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Natural Order
by
Brian Francis (Goodreads Author)
“It’s beautiful,” I said, even though it wasn’t my style. It was cut glass and silver. Something a movie star might wear. Is this what my boy thought of me? I wondered as he fastened it around my neck. He called me Elizabeth Taylor and I laughed and laughed. I wore that necklace throughout the rest of the day. In spite of its garishness, I was surprised by how I felt: glam...more
Hardcover, 384 pages
Published
August 23rd 2011
by Doubleday Canada
(first published August 2011)
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so right from the beginning of this book there is something that doesn't sit right. i can't put my finger on it. i do not know if it is something personal -or- if it is inherent in the story or the writing style. i know i have my own bias against the elderly. AND i am not a mother. does that matter? does that impact how engaging this story is to the reader? i also know i find it very curious that a young male should write first person singular - in the voice of an old woman. does it not sit righ...more
This was a lovely, stirring read about an old woman reflecting on her life, particularly her relationship with her son, who was gay and died young of AIDS, two things she is still coming to terms with. Brian Francis does an excellent job getting into the head of Joyce, who is a complex character who struggles between what she feels is right and the mores of the time (1950s-60s). He creates a sympathetic portrayal of how a woman of this era may possibly struggle with her son's sexual identity.
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This is a touching novel that explores a woman's feelings around motherhood, acceptance and regret. Joyce is in her eighties and living in a seniors' care facility. The appearance of a young man as a volunteer causes her to dig into her memories and think about the past. She thinks about the young man she had a crush on as a teenager and the sad end to his life she was told. She thinks about her own son, who died years ago, and her relationship with him. She thinks of the various times in their...more
Natural Order was a solid read. It pulled on all my emotions and captured my attention. It very much brought to mind the two years that my Mom was in extended care. It was bang on in the portrayal of daily life. The book gave me a vast picture of a persons entire life and reminded me that we are not impervious to age - it is coming to us all, and it is here already for some of those I love. It's a reminder that the person on the inside does not change, even though on the outside life ages them....more
Absolutely fantastic story, even though the old age factor got to me at times, no doubt due to the fact I just turned 72, and have worked in a long term care home for over 20 years, and today I volunteer in one.
The story is about the Mothers, specifically the Mother of John, the length she went through to make believe things were not as they really were, John was a gay man,her husband Charlie who truly loved his son, was lied to by her constantly, especially in the end when John is dying of aids...more
The story is about the Mothers, specifically the Mother of John, the length she went through to make believe things were not as they really were, John was a gay man,her husband Charlie who truly loved his son, was lied to by her constantly, especially in the end when John is dying of aids...more
I liked the writing style of this book. It was quick and drew me into the story.
I wasn't crazy about the way the story bounced around, though, about Joyce's life. I don't mind flashbacks but this was all over the place with different events in her life. Sometimes it wasn't obvious right away at what point in her life we're at.
Joyce Sparks isn't likeable at all. Just out of high school and living in a small town in Ontario, she falls in love with Freddy and is blind to the fact that he is gay. Af...more
I wasn't crazy about the way the story bounced around, though, about Joyce's life. I don't mind flashbacks but this was all over the place with different events in her life. Sometimes it wasn't obvious right away at what point in her life we're at.
Joyce Sparks isn't likeable at all. Just out of high school and living in a small town in Ontario, she falls in love with Freddy and is blind to the fact that he is gay. Af...more
Joyce Sparks lives at Chestnut Park Nursing home. She is finding it more and more to difficult to get around each day and she knows this will be the last place she lives. When Timothy, the new male volunteer, shows up in her room trying to engage her in social activities, or at the very least, in a conversation she puts up her usual “grumpy old lady” barrier. She can’t maintain it though because, darn it all, he bears such a striking resemblance to her first love, Freddy Pender.
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Joyce Sparks lived with her husband, Charles, and son, John, in Balsden, Ontario, Canada, a small town of 40,000 people. Now 86 years old, Joyce resides at the Chestnut Park nursing home and shares a room with 82 year old Ruth Schueller. Ruth can’t communicate with Joyce because she is mute. Marianne, Joyce’s niece takes care of all her finances. Marianne is Helen’s daughter, who was Joyce’s sister.
Joyce met her husband, Charlie, at the dance pavilion one summer night. He was shy and she was lon...more
Joyce met her husband, Charlie, at the dance pavilion one summer night. He was shy and she was lon...more
Brian Francis' novel is a careful and compassionate examination of what happens when love and intolerance are combined. Regret, fear, frustration, self-deception, pain... It is almost too difficult to understand the struggles of this mother (in the 1950s to the 1980s) whose son is gay. I say almost because there is still a lot of bigotry and fear against/ toward gay and lesbian people (not to mention queer or transgendered) today. I think it has been said that it is still one of the biggest insu...more
A librarian personally (and very enthusiastically) recommended this book to me, as she had just finished reading it herself. After reading the book, I can see why she over-rode the holds to give it to me!
