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Summer Of The Great Grandmother (Crosswicks Journals #2)

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"Anyone who has dealt with, or will soon deal with, the death of a parent will find some solace, understanding, and companionship in this perceptive book, which is, in the end, more about living than about dying".--The Washington Post.
Published by Harpercollins Publisher (first published 1974)
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Dianna If you look at the title of the book at the top of the page, you will see in grey, in parentheses, the name of the series. You can click on this to…moreIf you look at the title of the book at the top of the page, you will see in grey, in parentheses, the name of the series. You can click on this to see the other books in the series. The first is called A Circle of Quiet.(less)
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Barbara Lovejoy
Apr 05, 2014 Barbara Lovejoy rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I had read other books my Madeleine like Wrinkle in Time and A Wind in the Door, but this book sounded entirely different. I don't remember now where I heard about it. I think it was mentioned in another book I was reading. Nevertheless, it was wonderful. My greatest take away was how important it is to share stories in our families. They will bless our lives.
Aug 24, 2015 Jenny rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This one came at a good time. We had to say good-bye to our dog at the end of August, and reading this helped with some of the emotions that one goes through when one suffers a loss of any kind. I read this mostly with my dad, and we both enjoyed L'Engle's writing, as usual, but we also enjoyed the stories about her great grandparents, grandparents, and parents. They are fun, interesting, and exciting stories. The sections about her present time with her mother are sad and moving. L'Engle does a ...more
Pam Reid
Jun 18, 2012 Pam Reid rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Madeleine L'Engle chronicles the last summer of her mother's life with love, honesty, and, yes, even her doubts. The loss of a beloved parent is one of the most difficult of life's experiences even though it is one of the most natural. I was deeply touched by L'Engle's struggle and quest for peace in this second journal of hers that I have read.
Dec 16, 2008 Michaela rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir
This is one of the first books I've read in a while that has let me cry - written beautifully, conveying emotions honestly and truthfully. I love L'Engle's autobiographical works. They make me feel a little bit "normal", and inspire me remarkably - to write, to read, even to do my homework!
Deborah Duke
Jul 12, 2012 Deborah Duke rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: becpl, nonfiction
I found this to be an easier read than A Circle of Quiet. In it we learn about L'Engle's childhood, about her mother's early years, and about her mother's family. It is really quite interesting. All of this is recorded in a contemplative style. The book is set during L'Engle's final summer with her mother, and it is obviously a bit sad at times, but never overly sentimental.

Quotes I liked:

"There is little character or loveliness in the face of someone who has avoided suffering, shunned risk, re
Melinda Ross
This book is the 2nd in a 4 or 5 part series. I only read this one for book group. I might have benefited by reading the first, only because my biggest complaint about the book is that the author refers to people at times and expects you to know who she is talking about. I am going to assume she introduces those people to us in the first book. Other than that, I think it is a fairly good stand alone book.

The book deals with the real life feelings and struggles of watching a parent enter a secon
Jennifer Boyer
Feb 19, 2014 Jennifer Boyer rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I read this during June and July 2013, as my grandmother was dying. The impact her sudden illness and death had on our family was (and still is) shocking and brutal, and this book helped tremendously. Through L'Engle's description of her own mother's decline at the end of her life, I could see that some of what was happening is just part of the process of letting go.

It is, of course, beautifully written, but it is not overly sentimental. Or at least, it wasn't a tearjerker. It was a perfect thi
Pam Kennedy
Feb 22, 2014 Pam Kennedy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This book caught my eye today as I browsed the eclectic collection of new and used books at Green Mountain Books in Lyndon, Vermont. I was introduced to L'Engle's non-fiction by my friend, Carol, who lent me Tow Part Invention, a wonderful portrait of a marriage. This book is supposed to address aging, a topic that both intrigues and repels me as I make my way through my sixties and towards the next chapter of my life.
Sep 01, 2012 ladydusk rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition

Much to consider. What is the essence of a person, the ousia? A wonderful follow-up to A Circle of Quiet. L'Engle wrestles with life, death, identity, and the soul.

