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Blueprints for Building Better Girls

3.57  ·  Rating Details ·  2,501 Ratings  ·  405 Reviews
Elissa Schappell's book delves into the lives of an eclectic cast of archetypal female characters including the high school slut, the party girl, the reluctant mother, and the anorexic daughter, twisting our pre-conceived notions of who these women are, offering surprising revelations into the nature of female identity, and how it evolves. How the adolescent girl labeled t ...more
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Published October 1st 2011 by Dreamscape Media (first published September 6th 2011)
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Kimberly Faith
Apr 19, 2011 Kimberly Faith rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This collection is lit gold. Elissa Schappell writes about contemporary women so successfully. These girls really suffer. And the boys! Schappell's fate hand is cruel and yet these girls/women muster it all: courage, shame, humor, grace, guilt, and compassion. The stories are interconnected and so there are some heartbreaking unspoken connections the reader can discover, ghostly underpinning. A rape brought up close in one story is referenced in another from the perspective of a friend who can't ...more
Oct 19, 2011 Zach rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I’m not sure that the girls in Building Blueprints for Better Girls are necessarily better for their experiences, but they are intensely familiar, as if I had studied their blueprints. As you read, it’s hard not to think, Oh, I know her. It’s not that a character reminds you of someone you already know, but that they are rendered with such consistent attention to personal identity that you feel you should know them. You expect to run into them on the sidewalk.

The book elevates self-examination t
Aug 23, 2011 Janine rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I can honestly say that I haven't been this disappointed in a book in a VERY long time. This book appeared in just about every magazine from early July through November, so I was pretty psyched to read it. It was a HUGE let down. The book is a compilation of short stories that supposedly intertwines the lives of several women (high school aged through middle aged). Sounds interesting, right? WRONG! I don't know what was more appalling, the disgustingly static characters or the lackluster plot li ...more
Alex Templeton
I remember reading Elissa Schappell’s novel “Use Me” back at the end of high school and not liking it; still, when I read such positive reviews of this short story collection, I was ready to dismiss my high school self’s opinion of Schappell because, goodness knows, my tastes were definitely questionable back then. (I read VC Andrews for fun, for YEARS.) All of this is to say that I was disappointed that I was greatly disappointed in this collection. It’s not because Schappell is necessarily a b ...more
Oct 17, 2010 Lauren rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Daaaaaamnnnn I didn't want this one to end!

Schappell's second book, a collection of short stories, is spot-on. Each story, though separate, blends seamlessly into the next, giving readers a comprehensive view of the characters. This is the perfect choice if you only have pockets of time in which to read - but you won't want to stop at just one story!
Jade Lopert
If I had to describe this book in five words it would be: beautiful, heart wrenching, real, haunting. It has been a long time since I couldn't put a book down without great difficulty. Schappell has written a series of short stories that is so intimately relatable that it's impossible to not feel for these girls.
There are some reviewers who were bemoaning and wanting to know where the "strong" women were in this anthology and the point of this was that these were not strong women. They were real
Tracy Shapley
Aug 05, 2011 Tracy Shapley rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I want to buy 1,000 copies of Blueprints for Building Better Girls and hand them out to random passersby on the streets. I want this book to be read, immediately, by everyone I've ever known or will ever know. This is incredible stuff. Easily the best book I've read this year. Possibly the best book I've ever read.

It is a series of short stories that center around women and the relationships we have with one another, with our lovers, with our spouses, our children, our parents. Most of the s
Blueprints for Building Better Girls is a cleverly interlocked collection of short stories that explores the various roles women play throughout their lives: as daughters, girlfriends, wives, and mothers, etc.

Schappell's stories try to make the point that to be a woman is to constantly exist in duality: Girlfriends can be sluts, mothers can be resentful caretakers, wives can be the other women, and daughters can be ungrateful and undutiful.

