You're Not Doing It Right: Tales of Marriage, Sex, Death, and Other Humiliations

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You're Not Doing It Right: Tales of Marriage, Sex, Death, and Other Humiliations

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Darkly humorous and told with raw honesty, You're Not Doing it Right is Michael's debut memoir. In it, he takes on his childhood, his marriage, his children, and his career with unexpected candor and deadpan wit, as he shares the neuroses that have plagued him since he was a kid and how they shaped him into the man he is today.

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Published February 28th 2012 by Gallery Books

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Oct 24, 2012 Jillyn rated it 4 of 5 stars · review of another edition Recommends it for: his fans

Recommended to Jillyn by: Emily

This review contains some language that might be offensive. Don't like it? Don't read it.

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Michael Ian Black is a comedian who is best known for his work on various MTV shows. This is his memoir, reflecting on such things as sex, marriage, childbearing, and life in New York.

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Michael Ian Black is also a douchebag. And I love him for it. Despite him being a fairly successful forty year old Jewish man, and I being a college aged jobless Pagan female, I found tremendous similarities in viewpoints...more

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Apr 29, 2013 Ursula rated it 4 of 5 stars · review of another edition

Shelves: audio, biography-autobiography

If you're at all familiar with Michael Ian Black's comedy, you know that he will say just about any awful thing you can imagine as if he means it with all his heart. This book isn't written by *that* Michael Ian Black. I mean, okay, he does in fact still say some horrible things as if he means them with all his heart, but there are also glimpses at the humanity lurking behind the statements, and the shared experiences that lead many of us to think the things he says out loud. (If you're not at a...more If you're at all familiar with Michael Ian Black's comedy, you know that he will say just about any awful thing you can imagine as if he means it with all his heart. This book isn't written by *that* Michael Ian Black. I mean, okay, he does in fact still say some horrible things as if he means them with all his heart, but there are also glimpses at the humanity lurking behind the statements, and the shared experiences that lead many of us to think the things he says out loud. (If you're not at all familiar with his comedy, and you would be offended by someone's account of dealing with their colicky newborn which includes the sentence, "I hate my stupid baby," you should stay far away from this book.)

The memoir travels roughly chronologically, from being raised by a mother who was in a lesbian relationship after her divorce (which he didn't realize for a while, since all adult relationships seemed weird and confusing as a child anyway), to his father's death, to his relationship with his wife-to-be, to having his own children. Occasionally he doubles back around to talk about his first experiences with girls or high school trauma at the hands of a bully. The book isn't funny; or I should say, it isn't always funny. There's the expected deadpan humor, but a lot of it isn't really played for laughs. He tells stories in which he clearly comes out the bad guy, often in the context of his marriage.

(Digression: I once saw Michael Ian Black in New York City, as we were crossing a street in opposite directions. I didn't say anything to him for two reasons: one, stopping in the middle of a busy NYC intersection is essentially impossible, and even if you could manage it, you'd be taking your life into your hands; and two, he was in conversation with a tall, blonde woman. I realize now it's quite possible the woman was his wife, which makes me glad that the circumstances weren't such that I could talk to him. It would have been very awkward to declare my undying love for him and suggest that we run away together in front of his wife.)

In looking up some information on the book before I was finished, I accidentally read a review (I try not to do this ordinarily) and the comments on it (an even worse idea). Several people took issue with an incident Black describes in the book in which he is arguing with his wife, and in their yelling match she brings up divorce (as he says she often does). He goes on to describe the fact that their daughter is crying in the next room, asking them to stop fighting, and that neither of them goes to comfort her because they're too busy being mad at each other. According to the comments I read, this makes both of them terrible parents. While I obviously don't think that incident should be held up as any great example of parenting techniques, who on earth hasn't gotten into an argument in front of their kids? Said some things that they regretted? Been too angry to calmly explain the situation to the child? Even parents who do explain are likely to sometimes do it in an accusatory manner that casts negativity on the other parent. And parents who don't argue at all often end up with kids who later in life think the world is ending if there's discord in their own relationships, or who just keep it all inside for fear of bringing about a conflict. The point is, you can't realistically win. Unless, of course, you're perfect - in which case, you should obviously be raising everyone's children.

