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The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio: How My Mother Raised 10 Kids on 25 Words or Less

3.89  ·  Rating Details  ·  10,448 Ratings  ·  1,776 Reviews
"The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio" introduces Evelyn Ryan, an enterprising woman who kept poverty at bay with wit, poetry, and perfect prose during the "contest era" of the 1950s and 1960s. Stepping back into a time when fledgling advertising agencies were active partners with consumers, and everyday people saw possibility in every coupon, Terry Ryan tells how her mother ...more
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Published April 4th 2001 by Simon & Schuster (first published April 1st 2001)
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Christy
Nov 10, 2008 Christy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Mix together “A Tree Grows in Brooklyn,” or “The Glass Castle” (for the drunken dad and the poverty) and “Cheaper by the Dozen” or even our own home in Orem, Utah, in the 50's, and you get the feel of this book. Author Terry Ryan lived in my own era, and she captures it perfectly. Hey, their family was even more deprived than we were! And I remember entering those contests, where you complete a jingle in 25 words or less. But I had no idea I was competing against women who wrote jingles full-tim ...more
Jennifer
May 08, 2008 Jennifer rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
What I learned from this book is that you don't have to have a perfect life to be happy. Evelyn Ryan chooses to be happy in spite of numerous trials and setbacks, which would turn someone like me into a bitter old woman. Reading this book made me think that if she could raise her 10 children under her circumstances without regret, then maybe I can do a little better with my three kids, and keep a more positive outlook.

I also love the writing in this book, both Terry and Evelyn's writing! I am r
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Bonnie
4 stars

This is such a heartwarming story that I am surprised it has taken me until now to add it to my “read” shelves, let alone take the time to at least write a short review. Perhaps it is because it was on loan for so long to family and friends!

Now that I actually have it in hand, all I need to do is flip through the pages, complete with black and white pictures of family members, contest entries and/or rules, sometimes blank, sometimes completed with a typewritten entry, to remember why I re
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Julie
Jul 21, 2009 Julie rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: book-club
I feel like my review of this book can best be summed up in 25 words or less:

In Honor of Mrs. Evelyn Ryan
The rhymes... too many;
The laughs... too few.
Glad that I read it,
but more glad I'm through.
Wendy C
Jul 30, 2008 Wendy C rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I really enjoyed this nonfictional account of a 1950s stay-at-home mom of ten children who kept the family clothed and fed by winning slogan contests. Her husband Kelly had a job at a machinery but drank away a big chunk of his paycheck (a pint of whiskey and a six pack of beer every night), so Evelyn Ryan relied on her clever wit to compensate.

The film based on the book is pretty true to the story. What I like about the book, though (which I read after seeing the movie), is reading all the rhym
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Danae
Nov 20, 2008 Danae rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This kind of story always makes me feel really feisty-- it's about the author's mother who overcame the disadvantages of an alcoholic husband and poverty to raise 10 children; and then I realize, I am not living in poverty, and my husband is about as far from abusive as you can get. So, I guess the real take-home message is not to let your disadvantages define you, and to be the sort of person who gets out and does something about their problems rather than sit by and whine about them. This stor ...more
Kathy
Nov 03, 2007 Kathy rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: biography-memoir
Mom read a review of this book and one day went to the bookstore with several reviews and told the clerk she wanted all of them. She hadn't read it yet. I thoroughly enjoyed it, and kept quoting it the whole time I was there on vacation.
The author was number six of ten children born into an Irish Catholic family. The father drank a large proportion of his already insufficient paycheck. The mother, Evelyn Ryan, entered contests constantly to try to keep the family afloat. She also kept meticulou
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K
Dec 29, 2009 K rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: "Cheaper by the Dozen" fans; someone seeking a light, enjoyable, and inspirational read
Recommended to K by: goodreads
Shelves: memoirs
I don't want to mislead anyone. I usually reserve five star ratings for books that are life-changing and a profound reading experience, and this was neither. But, try as I might, I couldn't come up with a good reason to take off a star and felt dishonest doing it simply to preserve a snooty image.

