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4.1  ·  Rating Details ·  1,892 Ratings  ·  232 Reviews
Beautiful, fragile Dina Reich, a young woman in Jerusalem's ultra-Orthodox haredi enclave, stands accused of the community's most unforgivable sin: adultery. Raised with her sisters to be an obedient daughter and a dutiful wife, Dina secretly yearned for the knowledge, romance, and excitement that she knew her circumscribed life would never satisfy. When her first romance ...more
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Published September 15th 2009 by St. Martin's Griffin (first published 1992)
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Kressel Housman
Jun 03, 2008 Kressel Housman rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: nobody
Shelves: fiction, jewish
I admit that this is an absorbing story, but it's a slanderous portrayal of Ultra-Orthodox Jews. I'm a Hasidic Jew who's living the life, and I can tell you that dating couples are allowed to fall in love, even though they're set up by matchmakers. Husbands are not totally clueless about how women think and regularly talk Torah with their wives. And most of all, the heroine's deportation to America simply would not happen. Naomi Ragen may be a talented writer, but I'll never read anything of her ...more
Jennifer S. Brown
Feb 02, 2008 Jennifer S. Brown rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: jewish-books
A sotah is a woman accused of adultery and this story is about three sisters in the haredi world of Israel as they are matched off in marriage. The middle daughter is the main character and the one "sotah" refers to. I'm interested enough in the subject matter (the haredi world; not adultery) that I was willing to overlook the choppy writing and lack of depth in the characters. But the ending was so ridiculous and so facile that I actually felt angry at the book for not being better. The charact ...more
Sep 02, 2008 Sharon rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Sharon by: Kristin
Loved this book. Another great suggestion from Kristin. This was a very interesting glimpse into the ultra-orthodox world of the Haredim in modern Jerusalem. I found their lifestyle both fascinating and horrible at the same time. Arranged marriages are still common and accepted and the inequality between the sexes is appaling; and yet, there was something that drew you in to that lifestyle and its quiet complacency (especially when viewed from the eyes of Dina as she arrived in New York). The ch ...more
Well. Besides the obvious issues I have with the subject (that of what in our Western world feels like oppression & degradation of women) I thought this was an "okay" read. I did get tired of what I perceived as whining and wringing-of-the-hands behaviour, but again that goes back to the culture which I don't know or completely understand. (and by the way, for the record, I beleive that Western women are oppressed and degraded as well in our own culture too).