So, in summary: Michael Ian Black sometimes hates his wife and kids, but he also loves them and is fearful he's not doing a good job in his roles as spouse and parent. In other words, he's just like everyone else (but without a filter). If you're the audience for this book, you probably already know that, so what are you waiting for? And consider getting the audio version, because you're gonna hear his voice in your head if you read it to yourself anyway, so why not *actually* hear his voice in your head?!(less)

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Jul 23, 2012 Rachel Merritt rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: 2012-books

Loved this book! Once I picked it up, I couldn't put it down. I was surprised by how deeply I could relate to every story he relayed. Often, I felt as though he had reached inside my brain and stole my thoughts and memories from my own life, which, admittedly, is a little creepy (but thoroughly entertaining, nonetheless). I highly recommend this book to everyone. Actually, I would go so far as to say that this should be required reading for all people, everywhere, especially before, during (and...more

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May 09, 2012 Chris rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: 2012, humor, memoir

Black’s well-known to my generation as one of the players from MTV’s much-beloved sketch show The State and has gone on to a career in Hollywood, often appearing on television and in commercials. He’s carved out a distinct niche for himself as a snarky know-it-all and I’ve enjoyed much of his work post-State… but I wasn’t chomping at the bit to read his book. I decided to give it a shot and I am ridiculously glad I did.

You’re Not Doing It Right is quite simply, the most accurate book I’ve ever r...more Black’s well-known to my generation as one of the players from MTV’s much-beloved sketch show The State and has gone on to a career in Hollywood, often appearing on television and in commercials. He’s carved out a distinct niche for himself as a snarky know-it-all and I’ve enjoyed much of his work post-State… but I wasn’t chomping at the bit to read his book. I decided to give it a shot and I am ridiculously glad I did.

You’re Not Doing It Right is quite simply, the most accurate book I’ve ever read about what it’s like to be a husband and father in the 21st century. There’s depth to this book I did not anticipate. Black’s observations are shrewd and often biting… but they’re never inaccurate. The bald-faced way Black lays out his feelings is sometimes shocking; at various points he details the times where he has flat-out hated both his wife and children in a manner which defies the traditional “happy home and family” image most of us carry.

If that was all the book was about, You’re Not Doing It Right would be funny but morally bankrupt. I could easily see another comedian taking the short way around and simply presenting that concept, but Black doesn’t do that. What most impressed me about the book were not the laughs (and there are many) but the heart and sentimentality. Black starts from a comedic situation (I hate my wife and kids) and works backwards and forwards to reveal the truth behind being a mate and a parent today. You will occasionally have moments where you despise your kids… but you despise yourself more for being a person who would feel that way, and that motivates you to be better then you thought you ever could be. I can’t say I’ve ever called my wife a c*** (the word Black uses I can’t even bring myself to type) but I’ve experienced many of the same emotions and frustrations detailed here. That marriage is HARD is not a new concept. What is slightly new in our society is that it’s so easy for many to just quit trying. Simply having that option is part of Black’s default view of matrimony; what becomes admirable is the way he combats that view and displays through those sour feelings the love he feels.

It’s a wonderful book which comes with about as high a recommendation as I can give.(less)

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May 02, 2012 Cameron rated it 5 of 5 stars

Far from the zany, madcap type humor I somehow expected from the author, "You're Not Doing It Right" is an incredibly well-paced, well-tempered, and well-meaning book. It is humorous. It is wonderfully humorous. It is irreverant and somewhat crass. And it made me laugh out loud in a restaurant where I was reading it at a table for one, even further embarrassing myself in front of my cute Australian waitress. But, it is remarkably insightful, poignant, and touching. All the essays are introspecti...more

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Apr 22, 2012 Tom rated it 4 of 5 stars

I had mixed feelings about this book. I had read a review of it somewhere, and it sounded really cool - this idea of a husband and father finding meaning in the day to day grind. That's a good, sound philosophy that I wanted this book to explore. But he's not exactly an every guy - he wrote a show for MTV. And then, some of the anecdotes/stories felt empty. His childhood story about f*** Alan Alda just didn't do anything for me. Just because his mom idealized Alda's persona didn't mean Michael's...more

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Apr 03, 2012 Hedlun rated it 4 of 5 stars

Knowing that almost all of my friends on Goodreads are women, I feel it is my responsibility to begin by saying this book will not be enjoyed by women. But it will be enjoyed by dads, so please pass this recommendation onto them. Black's reflections on marriage and fatherhood are quite funny and in the end, even touching. Most of us appreciate it when others express the things we may think but have the self-control not to speak out loud, or say, print in a book. And this is why I will not be pub...more

