Boys Adrift: Five Factors Driving the Growing Epidemic of Unmotivated Boys and Underachieving Young Men
by Leonard Sax
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So, before I forget all that I've learned I need to share. I read this book after Allison told me she was reading it and have now recommended it STRONGLY to many of my friends. It's a pretty quick read and makes you aware of big issues that every parent of boys should educate themselves on. These are a few of the resolutions I've made after having read this book.
First of all, I will be aware that the public school system is "feminized". Sax, the author, says it would help parents a...more
First of all, I will be aware that the public school system is "feminized". Sax, the author, says it would help parents a...more
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Read in July, 2008
Okay, now that I have finished this book, I can review it. Anyone who is a parent to boys, teaches boys or deals with boys SHOULD read this book.
Leonard Sax gives a well-researched and well-reasoned argument about the plight facing young men today.
Dr. Sax targets five factors which he considers detrimental to boys: changes in education, video games, medications for ADHD, endocrine disruptors, loss of positive role models.
The chapters about endocrine disruptors was fascinating and ...more
Leonard Sax gives a well-researched and well-reasoned argument about the plight facing young men today.
Dr. Sax targets five factors which he considers detrimental to boys: changes in education, video games, medications for ADHD, endocrine disruptors, loss of positive role models.
The chapters about endocrine disruptors was fascinating and ...more
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Read in March, 2008
Sax, an M.D. and PHD in psychology addresses the very real problem of boys and their underachievement. In a well-researched highly readable format Sax makes the case that video games (according to brain scans they can cause promote overaggression adn laziness in certain regions of the brain besides causing the usual disengagement from reality), recent teaching methods (teaching children to read and write too soon-especially boys who lag behind girls in this area anyway-, not enough competitiven...more
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Read in December, 2007
This book was so fascinating and such a quick read! Even though some of his arguments/recommendations are a little questionable at first, I found them to be overwhelmingly convincing and logical. Like most sociological books I've read it made me a little frustrated because there's really not much we can do to stop these widespread cultural movements, all I can do is hope to do better in my own circumstances (assuming, in this case, that I ever have the responsibility of raising one or more boys)...more
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Read in March, 2008
Adult Nonfiction. A thought-provoking book for parents and educators (and anyone else who knows an unmotivated male--and most likely you do); talks about the problem of unmotivated boys/men and explores possible causes/solutions, including the results of dozens of scientific studies that suggest the negative impact of these causes. Summary: ( 1.) we should reconsider the accelerated format of kindergarten--push that reading and writing stuff back into first grade; reconsider different learning ...more
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Read in January, 2007
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Very well written and easy to follow. Sax gives very persuasive arguments and backs up with sufficient proof the theories of video game addiction and ADHD medication. I learned new reasons for underachieving boys in reading the chapters on the change in elementary school curriculum and plastics.
I volunteer as a baseball coach, a scout master and a teacher for Sunday school. My sons and the rest of the boys fit perfectly into the age group of elementary and middle school. I know Dr Sax is rig...more
I volunteer as a baseball coach, a scout master and a teacher for Sunday school. My sons and the rest of the boys fit perfectly into the age group of elementary and middle school. I know Dr Sax is rig...more
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I am so glad I read this book while my boy was little as I think it will help us avoid some of the pitfalls facing parents and sons in today's society. I read this on the tails of "Raising Your Spirited Child," and one of my fears has been that in a traditional school setting with an overworked and underpaid teacher, I think it would be easy to label our son as "hyper." I have envisioned being advised to medicate my son--not by a healthcare professional--but by a teacher or...more
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Read in August, 2007
recommends it for:
parents of young boys
I heard this guy being interviewed on the Today Show and it sounded like he was talking about my son, so I had to get the book. Thankfully, my son isn't as bad as some of the kids that he mentions in his book, so there's hope.
