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For Matrimonial Purposes

3.28 of 5 stars 3.28  ·  rating details  ·  1,453 ratings  ·  146 reviews
Unmarried at 24 - and with no prospects in sight - Anju is a great source of worry to her family. Despite the best efforts of relatives, fortune-tellers, and matchmakers to arrange a marriage, she can't seem to find a husband - or at least one she's willing to marry. Quickly becoming a spinster by her culture's standards, she is eager to escape the community that views her...more
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Published June 23rd 2003 by Brilliance Audio (first published 2003)
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Entering her mid-thirties, Anju has proven to be a failure as a daughter. Sure, she's well-educated. Sure, she has a successful career as a fashion publicist. Sure, she has remained a "good girl" despite living by herself in that den of iniquity known as New York City. But she's failed to do the one thing that would define her worth and ease the anxiety she's causing her ultra-conservative, ultra-orthodox parents: she still hasn't married.

And it's not Anju's fault. She's fasted, she's prayed, sh...more
Petra X
An Indian girl from a very wealthy family inherits a curse and no one wants to marry her. The story is about how the very rich spend money on impressing other people with clothes, jewellery and parties, and the importance of a good ( meaning expensive) astrologer in getting an arranged marriage.

But when you are cursed, it doesn't matter how much money your family has and how desperate they are to marry you off, no one presentable will present themselves. The mothers (for it is they who decide w...more
Tea Jovanović
Zabavna knjiga... indijske autorke... chick-lit...
Lots of great visuals in this one, as if it were written for a future Single Girl Comedy, but the storytelling is much more telling than showing: This happened, and then this happened, and then this happened.
Violet Crush
really cannot describe the story or plot of this book. There really isn’t any. So here’s the blurb from behind the book.

Anju wants a husband. Equally important, her entire family wants Anju to have a husband. Her life in Bombay, where a marriage can be arranged in a matter of hours, is almost solely devoted to this quest, with her anxious mother hauling her from holy site to holy site in order to consult and entreat swamis and astrologers. As Anju’s twenties slip away, she’s fast becoming a spi...more
Very quick, easy-read, but the main character, Anju, got on my last nerves. Approaching 40, Anju flits back and forth between "Umrica" and her parents in India, looking for the perfect mate. The potential suitors found by her family aren't up to her standards, but she's not having much luck on her own, either. First and foremost, he has to be Indian.
Toward the end of the book, Anju finally gets her man, but is disappointed that he wants to get to know her and fall in love before marriage. She si...more
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Synopsis: Anju is a 33 year old young woman who has been raised in a traditional Indian family in Bombay. Unlike all of her girlfriends and female cousins, Anju isn't eager to settle down. Unfortunately Anju's mother (and every other female she knows) isn't on the same page as Anju and insist on constantly finding suitable mates for her.

Anju dreams of moving to the US and having a life and...more
Aug 11, 2008 Jennifer rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Quick & easy read that's thicker than a magazine
Is this considered YA fiction? It should be. It reads easier than the latest issue of Cosmo. There isn't much to recommend this simple and rather boring story about a young woman who is pitied by seemingly everyone in her native India for not being married at a ripe and tender age. She feels pressure to follow the Indian customs regarding marriage, but doesn't actually want to do things as they have traditionally been done. The book spans many years in her life without showing much personal grow...more
Sasha Strader
Daswani does not disappoint: the first book I read from her was Village Bride of Beverly Hills and it got me interested in what all else she had done.