Natural Order centres on the life of Joyce Sparks, a woman who had come of age in small-town Ontario during the 1950s and is living out the end in a retirement home. The book explores her complex relationships with the loves in her life: her high school crush and her son, respectively-- as well...more
Natural Order centres on the life of Joyce Sparks, a woman who had come of age in small-town Ontario during the 1950s and is living out the end in a retirement home. The book explores her complex relationships with the loves in her life: her high school crush and her son, respectively-- as well...more
Natural Order is the story of Joyce Sparks who lives in Balsden Ontario for her entire life. Joyce's story is compelling, very readable but also sad. And it speaks of the time that she lived in. Her teenage crush Freddy Pender wears a white suit at the head of the cheerleaders in the homecoming parade - he leaves town soon after that; even his mother cannot accept who he is. Joyce soon comes to hear that Freddy has died when he is swept off the bridge of the cruise ship he is working for. And hi...more
I won an arc of this book in a goodreads.com first reads giveaway.
3.5 stars
I really loved this story. It was sad and honest and even had a few parts that made me laugh.
Natural Order is about a mother and her son, their secrets, and the “natural order” of life. Although the secret isn’t said outright from the start, the reader understands what it is early on in the story. It’s the way it is handled and the different actions of the various characters that make this story. The story was very belie...more
3.5 stars
I really loved this story. It was sad and honest and even had a few parts that made me laugh.
Natural Order is about a mother and her son, their secrets, and the “natural order” of life. Although the secret isn’t said outright from the start, the reader understands what it is early on in the story. It’s the way it is handled and the different actions of the various characters that make this story. The story was very belie...more
Summary: Natural Order begins with Joyce in a nursing home. She's elderly and reflecting back on her life, and in particular the life of her only son who died in his 30s. The book is a collection of memories which stand out to her, and how they impacted her as she grew up.
This book makes you think, and it definitely makes you feel. It's about relationships and how we view other people, as well as how we treat them. It's about how we learn to deal with life and its difficulties.
The story was he...more
This book makes you think, and it definitely makes you feel. It's about relationships and how we view other people, as well as how we treat them. It's about how we learn to deal with life and its difficulties.
The story was he...more
I just simply loved this book! It explored the relationship between a mother and her son; the pain that both parties felt as it became clear that the son was homosexual and how each of them dealt with this reality. The mother tries so hard to shield her son and husband from the truth yet in doing this harms the husband/son relationship. The son, in turn, feels that he cannot come out of the closet to his parents and in turn, robs himself of his relationship with his parents. So, in essence, ever...more
Sep 24, 2012
Liz Leroux
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This book is a treasure, sad at times but able to touch the reader with deep emotion. I really enjoyed the insightful character development and the descriptive writing style. Highly recommend it.
A beautiful book that I keep thinking about. This is quite different from "Fruit", which was a humourous first novel. This book is a story about an 86 year old woman and her relationship with gay men. The main character, Joyce, is in a nursing home and is remembering her life. She tells many stories about a childhood crush, and about her own relationship with her son, who was gay. Joyce struggles to accept her son for who he is.
The author did a good job of showing the tension inside his main cha...more
The author did a good job of showing the tension inside his main cha...more
Joyce sparks is a old lady now. Living in a home re-living her regrets everyday in her head. Joyce sparks tried to control every apsect of her life and in the end lost it all. When an issue could not be confronted it was ignored and shoved away under a rug. What would people think of her and her son if they only new.
This book is a good read. Definatly something I would pick up but not something I would usually keep reading. Its full of a few more disappointments then I would have expected. It j...more
This book is a good read. Definatly something I would pick up but not something I would usually keep reading. Its full of a few more disappointments then I would have expected. It j...more
Apr 01, 2012
Mauberley
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A good story about a largely dislikable mother and wife. Joyce Sparks refuses to believe that her beloved son is gay. Moroeover, she cannot imagine that her husband is capable of loving that son. Joyce's cold-heartedness ultimately ruins her life and the last part of the novel describes an extraordinarily selfish quest for forgiveness and redemption. The mother, Joyce Sparks, is very well drawn but the other characters are sadly little more than shadows. I so wish we could have learned more abou...more
Humorous and heartbreaking. Dragged a little in spots. Joyce is a headstrong mother who tries to protect her son and ends up smothering him. She is looking back on her life and regrets how it turned out. Throughout the book she denies and then begins to recognize and come to terms with who her son really was. The story is juxtaposed between memories of the past and the present day.
Recommend A Better Mother by Jen Sookfong Lee which also partly takes place during the AIDS epidemic of the 1980's a...more
Recommend A Better Mother by Jen Sookfong Lee which also partly takes place during the AIDS epidemic of the 1980's a...more
While not as good as Fruit, Natural Order proves Brian Francis was no one hit wonder. An absolutely fantastic read. Joyce Sparks is a fascinating character. Any queer person knows someone like this, and it was remarkable to see life from their point of view. It is told in a non-linear format, set during the entire life span of Mrs. Sparks. More specifically it deals with her interactions with three gay men; her first crush, her son, and a volunteer in her nursing home. Her reactions to these men...more
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4 out 5
Let’s get this out of the way at the beginning of the review: Natural Order by Brian Francis is really sad. Its sadness is worth sinking into, however; it’s a nuanced and multilayered exploration of loss, of aging, of the sins we commit against those we love the most, and of human failings in all their multifarious abundance.
