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  <title><![CDATA[Have You Found Her: A Memoir]]></title>
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  <default_description>&lt;i&gt;And every week, there was the unspoken question, the one I didn&amp;#8217;t know enough to ask myself : Have you found her yet? The one who reminds you of you?&lt;br&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;Twenty years after she lived at a homeless shelter for teens, Janice Erlbaum went back to volunteer. Now thirty-four years old and a successful writer, she&amp;#8217;d changed her life for the better; now she wanted to help someone else&amp;#8211;someone like the girl she&amp;#8217;d once been.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Then she met Sam. A brilliant nineteen-year-old junkie savant, the product of a horrifically abusive home, Sam had been surviving alone on the streets since she was twelve and was now struggling for sobriety against the adverse health effects of long-term drug abuse. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Soon Janice found herself caring deeply for Sam, following her through detoxes and psych wards, halfway houses and hospitals, becoming ever more manically driven to save her from the sickness and sadness leftover from Sam&amp;#8217;s terrible past. But just as Janice was on the verge of becoming the girl&amp;#8217;s legal guardian, she made a shocking discovery: Sam was sicker than anyone knew, in ways nobody could have imagined.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Written with startling candor and immediacy, &lt;i&gt;Have You Found Her&lt;/i&gt; is the story of one woman&amp;#8217;s quest to save a girl&amp;#8217;s life&amp;#8211;and the hard truths she learns about herself along the way.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&amp;#8220;A rich and compelling account . . . Ultimately this is a book about the narrator&amp;#8217;s journey and the dangers that attend the urge within us all to believe we can save another soul. A terrific read.&amp;#8221;&lt;br&gt;&amp;#8211;Cammie McGovern, author of &lt;i&gt;Eye Contact &lt;/i&gt;</default_description>
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    <body><![CDATA[What the hell was this book about?  Good question.  A former &quot;homeless&quot; woman goes back to the shelter and volunteers her time, and her beads, doing beading with the girls.  There she eventually meets Sam.  Sam is homeless and has all of these stories full of hooker mothers; meth addict fa...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/29396537">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Jun 28 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[If I were to sum up the entire novel in a single word, I would choose &quot;emotional&quot;. I don't mean emotional, like a weepy romance novel or a heavy memoir about death. I mean emotional, like pure, raw human emotion. Erlbaum spares us no detail of the pain and joy that she is swept over with d...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/25019606">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[So I read this book because on a train I sat next to someone who worked for the publishers of this memoir. She was such a fantastic storyteller, who in the first 10 minutes had regaled me with some truly hilarious tales, that I figured a recommendation by her meant this book had to be pretty good.<br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/29667863">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 08 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read Janice Erlbaum's earlier memoir Girlbomb: A Halfway Homeless Memoir and really liked it so I picked this up. I realy enjoyed this book. It covers a time 20 years after Janice had left her monther's home and lived in and out of youth shelters in NYC for a few years in high school.<br/><br/>N...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23054832">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Dec 30 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was absolutely one of the best I've read in a long, long time.  Honestly, at first I didn't think I would be quite so into it, but as soon as I got past page 10, I couldn't even put it down.  I will definitely be reading this author's other books, just as soon as I can get them.  I don't w...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/41463854">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[In this memoir, the author begins by describing her initially disapointing experience as an idealistic volunteer at a shelter for homeless teens. Those who have worked in social services should be able to relate Erlbaum's experience as a volunteer at the shelter. The author develops an intense frien...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43706542">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[An extremely affecting, beautifully written read.  I recognized early that the author was searching for something of herself in the pursuit of this friendship; judging her choices was not important because I was very much into the story and read the book in a single sitting.  Furthermore, I liked he...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40341199">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[My interest in this book stemmed from the example of homelessness in new york city.  However, I think there are several themes in this book that are important in the social work field and reflected some of my own experiences and processes.  This memoir is based on an experience of a woman and her re...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44129659">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Have You Found Her: A Memoir is a taut, well-paced examination of one woman s determination to make a difference in the life of a troubled homeless girl. Former Bust columnist Janice Erlbaum chronicles her experiences working at the New York City homeless shelter where she also spent time as a trou...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/74004242">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I loved this book.  The writing itself is great; very smooth prose and relatable voice, but the actual plot of this story is just unbelievable, and Ms.Erlbaum's insight into her own experiences as she interacted with this very unusual young woman is amazing -- and her writing is painfully honest.  I...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50449230">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[In this adult memoir, Janice Erlbaum returns to the NYC shelter where she once lived as a teenager to volunteer. She wants to &quot;give something back.&quot; Instead she gets sucked into the world of one of the troubled girls, a nineteen-year-old junkie who is one heck of a manipulator. Janice does...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/73025857">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[In Have You Found Her, Janice Erlbaum has written a fine a memoir with all the trappings of a novel. As a kid, Erlbaum fled her home only to find herself in the New York City shelter system. By her mid-thirties, having reconciled with her parents and attained some measure of success in her life, Jan...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/67076179">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[eh....<br/>the ending could have been so much better. Like, she spent all this time building up this interesting story about a girl savant with an incredibly difficult like, and then, it's almost like she got sick of writing about her, and so just tacked on an ending that seemed short and out of pl...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/57892433">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a memoir about Janice Erlbaum, who returns to the shelter she lived in as a teenager and becomes a volunteer. She is cautioned not to become too close to any of the clients and to maintain strong boundaries, which she fails to do almost immediately. She develops a strong bond with one teenag...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/41816759">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Reviewed by coollibrarianchick for TeensReadToo.com<br/><br/>I just finished a book, after running back to the beach because it was mistakenly left there, that I am going to pass on to everyone looking for a good book to read. HAVE YOU FOUND HER by Janice Erlbaum was a gut-wrenching, pull-at-your-...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/21620426">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really liked Erlbaum's Girlbomb; I really like her writing in general (I remember her from Bust!). Thus I enjoyed Have You Found Her because of her writing style and because she's generally so honest about her own failings. The only quibble I had about this particular book is that it was sooooo ob...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/14214083">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm at the bitter stage of life where I resist reading memoirs by people somewhere around my age, simply for that self-involved reason that they've written it and I haven't. I'm so glad that &quot;Have You Found Her&quot; landed in my mailbox and broke me out of this sad, jealous, self-limitation. I...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/11246525">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[“Have You Found Her” is the heart wrenching account of a remarkable woman’s experience mentoring a troubled young girl. Erlbaum takes a no-nonsense approach to discussing the sensitive subject of addiction and handles it brilliantly, telling it exactly like it is. After 20 years away from the ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/32541223">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jul 13 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Mon Jul 14 09:47:14 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is one of those books that grabs you by the brain and won't let go until long after you've finished reading and given the book to a friend because &quot;You *have* to read this!&quot; Even if the story itself weren't so interesting and compelling (which it is), Erlbaum's brutally honest look at...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/27207137">more...</a>]]></body>
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