This Beautiful Life
When fifteen-year-old Jake Bergamot receives--and then forwards to a friend--a sexually explicit video that an eighth-grade admirer sent to him, the video goes viral within hours. The scandal that ensues threatens to shatter his family's sense of security and identity--and, ultimately, their happiness. This Beautiful Life is a devastating, clear-eyed portrait of modern lif...more
Paperback, 256 pages
Published
February 7th 2012
by Harper Perennial
(first published 2011)
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Living what appears to be an exceptional reality, with financial and career success, access to the good things in life, and a world of hope for the future, the Bergamot family discovers that the royal flush they had been dealt can easily be transformed into, or shown to be, a house of cards.
When 15-year old Jake Bergamot passes on a chance to hook up with an eighth-grader at a party, telling her she is just too young, she tries to show him she is very definitely not too young by sending him an e...more
When 15-year old Jake Bergamot passes on a chance to hook up with an eighth-grader at a party, telling her she is just too young, she tries to show him she is very definitely not too young by sending him an e...more
This book lost me from hello, and whilst at times it made an effort to win me back I never really bought it.
The premise is good one, its what caught my attention, and I was excited to receive an uncorrected proof from Waterstones. Examining the worst challenges a family can face from the relative safety of a book can make for very thought provoking reading. But this is no "We Need to Talk About Kevin."
I felt the main barrier to me connecting with this book was the characters, and the lives they...more
The premise is good one, its what caught my attention, and I was excited to receive an uncorrected proof from Waterstones. Examining the worst challenges a family can face from the relative safety of a book can make for very thought provoking reading. But this is no "We Need to Talk About Kevin."
I felt the main barrier to me connecting with this book was the characters, and the lives they...more
A beautifully descriptive writer - the details of her settings and characters feelings made the story more immediate and real to me. An upwardly mobile family is adjusting to life in Manhattan where Richard is pursuing his new executive planning position with a New York university when their 15 year-old son, Jake, receives a raunchy video email from a 13 year-old admirer that he unthinkly forwards to a friend. Within a day the video has gone viral, widely circulated across the internet and Jake...more
Helen Schulman has written a well-crafted and articulate novel, full of trenchant observations about the competitiveness of everyday Manhattan life and the myriad small and big ways that people try to insulate themselves from the truth of life or relationships.
Schulman's novel is populated by characters who make compromises (whether it's the highly educated career woman who becomes a stay-at-home mother, the idealistic striver who becomes a selfish banker, the parents who inundate their children...more
Schulman's novel is populated by characters who make compromises (whether it's the highly educated career woman who becomes a stay-at-home mother, the idealistic striver who becomes a selfish banker, the parents who inundate their children...more
Okay so I finished this book a couple of days ago and am still thinking about it. Mainly I think of my niece who is nearly Daisy's age and shudder to think that she could be naive enough to record a very explicit video of herself and forward it to an older boy in the hopes of impressing him. God how awful, and mainly because I actually think she might do it. But what is more disturbing is I get that hideous apprehension because I see her with her friends, trying so hard to be grown up, she idoli...more
Somebody pour me a drink. I feel like I've survived something here.
First off, let me say that I listened to this on CD going to-and-from work, and the fact that the reader was overwhelmingly droll and snooty certainly tainted my impression of the book. It was very challenging to tolerate her smug and judgmental tone.
The plot centers on an upwardly-mobile New York family of four: Richard, a highly-sought university administrator; his wife, Liz, an initially sensible stay-at-home mom who has set...more
First off, let me say that I listened to this on CD going to-and-from work, and the fact that the reader was overwhelmingly droll and snooty certainly tainted my impression of the book. It was very challenging to tolerate her smug and judgmental tone.
The plot centers on an upwardly-mobile New York family of four: Richard, a highly-sought university administrator; his wife, Liz, an initially sensible stay-at-home mom who has set...more
Hundreds, maybe thousands, of years from now, when futuristic anthropologists are in search of the long gone 21st century American man, this book may be of service. For better or for worse, This Beautiful Life by Helen Schulman offers a crystalline glimpse of the postmodern American family and its tragic struggle to stay afloat amid a sea of moral ambiguities, fractured family dynamics and compromising technologies.
The story centers on Liz and Richard Bergamot and their two children, fifteen-ye...more
The story centers on Liz and Richard Bergamot and their two children, fifteen-ye...more
While the theme of This Beautiful Life is a timely one, the narrative dragged and disappointed many of the members in my book club.