Told from the perspective of octogenarian Joyce Sparks, the story unfolds almost exclusively in the sma...more
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4 out 5
Let’s get this out of the way at the beginning of the review: Natural Order by Brian Francis is really sad. Its sadness is worth sinking into, however; it’s a nuanced and multilayered exploration of loss, of aging, of the sins we commit against those we love the most, and of human failings in all their multifarious abundance.
Told from the perspective of octogenarian Joyce Sparks, the story unfolds almost exclusively in the sma...more
Jan 07, 2012
Gavin Stephenson-Jackman
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This is an excellent read.
by Canadian author Brian Francis chronicles a mother's acceptance of her late, gay, son through a series of flash backs through their lives brought back to her when a volunteer, Timothy, starts to visit her in her nursing home.
The writing style draws you into the story and the time frames easily. There are some bits of humour that really hit home for me as they perfectly describe people in my own life. I fully understand Joyce's reluctance to acknowledge her son's h...more
by Canadian author Brian Francis chronicles a mother's acceptance of her late, gay, son through a series of flash backs through their lives brought back to her when a volunteer, Timothy, starts to visit her in her nursing home. The writing style draws you into the story and the time frames easily. There are some bits of humour that really hit home for me as they perfectly describe people in my own life. I fully understand Joyce's reluctance to acknowledge her son's h...more
I won an arc of this book in a goodreads.com first reads giveaway.
I loved this book. It is a sad story but told in a manner that kept me wanting to know more. The story switches from a few stages in Joyce's life, from being an adolescent to her last breath. She was a mother unable to accept her son's sexual preference until her last years. As a reader I was able to feel Joyce's constant internal battle between being a loving mother and rejecting him. She is so afraid that her son or her family...more
I loved this book. It is a sad story but told in a manner that kept me wanting to know more. The story switches from a few stages in Joyce's life, from being an adolescent to her last breath. She was a mother unable to accept her son's sexual preference until her last years. As a reader I was able to feel Joyce's constant internal battle between being a loving mother and rejecting him. She is so afraid that her son or her family...more
Oct 11, 2012
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Wow! What an amazing novel. This author is telling the story from an elderly woman's view point...spans 70 years of her life from a young teenager in love with a "different" boy to her life as wife and mother of her own 'different" son. Timeless story deals with the many traditions we have and hold onto in a changing world. You really get a feel for what it's like to be a senior living alone and also in a nursing home. This story will stay with me for a long time to come.
Very well-written, great pace. Being a young woman, I wasn't sure I could connect with an elderly woman or appreciate the emotion behind her relationship with her son, but Francis does a wonderful job of making the characters and their emotions relatable. The flashbacks to the different phases of Joyce and John's lives are the key here to allowing readers at all life-stages connect with the characters.
Parts of it have the intensity and likeness of a mystery story without the typical elements of...more
Parts of it have the intensity and likeness of a mystery story without the typical elements of...more
I grew up in a small town. I know these characters so well. Brian Francis has captured their voices perfectly.
Natural Order is one of those books that makes you laugh out loud and then tears your heart out and reduces you to weeping while you desperately try to find a kleenex to mop up the copious amounts of tears. I LOVE this kind of book and I loved the emotional journey it provided.
Natural Order is one of those books that makes you laugh out loud and then tears your heart out and reduces you to weeping while you desperately try to find a kleenex to mop up the copious amounts of tears. I LOVE this kind of book and I loved the emotional journey it provided.
Brian Francis does a great job of describing the difficulties parents can have in accepting their children as they are. He writes about regret and redemption in a way that is sad but uplifting at the same time. The narrative structure of an elderly woman looking back on her life is reminiscent of Margaret Laurence's "The Stone Angel" and it works very effectively in "The Natural Order" as well.
Well writing, if sometimes frustrating. Actually, the book itself is not frustrating, but the main character frustrated me with her inability to say what she was thinking and feeling and her rejection of the people who cared for her the most! Very sad and difficult relationship between mother and son. It made me appreciate the open and caring relationships I have with my sons.
I really enjoyed this book. Joyce Sparks, who is now 86, reflects on her relationship with her son John, who is gay. By refusing to acknowledge his sexual orientation she somehow hopes things will be okay and the “Natural Order” will prevail. The book also provides insights into how harshly gays were viewed in the 1980s.
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Brian Francis’ second novel, Natural Order, was published in hardcover by Doubleday Canada in 2011. The paperback was released in August, 2012.
Natural Order made Best Books of 2011 lists for the Toronto Star, Kobo Books and The Georgia Straight. The novel was short-listed for the Ontario Library Association's 2012 Evergreen Award and 2012 CBC Bookie Awards.
Natural Order tells the story of Joyce Sp...more
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Natural Order made Best Books of 2011 lists for the Toronto Star, Kobo Books and The Georgia Straight. The novel was short-listed for the Ontario Library Association's 2012 Evergreen Award and 2012 CBC Bookie Awards.
Natural Order tells the story of Joyce Sp...more
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“I can't believe she's lived this long. God must be avoiding her.”
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