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How to Be a Woman

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“Caitlin Moran is the profane, witty and wonky best friend I wish I had. She’s the feminist rock star we need right now.”
—Ayelet Waldman, author of Bad Mother

“Caitlin Moran is so fabulous, so funny, so freshly feminist. I don’t want to be like her—I want to be her.”
—Peggy Orenstein, author of Cinderella Ate My Daughter

Caitlin Moran puts a new face on feminism, cutting to t
Paperback, 305 pages
Published July 17th 2012 by Harper Perennial (first published June 16th 2011)
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Jun 11, 2012 Ceilidh rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I think it's pretty safe to say that this book wasn't written for me.

Caitlin Moran's columns have always been a bit hit or miss for me but when she's on, she's a witty storyteller with some interesting points to make. She's no groundbreaking pantheon of feminist wisdom, but she's definitely a valuable, and often hilarious, ally. Her book was something I approached with hesitation since several published extracts had left me scratching my head, but with her upcoming scheduled appearance at the E
Jul 27, 2011 Beth rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
You know what? Since there are so many four and five star reviews hanging around for this, I will serve a proper review to show why I absolutely could not stand this book. Moran is a sporadically talented writer -- maybe it deserved 2/2.5 stars in the writing stakes. However, I did something I almost never do: I rated this book intellectually.

As a memoir, it succeeded (almost) brilliantly -- her recollection of her wedding had me in absolute stitches and makes me laugh every time I reread it (y
Apr 18, 2016 Cat rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Much as there is to quibble over a strictly academic handling of feminist thought, if your introduction to feminism began here chances are you will be tempted to think that a jocular disdain for transpeople and tch-tch-ing sympathy for women outside the sphere of Europe and America could be pardoned in the light of light-hearted banter.

Caitlin Moran has a chatty, teenager-ishly snippy voice and she made me collapse into a helpless fit of distinctly unflattering, full-blown guffaws more often th
Mar 29, 2013 Amanda rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction, blog
Quite an uneven reading experience, a fault I largely blame on the marketing of this book. How to Be a Woman is touted as basically "Feminism--now with jokes!" And that's a concept that I could get onboard with. I would consider myself a feminist, I would consider myself moderately amusing at times, and I would consider myself a fan of Caitlin Moran's white streak in her wild mane--a bit reminiscent of the 90's version of Rogue. So, yes, let's do this! I want to feel empowered as a woman, I want ...more
Oct 06, 2013 Felicia rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: faves, non-fiction
If you have even slight feminist beliefs, or if you are a woman who wants your eyes opened, sensibilities shocked, and then laugh your ass off, this is the book. I read Bossypants, which I love, but Caitlin Moran's strong feminist words were so inspiring to me, and just MADE SENSE. I might not have agreed with everything, but I was certainly amused and entertained the whole time. Definitely an auto-biography worth reading, dude or gal! And it's really dirty in parts, she talks about things you N ...more
Oct 16, 2012 Roxane rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
1. I am confounded by the critical response. Confounded.
2. The book is indeed very funny and has its charms but this is far more memoir than manifesto and very grounded in a rather singular set of experiences.
3. Good humor doesn't elevate common sense wisdom into groundbreaking or important feminist thought.
4. Casual racism! More than once! Or twice!
5. Birthing babies makes you a woman, you see. But that's followed by a chapter where it's totes okay if you choose not to have a baby.
6. People are
Nov 16, 2012 Penney rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Because life is too short to feel guilty about not being a perfect woman. Let’s get real.

Caitlin Moran is wicked funny and painfully, awkwardly truthful in this book. Rather than harp on the theoretical implications of modern feminism, Moran skips the arguments and says simply, “Feminism is having a vagina and wanting to be in charge of it.” Ding ding!

She manages to address the horrors of childbirth and the joys of parenting, the conundrum of naming of vaginas, and the unnecessary discomfort of
Has an appalling case of unpacked privilege. Dropping "tranny" and "retard" in this book is just the tip of her shitty iceberg.

Newsflash: feminism that doesn't advocate for ALL women is no better than patriarchy.
Barry Pierce
After following Caitlin Moran on Twitter for a couple of years now I thought it was eventually time to read one of her books. Well, that was one of my better ideas.

