A Fairly Honourable Defeat

A Fairly Honourable Defeat

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In this dark comedy of errors, Julius, a cynical intellectual, decides to demonstrate through a Machiavellian experiment how easily loving couples, caring friends, and devoted siblings can betray their loyalties.

Paperback, 432 pages
Published March 1st 2001 by Penguin Classics (first published 1970)
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Marla Glenn
This paragraph at the beginning of the novel, after the first few lines of dialogue, captures why I love Iris Murdoch so much:

"Hilda and Rupert Foster, celebrating their 20th wedding anniversary with a bottle of rather dry champagne, were sitting in the evening sun in the garden of their house in Priory Grove, London. S.W.10. Hilda, a plumper angel now, reclined limply, exhibiting shiny burnished knees below a short shrift dress of orangey yellow. Her feet were bare. Her undulating dark hair...more
Lillian
Cynical intellectual, Julius masterminds a real life drama between friends, siblings, lovers and spouses in an effort to illustrate his beliefs in the ease in which people fall in and out of love, the inability of people to communicate openly and honestly due to their own ego, and in man's misunderstanding of goodness and evil. His insensitive manipulation of people's emotions has profound implications.

Murdoch has masterfully woven philosophical elements into this dark comedy, highlighting human...more
Tara
I love Iris Murdoch. This is not my favorite, but I do like it a good deal. I would have given this three and half stars if I could; since I wasn't able to, I let my adoration for Tallis and Simon determine my decision. In many Iris Murdoch books you kind of dislike most of the characters. This was one of the few where I really thought some of them were decent people. The title was pretty dead-on, and I felt strangely better at the end of this one than I often do with some her books. She's great...more
Jana
Mar 24, 2008 Jana rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: anyone who wants something different from the New York Times best seller list
Recommended to Jana by: I found it unread on my shelf
What an amazing classic! Murdock was a brilliant woman and her writing and philosophizing is proof of that. This book is an amazing look at dialogue and character development almost totally through dialogue. I've been reading so many modern books that it was a treat to read a classic again. The characters in this book are not worthy of our admiration or sympathy and yet I really did not want the "Iago" character to destroy everyone. I can see how she is credited with giving new life to the novel...more
Nancy
I first read this book in graduate school in the 70's and I've re-read it several times over the years. It may or may not be one of the best books I've ever read, but in some ways it is probably the most powerful.

For many years, it was the only Murdoch book I'd read, but over the past five years I've picked up others and that altered my reading experience this time. I still felt the chilly dread of what the characters were going to encounter next, but I was also hit over the head with Murdoch's...more
Helen Kitson
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Lisa (scarlet21)
Well, this was a bit of a plough! Nearly gave up on it but persevered and glad I plodded on! It's a tale of dark humour with a moral to it but please don't expect me to explain it! The second half was better but ploughing through the first half when there wasn't much going on was a bit of a chore; I could see it was somewhat necessary to give background to the characters and set the scene but it was not very enthralling. Once the point became obvious and the story really got going it became more...more
Julieta Paradiso
When a story opens with a couple, who seem to be the monument of perfection and when she asks her husband if it’s a disgrace to be so happy and whether they should feel guilty about it… you know they’re doomed. Happiness is not a disgrace, but a grace, declares her husband. And he should have added, only he didn’t and too bad for him, that’s why you should be careful enough to avoid falling from it. Now, the question is: Can we really avoid such a thing? Once again, Iris Murdoch will place seemi...more
tinne
This novel has left me baffled. There were times when I hesitated to continue reading, for fear of what new terror Murdoch might inflict on the characters.

Of course the novel is exceptionally well written and the language she uses is rich and her dialogues sparkle with life. The characters are a tawdry lot: I could not find it in my heart to like one of them, except perhaps Hilda. Still, the harm that was done to them rattled me and leaves me feeling like it actually happened to me. That's the...more
David Ireland
I read Iris Murdoch and then I wonder why I ever read anything else. Brilliant characters, fabulous set pieces. It should be an opera. The dialogue, the philosophy and the plot can be a bit clunky, but everything is forgiven because it is so dramatic and the characters so charming.

I've decided that, with Iris Murdoch, I know I’m going to love it when a) it is set in London and / or b) I have to write my own list of characters inside the front cover to keep a track of everyone.



