Coming Up for Air

Coming Up for Air

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On the coast of Alabama, there is a house cloaked in mystery, a place that reveals the truth and changes lives...

Ellie Calvin is caught in a dying marriage, and she knows this. With her beloved daughter away at college and a growing gap between her and her husband – between her reality and the woman she wants to be – she doesn’t quite seem to fit into her own life.

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Hardcover, 261 pages
Published August 16th 2011 by St. Martin's Press
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Felicia
Bought for Myself
Overall Rating 4.25
Character Rating 4.25
Story Rating 4.25

NOTE: I admit I picked up this book because I met Patti Callahan Henry at a Book Signing. She was funny, genuine, and personable---all attributes that come across in her writing. It was a great venture outside my normal reading comforts!

What I Loved: This book was written for every daughter that isn't/wasn't/can't be sure they have/are/could live up the perceived expectations of their mothers. Even though this book is set...more
Debbie
Patti Callahan Henry is a new author to me but that won’t last for long because she’s already become a trusted friend. Her novel is a poignant and fragile story of love loss, love gained and what the brokenness of a heart does to a person’s perspective on life, whether they learn from that loss, wallow in it or close their heart to it. It’s one woman’s search for something she didn’t know she was looking for. It was a glimpse of the present and the future by looking to the past. Her narrative is...more
Kathleen
C.S.Lewis’ passage beginning with the words “To love at all is to be vulnerable” opens Henry’s latest novel. The funeral of her iconic mother, Lillian, leaves the principal character, Ellie, longing for redemption and reconciliation. Ellie’s journey through this novel reveals her understanding, reading her mother’s intriguing journal, that her mother chose safety over love as she has. Her struggle is to now decide between risk or shelter; she does this by spending some time away from Atlanta in...more
Maggie61
This is the second book I have read this year that touches with the same topic of reuniting with a past love many years later.

There are so many different views on this topic. While both of the books more or less ended up the same, you have to ask yourself - is an ex and ex for a reason? Do we glorify past relationships, first love etc. and remember them as being better than they were? In both of these cases, so much time had gone by, they were different people. If the people are so different no...more
Rhonda
Ellie is feeling lost and alone when her daughter goes to college. Then when her mother dies and she sees her old boyfriend at the funeral, all kinds of feelings take over. She reads her mother's diary and starts a quest to find her mother's 'real' life, and this leads her back to her old boyfriend, etc.

Favorite Quotes:

"Nothing about Mother's death was funny. It was sudden and awful and left our small family bereft and confused. I've discovered the finality of death in this: It remains unchanged...more
Jessie
I received this book from goodreads as an advance readers edition. I probably would not have finished it if I had not felt obligated to finish it in order to give a fair review.

I have read this author before and I love her style of writing. She is descriptive in a lyrical way. Her writing extracts emotions from within.

With that said, outside of her way with words, I did not like this book. I could not relate to the main character at all and found her to be a selfish, lying, unlikeable person....more
Lynette
Sep 27, 2011 Lynette rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: All
Recommended to Lynette by: Won it on good reads
I really liked this book. The intertwined of the romance, history and just finding one self was awesome. I love books that put southern USA history in it. also really enjoyed the setting of this novel. I grew up in the North and lived in Florida. I saw some things down there that remined me of things that we thought were over up in Maine. I loved the small-town feel where everyone knows everyone else, I grew up in an extremely small town.

Ellie knew that her mother was hiding something from her a...more
Beth
Originally published at BethsBookReviews.com

This was a surprisingly fast read and really quite enjoyable.

One of things I didn't like were the main character's consistent use of "Mother" to refer to her mother instead of "Mom". It just became super annoying and really rather Mommy Dearest feeling after a couple of chapters. I know it was meant to convey the relationship between the characters, but it was just irritating.

That said, the book was overall an interesting read with a story that you gen...more
Fab :)
I received an advanced copy of this book from the publisher.

I was beyond excited when I found out that I had won an advanced copy of COMING UP FOR AIR BY PATTI CALLAHAN HENRY after entering to win on Goodreads. I received a copy of the book in July and could not wait to start reading it.

Coming Up For Air by Patti Callahan Henry is a touching story of one woman’s search for the truth after the death of her mother. Ellie Calvin always knew that her mother was hiding something from her and the fa...more
Stacy
I was very fortunate to win a copy of this book as a giveaway on goodreads.com.