The storyline follows the Bergamot family as they deal with a scandal that threatens their sense of security and identity.
Fifteen-year old Jake attends an unchaperoned party with his new friends in an affluent district of New York City. He briefly makes out with Daisy Cavanaugh, the twelve-year old hostess, but rejects her offer of sex. The next morning, Jake wakes u...more
The storyline follows the Bergamot family as they deal with a scandal that threatens their sense of security and identity.
Fifteen-year old Jake attends an unchaperoned party with his new friends in an affluent district of New York City. He briefly makes out with Daisy Cavanaugh, the twelve-year old hostess, but rejects her offer of sex. The next morning, Jake wakes u...more
A subject well handled by the author. We cannot save our children all the heartache and pain how much ever we want to. We live in dread of it day in and day out and pray they get into situations that can be resolved.
Richard and Liz move from a comfortable life to a fast paced well to do Manhattan life. Richard Bergamont is soon consumed by his high flying job. Liz has given up her academic career to take care of the kids.
Liz is chaperoning her lil daughter Coco to all the play dates and parties...more
Richard and Liz move from a comfortable life to a fast paced well to do Manhattan life. Richard Bergamont is soon consumed by his high flying job. Liz has given up her academic career to take care of the kids.
Liz is chaperoning her lil daughter Coco to all the play dates and parties...more
Jan 09, 2013
Joel Simon
rated it
3 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
Parents of teenagers and pre-teens
Recommended to Joel by:
My wife
Shelves:
fiction
I found "This Beautiful Life", by Helen Schulman, to be a riveting, edge of your seat, but only partially satisfying novel. The main plot line is gripping, and the way it unfolds is truly a page-turner. A happy, seemingly perfect, rising middle class family, that moved from Ithaca, NY to New York City, unravels when Jake, the 15 year old son receives a lewd video from Daisy, a 13 year old girl who attends his school. Daisy hosted a party that Jake attended by chance, got drunk at and gave Daisy...more
I wish that Helen Schulman had not written this book for adults. I wish that she had kept the graphic sexual references that weren't completely necessary out so that parents and their tweens and teens could read it together.
Totally gobsmacked by the scariness and heaviness of this novel, so well-written that it could be true. The Bergamot family is virtually destroyed by their son Jake's Big Mistake of forwarding an unsolicited explicit video one sad young teen made for him to express her frust...more
Totally gobsmacked by the scariness and heaviness of this novel, so well-written that it could be true. The Bergamot family is virtually destroyed by their son Jake's Big Mistake of forwarding an unsolicited explicit video one sad young teen made for him to express her frust...more
Very relevant subject matter about a highschool-aged boy who forwards a video emailed to him by an 8th grade girl. She is responding to his wise "you're too young" rejection. The video is pornographic, so when he forwards it to his buddy in hopes for some insight, instead the buddy (of course) forwards it againand the video goes viral. This is a great story to discuss with your kids, and NOTHING should be assumed when talking to them about it. For instance, when I relayed the story to my kids, m...more
Over the past few years, as teenagers and younger children became owners and users of cell phones equipped with cameras and internet capability, we have read the sad stories of sexting among middle and high school students and rued the day that kids with few inhibitions and even fewer concerns about privacy and cruelty seemed to become the norm. This novel enters the lives of a nuclear family that has what appears to be, in fact, a beautiful life. It didn't appear to me to be that, however, beca...more
I just finished this book and absolutely despised it. I thought the subject matter was OK, if a bit overdone, but what really annoyed me is Helen Schulman's writing. It's simply not good. I hated every stock character, especially Lizzie and Richard, and I had a hard time believing a kindergartener (no matter how precocious) would say "it's awfully ...."
And that's just one completely unbelievable thing characters say in this book. Even tiny things annoyed me, like having a food server at a lobst...more
And that's just one completely unbelievable thing characters say in this book. Even tiny things annoyed me, like having a food server at a lobst...more
Spoiler alert: the following discusses plot and characters.
The central incident in this book is when the 16 year old Jake receives a very pornographic video from a 14 year old girl who he has rejected as being too young and then Jake forwards it on. That one act basically destroys Jake and wrecks his father’s job.
The story is engaging. It was a quick and easy read.