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Mar 05, 2012 Gina Boyd rated it 5 of 5 stars

I have always thought Michael Ian Black was very funny, but I had no idea what a good writer he is. This memoir is one of the funniest things I've read in years--I'd compare it to David Sedaris-level funny--but it's also incredibly sad and honest in a way that few memoirs that I've read tend to be. And when I say "honest," I don't mean salacious or scandalous, or full of gory details; I mean that Black is willing to talk about things few people are willing to confess. He talks about loathing a C...more

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Apr 01, 2012 Randi rated it 3 of 5 stars

Shelves: comedy, memoir

Michael Ian Black can be a jackass, but in the end, the sweetness & sincerity of his love for his family and his life mitigate the vast majority of his more selfish statements. His statements about the difficulty of marriage and child-rearing were sometimes cruel (especially to his poor wife), his regret later about his actions rang true as well. The chapter in which he described the pain of losing their first dog had me teary and made me feel immense sympathy for this sweet, arrogant comic.

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Mar 02, 2012 Neil Shurley rated it 4 of 5 stars

I remember enjoying Michael Ian Black's work on the nearly forgotten TV show Ed. And I thought he was one of the funnier parts of the I Love the 70s/80s VH1 shows. Last year I discovered his podcast, Mike and Tom Eat Snacks, which he records with his Ed co-star, Tom Cavanagh. I've also listened to a couple of his comedy albums.

Now I've read his book. And I really liked it.

I actually found myself laughing. Out loud. Not something I often do while reading a book. And I also found it to be shockin...more

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Apr 09, 2012 Michael Moats rated it 3 of 5 stars

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The first thing Michael Ian Black does after the standard thank-yous and glad-to-be-heres is open up his laptop and start reading a review of his new book “You’re Not Doing it Right.” Black is not upset or particularly pleased with the review; he’s sharing it because “it is truly the most terribly-written piece of crap I’ve ever read.” (This and all quotes here will be paraphrased, FYI.) The review, and I’ll spare the author attribution here, was posted on a website no o...more

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Mar 17, 2012 Carl rated it 4 of 5 stars

I consume a lot of Michael Ian Black. As a 15-year old, hardly a school day passed without quoting The State. This has continued during my adult years albeit with a much lower frequency though with no smaller laughs. Looking back, Michael Ian Black was the center of 90% of my favorite skits ($240 of Pudding, Bologna Feet, The Toothbrush, The Mailman and the tacos) and thus a dependence on his brand of humor was born. Since he doesn't do crazy voices or did-you-ever-notice observations, his humor...more

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Dec 06, 2012 Ashley rated it 2 of 5 stars

I didn't really enjoy this book at all, and I couldn't relate to much of what he said. Besides the stuff about having a baby with colic which truly does suck, I didn't have the same experience that many goodreads readers did- maybe because I am not a middle aged guy?
I also will never understand these relationships where people are miserable, fight constantly, and seem to just not enjoy being together. Most of the couples who I know who have been married 20/30/40 years seem to be pretty darn hap...more

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Feb 25, 2012 Kristin rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: first-reads

So I’ve decided I probably shouldn’t read people’s memoirs on the train anymore. That doesn’t mean I’ll stop, I’m just saying I should because I’m sure the people around me in the morning and afternoon loved watching me shake, turn red and have tears streaming out of my eyes as I read this book. Let me just say paralegal and panda bears. You’ll understand when you read it.

Since I first saw Michael Ian Black on TV, I liked him and found him to be dryly funny, so I figured I’d enter the Goodreads...more So I’ve decided I probably shouldn’t read people’s memoirs on the train anymore. That doesn’t mean I’ll stop, I’m just saying I should because I’m sure the people around me in the morning and afternoon loved watching me shake, turn red and have tears streaming out of my eyes as I read this book. Let me just say paralegal and panda bears. You’ll understand when you read it.

Since I first saw Michael Ian Black on TV, I liked him and found him to be dryly funny, so I figured I’d enter the Goodreads giveaway to win an ARC of his book. I’m really glad I did. This was one of the fastest books to read and also one of the funniest. Black is sarcastic, apathetic (but in a good way, not in an I’ll let that puppy get hit by a train way), self-deprecating and unflinchingly honest. I could go on, but you should just pick this book up and find out more about him for yourself.

