The Minds of Boys: Saving Our Sons from Falling Behind in School and Life
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The Minds of Boys: Saving Our Sons from Falling Behind in School and Life

3.72 of 5 stars 3.72  ·  rating details  ·  280 ratings  ·  63 reviews
Michael Gurian's blockbuster bestseller "The Wonder of Boys" is the bible for mothers, fathers, and educators on how to understand and raise boys. It has sold over 400,000 copies, been translated into 17 languages, and sells over 25,000 every year, which is more than any other book on boys in history. To follow up on this first book, which launched the boy's movement, he h...more
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Published December 14th 2010 by Jossey-Bass (first published 2005)
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This is the worst kind of pseudoscience parading itself around as well researched fact. While Gurian paints a compelling picture when you scratch the surface you realize that there is only the thinnest veneer of evidence behind his claims. A book that is going to make claims about the differences in the brains and cognitive processes of boys and girls should have some pretty well substantiated research behind it. This book fails miserably on that account. While it bandies about scientific terms...more
An interesting look at everything I've done wrong and right in raising my boys. I think the things I've done right out weigh any mistakes I've made--like using the T.V. as a babysitter while I was working at home--bad mommy. I've been lucky though because I have three very intelligent boys with pretty good attention spans. They are well behaved at school and most of the time at home. But there is always room for improvement and this book definitely gave me some good insights into their minds and...more
Amy C
I love this book. It has great information about what boys need to succeed in school and talks about learning difference between girls and boys. I found the information on television and its negative impact on brain development in boys to be interesting and it helped me make a case to reduce screen time in our home. Comprehensive with a nice balance between anecdote and fact.
Jun 24, 2009 Carrie is currently reading it  ·  review of another edition
Not fiction at all! A friend told me it was a must-read as a parent of a boy.
A teacher's review

More informative than Boys and Girls Learn Differently , The Minds of Boys: Saving Our Sons From Falling Behind in School and Life is a fascinating look into the specific reasons why boys are doing so poorly in school nowadays. Very, very awful if you did not know - Boys are the overwhelming majority of special education students, are more likely to drop out, and are much less likely to attend college.

Gurian's strategies to help come off as a bit vague - few concrete solutions...more
I found this book very interesting to read, but left a little unsatisfied in the end. The case is strongly made that a male brain functions/learns differently than the female brain. Evidence is provided as to why America should be concerned about the male education process: higher percentage of males diagnosed with ADD/ADHD, higher percentage of males in resource classes, higher percentage of discipline issues are males, lower performance in key educational areas, and a lower percentage of males...more
Lots of interesting research on how boys and girls learn differently. I liked that each chapter highlighted ways that parents, educators, and administrators can each implement the research findings into their individual situations. This book really helped me understand just how my son's brain is working now, and how it will be developing in the future. Of course, the research is generalized, but the book openly acknowledges the short-comings and limitations while still giving a good framework wi...more
So far I'm finding this book to be informative and interesting. I like the way there are practical tips embedded in the chapters, and statistics cited to support specific claims.I have already found myslef subtly changing the way I group students (allowing more opportunties for all-boy and all-girl groups) and I have become more attuned to how the boys work differently depending on whether they are grouped with girls or boys. Two of my boys (out of 5 boys total) are from very conservative Muslim...more
Kathryn Bashaar
I read this book because my grandson was having a hard time behaving in school and I was trying to help my daughter figure out why. It is a very general overview, so not all of it was relevant for us. Some it was aimed at teachers or at parents of older boys. But it was helpful in helping to understand why Ben is not a good fit at the school he's currently attending. I think it's true that lots of boys have trouble conforming to school rules that require a lot of sitting and listening. I also th...more
I enjoyed this book. It is research based on the difference in brain structure between boys and girls, and how to help boys succeed in school. It is comprised of four parts: Protecting the minds of boys, Starting boys out in boy-friendly learning environments, Teaching school in boy-friendly ways, and Helping boys who need extra help. Some sections were more relevant than others for me, such as in part two as it talked about effective preschool and early learning environments.

As a result of read...more
Asmaa Rabie
قرأت منه النسخة العربية .. جيدة جداً

يتكلم الكتاب عن احتياجات الفتيان واختلافاها عن احتياجات الفتيات
ومدى عدم فاعلية الأنظمة التعليمية الحالية في تحقيق احتياجاتهم مما يؤدي إلى العديد من المشاكل النفسية والاجتماعية والأكاديمية

تناول الكتاب العديد من الوسائل التي يمكن للمدرسين وأولياء الأمور القيام بها بدون تغيير البنى التحتية للمدارس

تعرض الكتاب لفعالية الصفوف الأحادية الجنس وحساسية الذكور والبيئة المناسبة لتعلم الطفل في المراحل المبكرة وتأثير وسائل الترفيه والأطعمة التي يتناولها الطفل على صحة ون...more
Audrey L
This is an excellent book to help parents realize what "normal" boy behavior looks like at every stage of their growing up years. Boys and girls do learn differently. Because of the strong focus our education system has on making sure girls are doing well the authors investigate the "male learning style" that is so often at odds with current educational practices, leaving the mistaken impression that boys are difficult to manage and teach.