"'Your letters were...more
Sheila
As always, Iris is great. This book is about a middle class family and how they deal with each other. A bit fanciful, but that's what fiction is. I especially liked the gay couple (men). She made them seem real and not the least bit different from heterosexual couples. The ending was really good, too.
Cecily
This is a tangled web set in the late 60s, concerning Rupert and Hilda; their 20 year old drop-out son Peter; Rupert’s younger brother Simon and his boyfriend Axel; Hilda’s unstable younger sister Morgan and her estranged husband Tallis and her former lover (and college friend of Rupert and Axel), Julius.

Things are intertwined from the start, but later there are strong echoes of Shakespeare’s Midsummer Night’s Dream when the stage is set for a (non magical) enchantment, leading to illusions of l...more
Jane
Here Murdoch's experimenting with over-the-top personalities may go a bit overboard. Here we have a man who possess near genius-level ability to screw up the life of some specific person, on whom he has, for whatever reason, set his sights. This is not someone who is acting out his resentment, jealousy or what have you, but someone who insinuates himself into a specific life, and manipulates its details in order to create delusion and catastrophe for his unlucky target. He even burglarizes them,...more
Susan
Jul 16, 2010 Susan added it
In a dark comedy of errors, Iris Murdoch portrays the mischief wrought by Julius, a cynical intellectual who decides to demonstrate how easily loving couples, caring friends, and devoted siblings can betray their loyalties. The subjects of his Machiavellian experiment include the high-minded, happily married couple Hilda and Rupert Foster; Peter, their college dropout son; Morgan, Hilda's sister and Julius's former mistress; and Rupert's younger brother, Simon, who lives with Axel, an older man....more
Nancy
This book motivated me to post, something I haven't done in too longIt's addictive, almost a little soap opera-ish, but has such great themes and Murdoch's luscious writing. You find yourself swooning for the lifestyle of this comfy British couple, while having contempt for them and their pseudo-liberal ways of talking to each other and viewing the have-nots. In the end, there is justice, but not the kind anyone deserves. Made me want to drink lots of alcohol, in the way Mad Men does, but at the...more
Nitya Mathew
I liked the premise of the book - a super-scientist conducting social experiments on unsuspecting, gullible couples and siblings to reveal how our hidden desires, insecurities, needs, perceptions of self drive our relationships, and not real, true love.

But I did get bogged down in parts - couldnt take all the "darlings" and italics being thrown about. Do Brit men really talk like that? And some of the detours she took seemed very irrelevant—while I normally enjoy such interruptions in the story...more
Danielle McClellan
I have picked up and put down so many Iris Murdoch novels that it is a wonder that I actually got through this one. So many of my friends and other respected readers love Murdoch, and I do see why they do. Her novels are novels of ideas and she allows herself room to explore the big questions. But, I just cannot get past the wooden quality of her characters and her clunky, clunkity plots. Or her women, who seem to be either hysterical or earth mamas. Or her ideas of masculinity which point towar...more
Kenneth
A finely weaved story of fidelity, trust, self-deception and tragedy. Murdoch is insanely humorous yet disturbingly dark in putting to doubt the comfortable belief in a lifelong commitment, like in marriage. It takes a while at the start for the story to heat up, but once it takes off the book proves to be hard to put down. One hopes the cunning and deceitful Julius King is purely fictional, but a nagging touch with reality shows otherwise. Can there be a lifelong commitment? If there is, then,...more
Shennety
Представьте себе картину семейной идиллии: теплый вечер где-то на юге Лондона, в воздухе стоит приятный, немного пьянящий запах роз, любящие супруги, Руперт и Хильда, готовятся к приходу гостей(Саймона и его возлюбленного, Акселя), чтобы отпраздновать приятное событие – двадцатую годовщину их счастливой семейной жизни.
«Супруги красиво смотрелись вместе. Всегда готовые помочь другим, они и себе не отказывали в тратах на удовольствия. Последним, все еще ощущаемым как новинка, приобретением был не
...more
Saura
A Fairly Honourable Defeat had a great premise. A university professor, Julius, decides to test his friends' relationships by planting ideas and otherwise messing with their lives. He doesn't believe in love or emotional bonds - for him, relationships will always be selfish and one will abandon ones partner in a heartbeat if the situation was right enough.

