Between Heaven and Mirth: Why Joy, Humor, and Laughter Are at the Heart of the Spiritual Life

Between Heaven and Mirth: Why Joy, Humor, and Laughter Are at the Heart of the Spiritual Life

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In Between Heaven and Mirth, James Martin, SJ, assures us that God wants us to experience joy, to cultivate a sense of holy humor, and to laugh at life's absurdities--not to mention our own humanity. Father Martin invites believers to rediscover the importance of humor and laughter in our daily lives and to embrace an essential truth: faith leads to joy.

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Hardcover, 263 pages
Published October 4th 2011 by HarperOne (first published 2011)
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James
While not sharing anything particularly new, this book examines the concept of joy in the spiritual realm. James Martin has written an easily readible book and still manages to remind us that Christianity is not meant to be a joyless religion but a joyful friendship with our God. Making a strong case for the necessity of humor in the spiritual life, Martin weaves stories and jokes from his own experiences and others with biblical and historical research and interviews with scholars to make his p...more
Rvincent324
Between Heaven and Mirth is a book about the role of joy, humor and laughter in our spiritual life. It is not actually a humorous book, although it has its moments in some of the examples the author provides. Fr. Martin, a Jesuit priest and frequent commentator in the media on all things spiritual, particularly Catholic, clearly feels that in general our spiritual lives, and our churches, don't embrace the role of humor enough. There's probably something to that thesis. I particularly agree with...more
Joe
I received this book from two very special people who know my interest in the Bible and Spiritual issues. I have quite a collection and my first glance at the title thought it might be a source of jokes for clergy. BUT I WAS WRONG. This is a very interesting and fascinating look at the bible and it's HUMOR. YES! The Bible contains HUMOR! Who knew? Holy people are joyful people, says the author and then proceeds to illustrate the fact by offering countless examples of humor from Jesus' parables t...more
Anna Dourgarian
With peaceful insight that is hard to find in a goal-oriented life, Between Heaven and Mirth is like a self-help book that does not teach you how to get ahead but rather shows how you already are ahead. Everything, Fr. Martin says, is worth an inner joy. His message has left me feeling relieved, breathing easier, as I stop "should-ing all over myself" (one of his many jokes). At the same time, he gives a balanced approach to happiness, addressing the truth and power of sorrow; he guides the read...more
Nathanael Booth
Father Martin argues that the spiritually-awakened life is above all one of joy. He is responding to what he sees as an over-emphasis on seriousness in religion—Catholicism, in his case, though he’s insistent that he sees the mistake in most religious traditions. While there is a place for sadness, he wants to emphasize that the lives of the great religious figures—Jesus, Abraham, the saints—are above all marked by joyful communion with the Divine.

His style is easy and anecdotal; he insists that...more
Edward
Martin, a Jesuit author best known for his THE JESUIT GUIDE TO (ALMOST) EVERYTHING, emphasizes in this later book that he wants to counterbalance an too-often overly serious approach to religion, especially Christianity. This austerity stems from two reasons, the first being the idea that God is a judge who will deal harshly with our sins, and the second an emphasis upon the suffering Christ, rather than the triumphal Christ. The topic of his book, Martin writes in his introduction is the place...more
Jennifer
If Stephen Colbert says that James Martin is ok, then James Martin is ok! :)
Seriously, tho - a book about finding and keeping joy in your heart, whether you are a Catholic or not - something I know I needed to hear (read) and something that I think more of us need to consider. Joy is different than happiness and is something that we can have with us at all times - which Martin shows by personal stories and accumulated wisdom. I was glad to see how kindness figures into joy as I think kindness is...more
Korri
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Jesuit priest James Martin argues that if joy, humor and laughter seem antithetical to spirituality and a relationship with God, you're doing it wrong.

Joy, humor and laughter serve many purposes. They create a sense of community and of gratitude. Our humor and laughter are celebrations of our humanity, itself a gift from God. Learning to laugh at ourselves keeps us from becoming too proud and taking ourselves too seriously. Martin points to scholarly and religious studies about the role of humor...more
Julie Davis
I can't tell you how many times I've had people ask me, "How can you be a Happy Catholic?" They then go on to cite the problems currently in the Church, how hard life is in general, and so on and so forth.