I particularly loved the section of her mother's ancestry and the stories of the people in her family tree. I loved their informal education.
Mar 29, 2013 Mimi rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-2013
While I didn't find this as strong as her other non-fiction, I really enjoyed her account of taking care of her mother in her last days. She openly discusses the grieving process, including the memories that flood you during this time. The mid-section is these memories, which is not as interesting as the beginning and end, hence the three star review.
Highly recommended, however.
Apryl Anderson
Sweet, nostalgic and very autobiographical. I love the way L'Engle finds the common thread that runs through the generations of her family--and I'm dead jealous that her ancestors stories weren't some deep, dark embarrassing secret. This inspires me to delve into my genealogical closet…
Jul 10, 2015 Melissa rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Marian Beaman
Nov 12, 2016 Marian Beaman rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
The Summer of the Great-Grandmother, Book Two in Madeleine L’Engle’s Crosswicks Journal Series, is a must-read for all caretakers, especially those who support the needs of parents who have Alzheimer’s disease. Crosswicks is the rambling country house harboring four generations where the author has brought her ninety-year-old mother to spend her dwindling days during a 1970s summer. About the awkwardness of assuming the senior role, L’Engle writes: “The pattern has shifted; we have changed place ...more
Jan 02, 2017 KadyWrites rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I prefer to read these journal books of L'Engle's slowly, a chapter a day or so, to let her words sink in and to mull around in the back of my brain. I do this because she has a unique gift to get to the essence of things, people, and periods of life, she finds the ousia and shares it with her readers. That gift was especially important with this book as she shares about the process of her mother aging and dying.

As part of the millennial generation it was incredibly beautiful to see the family
Christy Baker
I think of this as a quiet book, contemplative in nature. This reminiscence of Madeline L'Engle's is a tribute to her mother the last summer of her mother's life, but encompasses much of the tender challenges, reflections and memory as we accompany any loved one at the end of living into a time of crossing over. The self doubts, the snippets of story and ancestral history, the acknowledgment of simple blessings and meaning-making touched my heart as I watch my own parents' age and know this is n ...more
Nov 12, 2016 L rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a book for a Spring 2017 Brite Pastoral Care course. A lovely memoir/tribute to Madeleine L'Engle's mother's last summer...poignant and sad, but also endearing...brought back memories of my own Mom. From the publisher: This journal offers a loving and poignant portrait of L'Engle's mother in old age that is more about living than dying.
Feb 22, 2017 Tina rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir, 2017-read
The description of the book is the reason I chose the book to read: This journal offers a loving and poignant portrait of L'Engle's mother in old age that is more about living than dying. The book is not as much about her mother's life in old age as I expected - L'Engle wrote about her entire life.
Natalie Waddell-Rutter
This one didn’t speak to me as strongly as A Circle of Quiet, but I think it’s just because I’m not at this stage in my life. I want to recommend the book to my mother-in-law, whose mother is living with her and slowly going senile, but it may hit too close to home. The structure of the book was interesting, starting in the present and moving farther and farther into the past. It also made the lives described increasingly different from what I’ve experienced. Even L’Engle’s life, traveling to va ...more
Jan 02, 2017 David rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I think this one worked more consistently for me than the first book in the series. It didn't hit some of the same peak heights, but it also didn't have as many sections that disappointed me. I think having a more core subject to hang things on helped here, though that also wasn't as personally significant for me as some of the territory of the other book. I guess I'll just settle on this one being pretty decent and leave it at that.
Apr 11, 2009 Mikejencostanzo rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: reviewed
It is books like The Summer of the Great-Grandmother that help me to remember my passion for touching the past. Books like this that capture a bit of the wonder that I literally teeter on the edge of as I sit and listen to my own Grandmothers tell of their lives. With each of my four Grandmothers, I have talked & listened at great length. Two have now died. One, I have had the distinct pleasure of helping to finish her own memoirs. The fourth, I long to know better. I can relate to author Ma ...more
L'Engle's memoir of the summer her 90-year-old mother took a steep decline into dementia (and ultimately passed away). I reacted to this book on three different and almost entirely separate levels:

1. It is impossible for me to talk about this book without mentioning the fact that my 89-year-old grandmother is currently undergoing a similar (but slower) decline. Some parts were eerily, almost uncomfortably familiar -- both the ways her mother is affected by her dementia and L'Engle's reactions to
Literary Mama
From "Now Reading" by Literary Mama staff:

Only a month after moving back to my home state of Georgia, I was excited to be able to attend the Decatur Book Festival, the largest independent book festival in the US. As a volunteer at this great event, I was given the opportunity to select books from a used book tent for free! I happily snagged A Lost Lady, Willa Cather's novel about an unconventional woman, Home Economics, Wendell Berry's collection of essays on our stewardship responsibility, and
Jun 04, 2013 Jennifer rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction
If anything, this memoir reveals the importance of story. And not just the story of an individual but stories that make up the self on a genetic level. In other words, my life story couldn't have happened without the stories of my mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and so on. I embody many characteristics of these great women in my life. Perhaps knowing the stories of these women would enhance those wonderful qualities within myself. Fore, to know where and whom you come from is a powerful ...more
Miss Clark
"Mado died a year before I was born, and yet I feel that I have always known her, the stories about her are so vivid. I have never heard her name mentioned by anybody in our enormous Southern clan without its evoking a smile. There have been several Montague - Capulet schisms in my mother's family, but I have never heard an unloving word about Mado."