The characters in this book aren't likeable. We have Robert and his wife Hilda, Robert's brother Simon and Simon's partner and Robert's old f...more
Kathryn
Not a good book to finish on Christmas Eve! Murdoch's skewers her seemingly moral and appealing characters with terrifying and demoralizing results. For a book that includes references to the Holocaust, Murdoch still makes a convincing argument that there is no greater evil than human vanity. I imagine that Julius, having experienced the worst of human cruelty and justifiably cynical, is moved to upend the comfortable and selfsatisfied lives of his aquaintences and test their pompous easy virtue...more
Ann-Marie
Jul 15, 2008 Ann-Marie rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommended to Ann-Marie by: Steve Swanberg gave it to me as a gift.
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Sassy
Apr 16, 2008 Sassy rated it 3 of 5 stars
Recommended to Sassy by: Andria
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Xio
I am through Part One of this novel and am not afraid to admit-- without having read the introduction -- being currently infatuated with a character in the book, Julius.

O Julius! I swoon each time you diagnose humanity as being filled with self serving illusions! I adore Iris' manner of describing you with Elizabethan (that's Taylor not some useless queen) Violet eyes that gleam with irrepressible delight. (well I'm mashing things together but that's my privilege. She is dead.)

As usual Lady Iris...more
Eric Simpson
Murdoch's ability to immerse the reader into the story is stunning. Her writing flows with an erudite patience, intermingling an objective third person point-of-view with profound subjective inquiry. The result of her beautiful writing is a rich and fertile text, worthy of several readings, which is why I have thoroughly enjoyed A Fairly Honorable Defeat twice, and hope to read it a third time soon.

There are many levels to Murdoch's work, and like Dostoevsky, philosophy is just one of them. She...more
Steve
I have to admit to a soft spot for 20th Century novels whose gay characters are not used as metaphors or killed off because the author can't think of what to do with them by the end of the book. In this book, we find a gay couple working through their problems in a very believable way.

Murdoch can lean towards the schematic in her dialogue from time to time, but even so, the ethical drive of the novel steers clear of esoteric theories and philosophical abstractions.

Love is the irrational that we...more
Michelle Vivienne
It’s so dark it makes me uncomfortable. Julius, an evil intellectual, finds humanity deplorable. He thinks people idiotic to cherish their beloved “relationships” when they can so easily be dismantled. To amuse himself he decides to demonstrate how fragile relationships are within his group of high society “friends” by setting up traps of misunderstanding which result in countless betrayals. He proves that given the right circumstances most will selfishly act outside of their lover’s interest so...more
Jan
Still getting accustomed to Murdoch's writing, I found this book compelling and hard to put down. I read until 2 in the morning because I needed to know what would finally happen to the characters. I felt like I knew the gay couple already, and related to the married couple until they got into philosophical trouble. Her prose is seamless, characters well developed yet unusual. Her philosophical perspective is intriguing to me. This is mature, thoughtful reading.
May
Jun 13, 2011 May added it
This book came from box experiment two. I think it would make an excellent play or movie, though I'm not convinced it would sync with today's audience. The characters are very well developed and the ending has an interesting enough twist to capture one's fancy. I enjoyed reading it and seeing how people thought of friendships only a few decades back and how the male female interaction and the institution of marriage differed so much.

However, I think the idea of a wife loving her friend as much...more
Marthine
When you read this, you feel the inexorable drive of the novel toward its inevitable conclusion, and you mentally beg the author to relent just a little, to allow the decent folks some breathing room, to not let what you know is going to happen, happen. And then it does. And then, if you're me, you break down sobbing in a weird library at CERN and no-one even speaks English there and it's really cold and miserable. Life sucks at the end of this novel, and you have to dredge yourself back up from...more
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Dame Jean Iris Murdoch

Irish-born British writer, university lecturer and prolific and highly professional novelist, Iris Murdoch dealt with everyday ethical or moral issues, sometimes in the light of myths. As a writer, she was a perfectionist who did not allow editors to change her text. Murdoch produced 26 novels in 40 years, the last written while she was suffering from Alzheimer disease.

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