In this highly amusing memoir, Black touches on many of his experiences, discussing his parents marriage and divorce, middle school, Christmas, his first and subsequent experiences with girls, pets and his own marriage and the birth of his children.

I’m pretty sure I laughed about something on almost every page of this book. I cracked up when he went off about a particular band and any band from a certain southern state. I was a little worried about reading it because to say that I don’t want children is an understatement (my ideal man is sterile) and I knew that he’d be discussing his in the book. There was no need for me to worry, I’m sure he’s joking (mostly) but the way he talks about kids is hysterical. Breeders usually act like their spawn can do no wrong and, let’s face it, even Hitler had parents, but Black doesn’t subscribe to that view, at least not in his book. And despite the fact that I knew how the end of the story with the previously unmentioned band would turn out, I laughed nonetheless. I also wanted to roll my eyes and barf, but I still laughed.

Subsequent chapters about his family life were gut-bustingly funny. I’m sure certain people will shake their heads in disgust about the things he says about his kids, but I was practically rolling on the floor. Everything he said is the way I feel about children, so I can’t for the life of me figure out why he had them. Not that he doesn’t love them, but still. I would say that his stories strengthened my resolve not to have children, but that resolve is already encased in concrete, wrapped in titanium and surrounded by whatever that stuff is that Han Solo was sealed in by Jabba the Hut.

There are serious moments (sort-of), such as when Black discusses the death of one of his parents and problems he and his wife have, but they are liberally peppered with humor. Or rather slathered in it. While I would probably be on his side in their arguments, I have to say his wife must be part saint to allow him to talk about her and certain moments in their life the way he does (let’s just say if I slept with brothers, there’s no way in hell I’d let my husband put that in his book). Yet, as with his kids, you know he really does love her. However, I do have to put on my judgmental moral hat for a second and say, really, screwing around with someone who’s living with another guy? Gross. Even if you end up marrying her. Gross. And although it’s been almost twenty years, if I were Christopher, I’ll still knock Black on his ass if I saw him. And probably his wife too.

Finally, I have to say how much I love the cover. It’s what finally convinced me to enter the giveaway for the book. Its nonchalant, who-gives-a-crap feel is perfect for the tone of the book. Though I’m not sure what the hell he’s wearing on his feet.

I highly recommend You’re Not Doing It Right for readers who love Wade Rouse or Russell Brand’s writing and eagerly look forward to any other memoir Black decides to write.
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Apr 12, 2012 Rosa rated it 4 of 5 stars

I loved this book. I kept seeing this described as "honest" and "painfully candid" before reading it (the word "honest" occurs over & over again in the blurbs on the back cover), so when Michael Ian Black (hereafter "MIB" for brevity's sake - apologies for any Expensively Crafted Aliens+Will Smith connotations) makes numerous references to how much his children annoy him, or how he sometimes enjoys being in a hotel room by himself & far away from his family, or even how he didn't fall in...more I loved this book. I kept seeing this described as "honest" and "painfully candid" before reading it (the word "honest" occurs over & over again in the blurbs on the back cover), so when Michael Ian Black (hereafter "MIB" for brevity's sake - apologies for any Expensively Crafted Aliens+Will Smith connotations) makes numerous references to how much his children annoy him, or how he sometimes enjoys being in a hotel room by himself & far away from his family, or even how he didn't fall in love with either of his children on the spot or even for a while, I wasn't that surprised or impressed, given his longstanding schtick in which he's sort of an android prick. I have hung in there for so long (not so much from the sketch comedy or any of the tv shows, but for his contributions to the Vh1 stuff & also his first book; I also used to visit his blog on a daily basis before realizing that it made me late for everything) because MIB is genuinely witty & hysterical; also, I've thought for a long time now that underneath all the layers of sarcasm, a truly observant & feeling sensibility was peeking through. But I didn't think we'd ever really get to see the full frontal. Up to now, it's mostly been discreetly tucked away, and while that's fine for the Vh1 type things, in terms of being a writer, it's quite the Achilles heel to be so on guard - for this reason, I thought My Custom Van started feeling kind of monotonous after a while. But this book - the guy genuinely puts his ass on the line. Michael Ian Black, as one of the backcover blurbs states, has feelings! And as with his numerous observations on everything else under the sun (rent controlled apartments in NYC, hamster daily habits, high school caste systems), he does a damned fine job of articulating what's really going on inside. He seems to get that if your whole thing is being consistently an a-hole, you eventually have to put your genuine self out there to remain impactful in any meaningful way (I'm looking at you, Ricky Gervais - is the joke ever really on you anymore?) The conclusion of this book is quite moving - I choked up, as if I were MIB in the hands of a particularly well-wrought Scott Stapp lyric. There are not nearly enough books out there like this, in which notions of love and family are deeply explored without making the reader want to gag on the cloying cliches. It must have felt insurmountable at times to reconcile an entire book devoted to marriage and family that somehow remains true to the android prick's voice, and yet MIB somehow pulls it off. He writes in the final credits that he almost abandoned this project numerous times - I'm truly glad you didn't, and I can't wait to see what other stories you might have in you. And should you see this, just one question: is the fact that FKF is no longer fat, is that throwing you into a complete tailspin?(less)

