Happy Accidents
In the summer of 1974, a fourteen-year-old girl in Dolton, Illinois, had a dream. A dream to become an actress, like her idols Ron Howard and Vicki Lawrence. But it was a long way from the South Side of Chicago to Hollywood, and it didn't help that she'd recently dropped out of the school play, The Ugly Duckling. Or that the Hollywood casting directors she wrote to replied
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September 13th 2011
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(first published September 1st 2011)
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This is a breezy read that won't take up much of your time, but it will surprise you with its candour. Jane Lynch takes us through her periods of heavy drinking and an acerbic personality which, although they often worked together to mask the pain of struggling with her sexuality, happened to drive people away. Often in celebrity autobiographies they hide these aspects of their personality, but Lynch embraces it and really makes you think that unless you could have poked at her hard shell you wo...more
When I heard Jane Lynch was writing a book I couldn't of been more excited! I think she's a truly fantastic comedian and brings so much personality to every role I've ever seen her play, so I can't wait to read this book when it comes out.
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I'm really glad I read this book! Out of all the "celebrity memoirs" out there, I must admit that this one has been my favorite so far. I liked how Jane's tone/personality really came through every page from beginning...more
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I'm really glad I read this book! Out of all the "celebrity memoirs" out there, I must admit that this one has been my favorite so far. I liked how Jane's tone/personality really came through every page from beginning...more
Jane Lynch says in this interview that she was inspired to write this book by the It Gets Better project, and it shows. This book delves into some of the darker moments of Jane's life, but also takes the reader to the heights of a strangely successful career. From her struggles with alcoholism, her extended period spent in the closet of self-denial, and dysfunctional romantic relationships that continued well into her adulthood, Jane Lynch delivers the kind of alienated, lonely, disturbing story...more
I’ve moved cities and so am doing all the usual sorts of new city things: buying plants, biking the major routes, joining book clubs. I found a book club on Wednesday, they met on Saturday, and so I put down the interminable Storm of Swords (no, my blogging hiatus has not been caused by depression or misery, but rather the result of GRRMartin not being able to write a concise plot) in order to pick up Jane Lynch’s totally terrible memoir, Happy Accidents.
What a waste of a day of reading. To thin...more
What a waste of a day of reading. To thin...more
My husband and I have a standing Tuesday evening Glee date. It was something he fought at first, but I managed to hook him with the Britney Spears episode (don’t ask). Part of what eventually helped turn him into a Gleek was the character of Coach Sylvester, played by the wonderful Jane Lynch. Her comedic timing, growls, and hilariously rude one liners kept us in laughter each week. So when I saw that she was coming out with a memoir, I knew I had to read it.
Lately, it seems that many of TV and...more
Lately, it seems that many of TV and...more
For a celebrity memoir, Jane Lynch has actually written a pretty good book. It stands out from the glut of these types of books by having substantial content - for really trying to tell you something about the author and her life - and for not shrinking from any part of her not-so-famous past.
It might help that Jane Lynch went through a lot of her life as a normal working actress before catapulting to household name status in her late 40s. This means that she is far enough along on her personal...more
It might help that Jane Lynch went through a lot of her life as a normal working actress before catapulting to household name status in her late 40s. This means that she is far enough along on her personal...more
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I think that everyone loves Jane Lynch. Well everyone that's watched anything she is in that is. But really its hard not to know who Jane Lynch is these days. It seems like she is in almost everything these days. I first saw Jane Lynch with out having any idea who she was in Talladega Knights: The Balled of Ricky Bobby. My mom absolutely loves that movie and I always thought the mom in it (played by Jane Lynch) was a great character. I also loved her character in Julie and Julia, which incidenta...more
So a bout of insomnia last night had me lying there, and rather than stare at the ceiling I picked up this book. I had only grabbed from the library yesterday, but when flicking through it it had made me smile.
I didn't really expect to enjoy it - but I did. Jane Lynchs memoir was quite sweet in fact. A childhood growing up she always knew she was different, and finally as a teenage was able to realise that she might be a Lesbian, but don't worry the books not all about that.