My answer is that happy does not mean cheerful. I'm not talking about a Pollyanna-ish insistence on always seeing the glass half full. I'm talking about a deep, underlying joy that comes from the peace of mind in knowing Jesus really has overcome the world, really is real, really does love me p...more
Reid Mccormick
"Humor helps us to endure suffering by giving us something of a break and reminding us that pain is not the last word for the one who believes in God."

This book was purchased after seeing the author on the satirical program The Colbert Report. The Jesuit had been on the show a few times and I was always impressed by his witty yet knowledge responses.

In our spiritual walk, we usually refere to our "experiences with God" as solemn, deeply emotional moments. Rarely do we ever hear someone experienc...more
Stephen
Enjoyable, with some good insight into the role of humor and laughter in the spiritual life.

My only criticisms are that Fr. Martin set up the book as applicable to all faith traditions, and while he does touch on other faiths (primarily Judaism, with a bit of Buddhism, Hinduism, and Islam thrown in) the book really approaches the topic from a Christian perspective, and specifically Roman Catholicism (though there are number of examples from various Protestant traditions). Now, I'm fine with the...more
R Benjamin
I did enjoy this read. Martin shows the importance of laughter and joy in spirituality, and how the Church, in his own tradition, has been grim and too serious. There were some funny jokes, especially about the Catholic, the Baptist, and the Jew trying to convert a bear in the woods. Some issues, Martin recognizes an issue (laughter and joy) and then he tries to find it in the Bible and sometimes he forces the text to say things it doesn't. Like when Jesus is using hyperbole in his teachings or...more
Joanne
Fr. Martin makes the case that humor is an essential part of spiritual life. Seems an obvious point, and thankfully he supports it by telling lots of jokes and providing anecdotes about saints from various faiths. He also has a couple of expositions on Biblical passages, which take all of the joy out of them (Psalm 65 has always been one of my favorites, and he beats it to death). The best chapter is #7: "I'm not funny and my life stinks," where he answers questions he often gets, such as the tw...more
Jim Andersen
This book is a wonderful antithesis to the popular conception that Religion and Spirituality is a boring, stuffy, and serious path in life. It does not seek to undermine the importance of suffering, but it balances out the reality of suffering with a good dose of humor that the author draws up from historical, theological and personal backgrounds. The book comes armed with many of its own funny jokes and humor is shown to be part on the road to Truth. If I could summarize this book in one senten...more
Skylar Burris
Written by a Jesuit priest, Between Heaven and Mirth makes the case that mirth and all its companions—joy, fun, humor, laughter, joking—are an essential part of the spiritual life. Within his own tradition, he gives examples from Scripture, the lives of the saints, and the lives of popes, but he also draws on arguments and stories from people of other traditions, including Protestantism, Buddhism, Sufism, Judaism, Islam, and Hinduism. I often found his examples of humor from Scripture to be a st...more
Jaci
James Martin, my favorite Jesuit, invites " healthy humor and purposeful levity," backed up with his experiences and those of biblical characters.
p.69: St. Teresa of Avila, "A sad nun is a bad nun."
p.160: "It's important for religious leaders to laugh at themselves and realize that, much as they would like to be, they're not perfect, and they're certainly not God."
p.170: "Humor helps in a host of ways in religious institutions. It tell us that God's presence is often communicated through joy. .....more
Sarah
I love to laugh, and maybe that’s part of the reason I was attracted to what I envisioned James Martin’s new book, Between Heaven and Mirth, would be.

It didn’t let me down. Each chapter contained at least one good laugh, and I caught myself actually giggling out loud a few times.

Laughter is medicine, but it’s also, Martin maintains, an often-overlooked element that’s needed in our spiritual lives. He relates that he’s come to see, in his life as a professionally religious (he’s a priest and a Je...more
Danielle
This book is written by a Jesuit Priest. It talks about finding the joy and laughter in ones faith and focusing on the joy and abundance that comes from loving God instead of our sinful nature. I enjoyed the humor and stories. The Author is presuasive without being preachy. Authoritative without being condescending and mostly he takes into acount that all of us aren't Catholic. We all have met that serious, cranky, pious person at church who finds comfort in rules and focusing on humans sinful n...more
Donna
Anyone who can convince me to be a "joyful Catholic" is one great writer. And it is those Catholics I've met who are full of joy who make the greatest impression on me. It's even funny to read this book at the beginning of Lent since it recalls one of Martin's favorite "jokes": in the Ash Wednesday Gospel we are told that whenever we fast we should put on a smile, wash our face, and don't let anyone know -- and then the priest covers our forehead with ashes. And I'd like to hang around with Pope...more
Elliot
Martin, a Jesuit priest who has been called "The Official Chaplain of Colbert Nation," is convinced that joy, humor and laughter are central to spirituality. Most of the jokes that he tells and examples that he gives are from his own Catholic tradition - all the cartoons on the cover seem to be of Catholics, save Martin Luther, who had a well-known spat with the Catholic Church. However, he does give space to humor in Protestantism and even other religions. When writing about humor, there is alw...more
Zacaro Caro