This is a wonderful book that connects a daughter and a mother through the mother's past. Part romance and part mystery, Ellie uncovers parts of her mother's life that she had locked away from the world and kept hidden until her death. Ellie longs to find out what all of this means, while trying to find out what her heart really wants. Ellie leaves Atlanta to travel to Alabama to learn more about her mother's past fr...more
Connie N.
My initial thought was to rate this book a 2 or 2.5 because of its feeling of hopelessness. This is one of those "finding-myself" stories about a woman in her 40's who faces life after the death of her strong-willed mother. She realizes that she's unhappy with her marriage but has a hard time describing what she wants, so she goes off in search of some answers as a result of reading her mother's journal. Some authors can tell the story and still keep an underlying sense of hope, but this story d...more
Elena
I liked this book well enough. It is well written and does depict the complications and consequences of a disfunctional mother/daughter relationship ...

(small SPOILER ALERT)
However, this book seems to be encouraging something that i really don't like. I don't like the emphasis the modern society (litarature/movies...) has been placing lately on middle aged women "finding themselves". It's all fine and dandy that you are sick and tired of your husband (who isn't at some point!?), but since when...more
Jadaloves
This book is not something I’d typically pick up and read on my own, but I did enjoy it just the same. Although there was nothing very thrilling or spine tingling within the pages of this book, it did hold a subtle charm and intrigue. When Ellie discovers her mother’s journal after she passes, she discovers that she never really knew her mother at all. There were things in her past she never discussed or revealed to Ellie, and her experience with heartbreak shapes her into a woman more concerned...more
Jenny
Ugh. I always hate it when I don't like a book. Though I had a bad feeling about this one from the get-go. I was just hoping my feeling was wrong and that everything would turn out better. Look out, spoilers abound.

The troubled marriage. I felt they really didn't get into it about what the actual "problems" in this marriage were until near the end. And I suppose I understand. I just want to know why in the world she started dating (and then ended up marrying) someone who is "charming" and she "...more
Ruth
What happens when your world seems to crumble around you? Ellie has made all the right choices in her life, just as her mother taught her to do. And yet when her mom passes away she begins to examine those choices and the emptiness that she feels. As she is clearing out her mother's clothes she finds a diary that her mom kept. She wrote in this diary every year on New Year's Eve ever since she was 12. Not knowing what to do and finding stories in her mother's diary that she doesn't understand sh...more
Mickey (I'm A Book Shark)
Sep 17, 2011 Mickey (I'm A Book Shark) rated it 3 of 5 stars Recommends it for: PCH fans, Nicholas Sparks fans
Shelves: 2011, audio
3.5 stars

Ellie mother passes and she finds a journal her mom kept throughout her life. In it are passages from every New Year's Eve since she was young. Ellie, a wife and mother now, reads it and finds that her mom's life wasn't what she thought it was. It sends Ellie on a soul-searching journey to her mother's friend's home and her old college boyfriend Ellie left behind at her mom's insistence. You think you can guess what happens, but you may be wrong!

I liked this one because it reminded me a...more
Amy
I am currently reading this book and so far it is good! It leaves with with that tiny bit of suspense to wonder what is Ellie (the main character) going to do next. Will she leave her husband? Will she find out all of her deceased mothers darkest secrets? And what will happen with Hutch, the highschool sweetheart who has re-entered he life? The story is nice and calming to read, but makes you contunie to read on to find answers to these questions.

I just finished the book. overall I would give i...more
Diana
When I started this book, I thought it was going to be a routine "woman in a dead marriage and dull life" story.
Ellie Calvin is in her 40's and her mother recently died. In going through his mother's things (her dad can't bear to go through his wife's things), Ellie finds her mother's diary. Ellie finds out her mother had a part of her life that she had never heard anything about. In the 60's, Lillian had been active in the anti-segregation movement. Lillian also a love affair with a man she o...more
Katie Pickett
This book is about a woman who loses her mother. While going through her belongings, she finds her mothers journal in a locked drawer. In reading this journal, she feels a need to step back and look at her own life. She goes on a soul journey to get to know her mother. In her search, she spends time with a man she had always loved and had been her first love. While on her soul journey, she looks at her own life and own marriage and deceides she has a decision to make.
This book was an easy read...more
Sara Almeida
Aug 09, 2011 Sara Almeida rated it 2 of 5 stars
Recommended to Sara by: Goodreads Giveaway
This was the first book I won through a Goodreads giveaway. I knew it wasn't a book I would normally select on my own, but I was looking forward to reading it nonetheless. Unfortunately, I was unable to finish the book. I tried ... I really did. I do NOT like leaving disparaging comments about books. I have a huge respect for the writing process - after all, a writer puts her time and emotion into her writing. While I'm sure that this book would appeal to many people, it did not appeal to me. In...more
Natalie
I actually just finished this last night and I'm still sad it's over. Maybe because I felt I had a strange personal connection to the main character, Ellie. From my teenage years through college I had one big fear. The one that would keep me up at night. That was, that I would know love, and then have to settle for less. I thought it would be one thing I couldn't bear. To experience true love, then to lose it and settle for something less. When I met my husband I knew he was going to be either t...more
Tami
I haven't received the book yet, just noticed I had won. 6/28/11
Received my copy in the mail. I have 3 wins in line in front of it, but hope to start it soon. 7/13/11
Started Saturday and finished early this morning. 7/18/11

