Me, the Missing, and the Dead

Me, the Missing, and the Dead

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Me: Lucas Swain--I'm nearly sixteen years old and live in London. I was fairly normal until the night I found Violet. Then everything changed.

The Missing: Dad. He disappeared five years ago. Nobody knows what happened to him, and nobody cares except me. It's enough to drive you crazy.

The Dead: That's Violet . . . in the urn. Speaking of crazy--I know she's trying to tell m...more
Hardcover, 208 pages
Published April 1st 2008 by HarperTeen (first published January 3rd 2007)
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FIRST IMPRESSION:
Jenny Valentine is one of those authors who will always be a "three star" author to me. She has this weird sense of bizarre logic which I can't help loving, but she can't fool me into thinking any of her stories could be real. The covers of her books are always pretty. Just saying.

WRITING STYLE:
I quite like Lucas's thoughts. Although there were a zillion commas missing, and though people suppose boys to speak in a snappy way, Lucas doesn't seem like the snappy type. He's too nic...more
Jamie
There's a little bit of suspension of disbelief (LOTS of coincidences)to totally enjoy this book, but enjoy it you should. It reads fast, but unfolds slowly, and has a highly satisfactory ending that shouldn't come as a surprise, but did to me.
Carrie
This is an excellent YA novel, the story of fifteen-year old Lucas who ends up being the custodian of an old woman’s ashes (they were left behind in a taxi dispatch office for something like five years, and he felt guilty - or her ghost let him - so he brought her home). As he investigate the life of the dead woman, Violet Park (that would be the dead), he learns more about his father who walked away from him and his family a number of years before (that would be the missing). The story of him s...more
Kelly
Summary: 16-year-old Lucas finds an old lady in an urn, who just so happens to have some connection to his missing dad. If he can find out who the dead lady was, can he find his dad?

Review: From the brief description of this on Amazon, I wasn’t interested. It sounded like a ghost story, and I don’t do ghost stories. Or scary movies, for that matter. I’ve been known to sleep with the light on after a particularly creepy episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, for Pete’s sake.

But this book was a fina...more
Lucy
Lucas Swain is almost sixteen years old, and his dad has been missing for five years when he meets Violet Park on a shelf at a cab office. Thing is, Violet Park is more than a little bit dead and living in an urn at the time.

But Lucas knows that she has something to tell him. Even though she's no longer among the living.

As Lucas tries to unearth the truth about Violet Park and what she wants from him, he realizes that there may have been a connection between Violet Park and his missing father. T...more
West Region,
Me, the Missing, and the Dead
Jenny Valentine

"It's the not knowing that's hard."

For Lucas, a sixteen year old Londoner, his father's sudden
disappearance has been haunting at him -- and moreso now that he's found Violet. Violet Park was last a little old lady. Now she's ashes in an urn, found in a taxicab company's waiting room, on a shelf, alone.

Lucas brings her home (correction: steals her) because she's speaking to him and he can't stand not to make friends with her. His main reason "A dead old...more
Eva Mitnick
In a nutshell – London teenager Lucas Swain bonds emotionally with the cremated remains of an old famous pianist named Violet, causing him to come to a greater understanding not just of old people, but also of himself, his family, and his long-vanished dad. Oh, and Lucas gets quite a great girlfriend as well.

This is an unusual premise but I was pleasantly surprised to discover that there was no hint of cloying quirkiness about this book. Young Lucas knows that communing with a dead old lady’s as...more
Heather Aldaine
I’ve long believed that men and women react differently outwardly, but inside we feel the same pain. Having gone through a situation resembling Lucas’s, I felt his pain very keenly. His way of holding onto his father long after the disappearance seemed alien to me, and yet his thoughts and reasons for acting that way might have come straight from my mind. Possibly this has something to do with the author being female, but I doubt men on the literary awards panels would have let this book pass re...more
REbecca Darling
Feb 14, 2011 REbecca Darling is currently reading it
So I'm currently reading this book. I'm about 50 pages in, and it's pretty good so far. This guy, Lucas Swain "meets" and old lady at a cab place. She's dead. Yep. And she's cremated in an urn who was left behind by somebody. Lucas wants to take the urn home because he feels like he's communicating with the old lady inside, Violet Park. I don't really understand how he believes he's talking to her. There wasn't really anything in the book about that so far? Well anyway. Lucas' dad is gone. He do...more
Nina Rosas
My first reaction in the begining of this book was that it was going to be an awkward book and yet it got my attention right away.What got my attention was the plot of this book and how i thought it was going to play out. By the middle of the story when the main character starts to learn about this dead lady my reaction was that the main character had to be crazy and that somehow this was going to lead him to his missing dad. i was very confused though on how that might play out. whether his fat...more
Julie H.
Me, the Missing, and the Dead is the story of 17-year old Lucas Swain who becomes mesmerized by an urn abandoned in the Appolo Cab offices in London. The threads of this elderly woman's life and death, the unresolved disappearance of Lucas' father five years ago, and the coming of age sorts of stuff that a bright but undirected 17-year old faces are interwoven with grace, humor, and subtlety.

