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The Other End of the Leash: Why We Do What We Do Around Dogs

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The Other End of the Leash shares a revolutionary, new perspective on our relationship with dogs, focusing on our behavior in comparison with that of dogs. An applied animal behaviorist and dog trainer with more than twenty years experience, Dr. Patricia McConnell looks at humans as just another interesting species, and muses about why we behave the way we do around our do ...more
Paperback, 272 pages
Published April 29th 2003 by Ballantine Books (first published 2002)
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Jennifer (aka EM)
Jun 07, 2012 Jennifer (aka EM) rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: dog lovers, esp. Cesar Milan followers
Recommended to Jennifer (aka EM) by: Meg diNicola
This is animal behavioural science, not dog whispering, and it should be required reading for everyone who has a dog, is thinking of getting a dog, or is at all interested in dogs. It's a necessary antidote or at least counterpoint to the "wolf pack/dominance" school of dog training.

The book is structured to compare and contrast primate (including human) behaviours and their underlying meaning with canine (wolf and dog) behaviours. McConnell itemizes and then analyzes the natural behaviours that
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Shirley
Dec 01, 2007 Shirley rated it it was amazing
Shelves: dogs
I'd read anything she writes. She's a wonderful writer and I can never learn enough about dogs.
Lewis
Mar 14, 2009 Lewis rated it really liked it
4 1/2 for this one..I am desperate to understand how to communicate with my dog and this book sets the stage for that. I'm a snotty academic with a Master's in Anthro. so, I also love the fact that an individual with a background in ethology is describing not only canine behavior but our own primate actions/reactions. I'll definitely be reading her other books.
Celia
Nov 11, 2007 Celia rated it really liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
This was a fascinating book about the psychology of dogs, but based on a much more scientific approach than Cesar Millan's version of dog psychology. This is not so much a training manual, but part advice, part memoir, part comedy - I found the difference between a primate approach and a dog approach to things so interesting, and Patricia McConnell is a very engaging writer. I loved all her anecdotes about sheep herding. As someone who has owned a dog in the past, and hopes to do so again in the ...more
Donna
May 26, 2011 Donna rated it did not like it
I learned a few things from the book about my interactions with my dog, but mostly, it is not a very engaging read. I couldn't finish it.

I could not get over the author's short, but frequent, quips to remind us how qualified she is to be writing about the subject at hand. OKAY, we get it! You got a PhD! Let's leave it alone now. Chances are, people already acknowledge your qualifications if they picked up your book...

The other major problem I had with this book is that it focuses too much on the
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Stringy
Jul 06, 2013 Stringy rated it it was amazing
What a great book, a must for everyone with a dog in their family. McConnell explores how dogs and humans have a lot in common but are separated by our different languages. She explains how you can communicate in a way that any canine can understand, and put that to practical use with your pet.

I like her down-to-earth admissions that even the best dog-trainers sometimes repeat commands and raise their voices, even though they know it doesn't work. It's just a very natural behaviour for primates!
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Tina
Mar 10, 2014 Tina rated it it was amazing
I had been struggling with the idea of "training " my golden retriever puppy. I had been reading everything in sight because I wanted to do the "right" thing and in the process have a well behaved dog. It came as a surprise to me that , as educated as I thought I was becoming , problems still snuck in. Ms. McConnel's book completely changed my way of thinking . I now relish the challenge of trying to communicate in a very loving but firm way with my dog. ....just like I would with my children . ...more
Anneliese
Mar 21, 2008 Anneliese rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: anyone who has a dog
this is one of my all time favorite books. i love the way P.M. writes, including anecdotes and then going through to explain the details of what she thinks about it. i think everyone who owns a dog should read this book.
Stef
Jan 03, 2008 Stef rated it it was amazing
Shelves: dogbooks
I really enjoyed this book. It is so weird because I have read so many puppy books, but Charlie is really more dog than puppy now, and it is time i face facts! I no longer have any use on the "how-to" books, and i want a more thoughtful perspective of dog/human interaction which before, to be honest, i couldn't really understand these books until owning a dog.

In this book, the author compares the social structure of dogs as they have descended from wolves to the social structure of humans which
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michelle
Feb 04, 2013 michelle rated it did not like it
Shelves: abandonded
This book came highly recommended as "readable" and "literary" (even on the back cover!). I found it to be anything but. Her use of cutesy comparisons was irritating and seemed to hide whatever useful scientific information she was meant to be presenting. Based on the reviews and my desire to have a great relationship with my dog, I slogged through until ...