Atlanta Georgia. Ellie (Lillian) is a middle aged southern belle whose mother has really run her life. Her mother Lillie (also Lillian) dies suddenly and while Ellie is helping her father clean out her mothers things, she finds a journal. In the journal she finds out who she t...more
Dale Harcombe
Do we ever really know even those in our own family? That is the premise of this novel. How much should we expect to know what they were like before we came along and what changed them? Ellie finds a journal belonging to her mother who has recently died and she sets out to uncover the woman behind the journal. This is a gentle, easy to read novel although I must admit I am getting sick of the catching up with the ex theme that seems to be around in a lot of books these days. As someone else said...more
Anita Johnson
This is a beautiful story of Ellie, an artist in her early 40's who is the daughter of Lillian, a very proper Buckhead (Altanta's premiere address) matron and the wife of a very controlling man, Rusty. When Lillian suddenly dies, Ellie goes on a mission to learn more about her mother and thus uncover a year of her life in the 60's when she was involved in the race riots. Her summer spent at the beach on the Gulf Coast of Alabama helps her to learn more about life, love and her suppressed dreams...more
Katherine
What a thought provoking book--I couldn't put it down. A mother dies unexpectedly and her 40 something daughter, who had a loving but strained relationship with her, finds her mother's journal. The revelations she finds there sends her on a journey--physical, and emotional-- to discover that part of her mother she had never known. Once the woman had been loving and open but to her daughter she had been restrained, constrained by the circumstances of her society and somewhat cold. The discovery o...more
Donna
This is chick lit at its best, but still chick lit just the same; and, as such, it is rather formulaic, but eminently readable. The introspection of the characters was quite well done: their looking at themselves and others was honest and real; I bought it. We even had a small wrench thrown into the works regarding a certain secret: I'll say no more so as not to give it away, although I do think most readers will have figured it out before the end, I know I picked up on it very early on. I parti...more
Loraine Alcorn
I think coming up for air by Patti Callahan Henry would be a really nice summer read for most women. Its the story of Ellie Calvin who seems to be facing both the break down of her marriage and empty nest syndrome. Upon the death of her controlling mother Ellie runs into an old love interest and with his help, proceeds to discover things about her Mother that she did not know. Trying to keep things between her and her old boyfriend Hutch on a friendship basis they find themselves drawn together...more
Joyce
Do any of us really know our parents and the life they led before we came along? "Coming Up for Air" is a story about Ellie Calvin and her search to find out about the life that her mother led in 1960-1961 and her part in the "movement". She found out about her mother's secret past only after her mother died. Her mother left a journal that was hidden and locked away. When Ellie found it and read it she went on a quest to find out about her mother's life and "HIM", the person her mother was so in...more
Jamie Piscitelli
I was very happy to receive a copy of this book through the Goodreads giveaway.

Henry writes a fast paced book about lost loves and rewriting your own story through the voice of Lillian (Ellie) Eddington Calvin and her mother's diary.

I feel that everyone can relate to this book. Many people know what love is and just as many have lost love. Ellie Eddington Calvin is such a strong female character that is caught in her mother's past and her own present. The only thing that I thought was odd abou...more
Laura Ashlee
Review posted 8/18/2011 at Owl Tell You About It.

This is one of those times where I feel like I’m at a loss for words. How do you explain something so emotionally intense. I’ll start by simply saying you should read this book. It’s just… really good. It’s beautiful and heartbreaking and touching all at the same time. It’s the first book I’ve read by Patti, but it most certainly isn’t the last. I’ve already be reading the synopses of her other books, trying to decide which one I want to read firs...more
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Patti Callahan Henry is the National Bestselling author of six novels with Penguin/NAL (Losing the Moon, Where the River Runs, When Light Breaks, Betweeen the Tides, The Art of Keeping Secrets, and Driftwood Summer).

Patti is hailed as a fresh new voice in southern fiction. She has been short-listed for the Townsend Prize for Fiction and has been nominated for the Southeastern Independent Booksell...more
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