After involving his grandmother, Pansy, in convincing the cab company's owner (who bears a striking rese...more
Doug Beatty
Me: Is Lucas Swain, who is a strange, grim character that wears his fathers clothes, spends time reading his mother’s diary, and becomes fascinated with the life of Violet Park, who he finds in an urn at a cab company when he goes there to get a ride home one evening. Violet is an old lady who starts to fascinate him, and he really feels that she doesn’t want her to be left at the cab company and devises a plan with her grandmother Pansy to convince the owner to let Violet come home with her. La...more
Angelina
Nov 11, 2011 Angelina rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: ya
This novel gets four stars for many reasons, but at the top of the list is that it is a short novel. This makes it an easier sell to reluctant readers, especially guys. Guys are my second top reason for giving four stars. This book is written from a "guy" perspective in a voice that resonates with how boys/men think and communicate.

Women, and maybe even many men, often forget that the "real" male and the fictional male are often worlds apart. Novels abound with stereotypes of men both positive a...more
Rachel
Apr 12, 2011 Rachel rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommended to Rachel by: Margo
I recently got this in the mail from a friend who shares my weird junkie-like addiction to young adult literature. As long as it's well-written (and sometimes even if it's not), I'll rip through a good YA book. Sometimes I think authors of "adult" novels try too hard to be "arty" or "serious" and they forget that half the point is to write a good story. YA authors can't do that, because no one would buy their books. Sometimes, though, the voice of the main character is a bit too contrived, a bit...more
Karin
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Elizabeth
Sometimes a person just has to solve the mystery. Why is there a cremation urn in the taxi stand? Whose is it? Who is the woman whose remains are in there? What does this have to do with me?
Lucas has a lot of questions. The first and most important is how he is going to deal with his father's disappearance. Why did dad leave? What did the family do to deserve this? Maybe he's dead? Secondly, how to rescue the woman in the urn. Obviously dead, she shouldn't have to live on the shelf in a stinky,...more
Nina
This has been a book on my tbr list for a while now and therefore I decided to borrow it at the library. I thought it would be a good mystery story with an unique twist. I’m sorry to let you know, that this was not my cup of tea. And I really like tea!

The thing I didn’t like was that I didn’t get to know Lucas character at all. I know he is 16, likes to make lists, has a older sister, a younger brother and a mother who wishes she could rewind time. He also misses his father a lot and wearing his...more
Steph Su
One night, 15-year-old Lucas Swain enters a taxicab company office and is immediately attracted to a strange urn sitting on the shelf. He learns that it contains the ashes of one Violet Park, a well-known pianist who lived in the neighborhood, and that the urn was left in the backseat of a taxi years ago. Lucas doesn't understand exactly why Violet called out to him from the dead, but he feels certain that it has something to do with his father's disappearance five years ago. Peter Swain, lifeti...more
Melissa
Lucas Swain is a teenage boy living in London with his older sister, younger brother, and mother. His father Pete mysteriously disappeared when he was eleven (five years ago) and Lucas still clings to his memory, picturing his missing father as a perfect person frozen in time, unable to return to his own family for a noble, yet still more secret, reason. Lucas soon meets Violet, or rather, her ashes, in a cab office and he suddenly feels that he must help her. The rescue is the simple part, but...more
Heather
Amazingly good and enjoyable. 16-year-old Lucas goes to a cab station one night and finds the urn of a woman named Violet, abandoned in a cab several years ago. The next day, he realizes that he needs to get that urn and do something for Violet. He enlists his grandmother's help to claim the urn, and begins a journey that leads him to discover not only who Violet was, but why his own father disappeared 5 years ago. I loved it.
Nick
This novel is on the narrow edge between realistic fiction and a ghost story. The result is a fascinating tale of a teenaged boy, his missing father, and what may or may not be the ghost of a woman whose ashes were left in the office of a taxi company.
It reminds me of the Terry Pratchett "Johnny" novels, but with less slapstick, possibly because much of the story is very British and has bits of dry English humor.
Stevecrandell
There are a lot of coincidences to accept here, propped up with a teen-friendly dose of magic realism. There are also a lot of loose ends – family tensions, romance, and all sorts of lives crumbling apart. But most important, there’s a fun story that steamrolls through all the plot debris.

