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  <title><![CDATA[Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin]]></title>
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  <default_description>&lt;B&gt;Are Your Boundaries Being Violated?&lt;/B&gt;&lt;P&gt;Boundaries separate us from others physically and emotionally. In fact, they are essential for our mental and physical health as well as for developing healthy relationships. Yet every day, people's boundaries are violated by friends, family, or coworkers. Despite the importance of personal boundaries many people are unaware of how or when these very important lines are crossed.&lt;P&gt;&lt;B&gt;Which of the following are boundary violations?&lt;P&gt;&lt;I&gt;Esther tells Betty a secret Mary told her.&lt;P&gt;Your therapist invites you to go for coffee.&lt;P&gt;Your boss wants to know the details of your personal life.&lt;P&gt;Your boss asks you if you'd like a hug.&lt;P&gt;Mom tells little Debbie about her troubles with Dad.&lt;P&gt;Your new neighbor pats you on the bottom as he turns away.&lt;P&gt;Your mother makes a comment about your being overweight.&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;P&gt;All but one of the above incidents violate boundaries (your boss asks you if you'd like a hug). In &lt;I&gt;Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin,&lt;/I&gt; Anne Katherine explains what healthy boundaries are, how to recognize if your personal boundaries are being violated, and what you can do to protect yourself.&lt;P&gt;For anyone who has walked away from a conversation, a meeting, or a visit with others feeling violated and not understanding why, this is a book that can help.&lt;P&gt;</default_description>
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      <name><![CDATA[Anne Katherine]]></name>
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    <body><![CDATA[A short, powerful book about boundaries - setting them, what constitutes good boundaries and bad boundaries, how development is impacted by boundary violations and the hope of healing and repairing.  It shed light on boundaries in professional and personal relationships and provides understanding.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Oct 07 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Soooo, I hate reading self-helpers, but this one was short and really impactful for me.  Though it was short it was heavy reading (difficult subject matter) and took me longer than I would have liked.  Regardless, for a person who didn't even know what healthy boudaries look like, mostly cause I did...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/72023559">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Oct 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I can't say I really got that much out of it.  Most of the stuff I was pretty much aware of, and it seemed heavily oriented toward individuals whose sexual boundaries were violated (which is not why I was reading it). It seemed a bit dated to me, as well. Maybe I was expecting something a little dif...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/7788066">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Aug 22 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a Hazelden publication, which I did not know when I checked it out of the library, so the book seems to be written more toward an audience that has had extreme cases of boundary violations involving substance abuse. However, it is full of useful techniques and tools for others who may need h...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/26961518">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Another great book un understanding why we have a hard time setting limits on how people treat us and what to do about it.  It also spends some time clarifying what to do if you are someone who doesn't really know what appropriate limits even look like.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I think of myself as pretty self-aware, but this slim volume gave me half a dozen <em>Aha!</em> moments.  It's a book that makes you want to buy several copies for people you know, but you realize that would be <em>violating boundaries.</em>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Brilliant. Super helpful. Great title. And lastly, you might not need to read this book, but I did.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[five years of grad school and i can finally say that i know something about boundaries. kind of. ]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Mar 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[What can I say? I have issues with boundaries and I am trying to get better with them.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2006</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was an amazing book that opened my eyes to what boundaries were.]]></body>
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