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Si Amas a Tu Adolescente

3.93  ·  Rating Details ·  164 Ratings  ·  32 Reviews
Ayuda a resolver las dificultades relacionadas con los adolescentes. La mayor parte de los problemas con los adolescentes se puede mitigar o rectificar si se corrigen las tensiones existentes en la relacion entre la madre (o el padre) y su hijo. Si amas a tu adolescente es una ayuda practica para los padres que quieren comunicar a sus hijos adolescentes que realmente son a ...more
ebook, 144 pages
Published June 1st 1992 by Grupo Nelson (first published January 1981)
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Aija Ekmane
Lasīju latviski.
Daži vērtīgi padomi, bet svarīgi atcerēties, ka "Pusaudži ir bērni pārejas vecumā. Viņi nav jauni pieauguši cilvēki. Viņu emocionālās vajadzības ir tādas pašas kā bērnam."
Mar 24, 2013 Ann rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: personal
Rather dated and language patronizing in places. Loved the part where he advised his daughter (heading off to college) to write down the names of all her friends so she could keep in touch with them!!! Obviously written pre-Facebook ;-) By the end I felt like we were going round in circles looking at more and more problems and just being told 'love your teenager'. Glad I've read it as a starting point for thinking about the next phase in our kids' development but will definitely be on the lookou ...more
Feb 13, 2014 Jill rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
This book was first published in 1981 (which explains The Love Boat example) and revised in 1993. Yes, it is technology references because cell phones were huge bag phones and social media was decades in the future. That being said, there are still timeless principles for all parents of teenagers. Campbell explains that just because we love our children doesn't mean that they feel loved by us. He gives practical advice in a nonjudgmental way. It's only 140 pages and worth the read if ...more
Jan 09, 2014 Meghan rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Classic book, got it free on kindle, but lots of great advice still pertinent for today. A good reminder about being an example to your kids on how you want them to handle their emotions, and emphasis on "connect before you correct."
Sep 22, 2016 Audrey rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
While this book was originally written in 1981 (I was in preschool!), I read the Kindle version which was published in 2004, and updated. I thought it was a great book - it was recommended to me even though I don't have teens, I have pre-teens and OMG I am so glad I read it now, before hormones kick in and emotions go wild. Alot of the principles we already hold to as a strong Christian family, like unconditional love and talking things out, and showing lots of love verbally and physically, whil ...more
The Book Man
Apr 17, 2013 The Book Man rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I still remember 15th of October when I was shocked after realizing that all my classmates were 4 years younger than me. It was very hard in the beginning because we had different thoughts. But, today, I am very thankful to God that made it up because I felt during all this year as a person that they could believe to share from their own personal life. Indeed, God does everything for a purpose, doesn’t He?!
I decided to spend time with an extreme cigarette user, poor grades, and a defiant attitu
Renee Reynolds
Aug 12, 2012 Renee Reynolds rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Every parent should read this book! With the 13th birthday of my oldest, I sat down for a reread of this important book this summer, and was promptly pummeled by Dr. Campbell's hard-hitting truths. I am continually grateful for Dr. Campbell and his simple yet profound insights into godly parenting, chiefly the filling of the child's emotional tank, which becomes more difficult and complex with the hormonal vicissitudes of adolescence. Regardless, this book will remind you of what is most importa ...more
Jan 25, 2008 Sue rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: christian, read-2000
Excellent, reassuring advice about showing older children that they are loved by their parents. The book deals with potential areas of conflict, and explains how to create good environments for listening and sharing, and increased communication.

As well as reading it in full in 2000 - when my sons were 13 and 11 - I dipped into this repeatedly, just about every year until they left home, and each time found more gems of wisdom.

Highly recommended, to all parents of pre-teens and teenagers, whet
Theresa Thomas
Mar 26, 2008 Theresa Thomas rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Good reminders inside. It does what it sets out to do (ideas for communicating unconditional love, handling teen anger (and your own), dealing with adolescent depression, helping your teen grow spiritually and intellectually) but no earthshattering revelations or pure gold advice. Dr. Ross is a professor of pediatrics and psychiatry, and while the book is easy reading, he uses some psychological 'tools' (like the 'Anger Ladder'), which I just don't relate to. The book is Christian, not Catholic. ...more
Jul 02, 2010 Elin rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
November 2009: I suddenly have a teenager in my house, and feel the need for some advice. I have a feeling this book might be helpful....

