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Dead to You
by
Lisa McMann (Goodreads Author)
Some memories are better left untouched.
Ethan was abducted from his front yard when he was just seven years old. Now, at sixteen, he has returned to his family.
It's a miracle... at first.
Then the tensions start to build. His reintroduction to his old life isn't going smoothly, and his family is tearing apart all over again. If only Ethan could remember something, anything,...more
Ethan was abducted from his front yard when he was just seven years old. Now, at sixteen, he has returned to his family.
It's a miracle... at first.
Then the tensions start to build. His reintroduction to his old life isn't going smoothly, and his family is tearing apart all over again. If only Ethan could remember something, anything,...more
Hardcover, 243 pages
Published
February 7th 2012
by Simon Pulse
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Ethan was abducted at the age of 7 and was raised by a woman who abandoned him years later. At 16 years old, he is reunited with his real parents, younger brother Blake and his sister Gracie who was born after Ethan was kidnapped. The book shows the family's struggle with each other as Ethan re-enters their lives without remembering his past.
I enjoyed the beginning of this book which seemed so promising. I felt real bad for Ethan and all that he went through. The family's feelings and reaction s...more
I enjoyed the beginning of this book which seemed so promising. I felt real bad for Ethan and all that he went through. The family's feelings and reaction s...more
Family will always be there. Through thick or thin, good times, hard times, and harder times. Right? But how can a family’s faith, hope, and trust survive in the face of excruciating uncertainty and pain?
In Lisa McMann’s Dead to You the DeWilde family’s world is altered forever when seven year old Ethan is kidnapped from right outside their home. Now nine years later, Ethan has been found and returned to his home and family, but can a broken family torn apart for so long really be healed? Memori...more
In Lisa McMann’s Dead to You the DeWilde family’s world is altered forever when seven year old Ethan is kidnapped from right outside their home. Now nine years later, Ethan has been found and returned to his home and family, but can a broken family torn apart for so long really be healed? Memori...more
Mindfuck.
That's the first word that comes to mind after finishing Lisa McMann's DEAD TO YOU, because damn, you guys. This book was one helluva ride.
The plot and premise was absolutely stunning. Sixteen-year old Ethan, abducted at the age of seven, has finally returned to his family. It should be a time of rejoicing and glee, but there are secrets and memories that Ethan can't unlock, and it will rip his whole family apart.
I've always been interested in kidnappings, serial murders, and those fas...more
That's the first word that comes to mind after finishing Lisa McMann's DEAD TO YOU, because damn, you guys. This book was one helluva ride.
The plot and premise was absolutely stunning. Sixteen-year old Ethan, abducted at the age of seven, has finally returned to his family. It should be a time of rejoicing and glee, but there are secrets and memories that Ethan can't unlock, and it will rip his whole family apart.
I've always been interested in kidnappings, serial murders, and those fas...more
"Brimming with intrigue and mystery, readers will be sucked into Lisa McMann's latest and best novel to date. Be sure you have a free schedule! You won't be able to stop reading until it's done!"
There's a certain point when a book crosses from a great book to The Book. The Book made by the angels of Heaven and delivered by Jesus himself to an author. It's blessed, it's magical, it's everything a book needs to be and more. Dead To You by Lisa McMann was delivered Priority Mail from God himself. H...more
There's a certain point when a book crosses from a great book to The Book. The Book made by the angels of Heaven and delivered by Jesus himself to an author. It's blessed, it's magical, it's everything a book needs to be and more. Dead To You by Lisa McMann was delivered Priority Mail from God himself. H...more
WHAT JUST HAPPENED?!?!?!?!?
no really, did that just happen?!?!?!?!?!
Watch out Spoilers probably ahead...
I'll get to that wtf moment in a bit, I guess I should start from the beginning...
So basically this 7 year old kid, Ethan was abducted from his family. It has been 9 years and they get the call that Ethan has been found. He is coming home. This poor kid lived with his "abducter" Ellen for a while and then she decided to dump him of at a kids' home in some bum-fu@! town where there are "no ques...more
no really, did that just happen?!?!?!?!?!
Watch out Spoilers probably ahead...
I'll get to that wtf moment in a bit, I guess I should start from the beginning...
