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Geography Of The Heart: A Memoir

4.13 of 5 stars 4.13  ·  rating details  ·  261 ratings  ·  39 reviews
From the author of the award-winning novels Crossing The River and Scissors, Paper, Rock comes a powerful book about the transformative power of love. Fenton Johnson recounts the history of "how I feel in love how I came to be with someone else, how he came to death and how I helped." Johnson interweaves two stories: his own upbringing as the youngest of a Kentucky whiskey ...more
Published (first published May 1st 1996)
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Joanna Marple
This exquisite memoir, read for class, brought me a whole new insight into what it means to be lucky!

Two very dissimilar men meet in San Francisco and fall in love. The relationship lasts three years, the third year during which the author cares for his lover as he dies of AIDS, on their third and final trip to Paris in 1990. Fenton Johnson's poignant memoir delves eep to explore the depths of a relationship that didn't stand much chance when it began. Rose, HIV+ was asymptomatic when he met Fen
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Jennifer
I was up early this morning, so decided to that I should find a reason to sit in the sunrooom and cry for two hours.

Thankfully, I had yet to return this book, borrowed from my neighbor a year ago.

You know from the first page that this is the author's memoir on losing his partner to AIDS. And while I wasn't entirely wrapped up in the author's writing, I still couldn't resist being utterly moved by his story.

It's a book truly about love - more brutally honest and eternally hopeful than any harl
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Dawn Serra
The single most powerful look at love, pain, loss, grief, and human connection that I have ever read.

Fenton Johnson slowly unravels his own journey from that of a man full of fear and resistance to love towards a man completely open to the most intimate, tender love as his lover faced (and succumbed) to death.

Gently revealing his family history and the history of his lover as we journey with Johnson towards an inevitable and shattering end, this love story is the most exquisite and touching acco
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Rj
However on the reading front I just finished Fenton Johnson's Geography of the Heart (New York: Washington Square Press, 1996). A memoir of his time with his partner Larry Rose it tells of the love story between a sero-discordant couple. In the course of the memoir Rose died of complications from AIDS and Johnson uses the book as a means of coping with his love for Rose and the ensuing loss. What makes the story special is the diverse backgrounds of Rose (Rose was the only child of German-Jewish ...more
Debbe
My husband and I tried to read this memoir aloud, together. This book didn't lend itself well to that. The beginning felt slow, reading together, so that's why it lost the fifth star. If I'd started it out alone, it may have gotten that fifth star.

I read the last half on my own. It was beautiful! This gay couple of the late 1980's, one dying of AIDS and one HIV negative, is not gut wrenchingly sad, as you might fear. It is a story of growth and love, in so many ways and for so many people. This
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Leigh
An excellent, easy-to-follow audiobook, read by the author which is always a big plus, esp for such a wrenching memoir as this is. It would be an interesting love story at any rate since the 2 men's backgrounds are so different. So are their lifestyles -- messy vs neat, for starters. But those are the easy parts. Falling in love with a man who has AIDS 3 yrs before that man is to die seems like an "act" of great courage. Getting into a relationship which you know is going to end all too soon wit ...more
Ruth
This book is a memoir by a guy whose partner dies of AIDS, but also it's about loss in general. The most interesting thing is the way the author talks about how notices that guys who have AIDS carefully avoid any reference to the future or long-range plans, so you kind of know they are sick before you really know. And the way this grief is different than other kinds of grief because afterwards when he starts dating again he keeps on meeting more people who are sick in the same way and has to dec ...more
John Treat
As good a memoir of those years as we have. Better, perhaps, than Paul Monette's excellent work. What loss.
Melissa Porter
A beautiful story about the opposing and complementary forces of love and loss, Fenton's memoir centers around the life of his soulmate, who died of AIDS. He argues that life is more sphere-like, rather than end-to-end, because of the memories we keep. He implores us to embrace love where it finds us, no matter its form, and to see that "in grief there is renewal, of love and so of life." Thanks to a recent "books about love" piece on NPR where this was featured, I'm sure I'll find myself re-rea ...more
Rhi
But now I know in my heart what before I understood only in my head: we don't fall in love for reasons.