For years she struggl...more
I didn't really expect to enjoy it - but I did. Jane Lynchs memoir was quite sweet in fact. A childhood growing up she always knew she was different, and finally as a teenage was able to realise that she might be a Lesbian, but don't worry the books not all about that.
For years she struggl...more
At fourteen years old, Jane Lynch had a dream of becoming an actress. She started sending out letters which, when anyone bothered to reply were kind rejections or advice giving such as, "get some professional training and look us up in five years or so..."
Jane however did not give up and as her book is titles, by a series of Happy Accidents, her dreams eventually did come true. Jane's story however is not without hardships. Jane suffered from anxiety and a lack of self-worth. She felt unsure of...more
Jane however did not give up and as her book is titles, by a series of Happy Accidents, her dreams eventually did come true. Jane's story however is not without hardships. Jane suffered from anxiety and a lack of self-worth. She felt unsure of...more
Oct 15, 2011
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Happy Accidents, by Jane Lynch, Narrated by Jane Lynch, with a Forward writeen by, and narrated by Carol Burnett. Produced by Harper Audio, Downloaded from audible.com.
Jane Lynch knew from her teenage years on that she wanted to be an actress. She sent letters to all the agents she could find listed, but they all told her that professional acting experience was needed for her to make it. Her mother, a no-nonsense midwesterner, kept telling her that she could act in plays if she wanted to, but sh...more
Jane Lynch knew from her teenage years on that she wanted to be an actress. She sent letters to all the agents she could find listed, but they all told her that professional acting experience was needed for her to make it. Her mother, a no-nonsense midwesterner, kept telling her that she could act in plays if she wanted to, but sh...more
I love Jane Lynch and knew I would want to read this book as soon as I heard it existed. As expected, it was an interesting and quick read--if you like her, I think you'll find her life story to date interesting. I'll always remember just being completely struck by her screen presence and her natural talent at dry humor from the very first time I saw her, which was I think in "Best in Show". That was such a great movie, chock full of talented and hilarious actors, yet she still stood out to me.
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Expectations: A book that would have me laughing aloud without pause.
Reality: The only time I laughed was when she listed her favorite Sue Sylvester quotations.
I was initially bothered by the lack of funny, but I pressed on. Soon, I felt meagerly captivated by Jane's struggles. Though I wasn't 100% enthralled in the beginning, I stuck around because I've always been curious about how one gets to be so successful (which is not without incident, as it happens). I like advice from wise owls, so tha...more
Reality: The only time I laughed was when she listed her favorite Sue Sylvester quotations.
I was initially bothered by the lack of funny, but I pressed on. Soon, I felt meagerly captivated by Jane's struggles. Though I wasn't 100% enthralled in the beginning, I stuck around because I've always been curious about how one gets to be so successful (which is not without incident, as it happens). I like advice from wise owls, so tha...more
Funny and insightful. I listened to the audiobook, which is read by the author. I enjoyed hearing the book in Jane Lynch's own voice. Her reading brought liveliness and humor to the book that I might not have picked up by reading the print version.
In the first part of the book, she talks about her drive to become an actor and the insecurities that dogged her and drove her to drink. She also talks with fondness and heartbreaking honesty about her closest relationships with friends and family. I...more
In the first part of the book, she talks about her drive to become an actor and the insecurities that dogged her and drove her to drink. She also talks with fondness and heartbreaking honesty about her closest relationships with friends and family. I...more
I listened to Happy Accidents because Jane Lynch narrated the book. I'm certainly glad I chose the audiobook. I really appreciate the candor with which Lynch discusses here childhood, college years, and early adulthood. There were times when I laughed out loud as Lynch was narrating events from her childhood. I'm sure other drivers thought I was a bit nuts. However, by the time the book moved into Lynch's adulthood, and the elements of her career that she's most known for (Best in Show, A Mighty...more
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I've long been a Jane Lynch fan, since I first saw her in "Best in Show," and of course who doesn't love Sue Sylvester on "Glee"?
Lynch talks about her growing-up years in a happy suburban Illinois family. She had a reasonably happy childhood, although she never really felt like she fit in with her Catholic, traditional family. She also started drinking at a very early age, with her parents' knowledge. One of the places she felt she really fit in was in ch...more
I've long been a Jane Lynch fan, since I first saw her in "Best in Show," and of course who doesn't love Sue Sylvester on "Glee"?
