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3.51  ·  Rating Details  ·  187 Ratings  ·  49 Reviews
Between the 1780s and the end of the nineteenth century, an army of sad women took up residence in other people's homes, part and yet not part of the family, not servants, yet not equals. To become a governess, observed Jane Austen in "Emma," was to "retire from all the pleasures of life, of rational intercourse, equal society, peace and hope, to penance and mortification ...more
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Published February 1st 2011 by Walker Books Ltd (first published January 1st 2008)
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Lauren Albert
I'm surprised that people found the book dull and repetitive. The only thing dull and repetitive in the book was the lives of many of the women who were forced to work as governesses. The book is certainly painful because one can practically feel the walls closing in the way these women did. It is truly horrifying what some of the family members of these women were capable of doing to them (depriving them of rightful inheritances, etc.) to say nothing of the emotional abuse and neglect of some o ...more
We all know the stereotypes from history, politics, and culture. From Jane Eyre to The Turn of the Screw, literature abounds with the figure of the governess - quiet, shy, meek, downtrodden, neither fish nor fowl, superior to the servants but not the equal of her employers, educated and well-born but brought low usually through the financial upheavals of her male family members, forced to make her own way in the world via one of the few career paths available to unmarried women.

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Ian Carmichael
Interesting topic - the place of the governess told through some exmplars - some famous, some not. Interesting but unevenly written. Some chapters flowed well and were well structured. Some weren't clear as to who was being written about and to what purpose.

I'm not sorry to have read it, but it could have been so much better. Jenny Uglow might have made an excellent fist of this!
I'm very interested in the topic and the ideas here, and I really liked the introductory chapter, but overall this was too research-paper to make for entretaining leisure reading. For me, it lacked that liveliness and narrative flow that makes some nonfiction titles go from informative to riveting.
Lisa Mettauer
Before this month, I’d never heard of the Reform Firm. That was the name of a group of women in the Victorian era who fought to improve women’s education, among other feminist causes. During this time when all women were supposed to be married and the property of their husbands, those who couldn’t marry had very few choices. One of those few choices was becoming a governess. The English Woman’s Journal was founded by two members of the Reform Firm, Barbara Leigh Smith and Bessie Rayner Parkes; t ...more
Margo Brooks
Well structured and organized, this book explores the lives and times of British governesses by close examination of the lives of several extraordinary women. Beginning in the late eighteenth century and ending in the mid-nineteenth century, the book chronicles changes in the social system and treatment of governesses that the rise of the middle class wrought. The large number of “excess” unmarried women (over 400,000 according to census records) and the lack of employment or social systems to s ...more
Published in England under a different title: "Other People's Daughters: The Life and Times of Governesses" this work might be a key observation in an examination of different marketing trends among American and British audiences. Beyond the cover, however, it is also a very interesting and readable look at the lives of five governesses from the 18th and 19th century. Given the idiosyncrasies of the archival record, it should be no surprise that many of the figures Ms. Brandon focuses on are oft ...more
May 25, 2008 Kirsten rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Victorian enthusiasts
This book has the wrong title. It should be Governess: The Soap Opera Sex Lives of Women Who Were Governesses at Some Point, Although Of Course They Weren't Having Sex While They Were Governesses. Brandon has one or two points, which she reiterates several times. One of those points is that being a governess was deadly dull, and most were not allowed any social life at all. So writing about their lives? The most interesting parts are when they *weren't* working. Brandon gets a little carried awa ...more
Sep 18, 2008 Anika rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Anika by: Jeremy Sams
This book both succeeded and failed for me. As a collection of mini-biographies of a variety of fascinating women, it absolutely succeeds - the narrative is one of the most engaging and consistently interesting I've ever read for a book of this kind, and makes me want to seek out the author's other biographies. And the historical information and contexts are interesting. And yet, as a real study of the idea of the governess, the socio-political and gendered (ooh, my college essay-writing self co ...more
Carol Harrison
I once read a book about English nannies, and was hoping that in this book about English governesses there would be some mention of nannies and how the two interacted and co-existed in an aristocratic household. In this book a nanny is only mentioned once, in passing. Or maybe nannies arose as governesses waned?
Like some of the other reviewers I enjoyed the book but felt that too much of it was taken up by gossipy aspects of some of the women's lives, especially surrounding Shelley and Byron (in
Naima Haviland
May 06, 2013 Naima Haviland rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: fans of 19th century literature, readers interested in women's studies, educators
I'm a big fan of Jane Austen, Elizabeth Gaskell, the Bronte sisters -- all 19th century stories pitting a determined heroine against the social perils of her day. A lot of those heroines are governesses, so I was very keen to read read Ruth Brandon's nonfiction account of the lives of actual governesses. One thing Brandon relates right off is that existing material on governesses is scarce. Governesses were plentiful but peripheral figures in 18th/19th century life. It was a migrant-worker posit ...more
Dec 27, 2011 Shelli rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I picked up Governess because of the title. I have been a fan of Jane Eyre since my freshman year of high school, and have enjoyed enough the novels that feature a governess as the heroine, enough to be intrigued by the real lives of the women who worked the lonely job as a governess.

Brandon uses the memoirs and personal letters of the few governesses that were made famous by their associations, their affairs and their own publications, and drew from their lives what may have been the standard l
Oct 10, 2009 Bruce rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Noting in her introduction the scarcity of material from Governesses the author uses those extant sources to advantage. The papers of most governesses were lost because no one really cared about them. However, some now famous women were governesses and because of their intellect and abilities were able to leave the trade and/or utilize what they learned about the trade to advantage after 'retiring'. In rare circumstances diaries and letters were discovered decades after the writer's death in fur ...more
Tracy Terry
An insightful though somewhat dry and occasionally too political insight into the lives of the governess from its conception to downfall. Other People's Daughters chronicles several real life English governesses (and others who, though not actually governesses themselves, were involved in the fight for equality) through a selection of private letters, journals, and novels.

