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How Lucky You Are

3.58  ·  Rating Details ·  1,691 Ratings  ·  201 Reviews
In the tradition of Emily Giffin and Marisa de los Santos, How Lucky You Are is an engaging and moving novel about three women struggling to keep their longstanding friendship alive.

Waverly, who's always been the group's anchor, runs a cozy bakery but worries each month about her mounting debt. Kate is married to a man who's on track to be the next governor of Virginia, b
Paperback, 352 pages
Published September 4th 2012 by Five Spot/Grand Central Publishing (first published January 1st 2012)
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Shannon Knight
(SPOILERS?? I GUESS??) Within the first chapter, we already had four of my LEAST favorite chick lit tropes happening: a trio of best girlfriends in which two of the trio are no longer close to one another; the main character runs a bakery; the main character has a funky name while everyone else has a normal name; someone's husband is an asshole. So there was that. And then as you read further, the main character is doing that stupid, stupid thing where she's having trouble (financial issues with ...more
Sep 15, 2012 Risbee rated it really liked it
Shelves: netgalley-read
I'm trying to figure out how to describe how I feel about this book without giving too much away. I've been staring at my screen for a bit with no luck, so I'm just going to jump right in.

How Lucky You Are is a story of perception and truth and friendship. Waverly, Kate, and Amy are three friends who know everything about each other, except for the secrets each one manages to keep. We are all guilty of it, seeing friends or neighbors and comparing our lives to theirs...the perfectly manicured l
Oct 12, 2012 Kate rated it it was ok
I’m always drawn to stories about groups of women friends - how does the author portray close friendships? Is the dialogue realistic? Does it ‘ring true?’ Therefore, I picked up How Lucky You Are by Krisyn Kusek Lewis with great hopes.

It’s the story of Waverly, Kate and Amy, a tight-knit trio who met in their early twenties. The story is told from Waverley’s perspective who, after years of being the ‘rock’, is feeling the strain. Waverley is facing financial ruin and the loss of her home and bus
Sep 25, 2012 Rebecca rated it it was amazing
Shelves: netgalley
Waverly and Kate have been best friends since they were teenagers, and they became friends with Amy when they were twenty-two, and had just graduated from college. Thirteen years later, they are still friends. Amy and Kate are both married, and Waverly has been dating Larry for six years.
Waverly owns a bakery, and is having financial trouble, Kate’s husband is running for governor of Virginia, and Amy is a stay-at-home mom. They are all having problems in their relationships, and they aren’t re
Aug 06, 2012 Patty rated it it was amazing
How Lucky You Are
Kristyn Kusek Lewis

My " in a nutshell" summary...

Three friends...three different lives...three separate sets of issues.

My thoughts after reading this book...

Wow...loved this book.  We have three very different women who have been friends for a long time.  Kate is wealthy, Amy is a happy mom and Waverly owns a bakery.  On the surface their lives seem happy and fulfilled.  Behind closed doors each woman is dealing with major issues.  

Waverly seems to be the worrier...the friend
Annie McDonnell
Aug 13, 2012 Annie McDonnell rated it it was amazing
I cherished every minute of reading this book, and the story at the root of it, was totally shocking, so I will not give it away. Definitely put this on your “Must Read List”!
Three close friends are going through secret struggles that bring each of them facing one of life’s big questions? Just, How Lucky am I? It is as simple as that.
While Waverly has the steady live-in boyfriend that treats her perfectly, she is harboring secrets about her Bakery business because she is scared of the consequenc
Dec 26, 2012 Janet rated it it was ok
While I finished the book and it was okay, I didn't like any of the characters: Waverly, the narrator, because everything that happened seemed like she made it about HER; Kate, because her repetitive rich-girl whining nearly made me give up on the book before I was halfway through; and Amy, because she was colorless.

I couldn't believe that these old friends, especially Kate and Waverly, being friends longer, couldn't seem to really talk about what was happening with their lives until a near-tra
Goodreads Description- In the tradition of Emily Giffin and Marisa de los Santos, HOW LUCKY YOU ARE is an engaging and moving novel about three women struggling to keep their longstanding friendship alive. Waverly, who's always been the group's anchor, runs a cozy bakery but worries each month about her mounting debt. Kate is married to a man who's on track to be the next governor of Virginia, but the larger questions brewing in their future are unsettling her. Stay-at-home mom Amy has a perfect ...more
Lilac Wolf
Aug 30, 2012 Lilac Wolf rated it it was amazing
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I couldn't put this book down once I started reading it. I even read late into the night and finally finished it before work this morning.

