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  <title><![CDATA[The Kid: What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant]]></title>
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  <default_description>Best known for his syndicated sexual advice column, &quot;Savage Love,&quot; Dan Savage shares his own story in &lt;I&gt;The Kid&lt;/I&gt;, a hilarious account of his efforts--along with his partner--to adopt a child. (Whoops, make that his boyfriend; Savage can't stand the &quot;genderless&quot; P-word: &quot;Straight people and press organs that want to acknowledge gay relationships while at the same time pushing the two-penises stuff as far out of their minds as possible love 'partner.' I hated it.&quot;) Savage doesn't give an inch on the sexuality issue; it's hard to imagine that a homophobic reader would even pick up &lt;I&gt;The Kid&lt;/I&gt;, but if it happened, Savage's unapologetic presentation of his life would quickly scare that reader off. Which isn't to say that he paints a rosy picture of homosexual cohabitation: the very first scene finds Dan's boyfriend, Terry, locking himself in the bathroom after a fight over the music on the car stereo. The misadventures continue through each step of the open-adoption process, in which Dan and Terry get to know their baby's birth mother, and the first few weeks of parenthood. &lt;I&gt;The Kid&lt;/I&gt; is a wonderful, charming account of real &quot;family values&quot; that proves love knows no limits. </default_description>
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  <read_at>Sat Apr 26 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[As a huge supporter of gay adoption/gay rights in general, this book instantly appealed. Honestly, I enjoy that feeling of smugness I get from reading something I agree with.<br/><br/>I think a book like this should be required reading for all the 'crazy fundies' out there. If Dan seems preachy so...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/15935618">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Dec 04 16:43:44 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Jan 06 15:28:02 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Non-Fiction. Dan Savage and his boyfriend decide to adopt a kid, and Savage takes us through all the subsequent paperwork, counseling, doctor appointments, and freakouts.<br/><br/>Savage often comes off as blunt and uncaring in his weekly sex advice column, but this shows his tender underbelly -- ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/9950014">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <date_added>Thu Nov 08 13:58:32 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Feb 19 12:50:14 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I bought this book because I could not believe it when I saw it for sale in a town of 1200 in central Italy. I imagine that if I didn't speak English fluently, a few of the puns/wit would have been lost on me as they were literally translated into the Italian text. As luck would have it though, they...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/8849829">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="47560653">
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    <name><![CDATA[Faith]]></name>
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <read_at>Wed Feb 25 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Feb 25 21:16:17 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Feb 25 22:09:26 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[My book group read this book. I imagine it would be a 5-star book for most couples who want to adopt, especially LGBT couples and couples planning an open adoption. To me, it was less compelling, but I enjoyed it and learned from it.<br/><br/>True to form, Savage the sexual advice columnist is sav...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/47560653">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="70417468">
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    <name><![CDATA[Erin]]></name>
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  <read_at>Mon Sep 28 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Mon Sep 28 06:02:17 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was recently introduced to Dan Savage's sex advice column, which is not for the faint of heart if you're a fairly conservative person!  But what i like about Savage, a gay man with a syndicated column around the country, is how much he believes in being upfront and honest about who you are and wha...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/70417468">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="41601085">
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    <name><![CDATA[Marni]]></name>
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      <rating>5</rating>
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  <read_at>Sun Dec 28 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Jan 02 08:59:52 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Jan 02 09:07:59 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Funny and touching and a fast read.  Savage is an engaging writer, and this story grabbed me from the begining and kept me engaged the whole way through.<br/><br/>I have many gay friends and family members in my life, and in fact this was a holiday gift from one of them.  He loved it and felt that...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/41601085">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="42676604">
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    <name><![CDATA[Sarah]]></name>
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  <date_added>Sun Jan 11 09:33:30 -0800 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm a hardcore junky when it comes to &quot;This American Life&quot;, so naturally, after hearing Dan Savage on the show many times discussing his abhor for &quot;The Suite Life of Zach and Cody&quot;, I was a fan. I dove into &quot;The Kid&quot; thinking it would be a touching story about a man and...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42676604">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="45203145">
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  <read_at>Thu Mar 12 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Feb 02 18:37:43 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Mar 13 13:12:29 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I decided to read some Dan Savage after seeing him being absolutely hilarious on the Colbert Report a couple times. I wasn't disappointed.<br/>This gets three and a half stars, actually. The half I'm giving to Dan Savage because of the hilarious and not-actually-too-mean things he says about Irish ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45203145">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="50102682">