Including the accounts of the almost unknown clergyman's daughter Agnes Porter to the more famous Mary Wollstonecraft (mother
a magnificent book. very informative about women and the circumstances they lived in. some good insight into the history of governessing. considering that governesses feature in so many 18th and 19th century novels an enlightening read.

it is divided in eight chapters dealing with governesses starting from the 18th century well into victorian times. it is though more of a social history of women i found. it was very biographical on agnes porter, mary wollstonecraft, claire claremont and nelly wee
Mar 26, 2011 Abby rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction
I was leery of this book at first, for while I found the subject matter fascinating, in a less-adept hand, it could have been dreadfully boring. As is, Brandon does a superb job at weaving the narrative together, starting with Mary Wollstonecraft and ending with the founding of Girton College.

Using the lens of the governess, Brandon examines the changing lives of women in 19th century Britain. A combination of primary sources and literature of the time (Bronte sisters, Trollope, Thackery and Aus
Jenny Brown
Disappointing! I was hoping to learn about the lives of governesses, but this book turns out to be a collection of microbiographies of a few women, mostly famous for other reasons, who at some point in their lives were governesses, though much of the narrative describes the parts of their lives when they weren't.

Most egregious is the fifty-five pages devoted to the life of Claire Clairmont of which perhaps fifty pages describe her origins, her experiences living with the Shelleys, and her misera
Jun 08, 2009 Alison rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: nonfiction
This was really fascinating. Brandon looks at the lives of several 19th century governesses, exploring the tenuous social position that they held. I didn't realize this, but many governesses were of the same class as their employers (who were of course striving to get into the upper classes), which creates quite a tension. In addition, many of them were poorly educated, and as a result their charges (girls, and very young boys) were poorly educated as well. You can see where that leads. This boo ...more
johnny dangerously
I'd recomend this highly as a look into Victorian social mores, women's lives in Victorian England, and the changing social sphere of women during this period. Unlike what many would like us to believe, the 'correct' social, financial, matrimonial and educational status of women fluctuated throughout this period, and no one can look into this better than the outsiders of the social order, governesses.

However, the prose occasionally editorializes where it's completely unnecessary, putting an opin
Mar 07, 2015 Bianca rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
It was an interesting read on an little know slice of history. It does get a little wordy and preachy towards the end of the book. But still worth the read.
Dec 02, 2010 Stephanie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
The most engaging history book I've read in a long time. A fascinating and compelling piece of women's history and 19th-century social history in general.

At various points as I read I was furious, amused, sympathetic, horrified, and then deeply, deeply admiring of (and grateful to) the women who refused to believe that "the way it's always been and always will be" could not be changed. They made it possible, through their work and courage, for me to have the life I have now. And ohhh, am I grat
Aug 16, 2012 Joan rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Another winner. The first chapters covered some of the same territory as "The Young Romantics" which I read last month, but focusing on the teaching careers of the Wollstonecraft sisters and Claire Claremont.

The most interesting chapter to me was the one on Nellie Weeton- an unknown early Victorian woman whose story of her life as a governess was recently discovered in letters and diaries. The stories of such women are rarely told, so it's interesting to learn abut the life of an ordinary person
Nov 12, 2015 Stephanie rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Interesting. The author investigated different governesses based on their diaries.
Jul 07, 2015 Shannon rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: books-i-own
Interesting. I was hoping for a little more of the day-to-day of being a governess. But I enjoyed reading the stories of the featured women. Also, Lord Byron, not a nice guy.
Feb 18, 2009 Debbie rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: all
Recommended to Debbie by: nyt book review
this was a fascinating look at why being a governess was a lose lose situation. other gentry had contempt for you and no longer accepted you and encouraged their children to treat you that way, you were raised differently than the other servants and they didnt trust you. as they say in ave Q it sucks to be them. i learned a lot about Byron and Shelley's extra curricular activities as well.
Virginia Albanese
Interesting non-fiction comparing real governesses vs. those written about in literature. Few choices in 1800 -1865 for work for single women or widowned women without money. governess, hat maker, housekeeper,writer, and prostitute.
Shows the women who pushed for equality or really an education in England and the effect of dominate men and Anglican church in stifeling this.
Jul 13, 2014 T rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: recs-nonfiction
Fascinating, although sad, look at the governess system of education through the lives/letters of several individual women who were involved in it in different time periods. All the women are interesting figures, some famous and some not. I've been reading a lot about Byron recently and the chapter on Claire Clairmont made me really sympathize with her, since her side isn't often shown.
This is a survey of the lives of extraordinary governesses--if not, like Mary Wollstonecraft, based upon later accomplishment and fame--by the mere dint of having left enough of a historical record to piece together their lives. The editing was sloppy and writing rushed toward the end, but it was, all in all, an entertaining read (if occasionally tragic and heartbreaking).
Rebecca Huston
An interesting look at what has become a historical romance standby -- the governess. Very interesting, but not as complete as I would have liked it to have been. Still, it's worth reading.

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This was interesting but not really what I expected. It's more a selection of little biographies of women who worked as governesses at some point but also did more interesting stuff that takes up most of their chapters. As a book about the lives of interesting women it was good but as a book about governessing I didn't think it taught me anything new.
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