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I Love You But I Don't Trust You: The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship

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Is my relationship worth saving?
Will the trust ever come back?
How can things be good between us again?

Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was dama
Paperback, 304 pages
Published February 7th 2012 by Berkley (first published January 1st 2012)
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Jun 05, 2016 Travis rated it really liked it
This book is written for practical use, rather than from an intellectual perspective.
For that reason, it should be of great value for people who are in the midst of relationship issues and eroding trust.
I found that Mira has done an excellent job, not only of describing basically every trust related relationship issue I've experienced, but of explaining the mental state/beliefs/perceptions that underlie them.
Her commitment to transparency and honesty is undeniable, as she shares details of her o
Mar 19, 2012 Kristy rated it it was amazing
This book is amazing & a life saver. I couldnt have come across it at a better time!
Jul 16, 2016 Patti rated it it was amazing
Shelves: self-help
Fantastic book. Brought up challenging, yet good questions and scenarios.
Sep 14, 2013 Beth rated it liked it
reassured me that everything I had been through was actually rather normal - as far as the stages of grieving/sadness/anger etc, this in turn filled me with confidence about things to come and gave hope for our future. I definitely understand much more about myself AND my husband after reading this.
Aug 23, 2015 Miriam rated it it was amazing
I picked up this book to give me more insight on some issues I've come across when helping couples and individual women. There is a lot of good information that will help one to be able to regain trust in a relationship or decide that they will never be able to get trust back.
Jan 15, 2015 Alexandre rated it really liked it
Great insights from the author's personal experience. After initially giving the reader the tools to assess if the relationship can be healed, the author presents different practical methods to restore trust in all kind of relationships.
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Jan 06, 2015 Casey Vaughan rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
well written

I am not sure why I picked this particular book on the subject of trust but I am sure glad I did.
Oct 05, 2014 Lauren rated it liked it
Pretty good pop psychology
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very helpful
Feb 18, 2013 Crystal rated it really liked it
Loved this book- similar to "After the Affair", but helpful for any kind of betrayal (not just affairs) and trust issues. Good advice, good case examples.
Mar 16, 2013 Healing rated it it was amazing
Very helpful. Didn't rebuild my trust before the end of the book (even though I read it for months haha), but gave me faith that the trust can be rebuilt.
Oct 16, 2012 Courtney rated it it was amazing
This book was just what I needed. I used a highlighter allot and plan to pick this book up for guidance often.
Feb 15, 2013 Rifka rated it really liked it
Als ik nu gewoon met Mira Kirshenbaum ga trouwen?
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“Broken trust can heal more quickly than most of us have thought, too. And it’s worth it, because whoever coined the expression The broken places are stronger where they heal is absolutely right when it comes to trust.” 2 likes
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