My Losing Season: A Memoir

My Losing Season: A Memoir

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“I was born to be a point guard, but not a very good one. . . .There was a time in my life when I walked through the world known to myself and others as an athlete. It was part of my own definition of who I was and certainly the part I most respected. When I was a young man, I was well-built and agile and ready for the...more
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Published August 26th 2003 by Dial Press Trade Paperback (first published January 1st 2002)
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William Bentrim
My Losing Season by Pat Conroy

Normally I prefer something to be illuminated in a one or two word description rather than buckets of prose. I’m not fond of poetry. (I know, GASP!) However Pat Conroy’s writing brings new heights to prose and poetry. This book details his basketball career at the Citadel.

Conroy’s lush descriptions and vivid emotional portrayals captivate you from word one. His soul searching and searing self condemnation bring new bloody wounds each time you turn a page. I’m not...more
Dme
My Losing Season by Pat Conroy was a book that I chose because I saw that it was a book that had to do with sports. I have always been a fan of sports books ever since I started reading. I enjoyed the very specific and detailed descriptions that Conroy used. Conroy paints a very colorful picture in the reader's head of what is occurring. I liked the nicknames that Conroy discusses and how he makes the readers feel like they have a real connection with the characters in the story. The theme withi...more
Ron
There's a scene in a 1970s movie in which Gene Hackman tries to grind up a broken wine glass in a garbage disposal. Reading this book is a lot like that.

I picked up "My Losing Season" not as a great fan of Pat Conroy or as a former athlete. I was attracted more by the theme of loss and its lessons. And I expected a different personal story than the one Conroy tells. The losing basketball season in his last year as a cadet at The Citadel in Charleston, SC, is a pretext for a much deeper theme - s...more
Danielle
Another book I pulled from my bookshelves while riding out our snowpocalypse. I picked up this advanced reader's copy back when I was working at Barnes and Noble. The book was hugely popular when it was released, but I never got around to reading it until now. In the book Pat Conroy explores his life through his love of basketball, particularly through his senior year season on the Citadel basketball team. Although it is a lot about basketball and the games that team played, it also explores his...more
Rob
This is an intense memoir that teaches lessons learned and perseverance even under losing circumstances. Conroy's early life that helped shape his later novels is all here--his abusive father, his military training and college life, etc... I'm not sure if a non athletic reader would lack the schema necessary for the basketball action parts. But if you have ever fell in love with a sport that helped you escape the troubles of childhood or gave you discipline and focus, this is your book. But even...more
Jason
My Losing Season is an introspective look at a critical time period in the life of novelist Pat Conroy. After forty years, few would care, let alone remember, of a losing basketball team at South Carolina’s military college of The Citadel. The team lost in the first round of the Southern Conference tournament, its coach was fired a few months after the season ended. The team’s anonymity should not be any greater than scores of other teams that fade into the passage of time, falling far short of...more
Kyle
"My Losing Season" is a powerful book that uses the author’s losing 1966-1967basketball season at The Citadel to explore whether one learns more from winning or from losing. From the opening line, “I was born to be a point guard, but not a very good one,” to the end, Conroy has a gift for memorable, descriptive writing.

I should preface my review by stating I don’t enjoy basketball, which includes playing it growing up and now watching it live or on TV. In High School P.E., they nicknamed me “Th...more
Niki
Ok so it's been a couple of days. The time away didn't do much for my appreciation or ennui with the book, but I will give my best shot at trying to summon what this book did do for me. What follows is not a review of the book per say, but mostly what it brought out of my psyche.