While it starts off short of fluff-brained and (as the back cover stated) "Like Sex and the City with saris and mimosas", it quickly evolved into some serious self-examination and exploration of just what cultural values are and how they should affect your life. There were some moments where I wanted to smack the heroine, but-objectively, at least-...more
Ika Diyah
Kenapa perempuan di usia tertentu "harus" menikah? Kenapa pernikahan seorang wanita harus jadi penentu kehormatan keluarga? Dan mengapa pernikahan nggak bisa jadi kebahagiaan personal yg hanya si empunya yg bisa menentukan bagaimana dan kapan dia mendapatkannya? pertanyaan2 seperti itu menggelisahkan banyak perempuan di Asia termasuk thanks God,ada Kavita Daswani yg berhasil menuliskan kegelisahan kita dalam gaya yg lucu banget di for Matrimonial purpose ini.
Anju, wanita yang hampir berus...more
Michelle Robinson
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Lovely as a series of sketches, absolutely abysmal as a novel. A chronology horribly distorted for no good reason, no plot, honestly just a shambles. Inconsistent characterization made it hard to stay in sympathy with the protagonist, and while I did notice many instances of beautifully detailed, accurate background information, some things just rang false. While the narrator was more than competent, I think it would have been preferable to choose someone who could pronounce the Hindi words and...more
Yes, it's fluffy, undeveloped chick lit with no real literary value or interest. Yes, the protagonist doesn't really have a personality, and none of the characters manage to progress beyond 2-dimensional stereotypes. But it takes place mostly in India, and I have a weakness for Bollywood movies, so it amused me. Endless stories of horrible dates and weddings where our Dateless Wonder Protagonist stands on the sidelines become a lot more interesting when the dates are arranged and chaperoned by t...more
Anju, an independent, single woman of 33, living in New York. Brought up in a conservative, traditional family where the daughters are expected to be 'married off' at an early age, she is an aberration, but not because she wants to be. Trying hard to get married, she is even ready to meet up with grooms who she would never consider getting married to. A woman's struggle to get married in the 'right way'.

An alright read, but the characterization is not quite up to the mark. Anju's motivations see...more
Really enjoyed listening to this book. It is about a woman's journey from Bombay to America as she searches for a husband. While trying her family tries to help arrange a marriage for her she decides to start taking classes in NYC. Time passes, she gets older, but the prospects of marriage look less and less likely. All while trying to reconcile herself to the fact that Americans date while good girls from India don't.