These short stories attempt to explore the compromises
Aug 01, 2012 Meryl rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Elissa Schappell’s collection of interconnected short stories was one of the best short story collections I have ever read. Each character was distinctly drawn. They were not heroes or antiheroes, but real girls and women struggling with issues that were unique while feeling universal. Her cast of repeating characters each stood on her own, and were then illuminated by how they were seen through other characters’ perspectives. Through her stories, she showed how women are influenced by their exp ...more
My original plan had been to cross-review this with Shout Her Lovely Name which I'd started reading around the same time I was reading this and realized they'd make great companion pieces.
This one, I read it at home in, like, five days whereas I read the Shout book during my half-hour lunch breaks and it took me a really, super, amazingly long time to get through it. As a result, I've forgotten what I was going to say to compare the two, other than both are books of short stories that explore re
Oct 16, 2013 TinHouseBooks rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: books-we-love
Emma Komlos-Hrobsky (Assistant Editor, Tin House Magazine): At the risk of sounding like either a kiss-ass or the literary equivalent of a deranged band aide, I have to cop that I’ve been rereading our own Elissa Schappell’s Blueprints for Building Better Girls. Elissa read from “A Dog Story,” the second story in the book, at one of the innumerable pre-Brooklyn Book Fest events that were September. I don’t think it was just the after-effects of boozy lit trivia at a prior event that had me teary ...more
Jun 09, 2013 Annalisa rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I picked this up as a possibility for a class about female adolescence--the reviews made it sound like it would delve into the lives of girls in a realistic and multi-dimensional way.

Not so much.

All the women in the stories focus on are men and babies. Really, it's no longer cutting edge or radical to have a mom character who regrets having children, or a woman who likes sex, but apparently Schappell thinks these things are still shocking enough that they can support an entire short story.

All h
Nov 06, 2011 Ciara rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
this book is excellent, but don't let some of the more slavering reviews on goodreads fool you. this is in no way like a "complete & fully-realized novel," nor do the "stories blend seamlessly into one another." what were those reviewers thinking? put down the crack pipe, guys. this is a collection of short stories, & while each one features at least one character that has been featured in another story in the book (sometimes the narrator, sometimes a character so secondary as to not eve ...more
"There's no such thing as 'just a girl.'"

I loved that these were all intertwined with each other, telling the stories of girls over the course of decades who are all connected in some way. There were some great lines, and there was a lot of power and self awareness in their POVs, and it was very bold and unabashed in the way they spoke of the differences between men and women and the inherent injustices and inequality we all experience in different ways. That being said, despite the connection,
Sep 26, 2013 Pamela rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Elissa Schappell ain't afraid about writing about bad girls--or "good" ones either, and she shows how hollow those labels are. Here is a Southern college girl who feels unreal whenever she has a thought her proper mother wouldn't approve of, another who loves to get drunk and risky (her nickname is "Bender"), a mom who isn't sure she should have become one, an anorexic adult who keeps her mother drawn into her fears and obsessions. All are complicated, scales rather than single notes on the keyb ...more
Feb 16, 2012 Victoria rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: kindle, 2012
I have no idea how to review this book. It's short stories that are connected, but not by much. Short stories are weird, because if they're great, you get pissed when each is over and that's what happened with most of the stories in this book. There are 10 stories with ten endings that leave you frustrating!! So for that, it only gets 3 stars instead of 4. Plus the subject matter is so sad. Really depressing. I guess the blueprint is to raise girls who do the exact opposite of the g ...more
Jan 27, 2012 elka rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Feb 01, 2012 Eliza rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: short-stories
2/6/2012: These stories are painful to read; they hit so very close to home. Girls (or women, depending on your point of view) are searching for love, for connection, for validation--and yet they keep coming up against their own shortcomings, their fears, their shaky self-esteem. My least favorite one--which also makes it the best story in the collection--is The Joy of Cooking. In it, Emily, a 24 year old struggling with anorexia, calls her mother to ask for her roast chicken recipe--she is exci ...more
Sarah Beth
Oct 09, 2012 Sarah Beth rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: age-29
I liked this book! I had picked it up over and over again for the past year or so, and then would get distracted and put it down. Happens with this type of books to me a lot-- those about girls and young women, particularly short stories. These linked stories are really interesting-- lots of big issues: rape, eating disorders, love/infatuation, family issues, and handles them with subtlety. Many of the stories are framed as memories, with a character in the present telling her story to somone el ...more
Jul 30, 2012 Jen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This was a really wonderful collection of loosely linked short stories about being a woman, growing up, and just dealing with the little traumas of everyday life. The links between the stories are sometimes small, but I found them very clever. This is one of those books that I don't want to say too much about for fear of ruining the little surprises and enjoyments found in reading.

The women in these stories range in age from teens, to college age, we even the same teenage girl later in life as a
Sep 08, 2011 Danelle rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Blueprints for Building Better Girls: Stories is a collection of eight short stories with a cast of lead female characters who all have a reputation: high school slut, goody two-shoes, party girl, overprotective mom, etc.