Michelle mentioned feeling closer
Sep 22, 2008 LouAnn rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I loved this book. I was amazed at the differences in culture. I liked when she was in NY and the lady she was working for cut the cord off of the TV. I almost did that when my children were younger. I learned about forgiveness and not judging people and not letting other's opinions make your decisions for you.
Nina Levine
Dina grapples with the constraints of her haredi world, an ultra Orthodox sect of Judaism. The internal tug of war pits her religious and family values and culture against deep yearnings to know more of the world. Denied a marriage for love, she agrees to marry the Judah, a wood worker of repute, and a gentle giant who is smitten with her. She honestly believes she will come to love this man, seeing something deeper in him than mere vision can reveal. The demands of the marriage and family trage ...more
Jan 27, 2011 Sadie rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
As I continue to read books about Orthodox Judiasm it would seem that I would become more accustomed to traditions, ceremonies, customs, etc... I do not. I continue to be startled by cruel behaviors. Adultry is never to be tampered with in any religion but I was glad to see Diana battle for her rights and end up with what seems an acceptable life for her. I was saddend by the outcome of Joan's friendship in Diana's life but as it was pointed out it was probably for the best.
Nov 12, 2008 Amy rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I enjoyed the view of haredi life in this book, but the writing felt shallow and the plot overly-contrived to fit a too-sunshiney view of Orthodox Judaism. Finishing Sotah was like leaving a Sunday School class where a very well-meaning teacher came up with an illustrative story that was equal parts "lesson" and "warm fuzzy" but did not really grasp the meaning that it intended.
Oct 05, 2010 Jensa rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A very interesting and educational look into the Jewish culture. The story telling was fantastic and I finished with a feeling of enlightenment. I love books that remind me that other worlds exist outside my little sphere.
Feb 03, 2015 Kelsey rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: pleasant-reads
This book was interesting, and enjoyable. My only complaint was that the main character was kind of exhausting. One moment she'd be as happy as a clam, the next her thoughts ravaged with guilt. It made for an interesting story, but it was a constant back and forth that was a little tiresome.
Feb 26, 2010 Sara rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: bookclub
Though the window into the world of this sect of Judaism was interesting, I though the characters where shallowly drawn, and the ending just silly & bodice ripper-like.
Judy Bullard
Aug 22, 2013 Judy Bullard rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Jewish family/customs, etc. A very good read. A great insight into Jewish society and culture.
Jan 29, 2017 Chloe rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is a special audience. I happen to be a part. Ragen writes well and her insights are excellence. If this is not o yur interest though - I don't think it would appeal. But for skill and characters and story lines - it was very very good
Jan 30, 2017 JoAnna rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Darn it, don't remember anything specific but will follow my instinct that I did enjoy it and it was good.
Blimi Marcus
While I found this to be a page-turner, it was annoying to read such an inaccurate depiction of ultra orthodox Jewish life. I found the characters too innocent, too unquestioning, too "pure." Their husbands were all too kind and helpful. My favorite character was Rabbi Reich. I like to believe that such gentle men exist.
This one is about an Orthodox Jewish woman living in Jerusalem struggling to make sense of the world she lives in. She struggles to make the reality of the world fit the fantasy image she’s always been told the world is. The girl in this book is told to deny herself of everything she’s ever felt or wanted out of life. She’s told to form herself into a perfect model of everyone else and her individuality is not encouraged. She is told that this is the only way to show her devotion to her religion ...more
May 12, 2010 Kristen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: novel, 2010
Consider this a 4.5

From the book jacket:

"Sotah is the story of beautiful, fragile Dina Reich, a young woman in Jerusalem's ultra religious haredi enclave who is accused of the community's most unforgivable sin: adultery. Although Dina was brought up to be an obedient daughter and dutiful wife, she has yearnings -- for knowledge, for romance, for excitement -- that she knows her life will never satisfy. In her willing, but arranged marriage, Dina finds these deeply repressed passions increasingly
Mar 31, 2011 Jenny rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
The first few hundred pages were magnificent. I loved the rich imagery--both of Jerusalem (which I, myself, have visited on two occasions and love with a depth beyond description) and the customs of the Ultra-Orthodox Jews living there. People who add an undefinable magic to the city and make it what it is. I am the very most Reform Jew possible but I have the utmost respect for those who devote their lives to study and prayer.

This novel portrayed the characters' beliefs not just from the perspe
Sep 17, 2012 Lani rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Hmm. This isn't quite trashy enough to be 'romance', but is definitely poorly written chicklit. But! It is about a culture I'm not familiar with, and I am a sucker, so I read it and enjoyed it. Despite the often ham-fisted writing and embarrassingly cliched characters.

I read some other reviews that were really angry about the portrayal of Orthodox Jews, but I wasn't left with a negative feeling about the culture. I don't know enough about Judaism, let alone this particular side of it to judge th
Aug 12, 2013 Heather rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is a 4+ star book for me. It could have been a 5 star, but it fell a bit short for me.
First off, I would like to say that this author is AMAZING. Her writing just sucked me in and kept me hooked. I felt like I was really there in Jerusalem living the life of this family. I learned so much about this religion and community. It was fascinating to see the similarities and differences between their religious beliefs and my own LDS Christian beliefs. Their struggle felt real to me.
This author wa
Jun 09, 2008 Lauren rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This book was pretty interesting. I picked it up because I wanted to learn more about the life of ultra-orthodox Jewish women. Although I am Jewish, their lives could not be more different from mine. Naomi Ragen, the author, is Orthodox herself and seemed very knowledgeable about the community.