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Mar 17, 2012 Kim rated it 4 of 5 stars

4 1/2 stars. I really loved this book. Yes, Michael Ian Black comes off as kind of a crass jerk sometimes, but I have listened to him enough that I get that that is kind of his schtick, and it doesn't bother me so much, and really, his jerkiness can kind of be seen as raw honesty in a lot of cases. The first couple essays are not the strongest ones, but once he starts talking about marriage and parenthood, he absolutely shines. These essays are honest, hilarious, tender and true. I think one of...more

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Feb 29, 2012 Cheryl rated it 4 of 5 stars

I mostly remember Michael Ian Black from the TV show Ed, though I know I’ve seen him in various things over the years and always thought he was funny. My sister won an ARC of the book and she loved it and recommend that I read it and I'm very glad I did. In You’re Not Doing It Right Black’s not just funny, he’s laugh out loud hysterical. The book doesn’t touch on much of his acting career, but focuses on his family, from his lesbian mother who holds Alan Alda up as the ideal man, his seemingly...more

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Jul 17, 2012 Gaelen rated it 1 of 5 stars

Shelves: nonfiction

Michael Ian Black has his talents as an actor/comedian, but he should stop trying to be a writer. Even setting aside the fact that this book reveals him to be FAR more of a douchebag than I originally realized, his writing style is very similar to unfunny dad-comic Dave Barry. It's irritating, and not particularly funny. Further, he has a self-conscious habit of fake self-deprecation, when he pokes fun at himself for things that are only borderline embarrassing (in order to prove himself less of...more

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May 03, 2012 Jessi rated it 2 of 5 stars

I could watch Michael Ian Black on TV all day. As a matter of fact, I used to do just that. I taped all those dumb VH1 "I Love the..." series, mainly because of him. I like listening to him talk, and I love following him on twitter.
For some reason, though, I just couldn't get into this book. To me, it felt sad and awkward. I get self-deprecating humor- believe me, I do. And I really like it. But I didn't get that from this book. I was so excited to receive it, and started reading it as soon as...more

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Apr 06, 2012 Lisa rated it 5 of 5 stars

I knew this book was going to be funny when I started reading it. I've always loved Michael Ian Black's take on things. This book is certainly laugh out loud funny. What surprised me was how absolutely honest and unflinching some of his tales of marriage and parenthood were. Yes, he keeps it funny, but he also keeps it *completely* real. The extent to which he was willing to lay it all on the table for his reader--the good, the bad, and the ugly-- was surprising to me. It took what could have be...more

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Dec 10, 2012 Anika Rothingham rated it 4 of 5 stars

I stumbled upon this at the library... a dark memoir with many laugh out loud moments. The reason it's not 5 stars is that the guy's a jerk. And not in the cute self-deprecating way that some jerks come across, but in the "this guy must be a real A-hole" kinda way. He's either trying to make being a jerk funny or he's that unaware of himself. Maybe I'd understand the humor better if I'd seen him act in something. Has anyone seen him in anything? Does he seem like a jerk when he talks out loud?