The stories all share those moments when you move from being a girl to a woman. They are those moments that you don't celebrate and you don't necessarily talk about. They aren't those 'getting your period' or 'sweet sixteen' moments, they are more along the lines of those 'walk
Simon & Schuster Goodreads
Don't let the format fool you. Elissa Schappell's collection of short stories, BLUEPRINTS FOR BUILDING BETTER GIRLS (Simon & Schuster, HC 9780743276702, e-Book 9781451607321, September 2011), reads like a complete, fully-realized novel. Schappell introduces eight extraordinary, complex, and wonderfully-imperfect women who make unexpected visits into each other's stories. In the first story, "Monsters of the Deep," we meet an adolescent girl in the 1980s dubbed as the high school floozy, only ...more
Aug 03, 2011 Kellie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Smart women and/or fans of Jean Thompson
Recommended to Kellie by: First Reads
Shelves: fiction, first-reads
I feel really lucky that I won a free copy of this short story collection from the First Reads program. I had never read anything by Elissa Schappell before, but I would recommend her work. The stories in this collection are witty and moving, with well-drawn characters and familiar conflicts. Each story is complete in itself, but there are characters and elements that overlap. The plots include bad relationships, anorexia, rape, infidelity, and motherhood - and always presents these issues in a ...more
Elissa Washuta
Jul 22, 2011 Elissa Washuta rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: books-i-own
I loved every one of the stories in this collection. The stories give us the thrill of small points of linkage--a character popping up again here, and again later, but Schappell doesn't draw exclusively from a tightly limited universe of characters in these stories. In these stories the highs and lows that come with the female territory, Schappell creates an amazing fictional landscape that feels recognizable from personal experience even when I haven't really been there (motherhood, for example ...more
C.E. G
Aug 26, 2012 C.E. G rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: short-stories
4.5 stars - this book has not gotten nearly as much hype as it deserves. I picked it up because I'd heard it compared to A Visit from the Goon Squad by Jennifer Egan, and while it wasn't quite as good as that, I would still highly recommend it to those of you with a dark sense of humor and a feminist sensibility.

The book is made up of 8 short stories (that are sorta linked through recurring characters) about a variety of white, straight women in the 1970s-present day. Sometimes I have trouble ge
Mar 21, 2012 nicole rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2012
I enjoyed the dark writing and trying to discover where the characters intersections occurred. While I thought this book was interesting, there was one thing I thought it lacked -- the happy girl. I know first-hand that being a woman is hard and I appreciated this close examination of the thoughts and feelings associated with differing archetypes that are outside of my own experience.

But where is the confident woman, the girl who didn't leave her friend behind at the frat party, who gets riled
Aug 27, 2011 Jodi rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2011-read
Every six months or so for the past decade, I’d randomly type ‘Elissa Schappell’ into Amazon’s search bar and cross my fingers. I kept hoping and hoping that she had released a book that some how slipped by me. I fell in love so hard with her collection of linked short stories Use Me that I longed for something else.

When I spied Blueprints for Building Better Girls on some Fall 2011 release list, I bounced in my chair, fist pumping like a member of the Jersey Shore. I was excited.

I marched right
Dec 26, 2012 Becky rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
It's been way too long since I couldn't put a book down. The girls/women in these stories are what I expected, with all it's hype, Heti's "How Should A Person Be?" characters would be like before I read and was disappointed. I can see myself and the women in my life in these stories and relationships. The only thing that I disliked was the male characters were weak and constantly antagonistic to the point that they were unbelievable at times. "Aren't You Dead Yet?" was my favorite (my relationsh ...more
Nov 15, 2011 Pia rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I wonder if Elissa Schappell is lonely. Because that's the one thread that ties each and everyone of her heroines, each of whom have a story that ties to the one before it. Each of these women are in different stages of their lives, either alienated by sex or gossip or even a stigma they have created themselves. How sad I felt for these women, how utterly painful it was to read some of these, because they left me with an empty pit in my stomach about wanting to raise my daughters "the right way. ...more
Aug 16, 2015 Andrea rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I can't imagine being a woman of any age and not personally identifying with at least one, if not more, of the girls and women in this smart book. Ms. Schappell's book of short stories cuts to the truth of so much.

"I have looked into Candy's eyes, and the girl looking back is very familiar. I don't trust her."

Her girls are neither victims nor survivors; they are women who know which battles to pick even if it means getting hurt themselves. They are honest and raw and to be the reader and hear th
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