This family memoir was honest and revealing without being bitter, sweet and uplifting without being sentimental. Like Cheaper by the Dozen, it was the story of a quirky but happy large (10 kids) family
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Jeanette  "Astute Crabbist"
Kinda makes you wish they still had contests requiring skill, rather than the random drawings of modern sweepstakes. I'm pretty good with words. I probably coulda won me some cool stuff.
Penelope
Apr 14, 2008 Penelope rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
What a great book! I read this right after reading Eat, Pray, Love and you couldn't find two more opposite stories. This story is about a woman who raises 10 children with her husbands meager income and her prize winnings from jingle contests. She enters this contests as much to give out let to her creative energy and wit as for the money. She shows her children how to give it your all and never give up and that the process is the enjoyment and outcome is a lucky byproduct.
What a great book!!
Jennie Menke
Audible. *

On the heels of The Goldfinch, and all the dialogue that has surrounded that review, I am giving up -- yes, GIVING UP -- on this book. I am taking to heart the many (the hundreds) of people who said "if you don't like the book then stop reading it!" I never do that. For one, I'm too cheap. For another, I always assume I'll be missing some nugget of brilliance.

But I am going to "just do it" and stop. This book is driving me mental. The very things that others love it for, I loathe it f
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Marin
Jan 12, 2008 Marin rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
My mom would love this book.

It's a worshipful biography of a woman who would supplement her husband's too-small-for-ten-kids income by writing advertising jingles and entering them in contests. The highlight for me was the anecdote about Mrs. Ryan's ten-minute grocery shopping spree. This homemaker was determined to fill her freezer (another contest win) with food items other than fish sticks, and she approached her one chance at free groceries with military strategy.

I also thought that the aut
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Alyne
Apr 16, 2014 Alyne rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Below I've included a touching anecdote on atonement.

I find this book to be compelling because it gives a deeper look into the life of an intelligent, hardworking, midwestern mom with 10 kids, living a life of poverty in the middle of nowhere, with an alcoholic husband who consistently ferried away any savings. In this true story, "Mom" makes ends meet by winning contests where you mail in limericks, 25 words or less type poems, and the last line of whatever jingle the company has created. She
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Maren
Jul 18, 2010 Maren rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I LOVED this book! It read like good fiction & was totally engaging. As a mother myself, I really could relate to Evelyn's life & situation. I only had one tiny quibble. I didn't like how the author (Evelyn Ryan's daughter) kept going back to the fact that Evelyn left behind what could've been a promising career writing to raise her 10 kids. She made a couple comments about how she would've been a high level executive in an advertising company if she hadn't gotten pregnant out of wedlock ...more
Sarah
Nov 28, 2015 Sarah rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
okay read. i love that time period where the marriages were cemented in, dad knocked back a few after work and june cleaver was in the kitchen making dinner every night for 530. I guess i love the sickly sweet tv of that time.
anyway, this book was a story of a woman who had 10 kids and the husbands pay wasn't cutting it to support them and since the kids were varying ages from toddler to 20 something the mom stayed home. And to help out financially she starts entering contests. What i liked was
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Bonnie
Apr 24, 2009 Bonnie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book is a nonfiction account of how a woman of uncommon pluck and optimism provided for her family of 10 children and alcoholic husband by winning the kind of contests common in the mid 20th century that required writing skill and wit. It reminded me of "Cheaper by the Dozen" in style and good humor. It is uplifting, funny and heartwarming.
April
It's an enjoyable read, but I didn't love some of the messages. The mother was admirable most, I believe, for her ability to stay out of depression in a trying circumstance. American life, whether from the top or bottom of the socioeconomic map, typically revolves around the things money can buy. It's a fact that infects us all, including myself. I realize that the subject of the book is about how the mother supported her 10 kids, but I interpreted some of the book to be leaning in the direction ...more
John
Feb 21, 2013 John rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I'm not sure where or why I got this book. It's been lying around for some time, so I thought I'd give it a try. The story is heartbreaking in some ways, inspiring in others, and interesting throughout. It's the story of Evelyn Lenore Lehman Ryan and her family and how she kept them more-or-less solvent through winning product-promotion contests that were common-place during most of her married life. It's a history of a poor family living in small-town America during the middle of the 20th centu ...more
Sarah
Jan 05, 2011 Sarah rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir
Love Love Love! This is the first time that a book has made me cry actual tears in a long time. And it did it twice. I usually skip a synopsis since I assume that my friends can read the one given on this website and that it will be more concise and coherent than anything I could write. As a result I think most of my reviews make little sense to anyone who has not read the book. So, in that vein...