So basically this 7 year old kid, Ethan was abducted from his family. It has been 9 years and they get the call that Ethan has been found. He is coming home. This poor kid lived with his "abducter" Ellen for a while and then she decided to dump him of at a kids' home in some bum-fu@! town where there are "no ques...more
Many thanks to Terri (Tymfos) for recommending this excellent book. It was difficult to put down once I began to read the first page.
Abducted at seven, Ethan miraculously locates his biological parents when he is 16 years old. With his family, a small town community celebrates his return. Finding a lapse in memories and a difficult adjustment to "normalcy" after years of abuse, neglect, homelessness and abandonment, Ethan struggles to belong.
Desperately wanting to fit in, to belong, to be loved,...more
Abducted at seven, Ethan miraculously locates his biological parents when he is 16 years old. With his family, a small town community celebrates his return. Finding a lapse in memories and a difficult adjustment to "normalcy" after years of abuse, neglect, homelessness and abandonment, Ethan struggles to belong.
Desperately wanting to fit in, to belong, to be loved,...more
Ethan was kidnapped when he was seven, and now, after living with a prostitute who abandoned him to a group home and living on the streets, he has found his real family. Unfortunately, he still can't remember anything from before he was seven. As the Dewildes try to incorporate him into their family, he deals with the media attention, the feelings of connection to his kidnapper, and his younger brother Blake, who dislikes Ethan from the start.
This story reminded me of The Face on the Milk Carton...more
This story reminded me of The Face on the Milk Carton...more
The basis of this story made me remember a movie that I watched, The Deep End of the Ocean. We meet Ethan who is meeting his family for the first time after 9 years. He was kidnapped at age 7 when a car pulled up next to him and his little brother Blake. He got in the car and lived his childhood with Ellen. After Ellen dumps him at an orphanage he seeks out his own family and finds them.
With the synopsis being as vague as it could be I couldn't help but devour this book in one sitting. This book...more
With the synopsis being as vague as it could be I couldn't help but devour this book in one sitting. This book...more
I've tried to read Wake by Lisa McMann, but I just couldn't get into it. So I decided to try out Dead to You instead, and I absolutely loved it.
In Dead to You, Lisa McMann presents us with a story with well-thought out characters, a dark and, in a way, frightening novel, and a writing style that hooks the reader into the story.
First, the characters. Ethan was... different for me. Yes, he was abducted when he was little, but his voice at sometimes was just so flat and bland, while other times, he...more
In Dead to You, Lisa McMann presents us with a story with well-thought out characters, a dark and, in a way, frightening novel, and a writing style that hooks the reader into the story.
First, the characters. Ethan was... different for me. Yes, he was abducted when he was little, but his voice at sometimes was just so flat and bland, while other times, he...more
This is the worst nightmare every parent could ever imagine. When your child gets abducted right in front of your house followed by years and years of searching and wondering. Wondering how he or she is, whether or not he's alive...is he eating good? Where is he?
Ethan Manuel De Wilde got abducted when he was seven. Nine years later, he stood facing a family that he was positive was his. It was awkward at first; after all, they're practically strangers. The adjustment was a little difficult but w...more
Ethan Manuel De Wilde got abducted when he was seven. Nine years later, he stood facing a family that he was positive was his. It was awkward at first; after all, they're practically strangers. The adjustment was a little difficult but w...more
Whoa! WHOA!WHOA! Back this thing up so I can wrap my head around what in the heck just happened.
I love McMann's writing style, always very sparse and immediate, compelling to read. Characters that are clearly drawn and effectively engaging, pulling you into the story.
This is going to be very brief because I don't want to have any spoilers.
Great read. Sad.
BUT WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?
I love McMann's writing style, always very sparse and immediate, compelling to read. Characters that are clearly drawn and effectively engaging, pulling you into the story.
This is going to be very brief because I don't want to have any spoilers.
Great read. Sad.
BUT WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?
Wow, what an amazing story! I was sucked in from the very first page and could not put down the book. I oftened wondered what happens if a child is reunited with their family after years of abduction. Lisa really hit this one out of the park. I felt so sorry for all parties involved because we know how difficult it is for the familes who lost a loved one but, we don't stop to think about the effects and how hard it is for the child to be reaquanted with their family. As always, Lisa throws in a...more
I devoured this book in only a few short hours. Seriously, it took me two hours to read this book it was THAT good! It helped that the chapters were short and it was a naturally fast read but I could not put this one down for a minute!