March 2010: I'm reading this book slowly. I think I need to, cuz with it I'm discovering things I need to re-think and work with as a mom. This book challenges me over and over again. And it actually helps me more aware of what the young man in front of me may need from his mother. I'm on page 103 now.
Apr 09, 2010 April rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: self-help
This is a short, concise book about how to show your teen that you really love and care about them, as well as helping them grow up to be responsible adults. He writes about teenage depression, how to recognize it and how to handle it. He also writes other problems your teen might struggle with such as anger, etc. Great information for parents.
Sep 28, 2008 Kara rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I know I don't have any teenagers yet... but this book is really good. Not only can you incorporate it to younger children (Campbell also wrote How to Really Love Your Child if you're lucky enough to be able to get a hold of it.) but for me it gave me insights on why I am how I am and how to help my teenagers become better adults.
May 13, 2010 Yolanda rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is an important book. It is an extension of "How to Really Love Your Child" by the same author. The "new" material in here is wonderful, particularly the part about teaching a child/teenager how to learn to handle their anger. Excellent. In my opinion, both of these books by Dr. Campbell should be required reading for parents.
Sep 02, 2015 Diana marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
Where to get this book now? The book shop said that it is not available any more. In Ireland. Any ideas? Rally loved his first book "how to really love your child", want to get his book on teenagers.
Debby Krabbenhoft
Wish I knew earier

Wow, what an amazing book. Wish I knew earlier about the passive aggressive behavior and preparing kids for leaving home before my oldest son moved. A must read for every parent.
Stephen Gledhill
Great Advice

Great advice and practical suggestions are given. Worth the read. I have learned how to live my grandchildren more effectively. Read this book if you are a parent of teenagers.
Mar 06, 2013 Mike rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: parenting
This book taught me so much about myself. The chapters on anger were eye-opening. Whether we are parents or not, I think all of us could benefit from reflecting on how anger was handled in our homes growing up. Highly recommend this whether you have teenagers or not.
Oct 03, 2014 JLynn rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Filled with hope and practicality

This book was very concrete, practical and hope-inducing. I walked away feeling like I understand teens (their needs and tendencies) better. And, I also leave it with lots of ideas on how to help my teen feel loved.
Apr 17, 2014 Annalie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
The very best practical, psychologically sound advice for maintaining a good relationship with your children during those turbulent years.
Patrick Allen
Jul 23, 2015 Patrick Allen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Surprisingly relevant given its age. Good adjustment to my thinking on relationships with my own teens.
Stephanie Carter
Feb 23, 2016 Stephanie Carter rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is a good book to give you balance with your teen and help you love them even more on their level. Enjoyed it a lot.
Mercedes de Agüero
Apr 22, 2008 Mercedes de Agüero rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Steffie
Recommended to Mercedes by: Ana Acle
Shelves: familia
Es un libro accesible, puntual, fundamentado y amoroso para mejora la relación familiar y parental con nuestros hijos adolescentes.
Jul 04, 2016 Kimberly rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2012-books-read
Great book about how to relate to your teen so they feel loved. Good practical information with steps to accomplish. Lots of examples of what he is talking about.
Aug 03, 2013 Jen rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Very insightful for the years to come! The author gives psychological reasons for why teens act the way they do and how parents can respond in a way that shows their children real love.
Tim Minge
Jun 02, 2016 Tim Minge rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Excellent read. Practical and insightful. I especially enjoyed the material on teaching teens to handle anger. Very good.
Zoé rated it it was amazing
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Tyron Miralda
Jun 22, 2015 Tyron Miralda rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Very amazing book really enjoyed it! will read it again!
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Dr. Campbell is a former Associate Clinical Professor of Pediatrics and Psychiatry at the University of Tennessee College of Medicine. He has counseled thousands of parents over three decades of practice. Having retired from active counseling, he focuses today on writing and lecturing on parenting topics for an
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