So coming straight off the heels of a highly publicized news story of Penn State and that well, pedophile that went to prison, I've been unnerved by this hero-worship that athletes give to their coaches and schools. I we...more
Marialyce
As with all things written by Mr Conroy, I loved it. I am fully aware he wears his tortured childhood on his sleeve and each and everyone of his characters is imbued with it, but yet, I love each and every one of them. Within the pages of this autobiography of sorts, we see Mr Conroy come into himself though the efforts of a school, a team, and of course a coach. He, like the game of basketball he so loves, became a fiber that knit together his life and that of his team members. He grows into a...more
Simon
I gave this book to my sons. Losing is a state of mind. You can take defeat and turn it into something that builds character and strength. More power to him.
Dgm
I chose My Losing Season because I like sports and nonfiction books, and since it was a biography of a players college basketball career, I thought it would be perfect for me. I soon realized that this book was not just about basketball, but something much deeper. This book showed how Pat Conroy's team shaped him as a person and affected him for the rest of his life. I enjoyed this book because it isn't just a story of someone finding out who they really are, it's also about a basketball playe...more
Wendy
I'm not even sure how I came to have this memoir on my book shelf, and I'm not sure why I chose to read a book about a losing Citadel basketball team. But I did read it and I did enjoy it. Though Conroy waxes effusive at times when he revisits the joy of playing basketball for his college team, the pain, not just of a losing season, but of the abuse heaped on him first by his father and then by his coach, seems completely unreal. That Conroy survived growing up with a vicious father who pummeled...more
Chris Wolak
I'm not a basketball fan, but adore Pat Conroy and so far I'll read whatever he wants to write about. I would have liked to hear more about his thoughts on writing and some of his experiences as a young man other than those revolving around basketball, but I realize that's not the book he wrote.

Two quotes that I like:
"You do not learn how to write novels in a writing program. You learn how by leading an interesting life. Open yourself up to all experiences. Let life pour through you the way ligh...more
John Harder
I am a fan of Pat Conroy, but I found it hard to relate to this autobiographical account of a year of basketball at the Citadel. Except for women’s pool (there is much bending over) I am not a sports fan. Bouncing a ball around a big room with sweaty men; what a ridiculous way to spend an afternoon.



This is my problem I guess since many people enjoy this entertainment. After all the WWF, rap and Oprah are also popular – the retarded should have the opportunity to enjoy their lives I suppose.



Conro...more
Jdh
I chose this book because I had an interest in sports and like to read biographical books. I enjoyed this book mostly because I found the main character inspiring, he went through a lot and came out a better person instead of becoming bitter. However, the story line is easy to follow and exciting as well, which adds to the quality greatly. Pat Conroy writes this book in flashback form drawing on his memories and past experiences in order to tell the story of his college basketball days. He wrote...more
Linda
I absolutely love this author, Pat Conroy. This was a true story of his years playing college basketball at the Citadel in the mid 1960's. I love reading honest accounts of people's real lives...the good and the bad. He also gives insight on how other characters and story lines from his previous books came from some of the real-life experiences we read about in this book. And of course, this story also takes place in the
Charleston, SC area so it is fun to read about places and streets I have ac...more
Kjm
"My Losing Season" is a biographical novel that recounts the experience of playing college athletics as well as the culture of a southern military institute. I choose to read this book because I am a basketball player and have always enjoyed sports books,and I knew this book was about basketball. I liked that Conroy wrote about his own personal expereince of the military academy and athletic experience, therefore, the reader was able to see true, intense emotions that often a reader cannot exper...more
Noah Constantine
I read this book because my brilliant English teacher recommended it to me. She was right on point. I really enjoy biographical stories, and this was an autobiography, which was even better. I really enjoyed the book because of the details and images that Conroy creates. I also liked how I could relate to the story, because I am also a competitive athlete in the South. One thing I didn't like was the changes made to the setting. I sometimes struggle with flashbacks, and when Conroy changed the t...more
Harold
Still reading this and it's very, very good.
It's about Pat Conroy at the Citadel (where he got the experiences that were used in his novel Lords of Discipline). It really covers all his years at the Citadel, not just his senior year (his Losing Season) and is about how, essentially, basketball saved his life there. Like most all Conroy's works, it's very bittersweet, and also very moving. I couldn't resist following recent accounts of his relationship with the Citadel: his first cousin Ed was th...more
George Clack
Conroy is a florid writer for my taste. He seems to love every metaphor that occurs to him, is not at all troubled by clichés, and has a streak of sentimentality astonishing in a military college grad. But still. The stories he has to tell of his senior year as point guard on the The Citadel basketball team are marvelous. He’s got the deadpan locker-room humor of athletes cutting on each other down beautifully. Of course, this book is about much more than basketball, though it’s one of the top f...more
Rp
I chose My Losing Season by Pat Conroy because I am a huge college basketball fan. I have always loved college basketball so finding a book about it was fun to read! I enjoyed the themes Conroy uses within the story. Its not always about winning but being part of a team and following your dream. Conroy really makes you feel like you are going through the season with him which I liked. The only thing I didn't like was when he would talk about his school life and how he would also go back and fort...more
John
As a basketball player and a major participant in several losing seasons i am probably biased. But, Conroy does a great job of telling the story of his losing season as a senior at the Citadel. Lots of basketball action, but a great underlying message that goes far beyond the sport.
Jacki
I know this is a strange thing to say about a book that is mainly about basketball, but I enjoyed this book with the exception of the play-by-play basketball game parts. I thought the team dynamics, Citadel life, his crazy coach and his mean father were all really good but the basketball parts I could take or leave.