Ethan was 7 when he was abducted from his yard in front of his little brother Blake. For 9 years, his parents and the small town he was from has held out hope that he will return. As the story begins, Ethan is 16 and waiting to be reunited with his parents, his li...more
Ethan was 7 when he was abducted from his yard in front of his little brother Blake. For 9 years, his parents and the small town he was from has held out hope that he will return. As the story begins, Ethan is 16 and waiting to be reunited with his parents, his li...more
I just love Lisa Mc Mann. It's her voice, I think, that appeals to me so much. I would put this one above Crash and below Cryer's Cross as my favorite. I thought the story was a little unrealistic (I am trying SO hard to stay away from spoilers) and I blame the adult characters for not doing what they needed to do to prevent what happens in the big, surprise ending. I got stuck on the idea of the system and checks and balances that are in place to prevent stuff like this from happening....and th...more
My Thoughts: Let me just take a second here to totally appreciate the cover of this novel. I adore it. I went to the bookstore with no intention to buy this particular book. The cover pulled me in though, and I'm sure glad that it did. This book was unique to say the least. I haven't read anything like this before. Have you ever been completely mind screwed by a book? Yeah, well I think it suffices to say that Lisa McMann has successfully mind screwed me. Starting the book, I really didn't know...more
This book was weird, and I didn't like the way it ended. I felt there should've been more. Ethan has been missing since he was 7 yrs. old. Playing on the sidewalk outside w/ his 4 yr. old brother Blake, he gets into a car with a stranger and is never seen again. Until at 16 yrs. old, he comes back. He tells everyone he was living with a woman he names Eleanor, and that she just wanted a kid. He really doesn't remember his life before being abducted. Eleanor dropped him off in Nebraska a couple y...more
Review by Ashley
Ethan Manuel De Wilde: a child stolen at the age of seven, torn away from his family and friends, considered dead to the world. He spent his young life wandering the streets for his real family; on a computer at the library he stumbles across a missing person site. The novel hooks you when Ethan reunites with his family. From being the face on the milk carton, he became the survivor, a hero. As reader I realize there is hope, even in the cruelest of realities that people have exp...more
Ethan Manuel De Wilde: a child stolen at the age of seven, torn away from his family and friends, considered dead to the world. He spent his young life wandering the streets for his real family; on a computer at the library he stumbles across a missing person site. The novel hooks you when Ethan reunites with his family. From being the face on the milk carton, he became the survivor, a hero. As reader I realize there is hope, even in the cruelest of realities that people have exp...more
Nine years ago, Ethan was abducted by two men in a black car. He was only seven years old and his little brother, Blake, saw Ethan jump into the car. Nine years have passed and Ethan has no memory of his real family except for the pictures that he feels attached to. After finding his family, Ethan must take back what is his and resume of life of normalcy. However, the house, the people, the memories are nothing but blank canvases? Why can't he remember the fun times he had with his parents? How...more
Why You Must Read This:
Plot. We hear about abducted children all the time. But what happens when one returns to his family after several years? How does that person find a place in a family who has learned to go on, even if they're broken? Straight from the victim, McMann chronicles the hardships of re-establishing a place in a foreign world.
Nice flow. I'm usually obsessed with finding quotes, but this read so smoothly that I was completely absorbed in the story and forgot to look for them....more
Plot. We hear about abducted children all the time. But what happens when one returns to his family after several years? How does that person find a place in a family who has learned to go on, even if they're broken? Straight from the victim, McMann chronicles the hardships of re-establishing a place in a foreign world.
Nice flow. I'm usually obsessed with finding quotes, but this read so smoothly that I was completely absorbed in the story and forgot to look for them....more
"Dead To You" has probably the most unlikable main character I have ever met. Ethan is a selfish, idiotic, rude, pissy, temper-tantrum throwing moron who doesn't appreciate the good things that are happening to him and only focuses on the bad.