But, the destruction of Jake is pretty harsh and the basic transformation of an essentially good kid into something else feels pret...more
The central incident in this book is when the 16 year old Jake receives a very pornographic video from a 14 year old girl who he has rejected as being too young and then Jake forwards it on. That one act basically destroys Jake and wrecks his father’s job.
The story is engaging. It was a quick and easy read.
But, the destruction of Jake is pretty harsh and the basic transformation of an essentially good kid into something else feels pret...more
I really liked this book and I'm glad that I won it through goodreads. It was an interesting story and it was refreshing to take a break from my usual style of books and read something contemporary that didn't have paranormal aspects to it, haha. I debated between giving this book four stars and three stars but obviously settled on three stars.
This was the story of a family whose teenage son receives an email from a 13 year old girl that is very graphic disturbing and bordering on pornographic....more
This was the story of a family whose teenage son receives an email from a 13 year old girl that is very graphic disturbing and bordering on pornographic....more
Schulman examines issues of technology, parenting, class, privilege, privacy and gender roles in this novel about a family newly transplanted to Manhattan's wealthy Upper West Side from Ithaca. When 15 year old Jake receives an unwanted erotic video in his email from classmate 13 year old Daisy, the family loses their fragile foothold among the ruling class and their various attempts to cope with their new found infamy reveals cracks running underneath the facade of their "perfect" family.
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The subject matter is enough to give me night sweats. One of my worst fears in life is to make a seemingly small mistake that makes everyone hate me and then results in national notoriety, or maybe even criminal charges. (Yes, I'll seek help.) But anyway, that's EXACTLY what happens to the teenage character in this story. He makes a quick error in judgment, and everything spirals out of control. It's a story about forgiveness, and dealing with life in the digital age, and how people change (or d...more
Jake Bergamot is your typical fifteen year old. Scratch that... Jake's life might be better than average. He lives with both parents who are still in love and married. He has a little sister who is adopted from China. He lives in a nice home in a nice neighborhood and has great friends.
Then one evening after returning home from a party and barely turning down one girls advances, but yes, still turning her down. He turns on his computer and sees that this 8th grade girl, Daisy, has sent him a sex...more
Then one evening after returning home from a party and barely turning down one girls advances, but yes, still turning her down. He turns on his computer and sees that this 8th grade girl, Daisy, has sent him a sex...more
Synopsis:
When the Bergamots move to the city, they're unsure how well they'll adapt. Soon though, Richard is consumed by his new job and Liz, who has given up her career, is hectically playing mother to six-year-old Coco and fifteen-year-old Jake. But the day Jake unthinkingly forwards a sexually explicit email attachment sent to him by a young girl is the last day of the Bergamots' comfortable middle-class existence. Within hours, the video clip is not only all over Jake's school, but all ove...more
When the Bergamots move to the city, they're unsure how well they'll adapt. Soon though, Richard is consumed by his new job and Liz, who has given up her career, is hectically playing mother to six-year-old Coco and fifteen-year-old Jake. But the day Jake unthinkingly forwards a sexually explicit email attachment sent to him by a young girl is the last day of the Bergamots' comfortable middle-class existence. Within hours, the video clip is not only all over Jake's school, but all ove...more
This book did get marginally better, so it might be worth sticking it out, but let's not get too crazy here - marginally, after all.
The premise of this work could have been interesting - should have been - but so sadly wasn't. A fifteen year old goes to a party, messes around with an eighth grader (gross), he tells her she's too young (you think?) which then inspires her to email him a porn movie she films featuring herself. Shocked by this, Jake forwards it to his best friend, and by that eveni...more
The premise of this work could have been interesting - should have been - but so sadly wasn't. A fifteen year old goes to a party, messes around with an eighth grader (gross), he tells her she's too young (you think?) which then inspires her to email him a porn movie she films featuring herself. Shocked by this, Jake forwards it to his best friend, and by that eveni...more
When teenagers lack parental guidance and have the freedom of a big city and unlimited funds, trouble is bound to follow. While Jake Bergamot tries to fit in with his new ultra-privileged, ill-mannered schoolmates, a single click of the mouse threatens to change his life forever.