It breaks learning down into subjects and stages. The au...more
Heather Wolfers
Give our active boys a break! Understand why they may not thrive sitting in the front row and raising their hand all the time...and that it's o.k.! It's natural. They would really shine in the days of yore being an apprentice or on a family farm, but that just doesn't happen anymore in modern society. This book gives insight into how our boys can thrive in a school system that really isn't designed to suit their nature. This is a must-read for Moms of boys. It's hard for us to understand their m...more
Great practical resource for understanding how boys often physiologically learn differently from girls, and techniques for helping them learn up to their potential. It covers the early years through high school. The only question I was left with is what happens when boys go to college? At what point do "boys" learn like men, or do these gender learning differences never go away? It seems as if many of the differences even out later as boys mature, but when? I do wish I had the book (instead of t...more
From a writing perspective, it was quite dry. From a knowledge perspective, for me, there was the one chapter which told me what to do and why. Basically, play word games, use a picture dictionary, write grocery lists. Practice using a variety of words. Write a different word for each letter in his first name, and do that every day using different words. Play games using words in a sentence. There are reasons boys are different from girls and it is just in the make up of people. Boys have a defi...more
Apr 22, 2008 Jennifer rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: parents of young boys, teachers
I thought this book was very interesting. The latest information on how the male brain works in terms of learning was fascinating. It definitely will influence how I teach the boys in my classroom.

I think it was especially interesting to read about the developmental years and how the male brain needs to be adapted in a sense to our verbal world. I would recommend this book to any parent who has a son especially those under the age of five. I think they will learn valuable things that will help t...more
Clivemichael Justice
Good overview of issues and challenges bringing up boys.
Very good resource. The school I teach in is interestingly heavy on boys and I always look for more things to do to be able to accommodate them. This book has a surprising amount of new suggestions and information for me. I always expect to have heard it all, having been in so many professional developments and read so many books in my time. It does sometimes concern me how skewed the education system is against best practices for helping boys learn. This book is a must read for parents and educ...more
This book discusses how and why boys learn differently from girls. Most of the author's findings are based on brain scans. Most of it is geared towards educators and how classrooms can be more "boy-friendly", but there are some interesting pieces in there for parents or even woman who want to know why the men in her life act the way they do! It can be a little simplistic and repetitive, but I just skim through the sections that don't interest me.
I did not get halfway in this book. I enjoyed what I read and want to finish it eventually. It was overdue at the library with someone waiting for it, so I had to turn it in.
I really believe that boys often learn differently (not all boys, but most), and it's important to help them succeed. It's no surprise the number of men in colleges declines while the number of women increases.
A worthwhile read!
I have thought since having my own sons they that there is a big difference in learning and how we even approach the mentailty of boys and girls. The sad part is i dont think some things will change like academics and yet in other areas why try to fix a wheel that may not be broken. However i loved the points of how to have abetter connection with my sons and it does seem they respond to it.
3.5 stars. Gurian definitely promotes his own ideals (particularly his own Institute), but there is some compelling research that kept me reading. I just skimmed over the mundane parts and the sections that don't pertain to me. Overall, though, I appreciated the science behind boys' brains so that I can apply it, along with some of his learning suggestions, with my own son.
This book had a lot of quality information, but I had a difficult time getting over the quality of writing. I get that I'm not necessarily the target audience (not a teacher or a parent), but I would have remained a more captivated reader had the author expressed himself more concisely.

Overall, a very decent introduction to the pressing issues of boys in school and society.
Laura (booksnob)
Nov 19, 2008 Laura (booksnob) rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: parents and teachers of boys
Shelves: thesis, non-fiction
This has been a very insightful book. I have learned so much about boys, how they learn and how their brain operates. This book gives strategies in how to deal with low achieving males, sensitive males and how to help all males succeed in the areas of literacy, math and science. This is a must read for parents and teachers of boys. I highly recommend it.
It's a lot to wade through but I think it has some valuable information. The author is an advocate for single sex education. I wish there was more advice on what to do if that is not an option. I really enjoyed the chapter on "underachieving gifted boys" which is what I think I have in Ethan. It started me on a "no tolerance for mediocrity" program.
I think this book should be a must-read for parents of boys, moms of boys, at least. I learned so much about ways boys learn and think and how it is often different from how girls learn and think. Now I can be more knowledgeable as we start the journey through school. I want to read The Wonder of Boys by this same author.
Interesting read. Some of the practical information wasn't really too enlightening. I was more interested in the facts about brain differences rather than the strategies for teaching boys. I suppose I should have chosen a different book for that information. I'm wondering how the science has changed since being written.
Sep 23, 2008 Julie is currently reading it  ·  review of another edition
I'm constantly wanting to understand and teach my children better, especially my son. I've always been fascinated by the differences I've noticed in girls and boys. This book uses a lot of recent scientific evidence that gives validation and explanation of those differences. It's making a lot of sense so far....
I found this book to be very repetitive, and the authors did not go into detail about why boys and girls learn differently (on average). They also seem to entirely neglect learning style (auditory, visual, kinesthetic, etc). Some good points were made, but I did not learn a book's worth of information.
A definite eye opener on the current school system and our young boys. If your son is struggling in school or just going with the flow, read this book and see what you can do as his parents. Although my son is not struggling I do think he is unmotivated to achieve, even as young as he is.
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