"But he's a teenager, right, and on top of that, someone who's been through some pretty terrible times." All right, I dare you. Try liking this character. Just try. Ethan never gives us one good character trait to make us invested in the story, never does o...more
"But he's a teenager, right, and on top of that, someone who's been through some pretty terrible times." All right, I dare you. Try liking this character. Just try. Ethan never gives us one good character trait to make us invested in the story, never does o...more
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I just picked this up for a group read, my pick for this author because it looked like it had the least amount of dumb drama from the rest of her books. I think I just really don't care for youth drama, because honestly it's the worst book I've read in months. It would have been fine if it hadn't had the semi-predictable ending with absolutely no resolution. It's like she wanted a big "shazaam, didn't see THAT coming, did you?" ending, but didn't really want to develop her characters and actuall...more
After reading the book, Dead To You by Lisa McMann, about a boy who was abducted when he was only 6 years old and returns to his family at age 16. But as the days do by, adjusting to his new life is very hard especially when you have little brother who is starting to believe that Ethan is not his real brother.
Reading this novel makes me infer that the theme of this passage is the disturbed humanity. As you read into this novel, you'll think that Ethan would at least remember anything from his ch...more
Reading this novel makes me infer that the theme of this passage is the disturbed humanity. As you read into this novel, you'll think that Ethan would at least remember anything from his ch...more
Reason for Reading: I'm reading all of the author's work.
This is a short book with short, quick chapters. The writing is sparse but hard-hitting and to the point. The book is emotional, especially from a parent's point of view. Tough to read at times with gut-wrenching emotion for all characters concerned. Yet Ethan and his new little sister, 6-year-old Gracie are the ones who hit your heartstrings and it is poor Blake, the now middle-schooler, the child left behind when the abduction happened t...more
This is a short book with short, quick chapters. The writing is sparse but hard-hitting and to the point. The book is emotional, especially from a parent's point of view. Tough to read at times with gut-wrenching emotion for all characters concerned. Yet Ethan and his new little sister, 6-year-old Gracie are the ones who hit your heartstrings and it is poor Blake, the now middle-schooler, the child left behind when the abduction happened t...more
This book started off pretty well; there was a good plot, and one felt the emotions of Ethan's character. Truthfully, though, the entire book expect for the last chapter was a story about a young adult's transition into his new life. The last chapter broke me heart due to its abruptness and subtleness. The author either got sick of writing and just needed an ending or had the ending planned out way before the story and couldn't get a suspenseful story going. My friend and I had to read this stor...more
Oct 18, 2012
Jamala Alkeshi
added it
This book was gripping from the beginning to the very end. One of the things that kept it so alive is the extremely short chapters, sometimes the chapters were just two pages, this enhanced my experience of the book from one day in the story to the next or from moment to moment. The way the story is told is very interesting, there is a lot of the story that we experience simply through Ethans thoughts, which enhances his character development. Throughout the whole novel there is mystery, in the...more
How do I keep ending up with these books about terrible things happening to kids? It is a subject I really prefer to avoid, but somehow, here I go again.
Ethan Manuel De Wilde was taken from his front yard when he was seven years old. Now, nine years later, he actually shows up again, having called Child Protective Services to help him get back to his family in Minnesota.
His reunion with his family is not smooth. His brother Blake, who was four when Ethan was taken, hates him: he is still mad tha...more
Ethan Manuel De Wilde was taken from his front yard when he was seven years old. Now, nine years later, he actually shows up again, having called Child Protective Services to help him get back to his family in Minnesota.
His reunion with his family is not smooth. His brother Blake, who was four when Ethan was taken, hates him: he is still mad tha...more
Lisa McMann is an author that I recently discovered. While I loved the Wake Trilogy, I wanted to see more from her, especially a contemporary YA without the paranormal or psychic themes of her other works.
This was a very interesting book. I found myself racing to get to the end and figure out what was going on. When I did reach the end, it felt like I had just reached the climax, and then the end came immediately after. While some other reviewers wish that there was more, I felt like it was a l...more
This was a very interesting book. I found myself racing to get to the end and figure out what was going on. When I did reach the end, it felt like I had just reached the climax, and then the end came immediately after. While some other reviewers wish that there was more, I felt like it was a l...more
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Lisa McMann lives and writes in the Phoenix area. Her books include the NYT bestselling paranormal WAKE trilogy, CRYER'S CROSS, DEAD TO YOU, and the dystopian fantasy series beginning with THE UNWANTEDS. (Book 2, Unwanteds: ISLAND OF SILENCE, comes out Sept 4, 2012).
You can find more info at Lisa'a website, lisamcmann.com, interact with her on Facebook or Twitter, or ask questions and find answer...more
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