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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoyed this book more than I thought I would.  It was better than any of the 'leadership/management' books I read this summer.  It reminded me a bit of <em>The Peacegiver</em>.  The information in this book can be useful.  The name of the book is a bit misleading or not helpful in understanding the book. ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/74160613">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[&quot;WHAT?&quot; you say to yourself. WHAT is this fantasy-story-loving girl doing reading a book that demands shelving on the business/psychology shelf? And a valid question it is. I would never in one thousand years have picked it up if my dearly beloved husband hadn't read it first and told me t...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/73926913">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I had to read this book for one of my communication classes. This book will help you to see people in a different light and you will learn how to improve relationships and effectively communicate with others.  I recommend this book to everyone. ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[A simple and clear introdiction to the process of self-deception.  It is a great starting point.  I rated it a four; if I was on a desert island and could only have a few books with me, I would take &quot;Bonds That Make Us Free.&quot; ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was a surprisingly easy read.  By the name I thought I would encounter an almost clinical book - but the book was told in story form.  Good read. ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This is one of my all time favorite books. It makes me want to grow and change. If I could read it really quick everyday to keep it fresh in my mind as I went about the day I would. Seriously brings new perspective. My dad actually introduced it to us a few years back when all of the members in his ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/71033257">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book looks like a serious and boring read, but it reads just like a novel and I couldn't put it down. It has changed my perspective and how I interact with my husband, my kids, neighbors, and even strangers.  The Arbinger Institute studies human behavior. The book is all about how our self dece...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46027242">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a great book about what it really means to be a leader and inspire change. ]]></body>
    
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