beacon Theater on NYC, I haven't given them, particularly Gregg, any conscious thought. Truthfully I always thought he was a little dim, and was pleasantly surprised to find out I was wrong. I'm not sure what I expected from this book but came away feeling somewhat satisfied. I'm generally not a fan of autobiographies...more
Ann Collette
I totally loved this book but am very aware of the fact that my reaction is deeply personal and not at all that of an objective reviewer. I love a lot of the Allman Brothers' music and have idolized Duane Allman since I first heard him play guitar, so I'm predisposed to love any book that goes into his life in any depth. Over the years, Gregg lost some credibility for me, thanks to his marriage to Cher and his involvement in a drug trial where a friend of his paid the price for getting drugs for...more
Bobby
Let me preface this review by stating I have been a huge fan of the Allman Brothers Band music for the vast majority of my life. In fact, the first concert I saw was when I was in junior high school. The concert was at Berry College in Mount Berry, Georgia. This was the original line up of band members. I saw the band as recently as 2009 in Nashville, Tennessee. Gregg's voice was as powerful and as soulful as I have ever heard it. I have often told people that Gregg Allman is one of the most und...more
Tim Niland
Musician and occasional actor Gregg Allman sure packed a lot of living into his sixty-five years, and this tell all biographie lays bare a true to life tale of sex, drugs and rock 'n' roll. Starting as a fatherless youth smitten with rhythm and blues music, Allman bought his first guitar as a teenager and never looked back. Soon bypassed by his guitar prodigy brother Duane, Allman switched to the organ and began to sing in a series of bands that played across the Southeast United States. After f...more
Mark
My generation of Americans seemed to do something quite foolish. Someplace along the way, "we" decided to erect a new nobility- an upper class composed of Rock Stars. Through the generative power of fame and fortune, they managed to become "spokesmen", "heroes", "and "social activists". This persisted for at least one generation while the first wave became self-annointed "experts" on solar energy, natural foods, architecture, sailing, "natural living" etc; etc... you get the idea. Anything other...more
Ellen Herbert
Southern Rock was the embarrassment of growing up in the South until I lived enough to understand the Blues. 'Whipping Post' wore out a few needles on my turntable along the way.

Bittersweet, lovely ride and the voice is as authentic as far as I can tell. Made me pull out a bunch of old Outlaws and Marshall Tucker.
I found this to be honest and fair, you get alot of the pain and tragedy and alot of the love and laughter, but most of all you get the music and it is a gift to us.
Ray Campbell
Well written in the folksy southern style one would expect. Allman is a legend and his stories range from laugh out loud funny to gut wrenching tragedy. My favorite part is hearing the songs in my head while reading about how they were written. When he mentions that folks frequently introduce themselves saying that they were named after an Allman Brothers songs, I remembered many students named Melissa or Jessica who told me they were named after songs. The Allmans have been part of the soundtra...more
Steve
Gregg Allman's autobiography was definitely an interesting read for me, having grown up listening to the Allman Brothers Band. I'm still not too sure what to make of Mr. Allman - or Gregory as he says in the book he prefers to be called. On the one hand he seems like someone who would make a good friend - he'd definitely have your back. But on the other hand, with all the drugs and drinking over the years - he has a ton of baggage and has burned a bunch of bridges. At times his boasting gets a l...more
Greg
I first saw the original lineup in 1970 at the Sam Houston Coliseum. I was a young kid. They've since torn down that venue. It seemed so large back then. So I came into this with memories...
When I finished this book I wasn't sure whether to give this book 3 or 4 stars. On one hand I wanted to complain about too much on drug and alcohol addiction and what seemed like an addiction to sex and not enough on the music especially the early music. On the other, I realized that was Gregg's life, his re...more
Heather
Let me start with a confession-I have no interest in Gregg Allman's music. I do not like the Allman Bros. Band or his solo work, and I do not like "Southern Rock". I picked this up because I needed a piece of fluff read after completing a grueling book about WWII and I saw it on the shelf in the library when I was in a hurry. I gave it one star because the style was incredibly easy to follow. It was very conversational. However, I don't think I would have too many conversations with a person who...more
Peter Prasad
Apr 11, 2013 Peter Prasad rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: anyone over 30 with a heartbeat
Recommended to Peter by: my neighborhood book store
A wicked good read! I got the beat in three pages, could hear Gregg on the Hammond after five, then Duane came in with the bottleneck and I liked to pop. He's the only man that can race up and down my spine like that. If you can find Southern Rock on the map, then you'll delight in reading My Cross.