The main character, Waverly is a woman we can all relate to. She feels inferior to her friends, that she hasn't "grown up" yet, and when she gets so stressed out she hides from the issue (like bills). One of her friends is a woman from a wealthy family, whom she is jealous of the money and the beauty. Then her other friend marries a do
Nov 06, 2014 Kasey rated it liked it
I bought HLYA, honestly, because Ms. Kusek-Lewis is a debut women's fiction author and I'm doing my best to find and support new authors.

I feel this book started off a little slowly, as some books do, getting some backstory in and setting the scene for plot complications down the road. The first 100 pages or so took me longer to get through for that reason. Nothing bad, I didn't dislike the characters or the premise, it just took me awhile to settle in and really INVEST in them.

1/3 to 1/2 way
Dec 24, 2012 Maryellen rated it really liked it
There’s nothing I love more than books that showcase the friendships of women. I love my friends and cherish each one of them. In HOW LUCKY YOU ARE, Waverly, Kate and Amy are supposed to be best friends. Supposed to be. All three of them are keeping things from the others. Big things. And Waverly~~she’s keeping secrets from more than just her best friends. Secrets. They can eat you alive.

This book absolutely frustrated me. I wanted to knock on Waverly’s door and make her sit down and listen to a
Ashley Griffith
Feb 16, 2017 Ashley Griffith rated it did not like it
This book did not impress me at all. The writing was mediocre, the characters were annoying, and the plot was boring.
Katie Kenig
Sep 12, 2012 Katie Kenig rated it it was amazing
Shelves: chicklit
"My entire adult life, I've been struggling so hard, searching for this sort of higher, enlightened perfection. But really, after talking to Margaret and watching her and Davis together, I realize that all I need to do to make my parents proud - to make myself happy - is to stop second-guessing my blessings, stop thinking that the grass is always greener, and know how lucky I am to have my particular messed-up, mucked-up life."

We all have those moments in our lives when we look at a friend, or a
Romancing the Book
Feb 16, 2014 Romancing the Book rated it it was amazing
Reviewed by Rachel
Book provided by NetGalley for review
Review originally posted at Romancing the Book

I still haven’t recovered from reading this book.

And I mean that in the nicest most complimentary way possible.

It’s one of those books that haunts you, enchants you, grips your heart, your soul, your mind, until finally when the pages stop clicking, you can do nothing save stare at the wall for a good ten minutes and wonder what the heck just happened.

This is a new author to me. I didn’t really
Laura Kay Bolin
Aug 27, 2012 Laura Kay Bolin rated it it was amazing
Waverly owns a sweet little bakery, but is secretly struggling to not lose everything. Here she is at 35 trying not to lose her business, her house and not able to share the information with anyone. She struggles with feeling like a failure—she and her long term boyfriend aren’t even married. Her best friends have it so together. Amy is just as sweet as they come and is married to a doctor, lives in the ‘white picket fence’ house on a cul-de-sac and has an adorable little girl, Emma. Kate is a k ...more
Sep 10, 2012 Suzanne rated it it was amazing
"How Lucky You Are" by Kristyn Kusek Lewis is the story of three women - Kate, Amy and Waverly, who are all in their mid-30s and each facing their own challenges in their relationships. However, for these women, from the outside looking in, each feels that the other two have the most perfect relationships.