This can be labelled as a sort of feminist memoir and oh lord, is it good. Moran's witty, truthful, and journalistic prose makes reading this memoir a treat. A big feminist treat. Like Simone de Beauvoir belting a rendition of Beyoncé's Freakum Dress while riding on the back of an all-fours Jeanette Winterson. Her unparalleled attitud
Jun 03, 2012 Stella rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I have laughed out loud in too many public places reading this perfect book that ALL women need to read and all men too. My reoccuring thought throughout reading was: It's not just me that thinks this way!
In little over 300 pages this book has made my confidence sky rocket.
This book takes you by the shoulders and shakes you like a best friend to remind you how important you are being exactly who you are with your saggy, flabby, wrinkly bits included too. Caitlin Moran - I demand MORE!...
Sep 19, 2012 Meagan rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: humor, nonfiction, memoir
Feminists have been moaning about why women (and men) hesitate to label themselves as feminists these days. And rightly so. It makes no sense for women (or men) to be nervous about being pro-gender equality. I have a theory about that, which fits with both this book's assertions and many of the negative reviews of it here on goodreads. A lot of "traditional" feminists have this reputation for being aggressive, judgmental, and overly serious. Who wants to hang out with someone who is likely to fi ...more
Andrew Shaffer
Aug 09, 2012 Andrew Shaffer rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Everyone--men and women--should read this. I'm a dude and I didn't, like, grow a vagina or anything. So it's safe.
Unfortunately the e-reader I was using at the time has lost all of my notes on this, but I wanted to write something here anyway because I think Caitlin Moran is such an extravagantly gifted writer and I thought this book was a kind of masterpiece of its type.

Caitlin is my generation, and her English suburban background and sense of humour are mine, so the laughter when I read her stuff is mingled with a constant astonished recognition of the details, everything from adolescent wanking over The
Jan 02, 2014 Perceptive rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
EDITING TO ADD: If you are here to tell me that Moron was just being "funny" or "ironic" or any other word meant to belittle my take on Moron's interview and thus insinuate that I just don't get it and I am pearl clutching:

GET THE FUCK OFF MY GOODREADS REVIEW. And go drip your Moron apologia somewhere else. I lived in the UK, I understand Moron's "humour" quite well, and I still think she's a fuckwit poor ass excuse for a female. As are her attack fans. So buh-bye and better luck proselytizing o
Mar 27, 2015 Melki rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: humorous-essays
"When the subject turns to abortion, cosmetic intervention, birth, motherhood, sex, love, work, misogyny, fear, or just how you feel in your own skin, women still often won't tell the truth to each other unless they are very, very drunk."

Caitlin Moran is right. Nowadays, you DO have to be drunk. The last time I heard a female friend relate anything even remotely personal was when L. had too much wine at book club and really tore into her deadbeat ex-husband. (Seriously, you earn $98,000 a yea
Dec 13, 2012 Carolyn rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Two caveats:

One: At times, Moran misses the opportunity to connect the feminist needs and experiences of hetero women to the feminist needs and experiences of GLBTQAI, minority communities, and other groups of people to whom the female experience is infinitely parallel.

Two: I straight-up disagree with her on at least two major points.

But the thing is, her arguments for those two points were not ones I'd heard before. They made me think about issues in genuinely new ways. And I spend a LOT of ti
Sarah Churchill
Dec 27, 2015 Sarah Churchill rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: books-i-own
Part memoir, part rant, this is my second Moran read and yet again she's left me feeling inspired and empowered, determined to be just a little bit better at being me.
Oct 26, 2012 Melissa rated it did not like it
Shelves: feminism
This is an abridged review. You can read the full thing here. Also, I demoted it by one star because while I was writing the review, I got to further reflect on (and remember!) all the reasons this book pissed me off so much in the first place. It's pretty bad.

The thought of this book serving as anyone's introduction to feminism horrifies me.

Let's start with Moran's take on a subject near and dear to my heart, women's history:
Even the most ardent feminist historian...can't conceal that women hav
Glenn Sumi
Jun 09, 2015 Glenn Sumi rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir, non-fiction
I remember seeing the cover of this book and wondering: Who is this Caitlin Moran person, and why should I care about her being a woman?

Well it turns out she is quite a big deal in the UK, where she wrote a novel at 15, became a music journalist for the weekly Melody Maker at 16 and briefly hosted a Channel 4 pop culture show called Naked City at 18 before embarking on a long career as a TV critic and satirical columnist for The Times.

In fact, while visiting the UK last fall, I saw one of her co
I'm never going to read this book, ever.

Yes, I may have a lot of privilege, enough that I was able to take an "Introduction to Women's Studies" course last year at my university.

But so does frickin' Caitlin Moran.

And that does NOT make it okay for her to publish a book MARKETED AS AN INTRODUCTORY GUIDE TO FEMINISM that freely uses hate speech, inserts homophobic remarks, promotes an ableist mentality, and ignores general research to avoid making idiotic generalizations on an individual's sexual
Maxi  ❥
Caitlin Moran, you failed me.
I mean, it was a good autobiography but if you're reading this for the feminist aspect...just try with something else.