Lynch talks about her growing-up years in a happy suburban Illinois family. She had a reasonably happy childhood, although she never really felt like she fit in with her Catholic, traditional family. She also started drinking at a very early age, with her parents' knowledge. One of the places she felt she really fit in was in ch...more
I'm not one to dive into the lives of celebrities. I don't read people magazine, and I don't care that "so-and-so" just had a baby in Hollywood. That being said however, I've always been drawn to a few actors/actresses that I would certainly read about, if given the chance, and Jane Lynch is no exception to my small little list. Coming from such a funny and lively soul, going on her journey of turmoil and heartache was at times, painful. In a small, I'm-not-important way, I could relate to many...more
I have to be honest and say the only reason I picked up this book is because
I know Jane's cousin, Dr. K. Lynch. Dr. Lynch is a recently retired
English teacher of 30 plus years in both the private and public High
School sectors of the Chicago Suburbs. Personally, I'd have to agree with Dr. Lynch that
the reason Jane is where she is today...isn't a happy accident. Jane Lynch worked her butt off for years in the industry and her hard work paid off...period! Kudos to Jane for her years of
hard work and...more
I know Jane's cousin, Dr. K. Lynch. Dr. Lynch is a recently retired
English teacher of 30 plus years in both the private and public High
School sectors of the Chicago Suburbs. Personally, I'd have to agree with Dr. Lynch that
the reason Jane is where she is today...isn't a happy accident. Jane Lynch worked her butt off for years in the industry and her hard work paid off...period! Kudos to Jane for her years of
hard work and...more
I received this book as part of the ticket price to see Jane Lynch speak at Dominican College last fall (2011). She was a delightful speaker and I hoped that same sense of humor would come out in her book. It's really not a funny book, but I enjoyed the first half which is, more or less, a testimonial of her struggles with her sexual identity and alcohol abuse. I don't remember why I put it down for about a year. It's possible that I was bored with the chronological list of her career successes...more
If you're planning to read this book because you think it will be laugh-out-loud funny, like Bossypants, you might be disappointed. But even though it wasn't what I expected, Happy Accidents was still a really enjoyable book. In her own words, with some help from a friend named in the acknowledgements, Jane Lynch takes us through years of anxiety, alienation, self-doubt, alcoholism, and living in the closet, and shows how, over time, she learned not to "be afraid of the shadow" and to use her da...more
I bought this book expecting something totally different. I think because I've seen Jane play such strong characters on TV or in movies, I didn't expect her to seem to have such a soft inside. Maybe soft isn't the right word. She is not afraid to talk about the not-so-great periods of her life, her mistakes, her vulnerabilities. And it made her so much more real to me. I could relate better than I thought I would.
I admire Jane's determination so much. I'm glad she wrote this book because I got a...more
I admire Jane's determination so much. I'm glad she wrote this book because I got a...more
So my absolute love for Jane Lynch may cloud my judgement and therefore make me review this book in a slightly bias way. With that said, Jane Lynch has achieved a quite moving and truthful reliving of significant events in her life. I've read a lot of criticism on her lack of character development and it's not adhering to a memoir and what not. My response to this is for everyone to ... just get over it. The story is told vividly and takes us on the journey of self acceptance and personal strugg...more
I know Jane Lynch from her work on Glee. Sorry hipsters, those Christopher Guest movies are kind of lost on me. It's rare that I read a book and I can almost hear the authors voice reading it in my head. (Also I usually shun audio-books so this was at times very odd.) Then again I usually don't see the author on TV for 3 seasons of one of my favorite shows. Sorry Tina Fey, you are hilarious, but never seen an episode of 30 Rock and I only have faint memories of your Palin impersonations on SNL a...more
I don't know why I kept listening to this but I did and it was ok but in some ways not really that interesting. I really like Jane as an actor. I think her childhood story was more interesting than her work story. I love Glee and enjoyed the more personal details about the cast and the writers. But still...besides a long time of being lonely, Jane had a uneventful life with many early successes. Not that interesting but I like her voice and she kept me listening in spite of thinking many times,...more
What a wonderful read (as read to me by my personal friend, Jane Lynch).