Huzzah Sarasota! The Allmans were our local band at the Armory. It was my first taste of tribal. Now I know why. Rich with detail: who knew Gregg was top in his 7th grade class at military academy; r...more
Hillel
Take off a star if you are not a big fan of the ABB. The book reads like it was written by an old hippy, because it is. Be prepared for half of the sentences to end in the word "man", man. All in all it's a nice mixture of honest reflections, tales from the road, and the types of stories you'd expect in a rock and roll autobiography. He traces his rise from humble beginnings, to starving musician, to the roller coaster ride that ensues.

While he does spend a lot of time telling the readers the ne...more
Maria
After reading the memoir by Gregg Allman, I felt like I spent the weekend with him. The only way you can beat the immediacy in tone would be listening to the audiobook, and having him literally in your ear. (Which I personally had no problem with. Ya dig?)

The memoir is honest, and includes frank descriptions of both joyful and sorrowful moments of Allman's life, such as his writing process, gratitude felt for amazing friendships and blessings, and the anguish felt over his brother Duane's death....more
J.C.
I have to say that I didn't enjoy reading this book at all. If he took out all the times he said "man" and all the stories of the girls he laid, this book would only be about 200 pages. There was far to much laid back down home southern charm which was exasperating at times. The musical stories were interesting, it was nice learning about his influences, but he bad mouthed a ton of people (not just people in his own band) including Jimi Hendrix as a live performer which is kinda, huh WTF?!?!?!?...more
John C.
Unless you have heard of Gregg Allman, or the Allman Brothers Band, this memoir is not for you. It would be hard to not have heard of them however seeing as they have been playing their own brand of Southern Rock for five decades now.
We get a whole lot of Sex, Drugs and Rock & Roll between the pages but...what would you expect?
The only thing that kept me reading was in my younger band days we played dozens of Allman Brother Tunes. We even had the opportunity to be the back-up opening act for...more
Aces
I am a fan of the Allman Brothers, but the reason why I read this book was bc of the publicity Gregg did on Stephen Colbert.

Colbert quoted fr the book, "The first time we walked onto the plane, "Welcome Allman Bros" was spelled out in cocaine on the bar". Gregg laughed and sheepishly said that "brothers" was abbreviated.

That got me hooked ;p

The book overall was easy to follow, easy to read. I learned how the band was formed, how some of the songs were written as well as the changes the band an...more
TK
I loved this autobiography! It felt like Gregory was sitting next to me, telling me his stories. It's very well written, honest and revealing for a memoir of this type. I came to the Allman Brothers Band later in life, more through my interest in more contemporary jam bands like Gov't Mule, Widespread Panic, Blues Traveler and the like. they all covered the ABB. I also loved the movie "Almost Famous" which is loosely based on this band's drug-addled, highly-sucessful heyday.

Gregg's memoir deliv...more
Claudia Riggs
Wow! I really liked this book. I laughed out loud through much of it, shook my head, rolled my eyes, but kept turning the pages. Allman has led such an interesting, colorful life, and he knows it. He talks about growing up in Nashville and Daytona Beach, attending Castle Heights military school as a boy, his dynamic with his brother, his women, and his substance abuse, along with the ins and outs of life as a member of the Allman Brothers Band. At times, the book is a little raw and he doesn't h...more
Julie
I wish I could give this 3-1/2 stars. Let me say that I'm not a big fan of Allman music, but it seems like he had an interesting life so I wanted to check it out...and it did not disappoint that way. It was full of sex and drugs - just like I was hoping for. He named a lot of names, I think for "thanking them" reasons. The bond between him and his brother is still precious (babybrah). His 6 wives were literal footnotes in his life but the stories he told about his marriages were entertaining.

I...more
Cloudhidden
I know it is wishful thinking that an autobiography of a rock star would be self-reflective and own up to any mistakes or wreckage the author's life laid bare. But, that is not what makes a rock-star and in reading Gregg Allman's book, self-reflection is not what he has set out to accomplish. Though I did enjoy the window into the lives of some of my favorite musicians, Gregg takes zero responsibility for any of his behavior or decisions along the way. From missed funerals of band members to tes...more
James
Great literature it's not, but it is a fine rock autobiography. In a folksy manner, Allman tells about 11 trips to rehab, 6 wives (including Cher), 5 kids by 5 different women, 3 breakups and reunions, 2 band members dying on motorcycles early on, one of which was his brother Duane, the acrimonious split with Dickey Betts (think Keith Richards and Mick Jagger), a business jet that had belonged to Led Zeppelin and later Elton John, a loving mother, a liver transplant, and a lot of song writing, t...more
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Gregory Lenoir Allman, known as Gregg Allman (sometimes spelled Greg Allman), is a rock and blues singer, keyboardist, guitarist, and songwriter, best known as a founding member of The Allman Brothers Band. He was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1995 with The Allman Brothers Band, and personally received a Lifetime Achievement Award from the Georgia Music Hall of Fame in 2006.
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