The setting is modern London. Lucas Swain is 15, still holding out hope for the return of his father, who disappeared five years ago. Lucas’ hopes get a jolt when he discovers an abandoned funeral urn. The wom...more
Tammy K.
Strange little book. I chose to listen to the audio format. There were times that I wondered if I should continue to listen or not. I can't say if I liked the ending or not maybe in time I will find it appropriate one for such a strange book.
What makes this book strange? Its told to use in first person by 15 year old boy who lives in england. Having had his father(a reporter)gone missing he became the man of the house at age ten. His family such as it is are rather a pitiful bunch.
The story is...more
Leah
This is a short, funny, quirky book that is simultaneously a powerful coming-of-age story. Lucas walks into a cab office one morning and finds himself drawn to an urn on the shelf, which contains the ashes of a dead woman and was found abandoned in a cab a year ago... about the time Lucas's father disappeared. The book then proceeds to meander along with descriptions of Lucas's family, friends, history, and viewpoints, with the plot progressing in little jumps along the way -- something I normal...more
Trish Willis
Me, the Missing, and the Dead, by Jenny Valentine turned out to be a sweet book about a boy and his family, whose father has abandoned them a few years ago. The cover intrigued me because of the frame the boy is holding in front of his body. The frame is empty, but instead of seeing the boy in the frame, we see the wall behind him. His body is missing. As it turns out, it is not him that is missing, but his dad. But the empty frame might be the huge gaping hole his father left in him, when he le...more
Michele Velthuizen
Interest level: 8th +
Reading level: medium
Genre: Trial by Fire, mystery, fathers and sons, families, assisted suicide

When Lucas walks into a cab station and spots an urn with the ashes of a stranger called Violet Park - unclaimed for months by a passenger who left it in a cab - he can't stop thinking about who Violet was and why she ended up forgotten and forlorn on a shelf in a cab office. With the help of his grandmother, Lucas decides to steal the urn and find out what exactly happened to Vio...more
Johanna
I really wanted to like this book. Well it's not like I ever want to read books I don't enjoy, but you get the point. I thought it sounded interesting when I read about it, but it didn't live up to my expectations.

My main problem with the book was the main character. He was almost sixteen, but everything he said or did in the book made it seem like he was around ten years old. I went through the whole book seeing him as a little kid, which made me feel really uncomfortable when he was drinking...more
Terry
For some reason, after reading the book jacket, I thought this book was going to be for a slightly younger audience than it was actually intended for (high school) and that it was going to be a little more supernatural (it isn't). The publisher's marketing worked to get me to read the book, but I ended up enjoying it for completely different reasons than I thought I was going to. The story is realistic fiction. It's about trying to figure out what happened to the main character's father, who dis...more
Jean
Enjoyable story of teenager Lucas who encounters an urn with the ashes of an old lady that seems to speak to him.

Loved this observation of a library in a low income neighborhood. "Mostly it’s full of people who don’t have anywhere better to go, so nobody who works there gives anyone too hard a time. They speak to you like you’re as good as the next person, whoever you are. If you think about it, having nowhere good to go is just about the (worst) feeling there is. I’m lucky because I’ve got my...more
Kathy
Lucas Swain walks into the cab office because he is too tired to walk home. He's got money that his sister, Mercy, accidently left in his coat and he plans on using it. Everyone was staring at him. He looked away and then he saw her - the urn, I mean, Violet Park, she was in the urn. He didn't know her name then. But she was calling to him, compelling him to take her home. So he did, eventually.

"The main thing about my mom is that she's sad." (42) Lucas' dad, Pete, disappeared five years ago, wh...more
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Jenny Valentine moved house every two years when she was growing up. She has just moved house again, probably not for the last time. She worked in a wholefood shop in Primrose Hill for fifteen years where she met many extraordinary people and sold more organic loaves than there are words in her first novel. She has also worked as a teaching assistant and a jewellery maker. She studied English Lite...more
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“What's wrong with the world Peter?
God, I don't know. Where do you start? People give up. We're defeatists and we stop striving or fighting or enjoying things. It doesn't matter what you're talking about - war, work, marriage, democracy, love, it all fails because everybody gives up trying after a while, we can't help ourselves. And don't ask me to solve it because I am the worst. I'd escape tomorrow if I could, from every single thing I've always wanted.”
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