I love to read, but I've recently rediscovered audible and the luxury it provides me to be able to "read" a book while working throughout the day. And it's much safer to "read" an audiobook while driving than reading an actual book while driving. Although I have performed the later with great ease and skill at much protest to my friends and family.
Back to the book. You simply MUST have Jane read it to you. It's a book about...more
I love to read, but I've recently rediscovered audible and the luxury it provides me to be able to "read" a book while working throughout the day. And it's much safer to "read" an audiobook while driving than reading an actual book while driving. Although I have performed the later with great ease and skill at much protest to my friends and family.
Back to the book. You simply MUST have Jane read it to you. It's a book about...more
I have been following Jane Lynch's career for some time now, considering SHE GREW UP ONE BLOCK AWAY FROM MY HOUSE IN DOLTON, ILL! She actually gave her street address in this book from when she lived in Dolton, and I realized that I must have delivered newspapers to her house and went begging for Christmas paper girl tips there as well. We also attended the same elementary, jr. high, and high school. It was fascinating to hear about our little corner of the world from her perspective. All of my...more
SPOILERS INCLUDED!!! The first 2/3 of 'Happy Accidents' was just another ho-hum celebrity biography...growing up, discovering acting/theater, realizing one is different (i.e., queer), rehash of professional career, etc. I nearly gave up on it. Had Lynch stayed on this track, I would have been pressed to give the book 2 stars. However, the final 1/3, when she recounts her meeting her future wife & the issues they faced with adopted children vis-a-vis Florida's discriminatory and bigoted ban o...more
I had been meaning to read Happy Accidents for a while now, and although I am not one to listen to audiobooks instead of reading the print books, I'm happy that's what I did in this case. This 7-hour-long audiobook was the perfect companion during an 11-hour card drive, and by book's end I felt that Jane and I had bonded (we're besties now, so I will only refer to her by her first name).
Having Jane read the book herself made me feel as though she were in the car with me, sitting in the passenge...more
Having Jane read the book herself made me feel as though she were in the car with me, sitting in the passenge...more
Oct 26, 2011
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Jane Lynch is one of my favorite actresses in Hollywood right now. I fell in love with her during the movie Best in Show and have watched her star rocket upward ever since then. She is a bit like a female version of Ron Howard’s brother, in that she has been in almost everything, but she is always excellent at whatever role she is portraying. However, behind the sarcasm and silliness is someone who has struggled with feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness her entire life.
On the surface, Jane h...more
On the surface, Jane h...more
I listened to this audiobook and loved it! Lynch reads the book herself, and I learned a lot about her interesting life. She is a great story teller. One of the things I took away from this book is that Lynch is a bit of a diva. I would never have guessed that given what I've seen from her public appearances, but until just recently she was still throwing tantrums on set and talking down to everyone who did not have the theatrical education and resume that she has. I think her success with Glee...more
Jan 18, 2013
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Why Did I Read This Book: The second book in what was to be my "Cheap Reads" theme, I found the eBook on sale. I LOVE me some Glee, and I love the way Jane plays Sue Sylvester, so I decided it was worth well more than the selling price, and hopped on that bargain.
Why Did I Give This Book 4/5 Stars: Jane Lynch is an honest woman, and a hilarious comic. While her story was touching and easy to relate to, it was sometimes hard to see the humor in it. Don't get me wrong though, I truly enjoyed this...more
Why Did I Give This Book 4/5 Stars: Jane Lynch is an honest woman, and a hilarious comic. While her story was touching and easy to relate to, it was sometimes hard to see the humor in it. Don't get me wrong though, I truly enjoyed this...more
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Jane Marie Lynch is an American comedienne, actress and singer. Since 2009, she has played the role of Sue Sylvester in the Fox musical-comedy series Glee for which she has won an Emmy Award and a Golden Globe Award. She has also played roles in comedies such as Best in Show, The 40-Year-Old Virgin and Role Models, as well as for her recurring roles as lawyer Joyce Wischina in The L Word, Dr. Lind...more
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