Three favorite parts:
3: The chronicling of her sleepless night- considering I had just had a sleepl
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Massillon Public Library
Aug 24, 2008 Massillon Public Library rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: ohio
In the 1950s and 60s, companies frequently promoted their products by sponsoring contests which required the entrant to finish the last line of an advertising slogan or write a brief essay about the featured item. Prizes ranged from appliances and cash to cars and trips around the world. An enterprising person with the patience and organization to draft and submit several well-wrought entries could supplement a household's finances handsomely. One woman took that a step further, basically replac ...more
Rebekkila
Jan 08, 2012 Rebekkila rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: those who love ad jingles.
What a great story. The book is the true story of a mother of ten who helps support her family by entering contests. Whenever she heard of a company that was holding a contest to come up with a jingle for their product Evelyn would enter it. A lot of the products I haven't heard of, I was born a decade or two after these products were in their heyday. The majority of the contests paid between $1-$25 if they used your slogan. I did the math and a dollar then was equal to seven of today's dollars. ...more
Rene
Aug 30, 2009 Rene rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I would give this 3 1/2 stars if I could. I really enjoyed the book, but would have liked to hear a little more about the family dynamics and a little less of the jingles and contests. Plus I feel like I lost some of it not knowing the tempo or music behind the jingles. Plus I could not shake my questions about why Evelyn continued to have child after child with Kelly. Even the mother in Angela's Ashes said, "Enough is enough," well before they hit 10. Evelyn was clearly a loving devoted mother ...more
Chrystal
Mar 01, 2014 Chrystal rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This wonderful true-life story is a portrait of American self-reliance and ingenuity. Evelyn Ryan (the author's mother) grew up in the Depression in a very small town in NW Ohio. She raised 10 children practically single-handedly (her husband was a drunk) by entering product contests which won her many prizes over the years. These prizes kept the family afloat financially. Ms. Ryan has written a lovely homage to her mother in a no-nonsense, unsentimental style that perfectly portrays Evelyn Ryan ...more
LeAnne
Dec 27, 2015 LeAnne rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Made me want to drink Dr Pepper! Really adorable and sober at the same time. Its as if Ralphie's mom from "A Christmas Story" had been real and had a doorknob-turning cat. Loved this.
Homeschoolmama
Jan 13, 2009 Homeschoolmama rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I recently finished this great book. The author is the daughter of Evelyn Ryan, a fiesty, resilient mother of 10, who writes jingles and ads for contests. The story is mainly about her contesting.. but I am getting more 'umph' from the author's story behind the story: how her mother manages with 10 children, a drunken husband and a car that falls apart for years, washing machines and other appliances that die every month, not enough money for food and constant trips to the emergency room.. and y ...more
Diana
Apr 11, 2012 Diana rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Absolutely loved this book. What an incredible mother! There are times when the belt has to get cinched and she sure was talented and creative and very lucky to be able to take care of her family in a fun and interesting way. Life may not always give you what you ask for, but being positive in dire and hard times will pull you right through. She was always the glass is half full kind of lady, I admired that the most as I read this book. I really think everyone would enjoy this book!
Tina
Dec 30, 2015 Tina rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Thank you Terry Ryan for sharing your mother with the world. What a talented and special lady. How she managed to keep a positive outlook on life despite living with an underemployed alcoholic husband with ten children to care for is amazing. Your nickname was Tuff, but your Mom was the tough one.
Julie Davis
May 20, 2015 Julie Davis rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Having seen the movie I was curious about how closely it hewed to the book. It turns out to have been a surprisingly close telling that captured the feel of the book well.

The book itself has the same feel as Cheaper By the Dozen, if that family's father had been an alcoholic, putting them always one contest win away from abject poverty. It is also a look back at small town life in the 1950s and 60s.

Evelyn Ryan's story is woven through the humorous tales of raising ten children. She parlayed her
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Linda
May 30, 2015 Linda rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I was not swept away by this story, but the underlying energy of Evelyn Ryan, mother of 10 kids, wife of an alcoholic, kept me reading.

In the 1950s and 60s, few women worked outside the home, and Evelyn Ryan was like most of them. What Evelyn Ryan has to teach all of us in the 21st century - professional or not - is the resilience and fortitude of the female gender.

This was a woman who used her talent - writing - to fill in the financial gaps left by a husband who spent his paycheck on booze i
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Sara
May 12, 2016 Sara rated it liked it
Shelves: memoir
Before reading this, I imagined a lucky woman winning a few contests. I didn't realize that "contesting" was a part of 1950s culture. There were magazines about how to win contests, and groups who got together to help each other. A big part of winning seemed to be knowing which advertising agency would judge; some wanted humor, some wanted earnest product endorsement, some appreciated clever word play. It's a history of this little-known cultural phenomenon.

It's also an autobiography--well, act
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