The story is narrated by Waverly, who owns a local bakery in Maple Hill, Virginia, just outside of Washington, D.C. Waverly has lived in Maple Hill her entire life, and grew up with Kate, whos
Sep 06, 2012 MARGO rated it really liked it
I was eager to read this novel but I mistakenly thought it would be an easy Chick-Lit no susbstance reading. I mean that as no insult as sometimes I just like to read chick-lit with no substance depending on how I feel at the time. However this book certainly has lots of substance. If shows how the bounds of friendship can sometimes be tested and in order to save your friends from themselves you have to be willing to step over the boundaries. It also shows that sometimes we think someone else ha ...more
Diane S ☔
Jul 25, 2012 Diane S ☔ rated it liked it
A book about friendships, three friends from college and their different lives and problems. My favorite character was Waverly though she had a distorted view of relationships and what they mean, she still seemed to try to work it all out in her head and slowly comes to the realization that no relationships are perfect. Also about the masks people present to the public and how one never really knows what is going on behind closed door. I kept asking myself how I would act if my friends where hav ...more
Rachel Jaffe
Oct 30, 2014 Rachel Jaffe rated it it was ok
Shelves: kindle, library, fiction
Good heavens, this was tedious. It was a classic example of the problem of "telling instead of showing." The main character was whiny, her two best friends were cardboard cutouts of characters, and her boyfriend was pure wish fulfillment -- hunky hipster guy who is endlessly supportive and loving despite her selfish actions and dearth of any actions in his support. I kept reading because I was curious about how the main character's financial problems would resolve, and the resolution being sort ...more
Jan 04, 2013 Amy rated it it was ok
It was okay - a very fast read. The point of the book was good but it got tedious about half way through. If she asked one more person how they were and they said "I'm fine" it would have been total creative writing. It was rather predictable, but again, the over all theme of valuing your friends and realizing the grass is not always greener is a good one. I wouldn't read it again, but it was worth reading.
Kara Mcgee
Sep 03, 2012 Kara Mcgee rated it it was amazing
Warmly written story about the joy and perils of female friendships. Very easy read with a compelling storyline that you'll find hard to put down. Would highly recommend as a thought-provoking read for book clubs.
Jane Lump
Sep 30, 2012 Jane Lump rated it liked it
A story of three friends and what they learn about themselves and each other. It had some interesting themes,
and a few twists, but for me, the characters remained pretty one-dimensional and the pace dragged during Waverly's tedious monologues.
Mar 05, 2012 Margie rated it it was amazing
Shelves: own-it
This is an amazing read about friendship. It is not your typical friendship story. I was very impressed with the pace of the story and the characters. Great read!
Aug 06, 2012 Lauren rated it liked it
Although parts of this novel were cliched or predictable, it was saved by the warm, engrossing writing syle. It was just what I was in the mood for: a friendly, charming story of friendship!
Melissa West
Jan 07, 2017 Melissa West rated it liked it
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Sep 04, 2012 Sarah rated it really liked it
Do we compare ourselves to each other because we feel, on some level, like we're expected to have it all - Kate's beauty and wealth, Amy's dedication to motherhood and family, Waverly's independent spirit? Does it start in middle school with appearances, and if so does the ante slowly ratchet up from "Why is she already wearing a bra and I'm not?" to "Why is she getting married, or having kids, or getting promoted, and I'm not?" Maybe it's just human nature, but we all know what the deeper quest ...more
Jul 04, 2013 Zarina rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Review originally posted to my blog on:

Through It All is a thought-provoking and heartfelt novel about friendship, which doesn't shy away from tackling difficult issues along the way.

The story revolves around Waverley and her long time friends Amy and Kate. Even though the women lead wildly different lives nowadays - Waverley's time is consumed by the running of her bakery, Amy is a housewife and devoted mother and Kate is married to a rising political st
Andrea (Cozy Up With A Good Read)
This review and others are found on Cozy Up With A Good Read

HOW LUCKY YOU ARE really stuck out to me because it is a book that really focus on a close friendship between three women that grew up together, and really shows the way that it changes over the years. I was really struck by the reality of this book and the issues that Lewis deals with.

This book started out a lot like any other chic lit novel does, with us getting to know the characters and their history, the difference with this story
Oct 01, 2012 Chrissy rated it it was amazing
When I came across HOW LUCKY YOU ARE, I knew nothing of the story or the author beyond the fact that a blurb somewhere compared the novel to something written "in the tradition of" Emily Giffin. Now, a few of Giffin's novels are definitely highly regarded on my personal bookshelf, so I figured this was enough praise to entice me to give this author a try.

I was most definitely not disappointed.

HOW LUCKY YOU ARE is a beautifully heartfelt tale of friendships, relationships, and the powerful way in
Sep 18, 2012 Cassandra rated it it was amazing
Shelves: finished, favorites
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I'm the author of SAVE ME (Grand Central, Dec 2014), a novel about two doctors, a tragic accident, and the power of forgiveness, and HOW LUCKY YOU ARE (Grand Central, Sept 2012), a novel about three women and the growing pains of their enduring friendship. Both books reached #1 on Barnes & Noble’s Top 100/Bestselling NOOK Books and HOW LUCKY was a Target Emerging Authors Pick, a Working Mother ...more
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