I loved the person who read this. She did an amazing job both with the accent...more
Susan Afra
Oct 02, 2007 Susan Afra rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Jomblo :-)
Baca novel ini gak bisa berhenti baca, karena alur ceritanya bikin penasaran. Nama-nama tokohnya udah agak lupa sich.. Di novel ini kita bisa memasuki budaya masyarakat india, lebih detail dari film2 india yg sering kita tonton..
This novel is about believe that we will find someone someday although it is late... So don't be hurry :-)
Novel ini juga tentang kebingungan antara mengikuti budaya pemikiran yg masih tradisional ttg perempuan atau budaya modern sbg wanita karier, hampir sama dgn budaya...more
I liked The Village Bride of Beverly Hills so I thought, well this books is rather the same type of book so why not see what else this author has done. While a good fluff beach read, there is not much of a plot and what little there is can be hard to follow since she keeps flashing back. I don't understand the purpose of how it was arranged. I'm glad they kept referencing her age so I could remember what period I was flashed back to. But again, not deep thought provoking literature but a fun boo...more
Deswani's first-person narrative presents a rather predictable but humorous chick-lit story. Many of the scenes are straight out of a romantic comedy film or sitcom episode.
Half the fun of reading this is figuring out which facts Anju is not revealing about her self and her past, until she can't avoid it any more.
Overall I felt the book dragged on for too long, and then when Mr. Right eventually is found, everything wraps up nice and tightly very quickly without any humorous situations from th...more
Just so you don't think I like everything I read, I didn't even give this much of a chance. The main character takes a leave of absence from work in America to return home to native India "for matrimonial purposes." Actually, she returns home for something else that I've forgotten about, but sticks around longer than originally planned so her parents can find her a husband. Uugghh. I found it tiresome, but I would be interested in knowing whether it is true to cultural norms, or not. I suspect i...more
Anna use a quote from within itself "fluffy and pink like a marshmallow, full of nothing but air"
Easy fluffy FLUFF quick read, but damn annoying with its "happy ending outta nowhere" end ...oh wait, its chick-lit. duuuh!
The only difference of this is the main chara is Indian girl. So there are all sorts of lovely sari and silks descriptions, but her "Sex and The City" version of NYC was a boooooooooore. Read like what a 14-year-old thinks life in The Big City should sound like or something
hahaha! a casual read..but there are many instances which any independent working Indian girl will relate to and have an enjoyable time!
Hampir semua chicklit berlatar belakang negara Barat. Sedangkan buku ini, sebagian besar bercerita kehidupan tokoh utamanya di Bombay, India. Kehidupannya jelas sangat jauh berbeda dengan orang Barat sana. Di setiap awal bab, penulis mengutip buku-buku yang membahas kebiasaan dan kebudayaan di India terutama mengenai perjodohan dan pernikahan. Seolah-olah penulis ingin menyatakan bahwa chicklit juga bisa "berisi". Tidak sekedar imajinasi si penulis.
I absolutely loved this book! I picked it up as an impulse buy at barnes and noble, it was on the clearance table and I figured, why not? I loved it. I am hispanic and saw so much of my family in her description of hers, also in how marriage is perceived by booth cultures. It was an interesting read and I learned I really liked Indian fiction because of this book. I'm looking forward to reading more Indian fiction in the future.
Fairly good read on how arranged marriages happen in India from a woman's perspective. Especially from a woman whose community is steeped in religious ceremonies and "what will people think" attitudes. Some expressions are really funny but overall, I felt the story was dragged a little bit too far and for too long. Nevertheless, a good effort at portraying some of the harsh realities of arranged marriages from a woman's perspective.
Manoja K.
Not the worst books I've read, but not great either. It was okay. I thought the perpective of religion and culture was interesting, and I would have loved more emphasis on the cultural aspect rather than the whole dating scene, i think that would have made the book better. I didn't really like the narration or the way the story was told. I really only read it because of research for a short story I'm working on.
I just started reading this book. So far I am really enjoying it. It tells the tale of a thirtyish woman living in Bombay. She is pressured by everyone to get married, but she has a free spirit and does not want to be in an arranged marriage. She ends up going to New York, and hopes to find true love there. I am really excited to finish reading this book and see where it goes.
I have to learn--chick lit is chick lit, regardless of its country of origin. I was intrigued by one part of this book's premise: that a woman could enjoy a very modern New York life while still wanting the arranged marriages that are common in her social circle in India. The part of the book (and the heroine) that is focused on brand name shoes is not interesting to me at all.
better than other chicklit I read. Rich with indian culture and how this Indian woman struggle to reconcile it with her American life as single woman. Not just some cheesy empty story you usually fid in chicklit. Tapi panjangnya detail yang nggak perlu membuatku tak sabar membacanya. Pingin bukunya cepat habis. A subtle clue that I didn't enjoy it as much as I want to admit.
Kana Haya
being thirty and still single is like a hell for some women. so it is with Anju, a modern girl living in New York, when her mother asked her when will she get married. it's like being on the hot seat at who wants to be a millionaire quiz.

however, its nice to follow the story till the end. makes me so happy because finally Anju gets her future husband.
Mencari jodoh memang ala India di belantara Amerika??
Bukan mungkin ga mungkin, kan di Amerika juga banyak orang India. Tapi jodoh memang harus diusahakan, tidak akan datang kalau tidak dicari..
Seperti kisah seorang teman yang orang Bali mencari jodoh di Jakarta. Syukurlah ia sekarang sudah mendapatkannya dan hidup berbahagia.
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Kavita Daswani is an American author who started her career as a journalist for South China Morning Post when she only seventeen. She lived in Hong Kong before moving to Los Angeles.

Now in her thirties, she has written several novels for grown-ups and young adults that represent her passion and love for the Indian culture. In her books, we see how young Indian girls are trying to break away from t...more
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