I didn't feel like there were that many practical solutions in the book, but more a revelation of this situation and what some of the factors are that may be contributing to this "epidemic" of boys and young men who have no motivation or ambition. Quite hones...more
I didn't feel like there were that many practical solutions in the book, but more a revelation of this situation and what some of the factors are that may be contributing to this "epidemic" of boys and young men who have no motivation or ambition. Quite hones...more
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Read in October, 2007
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parents/teachers/educators/therapists who work with boys
This book focuses on the kind of guy who is living in his parents' basement at the age of 30, working part-time for Dominos and perfectly content for life to contine just like that. There are five factors that the author names that contribute to this phenomenon - some of which we can influence and some of which are so pervasive in our culture there's a tough battle to make any change. I really had my eyes opened and I want anyone who works with boys - especially in the schools - to read this boo...more
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Read in May, 2008
Most reviewers are so gung-ho on this one.
If this catches on, people may REALLY do something, like return kidergarten to play time.
Impressed that Finland doesn't start formal education til age SEVEN!!! And Finland reportely does quite well in international test taking. Beats USA, for sure.
Interesting the breakdown of 2 types of knowledge.
1. Kenntnis you experience it or figure it out and thereby know it vs. 2.Wissenschaft, book learning, you may need to pull this info out sometime...more
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Read in October, 2007
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Parents, teachers, any interested
Really intriguing book, with data to support author's ideas about underachieving boys. While I am not entirely convinced all the way on all his points, there certainly is a lot of common sense in his ideas as well as ideas to consider. He is, in general, a fan of single-sex education (see his previous book) and I am beginning to see more and more how his ideas in both books could apply (my son just entered middle school). Definitely worth a read.
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Read in February, 2008
Just as good as "Why Gender Matters", but focused on boys. Concise. Excellent application. Warning to other readers, this book will force you to consider significant life changes. I need to reread both and make notes.
For me, the most difficult thing to contemplate was the endocrine disruptors factor. The author says this is true for most people. The following have been helpful:
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For me, the most difficult thing to contemplate was the endocrine disruptors factor. The author says this is true for most people. The following have been helpful:
http://www.jsonline.com/story/...
http://www.jsonline.com/story/...
http://www.jsonline.com/story/......more
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Read in May, 2008
I highly reccomend this book if you are raising boys. Especially if you are raising school-age boys (even as young as Kindergarten). This author had a lot of great points and good information. I am interested in his other books. But I must say, I DO NOT agree completely with everything that he says. On the other had, there is A LOT I do agree with. For the most part, it has some very good information in it if you want to raise a healthy, happy, successful, motivated son who can live up to ...more
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Read in May, 2008
Moms of boys should read this - interesting book. Author cites 5 factors: Video games, teaching methods, adhd drugs, endocrine disorders due to plastic bottles and food sources, and the devaluation of masculinity in our society. I don't know if it's all true, but it has inspired me to get rid of the remaining plastic glasses, water bottles,etc. at home! If you know anyone considering putting their son on adhd drugs, get them to read this first!
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Read in November, 2007
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parents of boys/people who used to be boys
The hormones created by plastic are feminizing dudes, making them chubby, ADHD, and non-motivated. This book says other stuff, but this is the part that intrigues me. It sure explains a lot about why so many young men I've worked with over the years have been total slackers. I think we should start shooting up slackers with testosterone.
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This is a must-read for anyone who has kids or works with kids, especially boys. The author is a family practice doctor who also has a PhD in Psychology. Today's boys and young men seem so unmotivated compared to our father's generation and Dr. Sax makes some really good points about why that is and what we can do to correct it.
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This book is incredible! Sax presents his theories in a way that is incredibly clear and easy to follow, and then actually gives ideas of what one can do to help solve the problem. There's tons of research behind this book, and it made me rethink several things--like same-sex education--that I thought I'd made my mind up about.
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Read in January, 2008
This book confirmed some fears for me, particularly about video games. I've seen this lack of motivation problem a lot and, having a son, I'm scared. I wish there had been more information about how to fix the problems (there was some, though not enough), but just gaining some awareness of the influencing factors will help.
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Read in January, 2008
This book contains very compelling points that really apply to ALL parents raising boys in todays world. I rented a copy, but after reading it I will be buying my own to refrence and lend out when I need to. This book parallels my personal ideas, but now I have all Dr. Sax's research to justify what I always beleived.
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Read in March, 2008
A must read for teachers and for parents of boys. The book is extremely upsetting and Sax definitely has a strong opinion that is at times one-sided, but he so clearly articulated much of what I've been thinking about the teenage boys I encounter that I forgave him! He gave me much to ponder...
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