The Bergamots move to Manhattan from the comfortable up-state town of Ithaca when Richard accepts an executive position at the university. The family finds themselves struggling to adapt to the well-to-do lifestyle, a f...more
The Bergamots move to Manhattan from the comfortable up-state town of Ithaca when Richard accepts an executive position at the university. The family finds themselves struggling to adapt to the well-to-do lifestyle, a f...more
An ideal family. Lizzie Bergamot is certain that despite her family’s lack of fortune that they’ve got it all and it’s only getting better by the minute. The Bergamot’s recent move to the big city was the result of a very lucrative job offer for her husband and it’s side effects could be seen everywhere. From the overnight Mommy-Daughter spa-esque treatments at the Plaza Hotel to the very prestigious schools for both of her children, Coco and Jake. It also meant new territory and potential hazar...more
Not really my kind of book. It was too unhappy and unsettling, what can I say? I'm shallow? For me, the characters were too depressing--who would want to identify with them? Am I naive? Are people really that sad and pathetic? Is it really so hard to get through life? Sometimes, maybe. But who wants to dwell on it?!
It is an interesting look at how difficult the teen years can be. How one small, impulsive, unkind decision can have far reaching consequences entirely beyond anyone's, let alone a yo...more
It is an interesting look at how difficult the teen years can be. How one small, impulsive, unkind decision can have far reaching consequences entirely beyond anyone's, let alone a yo...more
This Beautiful Life by Helen Schulman tackles the controversial subject of teenage sexuality and the unintended consequences of life with the Internet. A true Molotov cocktail, this book is sure to get the conversation started at your local book club.
The book begins with an uncomfortable scene involving thirteen year old Daisy Cavanaugh filming a sexually explicit video for sixteen year old Jake Bergamot. It involves nudity, a bat, and a whole lot of chutzpah that I certainly didn't possess at...more
The book begins with an uncomfortable scene involving thirteen year old Daisy Cavanaugh filming a sexually explicit video for sixteen year old Jake Bergamot. It involves nudity, a bat, and a whole lot of chutzpah that I certainly didn't possess at...more
This Beautiful Life tells the story of the Bergamots, new to New York City and trying to find their place in this wealthy, no-holds-barred lifestyle. Just when it looks like Richard, Liz, 15 yr old Jake and their adopted, 6-yr-old daughter Coco have adapted to this strange new world, Jake receives a sexually explicit email from a young admirer and forwards it to a friend. The video astonishingly quickly goes viral and soon the whole school has seen it. The Bergamots struggle to deal with the rep...more
This is a there go I but for the grace of God kind of story. This was on the 100 notable books of 2011 list, and I am grateful for that, because otherwise I would have missed this book, and that would have been a shame. I do not always agree that those books are the best of the year, but they are usually very good at the least, and since I am not completely steeped in the book world, I would mis many of them.
Liz and Richard Bergamot are upper middle class everyday parents. He is the reason they...more
Liz and Richard Bergamot are upper middle class everyday parents. He is the reason they...more
Dec 06, 2011
Elizabeth
rated it
4 of 5 stars
·
review of another edition
Recommends it for:
People who break
Shelves:
2011
This is one of those books that shows up in my reserved section at the library and I have no idea how it got there. However I found it, I'm glad I did. What thoughtful and articulate writing for a story that is both a story that's been told a thousand times and also, pulls off a contemporary feeling.
What happens when a family confronts a crisis? The Bergamots are a new to being fancy family just arrived in Manhattan. Glorious, a lot of money and into the big leagues Manhattan, mistakes are not t...more
What happens when a family confronts a crisis? The Bergamots are a new to being fancy family just arrived in Manhattan. Glorious, a lot of money and into the big leagues Manhattan, mistakes are not t...more
Nov 18, 2011
Hoover Public Library Adult Fiction
rated it
3 of 5 stars
·
review of another edition
Shelves:
family-issues,
general-fiction
Helen Schulman writes a very contemporary story. What would happen if your teenage son did something incredibly stupid and damaging to himself and all those around him? This is the story of a very successful couple who've moved to New York City to live the American dream. Richard and Liz Bergamots are highly educated and motivated. Richard has just accepted a coveted position at a NY university while Liz has put her career on hold for her children. Jake is fifteen and Coco is six. Jake seems to...more
The cover of this book has an illustration of a delicately (if not magically) balanced house of cards which appears to be so fragile that a mild wind could blow it over. And that is the story of this family, and is reflective of many real-life families as well. The parents are successful, attractive, loving and attentive to their children. And yet, their teenage son goes to a party and meets a young girl who later "sex-texts" a pornographic video of herself to try to get his attention. He, being...more
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I actually had a student earlier this year who told me he'd just spent 2 months in jail for this type of thing. He and his girlfriend had a ch...more
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