The writing style is probably the most annoying thing ever. I have another book by her - a gift, also - and I'm so afraid to read it now, because part of the reason it took me like a week to read this was the writing style. I couldn't bring myself to DNF this because I was interested in most of the things she said but it was so hard to get through the
Janette Fleming
Dec 01, 2011 Janette Fleming rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favorites

1913 – Suffragette throws herself under the King’s horse.

1969 – Feminists storm Miss World.

NOW – Caitlin Moran rewrites The Female Eunuch from a bar stool and demands to know why pants are getting smaller. There’s never been a better time to be a woman: we have the vote and the Pill, and we haven’t been burnt as witches since 1727. However, a few nagging questions do remain…
Why are we supposed to get Brazilians?
Should you get Botox?
Do men secretly hate us?
What should you call your
Oct 09, 2012 Lena rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir, non-fiction, humor
Six months ago, a memoir by a British columnist about feminism would not have caught my eye. Feminism (in this country, anyway) always seemed unnecessary to me, something that had been capably handled by the previous generation and no longer required much thought. This attitude no doubt stemmed from my having spent the majority of my life in progressive liberal communities and primarily self-employed, vaguely aware of that nagging gender pay gap but never having felt personally affected by it.

*I won this in the FirstReads giveaway.*

I have never read anything by Caitlin Moran or knew that she was a columnist, so I came to this book without an opinion about the author. This is unusual for me. I usually pick up humorous memoirs by people I already consider funny because there is nothing worse than life stories from someone you don’t know that are supposed to be funny, but are really not that funny. It’s like hearing a long, awkward story about a coworker’s uncle. Luckily, Caitlin Moran
Dec 30, 2012 Heather rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2012
A little backstory. I have recently moved from a city that contained all my family and friends to a city that has no one I have ever met or spoken to prior to my move. Needless to say, I'm in a bit of a personal exploration stage of life, and this book called to me as I sipped my latte at my new neighborhood bookstore.

While I don't agree with every comment, suggested act, etc. that Moran mentions in her often funny ode to womanhood, I don't think I was meant to. Rather she takes the stance that
Aug 20, 2012 zan rated it liked it
I held back from giving this a review once I'd finished it. The opening chapters had me cheerleading its praises right away to friends: "You HAVE to read this BOOK." Yes! We have to laugh at bikini waxes! This is the only way women will move forward!

As I got deeper into the book, though, I was more torn. On the one hand, like many people who will read this book, I read it and was like "yes Yes YES!" At several points, I thought "THIS IS SO ME!" the way people do about Liz Lemon and Stevie Nicks
Annalise Hulse
Jun 29, 2012 Annalise Hulse rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
My Mum always told me that if you can't say something nice then you shouldn't say anything at all.

So I guess that this is where I should end this review. But I stopped listening to my Mum about 20 years back.

Ugh. I'm sorry but I hate this book. It's just a load of heard it all before, stereotypical, attempting to be funny feminist drivel.

It may come as a shock to Ms Moran but she is not the first woman to realise that you don't have to wear a thong and totter around in 6 inch heels to prove you
Jenny (Reading Envy)
When I read the first 50 pages of this on my latest speed dating project, it made it into the pile of books I would continue reading. And then I decided it would be a quick enough read, why let it linger on the shelf?

I'm rating this three stars because I feel so unevenly about it. When Moran is good, she's AMAZING. She writes more honestly about feminism with some issues than anyone else I have read, from menstruation to masturbation to abortion.

The way she writes about these issues is to share
Oct 11, 2012 Sarina rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I think it was after the half-way point of the novel that I realized Caitlin Moran was not an “aspiring feminist” and that she has had years to research women’s studies, then develop educated opinions about each of the topics covered in her book. For some reason, my subconscious wanted me to believe that she was close to my age – seventeen, perhaps nineteen at the oldest. I was, as you can imagine, floored when I realized she is a married mother in her thirties. Like, what? It still does not com ...more
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Caitlin Moran had literally no friends in 1990, and so had plenty of time to write her first novel, The Chronicles of Narmo, at the age of fifteen. At sixteen she joined music weekly, Melody Maker, and at eighteen briefly presented the pop show 'Naked City' on Channel 4. Following this precocious start she then put in eighteen solid years as a columnist on The Times – both as a TV critic and also ...more
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“We need to reclaim the word 'feminism'. We need the word 'feminism' back real bad. When statistics come in saying that only 29% of American women would describe themselves as feminist - and only 42% of British women - I used to think, What do you think feminism IS, ladies? What part of 'liberation for women' is not for you? Is it freedom to vote? The right not to be owned by the man you marry? The campaign for equal pay? 'Vogue' by Madonna? Jeans? Did all that good shit GET ON YOUR NERVES? Or were you just DRUNK AT THE TIME OF THE SURVEY?” 784 likes
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