A solid 3 stars. I had high hopes for this book, I think this book might specifically be written for those people who are or are close to grumpy religious. For the rest of us I found few jokes I hadn't heard, and few bits of knowledge that I feel the need to impart, even with the life teen year being in joy.

I don't know, it wasn't bad, it just wasn't what I was hoping for. If I was a teacher grading a thesis on joy in our spiritual life and the importance of humor and laughter in our prayer I'd...more
Monica
Interesting topic but it was more philosphical than I would have liked so at times it was difficult to get through. The humor is well appreciated and Fr. Martin is an excellent writer. I heard him in person and received much more from his lecture because I laughed aloud the entire time. The book at times was dry and scholastic but a much needed rendition. I enjoyed the bible stories because they will be easier to remember when you think of the humor attached.
Becky
Delightful book recommended to me by a nun when I told her that I was exploring God, but in my heart I know God is love.

Now I can add to it that God is joy, and many times I think of the absurdity or funny coincidences of life, it just might be God talking to me.

Martin's overall message is, "So be joyful... and laugh with God who smiles when seeing you, rejoices over your very existence, and takes delight in you, all the days of your life."
Jefferson Chua
Few spiritual writers have that ability to balance the weight of spiritual reflexivity, while at the same time the exteriority of the joy that springs forth from that reflexivity. Fr. Martin demonstrates this perfectly.

I myself have written a lengthier (and more reflective) reaction on this book: http://jeffchuais.wordpress.com/2012/...

I would want to recommend this to everyone sincerely yearning for joy in their spiritual lives.
Veronica Kim
Father Martin will eradicate any remaining notions of a stern, joyless God who shakes His head at our discoveries of life's unending absurdities and silly "coincidences." In fact, Martin reminds us over and over again that these discoveries are God's very own playful nudges which tell us not to take ourselves so seriously and to find the humor in a world created by a humorous God. Carrying this book around in my bag was like carrying a joy dispenser that I could open and receive at any time of t...more
Brenda Mengeling
I enjoyed this book. Fr. Martin makes a case for humor in our faith, and he defines spiritual joy in an accessible manner for the lay practitioner. He also sprinkles his narrative with several jokes about religion that are fun. He was somewhat repetitious, but he also points out that repetition is a tried and true Jesuit teaching method. I found the book more comforting than profound, but that is what I needed.
Pamela
This book did nothing for me. Having had read an article about the author, a Jesuit Priest, I am not sure why I expected a less academic approach to the idea, but I did. Rather, I found it a dry debate/argument in favor of humor, joy and laughter in a spiritual life and in Catholicism. I read the first 2 -3 chapters. Skimmed the next 2 - 3 chapters and gave up.
Helen Osman
Jim Martin brings a much needed sense of humor to understanding the Christian life. He weaves together his personal experiences, reflections on scripture and writers ancient and modern to illustrate how central joy is to a healthy spirituality. It would have been even more engaging if Father Martin had explored how community itself enlivens joy for its members.
Krissy
I have read a few books by Father Martin and they are all so easy to read. This one is full of great examples of the joy and humor in many faith traditions, not just Roman Catholic. If only more people could look for the joy and humor in spiritual life, instead of judging and looking for the negative, think how much nicer the world would be.
Carolyn
Billy Joel sang, "I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints," but this book contends that the saints (and other spiritual notables, including Jesus) laughed--a lot! As St. Teresa of Avila said, "What would happen if we hid what little sense of humor we had? Let each of us humbly use this to cheer others."
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James J. Martin, born 29 December 1960, is a Jesuit priest, writer and Culture Editor of the Jesuit magazine America.

Education and Career

Martin grew up in Plymouth Meeting, Pennsylvania, United States, and attended Plymouth-Whitemarsh High School. He graduated from the University of Pennsylvania's Wharton School of Business in 1982 and worked in corporate finance at General Electric for six years....more
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