I am glad I read it because I liked learning about this authors life and how he came to be an author and the different parts of his real life and basketball career that translated in...more
Kristen Nace
This is a nonfiction account of the author's senior year playing basketball for the Citadel. I'm not a huge sports fan, but I do live in NC afterall, and enjoy watching March Madness. This book reads like one of his novels and I came to realize that Conroy used very little imagination when writing his books Lords of Discipline and The Great Santini. I was actually saddened to realize his father in real life was actually much worse than the character Bull Meecham from the Great Santini. I enjoye...more
Charlotte
Please do yourself a favor and read ALL of Pat Conroy's books. I recommend them to anyone. He is my favorite living writer. The Prince of Tides, Beach Music, The Lords of Dicipline,The Great Santini, The Water is Wide (did I miss any?) make you feel grateful for having had the experience of having read them. Conroy is a southern writer and all his books are wonderfully written, has soul, he makes you love and hate his characters at the same time- capturing the difficult relationships within fami...more
Heather
When this book first came out, I was wildly excited to read my favorite living author's account of two of my favorite obsessions: The South and college basketball. This book is so much more than those two subjects, though: it's a memoir, a bridge to healing Mr Conroy's well-publicized rift with his alma mater, and a compelling story. If you want proof that this book left me changed, look no further than the positive light in which Mr Conroy forces the reader to view the legendarily persnickety s...more
Frederick Bingham
The story of Conroy's senior year basketball season at the Citadel in 1966-67. He played point guard on a team that won 8 and lost 17 games. The book is at its best when it describes the coach and the other players. It falls flat when it goes off on tangents, like a long one about the author's girlfriend in his sophomore year. Also unwelcome is an often sappy sentimentality about the Citadel and his reunion with the players in the 1990's. The last 1/4 or so of the book could have been deleted wi...more
Anne Van
I'm not much of memoir reader, but I enjoyed this memory of the author senior year as a point guard basketball player at The Citadel thirty years ago. I assumed he was reviewing films of the games, but no, it seems all based on his memory. His evil father, ever abusive and punitive, hoovers off-stage, replaced by his coach, similarly dismissive. Yet, Pat Conroy emerges "oilly polite" as ever a Southern boy could be, to capture praise as the Most Valuable Player on his senior year and Sportsmansh...more
Marla
There are few books that affect me when they are over. Ones that make me sad and depressed because I will no longer be with the characters. Ones that can break my heart so much that when I turn the last page, I end up crying or even sobbing because I have grown to love the characters and/or I wish the book wasn’t done.

This is one of those books. My Losing Season is about Pat’s last year as point guard and captain of The 1966-67 Citadel Bulldogs and about his childhood with a strict and abusive f...more
Cpn
I think my losing season is a very good book for anyone who is involved in sports and has suffered that "losing season" where your team just tanked. I have experienced a lot of similarities with Conroy while reading this book and if you've ever been down in the dumps, you'll be able to relate just fine with him.
The story itself is interesting, but it takes a while to get to the good part, the part that wants you to not put the book down and just keep reading. The team bond is something to admir...more
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Pat Conroy is the New York Times bestselling author of two memoirs and seven novels, including The Prince of Tides, The Great Santini, and The Lords of Discipline. Born the eldest of seven children in a rigidly disciplined military household, he attended the Citadel, the military college of South Carolina. He briefly became a schoolteacher (which he chronicled in his memoir The Water Is Wide) befo...more
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