The book centers on Dinah, the second daughter of a family of modest means. In the ultra-orthodox community, girls' go through arranged marriages in their late teens. The best "catches" among the men are
Jul 11, 2013 Shannon rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: book-club
I very much enjoyed this story. The characters, though at times simple, caught my attention and I often found myself wondering what would happen in the book as I went about my day. But one must remember that this is a story. Elements are created. Truths are exaggerated. This is a work of fiction by someone who does not live this way. I feel that the author was not using orthodox Judaism to demean the belief system, but to make a point about religion in general concerning gopsel versus personal d ...more
Jan 11, 2011 Julie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: drama
This book might become one of my top ten favorites books. It was a perfect book. One I will be thinking about for a few days, one I can actually bring up topics to discuss with my husband. (And book club members-I think we should add this to next years list).

The first 150 pages were a little slow and it felt like a lesson into the Jewish Religion--which I thought I knew a least a little bit about-but I realized not that much. But then it got so I didn't want to put it down. It's one of those wh
Jun 04, 2011 Jane rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
At first, this ultra-Orthodox setting was so foreign that it felt like science fiction, but it grew on me. Many rules and customs reminded me of Grandma Sara, who asked her grandfather why he washed his hands in the bowl for the Sabbath meal when she knew he had just washed them at the sink. "This we do to remember", he told her, reminding her that there was a time when water to wash was rare or not available at all. He also was a man who would have loved to have been able to spend all day study ...more
May 16, 2011 Michael rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Dina Reich is a beautiful young woman living in Jerusalem accused of the most unforgivable sin;adultery. She was always the gentle and fragile one in her family,and was always bonded with her close relatives. Dvorah her trusting sister has always stuck by her through the thick and thin and often confided in her about what was disturbing her peace and shared her crucial advice about marriage and life. There have been many relationships that Dina has started and not finished, because of her family ...more
Angie Taylor
Sep 05, 2011 Angie Taylor rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This was such an interesting book that explored the life of orthodox Jews in Jerusalem in the early 90's. I was fascinated by the strict way of religious every day living portrayed, and easily compared and contrasted it to my own religious upbringing. I sympathized with the girls of the family as the expected marrying age came upon them and they were married to men who they didn't really know or love, but with whom they were expected to care for, share intimacies with, and eventually bare childr ...more
Jun 02, 2012 Whitney rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This was a very interesting book in more than one way. It took a while for me to get into it, but once I did I could not put it down. My particular version was nearly 500 pages and I read it pretty much one sitting. Ragen has an amazing way of utilizing metaphors to explain some of the most complicated feelings within women and life. I admit, I do not know much about the strict orthodox Jewish way of life, yet this book did a decent job of opening up how dedicated their faith is. Despite the cul ...more
May 25, 2009 Robyn rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Oy. This book came so close to getting 2 stars from me until the last 150 pages or so. Since it took that long for this book to get good.
I don't know why I didn't put this book down after about 150-200 pages (other than I really wanted to know what happened to Dina and it wasn't SO terrible that I felt I had to stop reading). But what really irked me was that it took Ragen until about page 280 to get into the meat of what the story was about. And then gives the reader only about 150 pages to enj
Aug 24, 2008 Lisa rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I had some time this weekend to catch up on my reading and I was only too happy to let my housework suffer in the pursuit of literary advancement.I am not one of these happy-go-lucky chicks who tosses out the 5-star rating like beads at Mardi Gras.I really have to think the book was AMAZING. I was amazed by this book.
I was also amazed at my ability to fully grasp this book, since it is about Orthodox Jews in Jeruselum and I am a lapsed Catholic from Ohio.Although I do have a long-standing love f
May 28, 2010 Stephanie rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Fascinating look into the lives of an ultra-Orthodox Jewish family and community in Jerusalem. I loved how Ragen showed the beauty of their beliefs, as well as the problems (which problems seemed to be caused mainly by those who didn't fully understand their own beliefs). Fabulous character building. Dina drove me crazy because she was an accurately portrayed teenager. There were so many characters that I loved, even when they were being stupid or annoying. I did do something with this book that ...more
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Naomi Ragen is an American-born novelist and playwright who has lived in Jerusalem since 1971. She has published seven internationally best-selling novels, and is the author of a hit play. Naomi also publishes a regular column that deals with Jewish subjects, especially Israel.
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