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Apr 19, 2012 Rebecca rated it 3 of 5 stars

Ah, a celeb-written book on nothing. Sometimes you just need trash to get through the day! This one was written by a comedian whom I am not overly familer with (I know him from like 10 years ago when he did Best Week Ever and I Love The whatever on VH-1. Not really sure what he's been up to since and frankly, don't really care. This book was all about his love and personal life. It actually wasn't too bad except self indulgent and people like me keep feeding the monster in picking titles like th...more

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Jul 14, 2012 Toni rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: parents, michael ian black fans

Shelves: memoirs, parenting

The part about aging that terrifies isn't so much about becoming old or out of touch. It doesn't take much poking around to tell that I'm a pretty out of date person. No, the part of aging that terrifies me is the idea of looking around and finding myself surrounded by my failures. Living a lazy life can be fun, but sometimes you miss out on all of those great perks you actually have to work for. Things like pleasant spouses, healthy families, and stability come as a result of involved effort. S...more

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Mar 19, 2012 Jenny rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: non-fiction

This was a lot sadder/more thoughtful than I thought it would be. I was expecting a male version of Bossypants but you end up getting so much more honesty. This book takes a look at the history of Michael's relationship with his wife. While work is mentioned, it's never explained in detail. He meets, falls in love with, moves in with, marries and starts a family with his wife and he captures all of the mixed moods and emotions that come from merging your life with someone else's. I've read some...more

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Mar 10, 2012 Rob rated it 4 of 5 stars · review of another edition

At its heart, this is just a book about someone's life experiences –family, love, pain, growing and learning. However, the way I prefer to describe it is as a great set of stories that serve as a vivid depiction of Michael Ian Black's shitty life. He's a nerd without an ounce of manliness. He's a coward. He's a hypocrite. He is terrible in bed. He hates the beautiful woman he ends up marrying (she's older than him and two feet taller – I found proof). He doesn't want kids. He hates the kids his...more

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Mar 26, 2012 Erica Pulling rated it 4 of 5 stars

Okay, Michael Ian Black is not for everyone, but I find him utterly hilarious. You must have an appreciation for dark (Black - hah!) comedy. But, he's not just funny, there's a wise man-boy lurking under there. He dares to tell the unvarnished truth about aspects of parenthood and marriage that I think we've all probably noticed, but never dared to speak about in the civilized open. And he also comes clean about the personal disappointments and insecurities that plague many of us. The genius of...more

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Mar 12, 2012 Lucky Stevens rated it 5 of 5 stars

You’re Not Doing it Right was honestly one of the most enjoyable books I ever read--and I’m not just saying that because I’m high. I thoroughly enjoyed Michael Ian Black’s humor and the man can really spin a yarn, making the mundane paradoxically captivating. Cliché as it may be, there were times I was seriously laughing so hard, tears were rolling down my cheeks. Many of those tears were even mine.
If you like deadpan humor and enjoy really getting into someone else’s life in an almost voyeurist...more

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May 28, 2012 Amy rated it 2 of 5 stars

i have a special place in my heart for all former members of The State, but this was just not a good book. i think that i seriously need to stop reading memoirs/essay collections from celebrities/comedians because they are usually not good writers. some of the stories in this book were enjoyable, but overall, black just came across as a giant asshole. he mentions in the beginning that it was very difficult for him to write this book, and it really shows. at times it seemed like he was reaching t...more

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Dec 06, 2012 Garrett Zecker rated it 4 of 5 stars

Recommended to Garrett by: Michael Ian Black

This was a hilarious and touching exploration of the modern male psyche, and it is sincerely surprising that he could get so many things right in so many ways in such a slim volume. Most people's connection with Black is his television persona - but in recent years (as I have found out talking with people and recommending the book) they have associated him with "I love the..." rather than some of the other amazing projects he has done in his career. His writing career is so much more than that,...more

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Apr 06, 2012 Sjcapanna rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: 2012

Sometimes I like to read a humor book to clear the palate after I've read too many novels in a row and the plotlines start blurring together in my mind. I wasn't super familiar with Michael Ian Black, but this book got good reviews, and it was about marriage/family/life in the suburbs, which sounded interesting to me.

It took awhile for me to warm up to the guy. That's because he began with tales of when he was still single, and he seemed like just another early-20s single douchebag. But when he...more

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“I am not a music snob. If anything, my musical taste is bad by any critical standards. My favorite song of all time is "Come On Eileen" by Dexys Midnight Runners. A close second is "MMMBop" by Hansen. So I am not out there claiming any musical superiority, but Creed really does suck. Bad music, pretentious lyrics, and a messianic front man. Also they are from Flordia. No good rock music has ever come from Flordia. Undoubtedly, there will be legions of offended readers who think to themselves, What are you talking about! Such-and-such band is from Flordia and they're freaking awesome! No, whatever band you are thinking of, if they are from Flordia, they suck. Not as much as Creed, but they still suck.” — 3 people liked it

“Choose hope over fear.” — 3 people liked it

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