The last straw was her description of a trip to southern Texas to record jockeys who spoke only Spanish. After an offensive, stereotyping de
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Michelle
This book is part dog training manual, part dog psychology book, part human psychology book. I learned a LOT from Patricia McConnell. She's come highly recommended by most of the dog communities I'm in and while I've had the book for some time and started it any number of times, I didn't really get around to reading it until just after the new year. If anyone wants to delve more into why YOU act the way you do around your dogs and why your dog reacts the way it does to the often unconscious (and ...more
Ruby
Nov 18, 2008 Ruby rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: My dog Ruby if she had time....
This book made me wish I lived on a farm with sheep and cows that my dog could herd. I just don't know how practical that is when I have never done anything like it I wouldn't know where to begin but Locke could help me. I thought this book was very good. It made me see things from my dogs perspective. She must think I'm not very polite. This book was the beggining for me. It made me really focus on who my dog is and if she is happy. I hope so. I have found out Ruby is a social climber and a sta ...more
Jen
Feb 24, 2008 Jen is currently reading it
In progress but so far everything in this book has really helped me out with understanding how my dog thinks. I learned how to get her to be on a stay, and that's something that we have been working on for a long time! So far this is an easy to apply read and really recommend for anyone who has a dog or is thinking about becoming a dog owner.
Anita
Mar 15, 2008 Anita rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: Anyone serious about training a dog
For anyone who is serious about training their dog, this is a good book. I did not agree with McConnell's view of man, and her behavioral psychology got a little much when applied to people, but when reading for the purpose of behavioral training for dogs, it is very worth while.
Jessaka
Dec 07, 2016 Jessaka rated it really liked it
I really liked how to get your dog to stop pulling on the leash. Stand like a tree and wait for the dog to quit pulling. Then start walking, if the dog starts pulling again, stop. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat.
Miles
Mar 26, 2014 Miles rated it it was amazing
Reading this book will change the way you interact with dogs, and for the better.

We have a ~2 year old pit corso, Ramona, who was sometimes slow to respond to our input, though it was clear that she wanted to please. After modifying my behavior around her based on McConnell's advice, Ramona's response is near instantaneous, cheerful, and confident.

Note that I started, and finished, this book yesterday and am already speaking in the past tense regarding results. Basically, I started with my chan
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Kristen
Sep 18, 2016 Kristen rated it it was amazing
I absolutely adored this book, the authors voice and what she had to share about dogs. It was fun to listen to and she clearly had experience and knowledge that was wonderful to learn.
Bilgi
Mar 26, 2015 Bilgi rated it it was amazing
Shelves: dog-shelf
It is one of the most exciting books I've ever read on dog training/behaviour. So exciting that I had to refrain myself to go further and read few pages (if not the whole title) in advance in following chapters; Or yet going backward to previous pages to find back a beautifully written description of a dog expression and check it on my dog's face. Thus it was a very enjoyable back and forth reading that I never wanted to end. When came to the end, I was relieved finding many more insights and wo ...more
Sequana
Sep 14, 2016 Sequana rated it it was amazing
Listened to this book in the car on the way to a pet sitting assignment. As an experienced house and pet sitter and former dog "owner" I can only say that I wish I had seen this book long ago.
Patricia McConnell is brilliant and well educated with the perfect combination of scientist and dog trainer to teach good practices while explaining why primates and canines don't always understand one another- and what we can do about it! Loved this book and recommend it highly.
Craig
Sep 27, 2011 Craig rated it really liked it
The Other End of the Leash is more about communicating with dogs than how to train them. Patricia McConnell masterfully explains how as primates we are consistently unaware of the signals we are sending to our four legged friends. In our defense it isn’t willful ignorance; humans just communicate differently. Things like eye contact, shaking hands and hugging, which are signs of affection among humans, are seen as rude and aggressive to dogs. Similarly we tend to disregard things like blinking a ...more
Nicole
Aug 19, 2008 Nicole rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: Dog lovers and those interested in animal behavior
Recommended to Nicole by: Sandy from HART
This book was recommended to me by the folks at HART (Homeless Animal Rescue Team). It decribes the differeces and similarities in how primates and canines communiticate and how understanding these differeces can help you train and communiticate with you dog. Each chapter starts off with an antidote from the author's personal experiance as an animal behaviorist and dog trainer followed by an explanation of what went wrong or right as the case may be. This book is well researched and some what ac ...more
Cristina
Jul 14, 2014 Cristina rated it really liked it
Attenzione, NON è un manuale di addestramento, ma una bella lettura se si vuole provare a capire un poco meglio il proprio compagno canino e cercare di convivere con lui nella maniera migliore possibile.