This is one of those books that somehow manages to be uplifting and depressing at the same time, along the same lines as "The Year of Magical Thinking"

The Year of Magical Thinking
Premal Vora
Author and proponents of this book are confused between "love" and "sex". What Fenton and Larry had between them was sexual attraction. There is hardly an episode involving Fenton and Larry that I can point to and say, "Now this is what I call love." Instead, I felt inspired by the story of Larry's parents. What they went through while hiding from the Nazis built strength of character and love that lasts decades.

There are many other books worth spending time on -- pass on this one.
Emily
Compelling so far, except for his tendency to wrap things up for you (repeat scenes and offer meaning) at the end of chapters. But great, soulful (and not in a Kenny G sort of way) writing, that is true, and deceptively simple.

A beautiful remembrance of a partnership. The tendency to tell the lesson continues throughout. A strong-willed editor could easily have remedied this. But still very nice and worth reading, especially if you need any reminding about death. (I need a lot)
Heidi
Wonderful. About resisting and submitting to love, about grief, about the intricacies of families, of being a gay man in California in the 1980s, and just a fantastic memoir. Also makes me want to go to Paris - love the Francophile bits! Favorite quote: "I just want to sit here and be quiet with you." (a sort of definition of love and what's enough). The interplay of a Catholic and Jewish family also adds wonderful texture and richness.
Julie
This is a touching, heartfelt memoir of love and loss. Fenton Johnson's writing style is light and real, and he uses words nimbly. I loved reading him. What I loved most was the honesty in his writing; in places where he could have soft-pedaled his emotions or reactions to appear heroic, he was honest and straightforward (and heroic.) If he doesn't know himself, he sure fooled me.
Caitlin Harpst
This was an amazing book. A truly heartwarming story that gives a great understanding of how true love works. At least for some people, I highly recommend this to anyone in a relationship, not because it will teach you how to have a better one but because you will be shocked at how much you learn about your own relationship and how you love.
Robin Tuthill
One of the most beautiful, insightful, lyrical books I've ever read. Author Fenton Johnson writes of lessons learned from love and loss with uncommon wisdom. For instance, "... love enables us to continue beyond death." Johnson opened his heart and was rewarded with the love of a lifetime, and beyond -- all in three years.
Lindsey
This was a nice book. It talked about falling in love and committing to love and what it is like to do that when one of you was about to die. I actually read it a while ago and forgot to enter it here, but I recall that it was not what I expected. A fine memoir.
Barb Harris
a heart-felt love story. it isn't all about romance and sex and being swept off your feet. it's about liking, and loving, and regret, and uncertainty, and devotion. it's a beautiful story about two people loving each other regardless of their orientation.
Cristin
Fantastic insights about love and how we grow within it. Wonderful and touching account of a loving relationship and the hardships of living both with and without AIDS/HIV within the gay community as well as in society at large. I loved this book.
Crystal
I really enjoyed this book. The love story is so well written and most importantly, honest. The author doesn't try to make himself or his partner appear perfect and I really appreciate that!
Gretchen
A lovely memoir and love story and yes, it is heartbreaking in its joy and sadness. Ultimately, this book is a real celebration of life and how risking one's heart is worth everything.
Terry
One of my favorite books of the pre-cocktail AIDS era. Rates up there with Paul Monette's works. It will touch and break your heart but leave you somehow hopeful.
Aaron
Aug 20, 2007 Aaron rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Everyone
A wonderfully personal account of what it is like to grow up as a gay man in the South, and what it is like to lose one's partner to AIDS... heartbreaking but wonderful.
Kara Ripley
Touching memoir of love and illness. I sobbed the last 40 pages and even knew how the book would end, I was devastated when it actually happened.
Emily
This was a well-written love story from the perspective of an HIV- man who grew to love and care for an HIV+ man. I truly enjoyed this book.
Allie
Another 3 books recommendation(link).
Jen
This is THE most beautiful book I have ever read about love and loss.
Grace
A gentle, powerful book, a testament to true love. A must-read.
Mrs. Cyberhobo Kuhn
A really good, thoughtful book on living, loving, and dying.
Julie
inspiring, heartbreaking, just beautiful.
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“Love is like a ripe peach. You take it when and where you find it, there's no point in letting it sit around. If you're lucky to come across it, you'd better enjoy it right then and there.” 0 likes
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