    <user id="2143983">
    <name><![CDATA[Louise]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Ontario, ON, Canada]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sun Sep 05 00:00:00 -0700 2004</read_at>
  <date_added>Sun Mar 22 16:21:22 -0700 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[A funny, humorous, memorable account of a homosexual couple who want to become parents. Together they explore different options such as co-parenting with a lesbian couple, a single lesbian woman and open adoption. The honesty with which they discuss their relationship, their decisions and their live...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50102682">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="36920684">
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    <name><![CDATA[Ciara]]></name>
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  <read_at>Thu Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[i guess the title of this book is fairly self-explanatory: it's all about sex columnist dan savage &amp; his boyfriend adopting a child together. they went through an agency which put them in contact with a young pregnant homeless gutter punk who was in a family way. the agency got her an aptment to liv...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36920684">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="76651369">
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    <name><![CDATA[Lisa]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Pittsburgh, PA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sun Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Nov 03 19:25:53 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Nov 09 04:35:21 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Dan Savage's real life tale of how he and his boyfriend Terry decide to adopt is an interesting one, and he writes it well. He, of course, takes the opportunity to delve into all the issues surrounding homosexuality and adoption and everything in between. He eloquently explains/defends it all.  If y...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/76651369">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="39791928">
    <user id="1476299">
    <name><![CDATA[Robin]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Portland, OR]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Wed Dec 10 11:21:40 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Dec 10 11:29:05 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this in one day....so it was quick and fairly entertaining.  I have seen Dan Savage on Larry King, so I was a little curious.  I have to admit that part of made it a good book was that it takes place in Seattle and Portland.  I was very familiar with all of the Portland locations....Lloyd Cen...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/39791928">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="50730041">
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  <read_at>Sun Mar 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Mon Mar 30 06:34:47 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really enjoyed this book. I picked up at work on Saturday and finished it Sunday afternoon. Dan Savage, though a touch sloppy sometimes with his prose, is very readable and entertaining and I enjoyed his account of the open adoption experience. As he does in his advice column, Savage does not hold...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50730041">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="25766058">
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    <body><![CDATA[Sweet.]]></body>
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    <review id="70259461">
    <user id="1381999">
    <name><![CDATA[David]]></name>
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  <read_at>Tue Nov 10 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A very sincere, painfully sharp, and incredibly witty account of a gay couple adopting a baby.  What impressed me most is the wonderfully creative humor Savage uses to convey very serious and somber political and ethical issues in contemporary American society.  <br/><br/>The real issues are refle...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/70259461">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was an interesting book.  It was about so very many different things that it's hard to really put my finger on the most impressive and interesting.  <br/><br/>I have to warn you, there are some extremely explicit descriptions of homosexual sexual relationshsips that, honestly, I could have do...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/21327631">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Dan can get really off-subject and preachy at times, but I think he's just used to being an advice columnist. That is, he's used to people hanging on his every word/tangent/quip. He's also used to his writing being finely edited, too, to fit into 16 inches of newsprint--and sometimes this book reads...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12082370">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[hmmm.  personally i liked 'the commitment' better.  i though it was funnier, more engaging, etc etc.  although maybe that's because from the commitment i know a lot about 'the kid' already so wasn't held in minor suspense of how events would unfold.  <br/><br/>or maybe my intense obsession with my...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/11964438">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Full disclosure: I love Dan Savage.  (If you don’t read his sex advice column, start.)  And I loved this book.<br/><br/>I actually feel like despite the fact that I am a Dan Savage Fan, I am in a position to offer a  reasonable critique for the following reason: about 2 summers ago I read “<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25083.Skipping_Towards_Gomorrah" title="Skipping Towards Gomorrah by Dan Savage">Skipping Towards Gomorrah</a>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1956329">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Mar 13 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sun Mar 15 11:22:07 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I love Dan's column and podcast. He's wildly entertaining while also being smart and sensitive. I always learn something. Needless to say I went into this book with very high expectations. I couldn't put the book down it was so interesting. And when (spoiler alert!) Dan and Terry finally walk out of...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/49344350">more...</a>]]></body>
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