L'autrice è una etologa e ci sono molti riferimenti a testi di altri etologi, primatologi in primis, dato che il libro tende a confrontare il comportamento dei primati con quello dei canidi per farci capire dove sbagliamo e dove potremmo migliorare come umani di un cane, piuttosto che fornire una
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David
Dec 29, 2008 David rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: dog owners, dog lovers
Written by an applied behaviorist, this book compares and contrasts primate and canine behavior and psychology to give dog owners a little more insight into their companion's behavior. McConnell interweaves carefully referenced scientific studies and engaging anecdotes from her own extensive experience working with dogs (and their owners) to give readers a solid sense of the current state of the field of canine ethology. Extensive references are listed in the back and there are footnotes through ...more
Sara
Dec 28, 2008 Sara rated it it was amazing
I got this after some trying experiences with my adolescent pooch. I'm a few chapters in and already I feel much more able to communicate effectively with her. We've been working this week on coming when called, and have seen a big difference. She discusses the role of body language in communicating with dogs. Last night as usual Kaia was trying to sniff my dinner plate, while I was sitting on the floor, and I just leaned forward a little bit towards her to assert my dominance and she turned awa ...more
Joe
Jul 23, 2012 Joe rated it it was amazing
Shelves: dogs
A book full of useful insights and advice about how dogs think differently than humans. In particular, McConnell points out how humans like ventral-ventral contact (hugging, kissing, looking into the eyes) as a form of connection, but dogs do not. And so, for instance, if you want to get a dog to come to you, rather than directly facing it and looming towards it, you want to gesture so it can come by your side.

Clearly written, if a bit repetitious at points.
Kirby
Jun 30, 2016 Kirby rated it liked it
Shelves: 52-reads, paper
I thought it played with a surface understanding of body awareness with dogs but didn't get instructional enough. The book opens with the author saving a stray as it crosses a busy highway and turning around back and forth to coax him at the right times but she never actually spells that out for what the reader can do to visually assist your own pet. She really only manages to say that visual cues are important. I found that to be odd.
Katie
Sep 07, 2010 Katie rated it really liked it
Shelves: dogs
Another great dog book. McConnell offered very specific suggestions that we can follow (if we take the time) - along with stories from her work with many dogs and animal behavior research. She also reiterated what many others say (e.g. dogs don't speak English), but accompanied that with clear ideas for what steps you can take as a loving dog owner.
Shannon Weynand
Much more than a book about the science of dog behavior, this is a book about a woman who loves dogs with pure intention and unbridled passion. Patricia Mconnell's concern for the general welfare of dogs is an inspiration and a refreshing lesson to equip dog owners in rebutting dominance advocates.
Danielle Berg
Dec 29, 2016 Danielle Berg rated it it was amazing
Shelves: non-fiction-misc
This book was amazing! I highly recommend it to any dog owner! I loved reading about real life situations dog owners have found themselves in and tips on how to improve communicating with your dog to fix these problems. Some of the ideas I was already aware of, but its always nice to get confirmation that you are indeed on the right track. I've always known the danger of humanizing dogs, but I still found it useful to find out the differences between humans and dogs, and why that can lead to iss ...more
Violeta
Jan 14, 2017 Violeta rated it really liked it
4.5 stars. This book is a fascinating look at dog-human relationships! While it discusses training, it is much richer than a how-to-train-your-dog book. If you want quick fixes for puppy training troubleshooting, this is not likely to be what you need; but if you want a lovely mix of ethology, philosophy, psychology, and science, this is a fantastic read!
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Patricia McConnell, Ph.D., a Certified Applied Animal Behaviorist, (CAAB) has made a lifelong commitment to improving the relationship between people and animals. She is known worldwide as an expert on canine and feline behavior and dog training, and for her engaging and knowledgeable dog training books, DVDs and seminars. Patricia has seen clients for serious behavioral problems since 1988, and i ...more
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