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When Pleasing Others Is Hurting You: Finding God's Patterns for Healthy Relationships

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Christians are called to be servants. But people who forfeit their God-given calling and identity in order to please others move from servanthood to codependency. How can they get back on track? Clinical psychologist David Hawkins offers a Chris
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ebook, 240 pages
Published July 1st 2010 by Harvest House Publishers (first published March 1st 2004)
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Ershad Ganjy
I loved the book, it made perfect sense to me specially. I could really connect with the person author was describing. At the time I was going to marry my wife but my parents and friends were against it because of race. That's when I read the book and it brought me to my childhood and how right now I am seeing the effects. Made me to think and try to decide based on what I think is right to do, being respectful to others opinions but not pleasing people by doing what they want or putting their n ...more
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Synopsis from B&N: Christians are called to be servants. But people who forfeit their God-given calling and identity in order to please others move from servanthood to codependency. How can they get back on track? Clinical psychologist David Hawkins offers a Christian perspective on healthy relationships and the pitfalls of being a people pleaser\nReaders will resonate with the real-life illustrations of people who no longer know what they think, want, or feel. Suggestions for redirecting un ...more
Dalton Walker
I really liked reading this book. At first I thought that this book would be stupid because my aunt wanted me to read it because she thought I was getting hurt by one of my friends that I would hang out with. So she thought it was a good idea for me to read it. I ended up learning stuff about myself from reading this book and it really did help me. Basically what this book was about was that you were reading through another's perspective about how helping others can really hurt you. I found out ...more
Kimber
I would recommend this to anyone in a relationship or a family. It is so easy to fall into dysfunctional patterns. I like this book because the author refers to many relationship books from other authors.
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