Part memoir, part remembrance and entirely a story. About her childhood and her relationship with her parents. About how she viewed her parents and
Nov 28, 2016 Josh rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoirs
Like the first Crosswicks book, this one provides a warm, candid, and thoughtful entry into the private life of L'Engle and her family-- but where that volume was fairly rollicking and free-wheeling in its reflections on faith, art, and mystery, this one is quite a bit more structured. It's divided into four sections-- the first, an aching diary-entry account of caring for a loved one in the final days of dementia; the second and third, attempts to remember that loved one's history, and the hist ...more
I think I've read this three or four times. I know I read it around Easter in 1993, and it wasn't new to me then.
I re-read it last when my grandmother was dying, and I finished it on the plane coming home from her funeral. There are times when you need an old familiar book, when you know what it has to say to you is exactly right. This was one of those times.
Not only does Madeleine discuss the rapid deterioration of her mother (who was ill with senility due to atherosclerosis -- some similaritie
Jul 08, 2013 David rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A great book that everyone with aging adults, or with elderly parents who have recently passed, should read. The book is written during the final summer of L'Engle's mother's life, detailing her decline into senility and death. As in The Circle of Quiet, there are four generations of the family living in the L'Engle household. In this, the second of the Crosswick's Journal, the dignity of the elderly is affirmed. At the same time all the problems, frustrations, guilt and pain of watching her mot ...more
Jul 31, 2009 Karen rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I LOVED the first Crosswicks Journal (Circle of Quiet), in this second journal Madeleine shares the last summer she took caring for her dying mother. The writing is beautiful, but the topic did not touch me like the first journal did. There were wonderful thought provoking passages though, like this one:

Perfectionism is imprisoning. As long as I demand it, in myself or anybody else, I am not free and all my life I've believed that freedom is important, that, despite all our misuse and abuse of i
Jun 05, 2012 Brenda rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir
The second of Madeleine L'Engle's Crosswicks memoirs tells the story of her last summer with her mother, who is dying of what she calls atherosclerosis, but sounds like Alzheimer's. (It was the 70s - I'm not sure how much they knew about Alzheimer's then.) To combat her mother's loss of memory and awareness, L'Engle recounts her own memories of her mother and what she knows about her early life and family background. In between the flashbacks, she reflects on her struggle to deal with her mother ...more
Bronwen Newcott
May 05, 2008 Bronwen Newcott rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is the second book in the series of of Madeleine L'Engle's journals. As usual, L'Engle is thoughtful and aptly captures complexities of reality: Here, describing the summer that her rapidly aging mother dies, L'Engle allows the sadness, ambiguity, tensions, guilt, discomfort, confusion and relief to surface and co-exist. She spends more time in this book than in others I've read documenting family history and telling family stories. Though I enjoyed most of the background (and was impressed ...more
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Madeleine L'Engle was an American writer best known for her Young Adult fiction, particularly the Newbery Medal-winning A Wrinkle in Time and its sequels A Wind in the Door, A Swiftly Tilting Planet, and Many Waters. Her works reflect her strong interest in modern science: tesseracts, for example, are featured prominently in A Wrinkle in Time, mitochondrial DNA in A Wind in the Door, organ regener ...more
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Other Books in the Series

Crosswicks Journals (4 books)
  • A Circle of Quiet (Crosswicks Journals #1)
  • The Irrational Season (Crosswicks Journals, #3)
  • Two-Part Invention: The Story of a Marriage (The Crosswicks Journal, #4)

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“I used to feel guilty about spending morning hours working on a book; about fleeing to the brook in the afternoon. It took several summers of being totally frazzled by September to make me realize that this was a false guilt. I'm much more use to family and friends when I'm not physically and spiritually depleted than when I spend my energies as though they were unlimited. They are not. The time at the typewriter and the time at the brook refresh me and put me into a more workable perspective.” 17 likes
“It's a very American trait, this wanting people to think well of us. It's a young want, and I am ashamed of it in myself. I am not always a good daughter, even though my lacks are in areas different from her complaints. Haven't I learned yet that the desire to be perfect is always disastrous and, at the least, loses me in the mire of false guilt?” 17 likes
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